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Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by FletcherM: 3:04pm On Jan 07, 2025
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Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Ki11YurSev: 4:37pm On Jan 07, 2025
Divorce
your
Mother

Oops sorry!

Your wife
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by LtChisom: 7:11pm On Jan 16, 2025
Kobojunkieee:
You both probably should engage the aid of a professional marriage counselor at this point in time to better help you both understand the root of the problem, whether it is psychological or due to your behaviors in the marriage. undecided

2. The good of professional marriage counseling is that it also helps you both make decisions about the status of your relationship and where you both wish to see it go next. undecided
Like divorce right?


Ndi oso chi egbu.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Ubdavis(m): 8:43pm On Jan 16, 2025
Na so she no get work?
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by pretydiva(f): 8:43pm On Jan 16, 2025
Stay faithful to your wife, then she will stop monitoring your phone.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Emmiee28(m): 8:43pm On Jan 16, 2025
If you don't have what you are hiding, leave your phone to her , she will get tired and if you are hiding things from her , delete before you enter house to save yourself the stress
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by benini56(m): 8:45pm On Jan 16, 2025
Just try and stop cheating on her.
Try and be faithful to her alone.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Kobicove(m): 8:46pm On Jan 16, 2025
Oga you're not yet ready.

How can the wife that you married with your own money be the one calling the shots and giving your grief in your own home and you're here asking for advise on what to do?! angry
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by MaziObinnaokija: 8:47pm On Jan 16, 2025
sad WEAK hubby sad angry angry angry
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by MrIcredible: 8:48pm On Jan 16, 2025
deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
Mostly girls you didn't meet or marry as a virgin do this...
THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT AND A LOT HAS BEEN THROUGH THEM...

They'll always compare you and every situation with their past...

THEY CARRY EMOTIONAL TRAUMA AND BAGGAGES EVERY WHERE THEY GO...
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by meobizy(m): 8:48pm On Jan 16, 2025
Marrying another wife.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Mayflowa(m): 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2025
bukatyne:
Your story doesn't add up.

According to the OP, she started monitoring your phone 6 years ago.

Upon enquiry, you said you were married 11 years ago.

Meaning she started scouting 5 years into your marriage. Then how did she start since university?

So what turned your wife to a detective from the 5th year of your marriage?
Is it not possible to start a university after marriage?
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Lionnation: 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2025
Simple man went a married wife
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by NewDea4: 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2025
deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
Dude you're living in bondage
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Emperordynasty: 8:50pm On Jan 16, 2025
deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
This story seems extremely Fake
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Lionnation: 8:50pm On Jan 16, 2025
Just order her to stop monitoring your phone that's all
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by gift2xl: 8:50pm On Jan 16, 2025
Oga if your doing the right thing their is no need to panic. Except your hiding something
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by harmargedon: 8:51pm On Jan 16, 2025
budaatum:
11 years and she hasn't found anything incriminating on your phone yet?

If so, consider her a blessing, and continue as you have. You'd appreciate her more when you celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary.

And yes, she's doing it because she's insecure. And your trustworthiness is her blessing, and the fact you are not a pig.
it's all cool till the day she kills him because she overhead a female voice in the background
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by NothingDoMe: 8:51pm On Jan 16, 2025
Odotech:
Stop using iphone. Iphone can be monitored by paying online companies to do it after providing them your phone number. They don't need physical access to your phone to do this. All your iphone information on iphone is backed up on their cloud account that is where the spy companies get your chats, photos and call records.

Android phones can be monitored but the person must get physical access to your phone first to install a hidden spy app which shows no screen but will be running. You have to reset your phone to factory settings. If possible flash it. Then password it. Don't let her know your password and don't let her know the pattern lock or don't allow her add a second finger print. Set your phone screen to lock back within 3 seconds after it's idle. Also don't even use fingerprint so she doesn't use your finger to open it when you are asleep. If she cannot open your android phone in your absence, she won't be able to install a spy ware
100%. I thought it was a joke until a lady dating my brother did it and showed me the chats my bro was having with another lady. She hacked it straight from the cloud. See explicit chats. I weak like dodo. No iphone for me abeg.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by kamtamark(m): 8:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Check your phone very well any suspicious app ...just remove.. She. Might have install an app in your phone that give her feedback each time you are connected to the internet. I repeat! Take note of all the apps in your phone.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by nedekid: 8:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Kingray10:
Go to the network you are using to lay a complain.
Accessing your chat, is either she has your password or you are both using the same Gmail account or iCloud.
Besides your WhatsApp can be easily cloned
Op obviously does not want to get her in trouble.
Read between the lines, she likely works in a sensitive place where she has access to information ordinary folks don't have. How many people do you know can track telecoms info on any network through nin?
Those days when GSM came into naija, I had this fulani generals daughter I met at ikoyi staying on milverton road, she had some aboki fiance dude that worked in one of the major network, the guy saw us once I was dropping her. Next thing was that he downloaded her call records, chats and worse till my own join which he used to make complaints to her family. Omo, me back then that had one or two codded tins doing on my line had to run before aboki put persin for wahala. Lol
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by StormpyBee: 8:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Na d same boat we dey, my wife also can access my whatsapp message even though I have biometric enabled.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Emperordynasty: 8:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
bukatyne:
Your story doesn't add up.

According to the OP, she started monitoring your phone 6 years ago.

Upon enquiry, you said you were married 11 years ago.

Meaning she started scouting 5 years into your marriage. Then how did she start since university?

So what turned your wife to a detective from the 5th year of your marriage?
Let's say he married immediately after university that would make their dating plus marriage
15 years ago,
So in 2010 his wife ,could record his calls, monitor his phone and screenshot his messages with which Phone device abeg
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by fotadmowmend(m):
Nobody is helping here . Now I put it to our tech gurus in the house .... how possible is that ? My opinion get check your WhatsApp if she has added a "companion device" you should simply disable that . Also change all your social media passwords and log out all unknown logins ( you should do that frequently) . Most importantly tell her to stop monitoring you . You are the husband !
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Mathain19(m): 8:54pm On Jan 16, 2025
Love is magical... grin
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by ibtommy(m): 8:55pm On Jan 16, 2025
Throw the phone away and become 'phoneless', then discard all the skeletons in your cupboards away. With this you should have rest of mind. Thank me later. grin
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by omoredia: 8:55pm On Jan 16, 2025
They do it alot I don't know how.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by treatise: 8:55pm On Jan 16, 2025
deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
You're threading a mined field; almost in all cases people with snoopy dispositions are hypocrites. She may be doing more than you think in secret. Tell her frontally to desist or cut her off.
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by Mrmike1505: 8:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
deluckiest:
For the past 6 years, my wife has been monitoring all my phone lines—MTN, Glo, and Airtel. She screenshots my chats, records my calls, and even gathers proof with pictures. Changing my phone numbers doesn’t help because she says as long as I use my NIN to register a SIM, she can still track everything I do, whether openly or secretly, unless she chooses not to.

I want to put an end to this, but I don’t want to get her into trouble with the law.

Has anyone gone through something like this? How did you handle it? Please share your advice.
bit her up, what none sence
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by happney65: 8:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
And you cannot password your phone or something?

Na wetin una don accept from tey tey sha na him go dey continue so you cant do shit
Re: Help Needed: How Do I Stop My Wife From Monitoring My Phone? by budaatum: 8:56pm On Jan 16, 2025
harmargedon:
it's all cool till the day she kills him because she overhead a female voice in the background
If she were that psychotic, op would have said, I think.

Still, if you think she might kill op, please advise accordingly.
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