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Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Samantha125:
Well, if you're going to do it, do it in private, in case the child is yours.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

PantShifter:
Someone should please call the mental health people, this person has gone mad o!

Groovedaddy:
Doing the test in private carries its own risks. If the DNA lab flunks the test they might claim you didn't collect the sample correctly. So the child must go to the lab to hell with the mother

brain54:
Apologies...

But this your reasoning sounds rather myopic.

So you as a man you stand nothing to lose right? You are happy the burden of finance would be relieved from you... But you forgot other areas of lose like raising your child as a father in a broken home. Etc.

You see leaving the responsibility and burden of taking care of the child as punishment to her.

Not all women are dependent on their man by the way.

The lose you will face is not quantifyable and just because you don’t see it doesn't mean it's not there.

Everybody loses in the end... Including the unborn child!

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

beyep:
If i did dna testing she finds out and want a divorce i will gladly give her d divorce, used species think they are special, stupid empty leeches with only child bearing to offer

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

VEHINTOLAR:
Lol! I laugh so much at your ignorance and just like someone here said earlier,"you watch too much Nollywood movies"!

victorVIC1:
DNA test is not a foolish decision. The narratives on your earlier post are not enough to keep a man who has doubts from doing DNA test. BTW, Kuwait makes it mandatory by law

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

joseph1832:
See it this way, men don't just rush to conduct DNA test on their kids. There is always a reason.. So, in this case,if hubby conducted a DNA test hours after you gave birth, it's because your fidelity is seriously in doubt. I mean, the red flags have been flung over his face, so he needs to know.

For a woman giving a man 100% loyalty doesn't mean she can't cheat on him. Loyalty here doesn't necessarily mean not cheating, but helping out with finance and the likes.

Hope you know, a woman can be helplessly in love with a man, and still cheat on the man? These things aren't written in black and white. I'll say it shouldn't bother you if hubby decides to do a DNA test, just let him, when the test is positive, you have him by the balls. It's proof of your fidelity and loyalty. Then you can dominate...

Sapasenator:
I have never had a need for a DNA but if I have to, it would be private and confidential but God help you if DNA confirms I am not the father of the child. Lol

Samantha125:
This is just a lame excuse...😑😑😑

Groovedaddy:
Not when u are paying the 350k required

Ishilove:
In the context of this post, yes I would.

Giving birth is a risky venture, one where the woman is between life and death. She has gone through unimaginable pain and torture to push out another living being from her body and is yet to fully recover. Now, after going through that kind of experience, only to hear that your spouse went to conduct a DNA test while you're still on the hospital bed smacks of callousness. The woman in this post wrote "after I just finish pushing out a baby", so this means the test was conducted within hours or days of the baby's delivery.

So yes, I would be willing to walk out of a marriage where my safety and well being is not a priority, but rather whether I have been díck hopping is.

Now, in other scenarios, if you want to do a DNA test on my children with you, feel free to go ahead, but never let me know. Make sure you do it in secret, because if I find out, it will taint the love I have for you and I will never forget how you doubted my fidelity and betrayed me. Where I gave you 💯 of my affection, it will go down to 40 or 50% because after all my loyalty, you still doubted me enough to run a DNA test on children that belong to you. I will NEVER trust you again.


Sapasenator, koldrun

Samantha125:
If you have the means to pay the lawyers, then you can do that.

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

Mayor555:
Your words are so irritating... Gosh!

He has money for dna, to pay a lawyer would suddenly become impossible.. he can even represent himself in court...


Is that how you guys process stuffs in SA? Pathetic!

Real2088:
Am not in support of infidelity but I plainly told my man that any day he woke up and have decided to run DNA I wouldn't stop him just that he should make sure he finishes what he started,from baby 1 to baby 4, He should as well forget about trust in that marriage and focus on that his peace of mind that lead him to that Test

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?