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Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation.

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.

Normal native hen mentality..

For a man to have the balls to splash thousands of naira on DNA test alone should be an enough reason to show to the female cockerel that the husband has got value for his future peace of mind......

Even my dogs and their puppies will never escape from DNA test so long they're under my roof

DNA test is way cheaper than naming ceremony and ignorantly and foolishly training another man's child for free of charge..So it's left for a reasonable man to decide on which one to go for ...

So therefore make she get out and get lost too

Really? Your loss

Easier said than done...

I will take it in bad light too though if my partner doesn't "trust" me. And goes certain levels to verify certain things. Except maybe I had given the impression not to be trusted of course.

I am just putting myself in those shoes. And thinking about it I won't find it funny one bit!

If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer

I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

Ok

How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

mymadam:
Really? Your loss

I understand the point she's making

Yaiba:
SHE WILL DIE AS THE ROTTEN WORTHLESS BASTARD IDIOT PIECE OF SH.IT EATING PATHETIC PUTRID FVCKING DAMNED STUPID DEMONIC BASTARD IDIOT BASTARD ANIMAL FOOL BASTARD ANIMAL SHE HAS ALWAYS BEING

FVCKING STUPID IDIOT BASTARD DEVIL FOOL

Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

u watch too much Nollywood movies

PantShifter:
Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

Lol...

Some of them that talk tough like this are actually sisi's in real life and would cry and beg to get attention and affection from women.

The mouth they make is only on the internet.

I wonder why some of them seem so angry at the mention of things like this.

Some of the angry ones are already above... More coming!

Madam that means you have cheated. If I'm that your husband because of your statement I will now insist on DNA test so you can divorce quickly and go your papa house.

Yaiba:
SHE WILL DIE AS THE ROTTEN WORTHLESS BASTARD IDIOT PIECE OF SH.IT EATING PATHETIC PUTRID FVCKING DAMNED STUPID DEMONIC BASTARD IDIOT BASTARD ANIMAL FOOL BASTARD ANIMAL SHE HAS ALWAYS BEING

FVCKING STUPID IDIOT BASTARD DEVIL FOOL

Haaa! bro why you vex these much? You know the woman before or she is your wife or what? You too vex na bro.

Pls calm down.

beyep:
If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer

Progesterone logic: women always want men to feel they doing men a favour by birthing the same children they want......so any child that comes out of their womb, u supposed gladly collect without doubting..their reason..... it's not easy to carry baby for 9months...

The day a lady told me that men don't have right to be upset at their bullshit and bad behaviors because they do monthly period was when I found out just how unaccountable and manipulative some women can be...

advanceDNA:
Progesterone logic: women always want men to feel they doing men a favour by birthing the same children they want......so any child thats comes out of their womb, u supposed gladly collect without doubting..their reason..... it's not easy to carry baby for 9months...

The day a lady told me that men don't have right to be upset at their bullshit and bad behaviors because they do oainful monthly period was when I found out just how unaccountable and manipulative some women can be...

can u imagine

I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

beyep:
u watch too much Nollywood movies

GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation.

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.

This animal's reaction is one of the reasons her husband should cry out a DNA test.

And if she finds out, she can park her bags and go, when you tire for your papa house, you will come and beg me to come back.

Most Nigerian girls can't fend for themselves, let alone being a single mother, majority of them needs a man to survive ✍️

Them paternity bandits have started ranting. The first warning shot has been fired and only simp husbands will feel intimidated by it. DNA test is a must even if you are married to the Pope's daughter or the archbishop's daughter. Them toto holders can't be trusted. Gentlemen I repeat, DNA testing is a must.

Do DNA if you are not comfortable if you own a kid.

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

No b only

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and starts asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

First of all, no man just wakes up one day and carries out a DNA test; there must be something that will warrant him to take such actions - so the argument of his "breaking trust" is invalid, cause she already broke the trust, that's why he even thought of carrying out the DNA test in the first place ...

Secondly, if the results of the test come out and show that the man isn't the father of the child, he won't feel the loss cause that would be good riddance to bad nonsense ...

On the flip side, if he is the father, he can always fight to be in the child's life and save himself from whatever the woman did to push him to conduct a DNA test in the first place ...

So in either case, he doesn't lose nada ...

The husband of this woman should conduct a DNA test ASAP!

The olosho should leave him and start sleeping around like the hoe she is, and she'll be replaced immediately by another woman. It's her loss!

Don't let any woman Manipulate you into refusing to do DNA test for your kids and unborn kid

brain54:
Easier said than done...

I will take it in bad light too though if my partner doesn't "trust" me. And goes certain levels to verify certain things. Except maybe I had given the impression not to be trusted of course.

I am just putting myself in those shoes. And thinking about it I won't find it funny one bit!

if I do DNA n the lady feels offended

Make she comot make we see who go lose

Factcheck0001:
if I do DNA n the lady feels offended

Make she comot make we see who go lose

Who go lose as how...?

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

I guess that only happens in south Africa

If I confirm the baby is mine n she wants to leave, court will settle the matter n make me pay certain amount every month n have unrestricted access to d baby

Well, if you're going to do it, do it in private, in case the child is yours.

Fahvvy:
First of all, no man just wakes up one day and carries out a DNA test; there must be something that will warrant him to take such actions - so the argument of his "breaking trust" is invalid, cause she already broke the trust, that's why he even thought of carrying out the DNA test in the first place ...

Secondly, if the results of the test come out and show that the man isn't the father of the child, he won't feel the loss cause that would be good riddance to bad nonsense ...

On the flip side, if he is the father, he can always fight to be in the child's life and save himself from whatever the woman did to push him to conduct a DNA test in the first place ...

So in either case, he doesn't lose nada ...

Yaiba:
SHE WILL DIE AS THE ROTTEN WORTHLESS BASTARD IDIOT PIECE OF SH.IT EATING PATHETIC PUTRID FVCKING DAMNED STUPID DEMONIC BASTARD IDIOT BASTARD ANIMAL FOOL BASTARD ANIMAL SHE HAS ALWAYS BEING

FVCKING STUPID IDIOT BASTARD DEVIL FOOL

oga calm down now

E never reach like this

Who dey fight u like this cos I no understand, this one no too much

People dey Para ooo

If you have the means to pay the lawyers, then you can do that.

Factcheck0001:
I guess that only happens in south Africa

If I confirm the baby is mine n she wants to leave, court will settle the matter n make me pay certain amount every month n have unrestricted access to d baby

Yes, divorce him let's rest.