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Married Women: What's that one thing you learnt in your marriage and wish you have known before marriage

Me: Your husband will always be that stranger you met on day one. Don't ever trust him with any secret oh!

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order

Never ever stay in a family house 🏡

Never talk down about your family members to him

Karleb:
Are you a woman?

Married Women: What's that one thing you learnt in your marriage and wish you have known before marriage

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order

Never ever stay in a family house 🏡

Never talk down about your family members to him

shortgun:
You may be a married woman but you still do not possess the skill and experience of a married woman.
Men are egocentric beings to the point that they'll lay down their lives to uphold their egos....an experienced married woman usually exploits this weakness to their advantage

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order

Never ever stay in a family house 🏡

Never talk down about your family members to him

otipoju:
It's obvious you have never been married.

When time reach you go talk true.

Both of you should never stay in a family house though...but pretending that members of your family are saints and do not have faults will land you in back in the streets eventually because you will never be fair when conflicts arise between your family and him.

Secondly you still see him as a stranger...if you are still referring your siblings as you family....you never ready.

Telltruth123:
I learned to make myself happy not to attach my happiness to anybody.

gerizzim:
I learnt to be intentional and deliberate in what should happen in the home.
if you leave things on autopilot in your home, the aircraft go crash.

we most times put women at high pedestal before marrying them. when she starts living with you in the home that is when it wil dawn on you that most of them behave like children. Kids need guidance . So your wife.

tanigororo:
Many Woman are the Architect of their marital problems...

gerizzim:
I learnt to be intentional and deliberate in what should happen in the home.
if you leave things on autopilot in your home, the aircraft go crash.

we most times put women at high pedestal before marrying them. when she starts living with you in the home that is when it wil dawn on you that most of them behave like children. Kids need guidance . So your wife.

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order

Never ever stay in a family house 🏡

Never talk down about your family members to him

otipoju:
It's obvious you have never been married.

When time reach you go talk true.

I agree both of you should never stay in a family house though, and even staying close to both inlaw is not ideal...but pretending that members of your family are saints and do not have faults will land you in back in the streets eventually because you will never be fair when conflicts arise between your family and him. Your husband will see through you and will resent you for this even if him no talk, but him affection for you go dey reduce dey by day.

Secondly you still see him as a stranger...if you are still referring your siblings as your family. Who you husband come be? you never ready.

Fiscus105:
Don't ever trust your husband with secret?


I guess you married a devil incarnate, may God see you through.

Anyway,that's ur personal experience sha, you are a type who will married and still have opposite bedtime, that she normally share her secret with

Pojomojo:
Silence is golden Don’t be the 1st one to call 4 a dialogue when there is a dispute. He is the man. Let him call the house to order
Never ever stay in a family house 🏡
Never talk down about your family members to him

Fiscus105:
DID YOU WANT A WIFE THAT WOULD ALWAYS INSULT HER FAMILY MEMBER TO PROOF LOVE FOR YOU?

I doubt if you read to understand that aspect in her comment, perhaps, you want woman that would be worshipping you,all in name of marriage..... she said .. NEVER TALK DOWN OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER BEFORE YOUR HUSBAND,

otipoju:
So if your younger brother is misbehaving and frustrating the hell out of you, you will not tell your husband...because to you na outsider ?

Like I said you never marry before.

Fiscus105:
And if she chooses not to tell me?
Is it everything that happened to you, you share with your wife too?
You guys just like to bring mountain from any hole.

Meanwhile, I biliv u know who you are replying, my marriage is more than a decade and still glowing.

STOP SEEING YOURSELF AS LORD AND SAVIOUR

Free2Fly:
O girl, you never jam oo.
Just relax until you see that thing you're looking for.

Fiscus105:
DID YOU WANT A WIFE THAT WOULD ALWAYS INSULT HER FAMILY MEMBER TO PROOF LOVE FOR YOU?

I doubt if you read to understand that aspect in her comment, perhaps, you want woman that would be worshipping you,all in name of marriage..... she said .. NEVER TALK DOWN OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER BEFORE YOUR HUSBAND,

pocohantas:
I am surprised at his interpretation of that post because the advice was simple and clear - NEVER TALK DOWN ON YOUR FAMILY TO YOUR HUSBAND (OR SPOUSE). Anyone who doesn't respect this rule is the problem. No need giving it additional interpretations. We all know what "talking down" is.