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Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by dogo568: 12:33am On Jan 04, 2025
Factcheck0001:
so u will b d one to sponsor him in school abi

Many of u will just drop stupid things online
Shut up your mouth. Are you him?
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Blitzking: 12:43am On Jan 04, 2025
Factcheck0001:
so where will he get money to start business?
He said he has a job 80k per month only God knows for how long he has been collecting that money. Some businesses are service based others are product based he just needs to have a mindset to do something not fold hand and keep saying he is poor..his old age will be terrible if he continues like this..4 to 5 year ago it was easier to build wealth..its still possible but he needs to get out and do something.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Victorious1000: 12:51am On Jan 04, 2025
captaininiobong:
Never rush in Life bro. Never get pressured because of another person success. Just know what you are doing. In a little time you will be fine.

I am in same shoes, you are earning 5k higher than me. What I did was to cut my coat according to my size, instead of living in an apartment of 400 - 450k, you can use half of the money and get a self con. with your kitchen and toilet.


What i did with skills: since Nigerian government has jeopardized us, we wont give up, learn a tech skill. that money you are looking for is online. I can teach you how to design websites and you get paid 100 - 15k per job. Depending on the type of site. I do ecommerce nothing less than 200 - 250k.

When someone said that Nigerian government will add 10 years to the future of student before they see meaningful life. I thought it was a joke. I stopped looking for work and started building my skills.

My bro, just get a course, buy a system nd learn tech skills. Atleast you dont work for all the 24 hours per day. if you devote time and learn, bro you will benefit.

its just that some of us didn't know, that time wasted in the university would have been used to achieve something in one year.

seventhly, Avoid woman for now except your sisters and mum, Women will delay you a bit. Especially the one looking for who will love. Avoid ashawo too. they bring badluck and illuck to struggling person aiming success. Some come with delay immediately u penetrate them as a young hustler.

Everybody grace no be same.

Dont worry about starting a business, learn a skill that will be useful tothe kind of business you want, use it to work for others in the line. Make your money and start yours.
How do I get remote jobs bro, I'm a frontend developer.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by TossTos(m): 2:43am On Jan 04, 2025
Future Keh ..
Now is the future.. there's no future anywhere .. today is the future of yesterday as tomorrow is the future of today ..
We only have new days and we grow in a way that the creator alone can say .. don't ever think we have another seperate future ..

We have today to complete what we started yesterday, tomorrow to complete what we starts today ..


Know this and know the truth ..

God is the only one that I am most afraid of.
Then death, that's why we pray for long life..
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Badtman(m): 3:14am On Jan 04, 2025
Breatheon:
@33, I'm more afraid of the future

So reality is dawning on me for the tasks ahead.

Presently 33 with N85k/month salary job

During my days in school, I had thought life will be far better after school but here I am earning 85k/month and that is money that cannot even meet my immediate needs and not to talk of wants and unto other responsibilities.

By age, I'm supposed to have been married but still living in one room which is not advisable to even think of marriage in this condition.

To arrange myself for marriage, I need at least a one bedroom, furnished and comfortable. The yearly rent for that is about 400-450k

Then I am also worried about renewing the rent every year, year and year.

How about catering for the family? Aside rent, feeding, school fees (once married, you begin to reproduce), medical, clothing and so so and so forth.

To live a good life, you need a car for mobility sake as a family.

I can't continue to pay rent. Meaning I need to build a house.

Obviously, the 85k salary is not enough. I need to start a business.

And so many other issues giving me stress and sleepless night.

So my worry is, where would i get the money to do all these with these kind of job i am doing? For years i may not even raise a million naira.

I have seen situations where people no longer able to change clothes just because they now have a family and I'm trying to avoid that by all means.

I'm really really afraid of the future.

I feel there shouldn't be any future.
. Don’t be afraid brother ….You only need to add up with trendy’s stuff as far there’s internet there will always be hush money
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by arowz56(m): 3:19am On Jan 04, 2025
Yea we know people like you on SN! An average typical folks like you either can't comprehend message well or is a thief... I believe it's the latter because people like you don't appreciate the gift of life, that very gift of breathing air you are not paying for. That gift of having a good health, roof under your head and being able to choose whatever you wanna eat.. Yea you should be compare to the worst situation maybe only then will your brain be opened and appreciate every i MEAN EVERY SINGLE THING NO MATTER HOW SMALL IT IS GOD HAS DONE AND STILL DOING in the very life He gave you and you don't appreciate... Of which God don't do small things... Mofo, appreciate life and steady practice gratitude, PRACTICE GRATITUDE and stop focusing on what you don't have... Leave future alone and live in the present... If you have now as long as you are breathing, you have more... Sha don't be a thief and be scamming people... Shalom


anonimi:
If you are not the regressive weyrey here, then why would you want him to inspire himself to improve, by comparing him to the worst possible situation huh
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by kossyablaze(m): 4:27am On Jan 04, 2025
FatherCHRISTMAS:
Live your life one day at a time.
Do not over presure yourself
I want this ur username,as it aligns with my personality. How much do you sell?
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Suicideboy: 4:37am On Jan 04, 2025
the problem you ihave s following society expectations which is bs

going to school . get married and have kids then spend your time wage slaving
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Olichoke: 5:05am On Jan 04, 2025
Love800:
How do you recharge the battery of the pos during work?

And where do you get cash from, to give your customers?
The truth is this, once you join the business, you will know the secrets. You charge your pos battery the way you charge your phone. The battery is very strong anyway. Power bank can support while working. I have more than one POS so battery can't be a challenge.

Concerning cash, when I began I was getting cash from bank but it was stressful. I later made friends with existing pos agents in my area and they assisted me with their surplus cash. But now my main strategy of getting cash is to meet provision store owners and fuel stations to do free transfers for them. With this I have excess cash. Just start.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Nadingo: 5:23am On Jan 04, 2025
Oshin56:
bro, pls is Gazzuzz late and when was that?
Gazzuzz is gone. He died as a result of injuries sustained in a car crash some months back.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Anatolia: 5:59am On Jan 04, 2025
The OP worries too much! You have been on the mountain of loneliness and being broke for too long. Why does your apartment have to be furnished before you marry your wife? You get those things as you pricey in life. You need to start making moves regardless of your circumstances.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Omayie: 6:28am On Jan 04, 2025
Olachase:
@O.P if you have up to 2M in your account and you base here in Lagos

Let's join hand and create an organisation from the scratch if age is not a problem to you
Let’s talk
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by bukatyne(f): 7:16am On Jan 04, 2025
EMIOMOADEOYE:
If you don gerrit

FOGERRABARIT
What is armed robber salary to you is peanuts to someone else.

It was a deliberate question.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by bukatyne(f): 7:18am On Jan 04, 2025
Nadingo:
Gazzuzz is gone. He died as a result of injuries sustained in a car crash some months back.
So sad.

I pray that God consoles all he left behind.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Oshin56(m): 7:31am On Jan 04, 2025
Nadingo:
Gazzuzz is gone. He died as a result of injuries sustained in a car crash some months back.
may His soul find peace with His Creator. Amen
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Love800(m): 7:35am On Jan 04, 2025
Thanks so much.

What do you mean by bank is stressful?
I thought you guys usually receive money from banks!
Olichoke:
The truth is this, once you join the business, you will know the secrets. You charge your pos battery the way you charge your phone. The battery is very strong anyway. Power bank can support while working. I have more than one POS so battery can't be a challenge.

Concerning cash, when I began I was getting cash from bank but it was stressful. I later made friends with existing pos agents in my area and they assisted me with their surplus cash. But now my main strategy of getting cash is to meet provision store owners and fuel stations to do free transfers for them. With this I have excess cash. Just start.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Trollronaldo: 7:43am On Jan 04, 2025
dogo568:
Go back to school, study nursing and japa. Nigeria has failed you. This country is a shit hole. My problem is that youths keep voting terrible people into office.
You foolish, person dey earn 85k monthly and see the advice wey you gut give
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by ChiefOkporghe: 7:54am On Jan 04, 2025
Jefferyhi86:
Bros anything to get moni just do it, nobody cares how it comes.. Only the depress state of mind i do have.. How can one make it big, betting hardly give u such. Am a hotel manager on 60k salary, if i no do small small ruins from work how i wan take make daily expenses lke food,medicine.i have a customer who opened up to me that he's into organ harvesting, a graduate of bio chemistry from a university i graduated from, why e even tell me na because we're from same state/village.. He told me that he can stand being intimidated n lacking things he need wen he no get helper for family.. Its not easy, current situation in this shit holes it's not smiling of low income earners
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by dogo568: 9:00am On Jan 04, 2025
Trollronaldo:
You foolish, person dey earn 85k monthly and see the advice wey you gut give
I can sponsor him. But I will not. He is a tinubu supporter
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by placeofallure(f): 10:48am On Jan 04, 2025
Factcheck0001:
ok

But trust nobody

I know what am saying, we have people into many shady things who still flaunts with their shops
Of course.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by walexsho(m): 11:32am On Jan 04, 2025
LordBiden:
But I have never seen a rich mechanic. huh
Except for the abroad based ones.
And the trade is not for the weak.
The kind deal some mechanics engage in, you'll think the millions they spend is from the services they render.
Most stolen cars are the handiwork of Mechanics, they buy stolen parts, they inflate price of spare parts to their customers.
That's why Yoruba adage says: If you are not aware of how your mate made it in life, you will only overwork yourself to death in the quest to match their standard.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Rajosh(m): 11:56am On Jan 04, 2025
Try and learn a computer skill.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Olichoke: 12:58pm On Jan 04, 2025
Love800:
Thanks so much.

What do you mean by bank is stressful?
I thought you guys usually receive money from banks!
No. Banks do not give us cash. Going to bank is stressful because of distance and they may not give you enough cash. But getting from business owners is cool.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Banjoramos(m): 1:15pm On Jan 04, 2025
The real future is the hereafter and that should be your main worry.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Lacash: 1:24pm On Jan 04, 2025
Love800:
Asin, you are selling ice fish for a living?
Yes, that’s what I do. I’m a big supplier cos I sell in bulks
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by meobizy(f): 3:20pm On Jan 04, 2025
If all fingers were equal, life would be boring.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Miramonica: 4:35pm On Jan 04, 2025
captaininiobong:
Never rush in Life bro. Never get pressured because of another person success. Just know what you are doing. In a little time you will be fine.

I am in same shoes, you are earning 5k higher than me. What I did was to cut my coat according to my size, instead of living in an apartment of 400 - 450k, you can use half of the money and get a self con. with your kitchen and toilet.


What i did with skills: since Nigerian government has jeopardized us, we wont give up, learn a tech skill. that money you are looking for is online. I can teach you how to design websites and you get paid 100 - 15k per job. Depending on the type of site. I do ecommerce nothing less than 200 - 250k.

When someone said that Nigerian government will add 10 years to the future of student before they see meaningful life. I thought it was a joke. I stopped looking for work and started building my skills.

My bro, just get a course, buy a system nd learn tech skills. Atleast you dont work for all the 24 hours per day. if you devote time and learn, bro you will benefit.

its just that some of us didn't know, that time wasted in the university would have been used to achieve something in one year.

seventhly, Avoid woman for now except your sisters and mum, Women will delay you a bit. Especially the one looking for who will love. Avoid ashawo too. they bring badluck and illuck to struggling person aiming success. Some come with delay immediately u penetrate them as a young hustler.

Everybody grace no be same.

Dont worry about starting a business, learn a skill that will be useful tothe kind of business you want, use it to work for others in the line. Make your money and start yours.
Any one that cares to be useful in life and not depends on our useless government should pick this guy advice.

My life changed when I stopped complaining and rose up to learn an IT skill, I'm a front and back-end developer, I do freelance on Upwork. I also have skill with Klaviyoy and MailChimp, so I help clients set up such

Also I write cold emails and marketing email for clients. I actually paid for my web development classes, I didn't learn on YouTube.

My web design tutor back then was a big boy,"eh dey play, eh dey show", he makes his money online with his skill, so that gingered me to learn it well.

Nigerians are doing well on Upwork, I see the profile of many Nigerians on Upwork, most of them have cashed out 20 to 50k USD, if you doubt me, go to Upwork and verify.

Before you ask me to teach you how Upwork works, go to google and YouTube, they have rich informations, that's how I learnt mine.

But make no mistakes, SERIOUS MONEY DEY UPWORK.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Love800(m): 11:57pm On Jan 04, 2025
Wow!

I so much appreciate your response.

Thanks so much
Olichoke:
No. Banks do not give us cash. Going to bank is stressful because of distance and they may not give you enough cash. But getting from business owners is cool.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Love800(m): 12:01am On Jan 05, 2025
Wow.

I thought that business is not usually lucrative again.

I want to ask, how do you get this fish that you later sell to retailers?
Lacash:
Yes, that’s what I do. I’m a big supplier cos I sell in bulks
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by EMIOMOADEOYE: 10:57am On Jan 05, 2025
bukatyne:
What is armed robber salary to you is peanuts to someone else.

It was a deliberate question.
Not to the OP, sweetheart.

Context is actually a very important aspect of public conversation.

You do know that right?
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by Olichoke: 11:51am On Jan 05, 2025
Love800:
Wow!

I so much appreciate your response.

Thanks so much
You are most welcome.
Re: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by achimendy(m): 8:53pm On Jan 05, 2025
Breatheon:
@33, I'm more afraid of the future

So reality is dawning on me for the tasks ahead.

Presently 33 with N85k/month salary job

During my days in school, I had thought life will be far better after school but here I am earning 85k/month and that is money that cannot even meet my immediate needs and not to talk of wants and unto other responsibilities.

By age, I'm supposed to have been married but still living in one room which is not advisable to even think of marriage in this condition.

To arrange myself for marriage, I need at least a one bedroom, furnished and comfortable. The yearly rent for that is about 400-450k

Then I am also worried about renewing the rent every year, year and year.

How about catering for the family? Aside rent, feeding, school fees (once married, you begin to reproduce), medical, clothing and so so and so forth.

To live a good life, you need a car for mobility sake as a family.

I can't continue to pay rent. Meaning I need to build a house.

Obviously, the 85k salary is not enough. I need to start a business.

And so many other issues giving me stress and sleepless night.

So my worry is, where would i get the money to do all these with these kind of job i am doing? For years i may not even raise a million naira.

I have seen situations where people no longer able to change clothes just because they now have a family and I'm trying to avoid that by all means.

I'm really really afraid of the future.

I feel there shouldn't be any future.
Fear and Complain has never helped anyone, if you need upgrade in your financial life then you must do the needful by working on your skill, draft your plan, add value to your life( go for knowledge by learning from other successful people in your field) , work hard, be persistent, commit it to God, stay positive and believe.


God bless you🙏
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