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Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by godwinngbede(m): 7:56am On Dec 30, 2024
maasoap:
Everything has a phase. How old are you at the moment? How long are you planning to be driving around the town and taking pictures and alternatively burying yourself in your work? Are you planning to be lonely (sorry, I mean single) till you're 60? All these are coping mechanisms.
Don't you want relationship? Perhaps, it didn't work out for you the last time. One may give u trying but the alternatives can never be better in the long run
I am still single as a man, enjoying myself to the fullest. I don't want issues from ladies. Mind you, all my friends that are married are not finding it easy. Poverty is making mockery of them. One even died of liver wahala due to lack money for proper treatment. I will marry when I get to 33 years
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 7:57am On Dec 30, 2024
livebullet:
This SAMBARRY two things:
1. It's either you have being frustrated out or still being frustrated in a marriage or...

2. You are just a simp hoping for feminists to applaud you defending them. Or...

3. You just want to test a different position and see what the responses will be like.

Whichever it is, just enjoy your day and know that 10,000,000 lies can only defame 1 truth but will never kill it.
lmaooo Sharap your mouth there grin

Na when them no have an point to defend their argument they start using gaslighting techniques grin
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Yankee101: 7:58am On Dec 30, 2024
Has Ayeni’s money finished?
Did his wife take back his banana island home from you?
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 7:59am On Dec 30, 2024
livebullet:
No o make e dey revolve around rubber and rechargeable vibes...
as long as it brings orgasm, peace and good hormones grin


Don't even get me started with the number of married women using std drugs and dealing with other hormonal imbalance caused by their husbands pen1s wey no wan stay one place.you don't want me to open that file grin

Pastor and alfas wives included grin
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 8:03am On Dec 30, 2024
nwirinedu:
Why does she sound miserable ?
the way these married folks talk about marriage and try to use gaslighting to drag others into marriage, you go think say their lives dey perfect until you near them grin

Btw nobody is as miserable as the wives of promiscuous and violent men.the numbers of suffering and smiling women in churches and mosques is another matter on its own.if you wan fi d miserable, look no further.marriage sweet na him married men dey beg 16 year old for sex.tuehhhhhh grin
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by JASONjnr(m): 8:05am On Dec 30, 2024
maasoap:
Everything has a phase. How old are you at the moment? How long are you planning to be driving around the town and taking pictures and alternatively burying yourself in your work? Are you planning to be lonely (sorry, I mean single) till you're 60? All these are coping mechanisms.
Don't you want relationship? Perhaps, it didn't work out for you the last time. One may give up trying but the alternatives can never be better in the long run
I'm old enough to be married..... Now, imagine someone who graduated from uni since 2005 and did his master's program and working with FG.....

Now, marriage is really overrated.

Meet a single girl today and she's coming with all the problems she and her family couldn't help her solve.

She's coming to be given you standards to follow with zero account balance.

The last girl I was to marry tried using her mum to manipulate me and control me. She's was jobless until I asked her to get a job. A girl who paid my TP to market and I bought her dresses and when we got home she asked me to refund her her TP money. The entitlement women have over a man's money and nothing but greed and foolishness.
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Flamemignon1(m): 8:05am On Dec 30, 2024
Shedrack777:
I believe it for men. But you see women, they're sad and frustrated.
Actually based on stats, men are the loneliest demographic now so your comment doesn't even make any sense
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by maasoap(m): 8:07am On Dec 30, 2024
godwinngbede:
I am still single as a man, enjoying myself to the fullest. I don't want issues from ladies.
This is what I'm talking about. Staying single is not what you prefer but ladies issues dey scare you.

Mind you, all my friends that are married are not finding it easy. Poverty is making mockery of them. One even died of liver wahala due to lack money for proper treatment.
All these are just excuses. Do all singles find it easy? Many married men find it easy.
Many singles are living in poverty too while many married people have more than enough money. It depends on your income as single or married.
And lastly, one could be single and still not having money to take care of his health.

I will marry when I get to 33 years
I married at 33 too. I never like being single all the period I was single and not in relationship, no way one would feel complete. It is not necessarily that one is married or marry earlier but be in a healthy relationship sound fair
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by livebullet(m): 8:09am On Dec 30, 2024
SAMBARRY:
as long as it brings orgasm, peace and good hormones grin


Don't even get me started with the number of married women using std drugs and dealing with other hormonal imbalance caused by their husbands pen1s wey no wan stay one place.you don't want me to open that file grin

Pastor and alfas wives included grin
What is wrong is wrong... Justifying Yahoo over kidnapping does not make Yahoo less a crime... Even if in Nigeria we are so accustomed to not calling a spade a spade because we will rather give it some coloration and rename it
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by maasoap(m): 8:09am On Dec 30, 2024
SAMBARRY:
must you project on other people? Na you go tell single people how to live their lives? grin it's the audacity for me grin especially considering messy and irritating stories we hear about marriage everyday on instablog and other handles aka pls hide identity grin

If marriage was as blissful as the way you paint it,no be you go dey advertise am,na all the single people go dey jump enter am tongue
Better go and work on your weaknesses and improve yourself where you are lacking relationship wise
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Waziriboy: 8:11am On Dec 30, 2024
Please my fellow naira land why is it that the only thing women talk about is only about sex or there body
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by DJInfluence: 8:12am On Dec 30, 2024
Only all men and most married women think being single is a tragedy, while the rest of the world calls it "peace and quiet."
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Brushstrokes20: 8:13am On Dec 30, 2024
Toke is spot on on this one💯💯
I personally know a lot of married but absolutely miserable women...
One told me she and hubby haven't been intimate for over 2 years and counting, yet they reside under same roof 🤔🤔🤔
One recently took the bold step and divorced the irresponsible hubby while most are still hanging on because of WHAT PEOPLE WILL SAY 👌😎
best of luck to them
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by orisa37: 8:15am On Dec 30, 2024
YOU CAN BE LONELY BUT DO NOT. BE SOLITARY.
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Waziriboy: 8:19am On Dec 30, 2024
No good thing come out of women I have been reading a lot of things here and other platforms women side no good thing
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by OttoRealty123: 8:20am On Dec 30, 2024
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Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:24am On Dec 30, 2024
Better alone than in bad company.

May we all find what we are looking for.

Happy new year!
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by gigabyte13: 8:26am On Dec 30, 2024
Chief head of the single community don drop quote
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by AfDapone: 8:46am On Dec 30, 2024
gasparpisciotta:
Most single ladies are sad and but not necessarily lonely, if they are jumping from one arm to the other.

Not all married men are happy despite not being lonely.

In order to balance the cycle of loneliness and sadness, many single ladies find joy in the sadness of married men who makes sad single ladies happy.🤪
Uhm. Some people with deep thought.
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by ecomalchemistt(m): 8:54am On Dec 30, 2024
Story !
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Obitroy(m): 9:12am On Dec 30, 2024
Bad lie yes we complain about our lady's of now are days and women complain about men too God where create both gender no why.lonely people are not happy may go just direct us too our right partners
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by STEPHENPERE844(m): 9:14am On Dec 30, 2024
this hint her well senior olosho,that is why we advice women not to live anyhow life,why so concern for dat if not lonely
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by sweetrace(f): 9:19am On Dec 30, 2024
helinues:
The tone though

If you are not affected by something, I don't see the need to feel triggered about it except
She does not sound triggered. She sounds like she is pointing out the truth to people like you.
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by helinues: 9:20am On Dec 30, 2024
sweetrace:
She does not sound triggered. She sounds like she is pointing out the truth to people like you.
In what way oo
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Lotoflaff: 9:22am On Dec 30, 2024
Word
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by Mcslize: 9:24am On Dec 30, 2024
She is right. It's only those who think they need another individual to feel good that always complain of loneliness.

Those are the types that bend to the pressure of the society and always seek validations from others that complain of loneliness.

Gentle men, when you have so much burning desire to achieve success in life, you won't feel the need to get drown in emotional roller coaster that will add little or no meaningful value to your life.

Any relationship, marriage or situationship that you are currently in that isn't giving you peace of mind to excel in life, leave it asap.

Be more concerned about how to give your children the best of life than worrying over a partner that isn't adding peace and value to your life.

Only those that feel they need partners to succeed in life feel lonely. Not people like us who are hell bent on putting our personal life first and creating financial freedom for our generation and our unborn kids.

If I settle down tomorrow, my children will be my joy. I will put them first and then myself second.

We all pray for good marriages. But should things go bad, I will focus on my children than worrying over a failed marriage or relationship.

I am a sigma male. We don't experience loneliness. We are lone wolves. We don't need others to be happy in life.
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by sweetrace(f): 9:26am On Dec 30, 2024
helinues:
In what way oo
In what way does she sound triggeredhuh
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 9:27am On Dec 30, 2024
maasoap:
Better go and work on your weaknesses and improve yourself where you are lacking relationship wise
this manipulation cannot work.if there's anything I've seen and heard,married men are the most promiscuous beings I have ever seen.theyre hornier than dogs.24 hrs they want to have sex with anything,they want a woman with the best character but don't want to work on themselves as a human being. Mr man abeg getat

Don't even get me started on who dey fund the likes of saidaboj and mandykiss.MARRIED MEN,so rest
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by helinues: 9:29am On Dec 30, 2024
sweetrace:
In what way does she sound triggeredhuh
If you are rich, popular and single, being sad, depressed is likely inevitable

That those things are inevitable don't mean you can still find your way around and stay happy but how many people know the technique?
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 9:29am On Dec 30, 2024
livebullet:
What is wrong is wrong... Justifying Yahoo over kidnapping does not make Yahoo less a crime... Even if in Nigeria we are so accustomed to not calling a spade a spade because we will rather give it some coloration and rename it
statistics and social media has proved what marriage really is. Religion unsuccessfully hid what marriage is.everybody can see who is behind the mask so leave matter for matthias
Re: Not All Singles Are Lonely And Sad - Toke Makinwa by SAMBARRY: 9:30am On Dec 30, 2024
helinues:
If you are rich, popular and single, being sad, depressed is likely inevitable
another projecting. When people have nothing on you the next thing is to project what they really desire for you grin

She has been getting you're depressed for 10 years now and we know what depression looks like. Give it a break grin
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