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Ishilove:
In the context of this post, yes I would.

Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA t st while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.




Sapasenator, koldrun

Dick hopping
I get your point, but with the way the world is currently, I don't blame men for this.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

Man can always have another child

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

he didn't reject the child
He just confirmed it or was his and YOU kidnapped the child as a prop.
Now you're child knows you chose your feelings over your child's future
Useless woman

A defensive move by a guilty party . You can go to hell with your threat, it won't work. Give a man reason do. DNA and he will do it.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Don't u think something is wrong somewhere? For her to say she doesn't want DNA test? Most married woman cheat alot these days. Especially those living in big cities.. if a child is born and he didn't pick any traits from the father. Den DNA test should be done. Every man should look out for this... If the baby doesn't look like the father.. go for DNA test. Human can not be trusted.. only God u can trust

PantShifter:
Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

No dout about it ... I agree with you 💯

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

In your wildest dream.

The child belongs to both parents so she has absolutely no right to kidnap it for some stupid reason like DNA test.

Meanwhile, I'm not surprised to see you think like this and at how you quickly twisted the narrative to the child being rejected.

Many women also think like you. It's a pandemic at this point.

You need help and therapy!

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Am not in support of infidelity but I plainly told my man that any day he woke up and have decided to run DNA I wouldn't stop him just that he should make sure he finishes what he started,from baby 1 to baby 4,He should as well forget about trust in that marriage and focus on that his peace of mind that lead him to that Test

[quote author=beyep post=133479906]If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer [/quoti

I feel your pain, That was your mom's only achievement

Opinion 1,354,888,990 out of 20,000,000,900 created on the internet for the day 28 December, 2024.

koldrun:
Dick hopping
I get your point, but with the way the world is currently, I don't blame men for this.

True, but that doesn't change the fact that wisdom is profitable to direct. Go ahead and run your DNA test, but make sure you do it with wisdom because just as there are unfaithful partners who commit paternity fraud, there are even higher numbers of faithful women who will feel betrayed that you doubted their fidelity and the paternity of your children.

luminouz:
You always simp so hard online....

And you still won't get the pucci!!!

Mûmû

Oga simp police...

I am ashamed the way you reason. To you everything is about Pucci. What brings pucci inside this matter now? Mugu 001.

By the way Pucci has never been my problem. Never will.

Rada rada!

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Stop thinking shallow.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Even u know that u are funny. If the child happens to be mine I will leave it to her because I took DNA? Which Nigerian law support that? Person wey I paid bride price in full? I will even give her some beatings, collect the child and give ma mama, throw her bags outside and get myself an untapped, sweet wife 😄😄😄 here na Africa ooo. We no dey Europe

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

And?

9 out of 10 times, the man could care less. He'll likely have children with other women.

It'll be nothing less than witchcraft on the woman's part though. To deny a child the love and guidance of the father due to her selfishness.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

You see how men are being manipulated and forced into accepting anything from women. So, a man should accept a child that is not his even if there is evidence pointing at the woman's infidelity. Couples should be happy to prove their innocence to their spouses when need arise. I don't see anything bad about it. If the wife has evidence of infidelity against her husband and she decides to investigate quietly and the husband later knows, the husband should be willing to prove his innocence and if he does, the woman's trust in her husband's will definitely grow. Sometimes trust is build after evidence exonerated a suspect. If the woman knows she is clean, she should be in the front seat advocating for the DNA just to clear her name and prove her innocence.

There's nothing wrong with doing a DNA test. He that comes to equity must come in clean hands. if a woman gives a man reasons to, he should do it. if she finds out and gets angry and walks away. they both share custody. a woman only shares custody unless the law says so with proof of misconduct from the man. in this case, DNA test is not a proof of misconduct. The law actually supports it you know.

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

DemonSlayer:
Warning: Sanctimonious Rant Ahead



I’ve been here for a minute, but I’ve already noticed how the most viral threads on Nairaland are always the dramatic ones. "Man Served Cheating Wife Divorce Papers For Christmas After DNA Test (Photos)"—6 pages "I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants"—5 pages. If you’ve spent any time in the "Romance" or "Family" sections, you know exactly what I mean.

And the comment sections? Absolute war zones! Such threads turn into a battleground between the Redpill Brigade and the Feminist Warriors. Although ever at each other's throats, both groups are preaching the same message: trust nobody!

I’m not saying it’s all rosy in Loveland and Marriageville, or that we’re all innocent angels with the best intentions, but when was the last time we saw a thread titled "My parents are celebrating 40 years of peaceful marriage"? On FP and it had up to 2 pages of comments? Why is there no balance in the narrative?

People are now scared of commitment before they’ve even started getting into anything serious. Someone who’s never been heartbroken already believes "all men are users" because of what she reads on FP. Meanwhile, another guy is convinced he needs to make millions first because "women only want rich men"—an idea he picked up from the comments in the "Romance" section.

It’s like selling Gala in Lagos traffic—if everyone keeps claiming Gala in traffic is poisoned, even vendors selling perfectly good ones will struggle to find buyers. Many Nairalanders are shaping their views on relationships based solely on these extreme, toxic gender battles. Secondhand trust issues everywhere.

Why don’t we see more threads celebrating positive stories? Like couples who met in the "Business" section and now run successful a company together. What about families raising decent, well-adjusted kids, no paternity fraud? Do these not exist? Must every relationship end up as a cautionary tale in the "Family" section?

Negative news spread faster and stick longer in ones memory..

Humans generally are defensive in nature, hence a negative news penetrate deeper and faster into their subconscious which they use to guide and respond in the scheme of things

brain54:
Easier said than done...

I will take it in bad light too though if my partner doesn't "trust" me. And goes certain levels to verify certain things. Except maybe I had given the impression not to be trusted of course.

I am just putting myself in those shoes. And thinking about it I won't find it funny one bit!

Not finding it funny one bit,is whole lot easier than a man training another man's child for 25 years.

Women never take accountability for anything.

If a man feels strongly about DNA tests,he should go ahead and do it..

No Ho,e should gaslight him into thinking his actions are wrong..

brain54:
Oga simp police...

I am ashamed the way you reason. To you everything is about Pucci. What brings pucci inside this matter now? Mugu 001.

By the way Pucci has never been my problem. Never will.

Rada rada!

All your posts are always to please the female gender and you always talk off key. That's why your moniker is a no disgrace to your actual brain.

Pucci has always been your problem and always will. I know it and you know it.

Ishilove:
In the context of this post, yes I would.
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Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA test while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.




Sapasenator, koldrun

I have never had a need for a DNA but if I have to, it would be private and confidential but God help you if DNA confirms I am not the father of the child. Lol

luminouz:
All your posts are always to please the female gender and you always talk off key. That's why your moniker is a no disgrace to your actual brain.

Pucci has always been your problem and always will. I know it and you know it.

Cry me a lagoon...

My comments here will continue to give you sleepless nights.

Brace up!

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

You just confirmed that women are the reason why many children from broken homes dont know or have a relationship with their fathers.

advanceDNA:
Progesterone logic: women always want men to feel they doing men a favour by birthing the same children they want......so any child that comes out of their womb, u supposed gladly collect without doubting..their reason..... it's not easy to carry baby for 9months...

The day a lady told me that men don't have right to be upset at their bullshit and bad behaviors because they do oainful monthly period was when I found out just how unaccountable and manipulative some women can be...

My brother, fear that gender

Ishilove:
In the context of this post, yes I would.

Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA test while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.

Sapasena tor, koldr un

See it this way, men don't just rush to conduct DNA test on their kids. There is always a reason.. So, in this case,if hubby conducted a DNA test hours after you gave birth, it's because your fidelity is seriously in doubt. I mean, the red flags have been flung over his face, so he needs to know.

For a woman giving a man 100% loyalty doesn't mean she can't cheat on him. Loyalty here doesn't necessarily mean not cheating, but helping out with finance and the likes.

Hope you know, a woman can be helplessly in love with a man, and still cheat on the man? These things aren't written in black and white. I'll say it shouldn't bother you if hubby decides to do a DNA test, just let him, when the test is positive, you have him by the balls. It's proof of your fidelity and loyalty. Then you can dominate...

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

She will never allow me to see the child say wetin happen? Unless say she carry the pikin run go where I nor go ever see her again for this life, that's the only way she can prevent me from seeing my child. But as far as I still know her location, them nor born her well to prevent me from seeing my child. Shooo, shay na craze ni

Na all this yeye yeye low self esteem men wey dey give women body see finish dey cause all this kind talk.

Nonexisting1:
Them paternity bandits have started ranting. The first warning shot has been fired and only simp husbands will feel intimidated by it. DNA test is a must even if you are married to the Pope's daughter or the archbishop's daughter. Then toto holders can't be trusted. Gentlemen I repeat, DNA testing is a must.

Naa, just do it like og, DMX

It's too hard not to trust...trust them to be themselves but recognize them when you see them

Trust them to try to con you, but recognize it when you see it. In other words, it is because you trust the women to be slippery like snakes that you must do the DNA test.

https://youtube.com/shorts/6M7yuR_rwps?si=Nbl2WqsBokwl9GIb

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

Those are careless men.... A man with a functioning brain is supposed to know that he shouldn't neglect or abadon his child no matter the situation him and the child's mom find themselves

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

The children is free to hate, seriously,it's only a Mumu child that will hear one side of a story and believe ..if the woman trAin a child with sense,the child will surely want to ask a direct question...many atimes when the child just believe wat the mother told d child,it's always a female child

PantShifter:
Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

Samantha needs to watch more of 'the justice court''. Its on YouTube. Its the reality. The man will take responsibility for child upkeep and will be granted access to his child. In fact, the court might even opt to do another DNA test.

Why are you scared of DNA when you're not OS

brain54:
Cry me a lagoon...

My comments here will continue to give you sleepless nights.

Brace up!

Brainless54

Pele o