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God abeg o

Na the family kill am

So that is why he killed himself.

Rest in peace.

not everyone can handle pressure like u......,pls be nice............

GOFRONT:
Suicide over pressure to do what again??

Well, something must kill a man.

Na marital pressure kill this one

Story plenty for 9ja

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UDOKABESTLUV:
Source: https://leadership.ng/man-commits-suicide-over-pressure-to-get-married-in-osun/

One thing l won't do and l will never do is to KILL MYSELF for wetin na

He may be impotent
And the family did not know
Yet they were forcing him to marry
Maybe to avert shame he.............

Some people are very sensitive. Not everyone has the same emotional strenght.

Lucymercy:
[color=#006600][/color] One thing l won't do and l will never do is to KILL MYSELF for wetin na

Sunnyrado:
Good Evening, how was your day, I am a 45 years Old man not married and no kids too, this Year started Bad just yesterday I was sacked from work, and alot of negative thoughts has been through my mind, I was working as a security personnel but, Long story short I was giving letter of termination yesterday I just think I should end at all.

It will be your best year believe me... Better days ahead. Hold on in there

Now wey u kpei, life continues. People that lead u to this are still leaving. Rip as ugoand meet ur God for questioning

Pat081:
The fool do not know that is good for him for not married for now

Explain please

I thought you guess keep saying is women who quickly grow old and suffers this marriage depression the most,wetin come kill this one? He wasn't man enough or equal to God like you guys do claim,..No yan anyhow for this life whether man or woman, you don't know what your tomorrow will look like.

John cena is almost 50yrs has vehemently refused to get married or have kids with all his millions in dollars yet this one is still killing himself because of marriage.

Witches and wizards have successfully destroyed this destiny

Welldone brave man.. Most of us are coward

pocohantas:
Probably a compound issue. No money and no partner to go through life with.

He should have known people must talk.
You marry, they start checking your womb.
You born one, they tell you to give him/her a sibling. You born girls, they say your family name go end. You born boys, they say no daughter to care for you in old age.

Life na per head. As our fingers are unequal, so are our paths also different.

Stand strong and give it time.

May his soul rest in peace.

Happy new Year
The pressure needs extreme emotional intelligence and maturity to endure

lordm:
This is sad, I feel for him. You won't know how depression can be until you have encountered it.
For the rest of us here. Keep hope alive. Also try to check on your friends and family once in a while. People are going through a lot

I am not even up to my thirties but I understand the pressure of seeing his mates and those that are not even up to his age getting married, giving birth building houses etc at that age 46

Why do people pressure a poor person to get married?

And why do the girls/women they bring to him not have sense to run away from him?

This is Wickedness

Lalami3232:

Imagine what he will tell God when he gets to heaven.
Angel: what took your life?
Man: my family was pressuring me to get married to a non-virgin aka borehole.
Angel: **spits**

Dear fellow nairalanders, don't let anyone pressure you atall. There's always a time/season for everything to manifest, it will surely come to pass when the time is right. No be me promise to give una an app wey go help in DNA test since last year? I'm getting really frustrated because I never fit accomplish my promise but I'm still holding on, someday E go show. So my people, no accept pressure from people wey no know how things dey go for your side.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news.

Oga before my DNA app come out, oga try to go for DNA test for hospital to check if that pikin wey dey call you daddy should continue or he should start calling you uncle

What heaven?
Shey the one wey you dey abi which one
Dey play

I don't know why it hasn't occur to me to keep reminding folks around me (be it a man or woman of marriageable age) to walk the aisle, I even find the idea nauseating....

na by force to marry?

UDOKABESTLUV:
Please Don't Kpai Yourself Over Pressure Biko.

Don't Forget UDOKA BEST LOVE Is Here 4 You

Talk To UDOKA BEST LOVE, Don't Kpai Please

Can would you have done differently??

I feel suicide is a mental issue, some brain can't just holdon or take it. There are countless of options , you could run away and start a new life in ghana where no one knows you .

Some people, seeing how this man suffered and killed himself, will still wish his soul to rest in peace.

How does anyone with a noose around the neck even in the afterlife rest in peace.

pocohantas:
Probably a compound issue. No money and no partner to go through life with.

He should have known people must talk.
You marry, they start checking your womb.
You born one, they tell you to give him/her a sibling. You born girls, they say your family name go end. You born boys, they say no daughter to care for you in old age.

Life na per head. As our fingers are unequal, so are our paths also different.

Stand strong and give it time.

May his soul rest in peace.

That's why sometimes I don't blame those giving birth, making money, getting married etc at a young age because I can't even imagine being at that age 46 and still not achieved any of those things I mentioned.
So I can feel his pain

What is he doing when his mates are marrying? Everything is not about money. You get to a stage in life that u do what's necessary irrespective of ur situation. If you want to wait till when u get money before getting married, u will wait tire cos money may not come on time. Get a girl, impregnate her and start ur life. I have never seen anyone dying of hunger unless you are a lazy brat.

Holy Bleep
RIP man, you fought like a lion
This life is rubbish

Pressure from the family? No, you shouldn't have. It's your life afterall

Mrexcell:
John cena is almost 50yrs has vehemently refused to get married or have kids with all his millions in dollars yet this one is still killing himself because of marriage.

learn to have empathy mr lucifer we are not the same!

Zico5:
What is he doing when his mates are marrying? Everything is not about money. You get to a stage in life that u do what's necessary irrespective of ur situation. If you want to wait till when u get money before getting married, u will wait tire cos money may not come on time. Get a girl, impregnate her and start ur life. I have never seen anyone dying of hunger unless you are a lazy brat.

ewu what's so special about marriage? Na by force with the nonsense marriages wey full everywhere? Mr marriage, man like you dey do like woman

Ohraykon:
ewu what's so special about marriage? Na by force with the nonsense marriages wey full everywhere? Mr marriage, man like you dey do like woman

I pray u don't die of depression soon.

Ohraykon:
learn to have empathy mr lucifer we are not the same!

Am now mr lucifer for saying the obvious the man that killed himself wrote that no one should cry or empathise with him so why are u bothered? It's a taboo where I come from for one to commit suicide anyone who does the dead body will be thrown into the evil forest.