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Akalia:
He acted naively which ought not to be so for someone who schooled in the west and probably spent a large chunk of his years growing up in the west.

As an experienced man, you should be able to tell when the woman in your life is flying red flags and then you take preeminent re-action to protect yourself and be in the position of advantage going forward.

How?educate us

MAKE AMERICA GOVERNMENT PAY HER $15,000 EVERY MONTH.


ABI IT IS THEIR WIFE.


SHAME ON THEM, IF THEY FAIL TO GIVE HER THAT AMOUNT AS THE FOOLISH JUDGE DECLARED SITTING ON HIS LAZY ASS.


IT IS VERY EASY NOT GIVING A FVCK.

patrickcollins:
Person wey dey earn above 25 million naira monthly which Naija hospital can pay that sum

He could build his own hospital

cococandy:
I guess I was wrong about her nationality then.

Doesn’t mean all the talk about leaving her back in Nigeria applies. You guys don’t know that she wasn’t there before they met.

I didn't say anything about leaving anyone anywhere.

SSpeter:
To be a cardiologist at that age, he was definitely born in the US

Read read. He was born in NAija

$15,000 kini....??

every month....??

Now, the wide gets nothing!

$4,000 a month is more than sufficient.

billyG:
He could build his own hospital

THAT GUY DONT HAVE REAL FRIENDS OR BOYZ, OTHERWISE HE WONT TRY IT.

U CANNOT ISOLATE YOURSELF WITH A WOMAN.


U BRING YOUR HOMMIES, BROTHERS, SISTERS, MOTHER, FATHER AND EXTENDED FAMILY.


THAT WAY EVERYBODY WILL KNOW HER.

Yes, That's her father

aieromon:
This same person?

https://www.nairaland.com/7935656/nigeria-man-releases-list-ladies

He killed himself for these people?

Decidetolive:
Too bad. Have made it clear to my wife that I can only take them to west for vacation but relocation ? Never

dont try it....

black women go crazy when they land in western nations....
i dont understand why....

Akalia:
He acted naively which ought not to be so for someone who schooled in the west and probably spent a large chunk of his years growing up in the west.

As an experienced man, you should be able to tell when the woman in your life is flying red flags and then you take preeminent re-action to protect yourself and be in the position of advantage going forward.

You talk as if Africans are not getting fleeced left and right by the women in their lives.

Does Nigeria itself not have a serious problem with paternity fraud?

It doesn't matter where you go in this world, there are terrible women and terrible men. The problem is that they know and avoid each other. Those of us who are not evil or not raised around such people to identify them more readily end up finding out later in life, like this poor doctor.

bad talk.

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women.

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

mmsen:
I didn't say anything about leaving anyone anywhere.

Well my initial post that you responded to was addressing those kinds of comments. So if it wasn’t referring to you, you could’ve skipped it.

luminouz:
Jesus, why am I not surprised you will still find a way to blame the man even after he is dead?

Dude...dem use simp water bath you ni?

You are embarrassing the male gender abeg...

Do you have problem with comprehension? Where did you read my comment about the dead man in this case? If you have a problem with my opinion, it's your business because I don't have to reason the way you do.

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women.

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

What character does Ikenna have that would make him deserve his death? I guess he was too naive to believe that marriage/family should for better or worse… while her ex and co believe that kids are transactional cash cow from relationship that should be used to milk men.
Now, he’ gone…. Is she going back to her job soon since $15k/mon has entered into audio $$

Decidetolive:
Too bad. Have made it clear to my wife that I can only take them to west for vacation but relocation ? Never

na man u be💪

MT:
What if she refuses to comeback with the kids during one of your trips abroad?

You as well know you can’t force them back, right?

Lol.. I will take my kids and return home. She can remain there but I will make sure I starve her financially

irumole1975:
Don’t worry. It’ll come back to you. Then you’ll see how right or wrong you are. You believe just because you’re not out to dupe people and take there money, people feel the same way about you and are not out to hurt you just because they want ease for themselves?

What will come back to me? People have issues in marriage wherever they are however, most humans are not so evil to the point that they disregard/take advantage of the sincerity of their spouse.

Decidetolive:
Lol.. I will take my kids and return home. She can remain there but I will make sure I starve her financially

Or you guys can be good husbands instead of playing games

maybe na white woman he marry
the american court go bias with them

XtraFortunes:
Where in this story did they say he traveled with his wife from Nigeria?

He could have met her there in the US and married her, so what are you saying?

cococandy:
Or you guys can be good husbands instead of playing games

I'm a good husband and father. My wife knows this well and affirm to it. Our marriage has not crack but I don't trust Nigerian women of this generation

mmsen:
People do not read the fine print when they get married in the States but this is what you agree to. When it goes badly the state, in conjunction with the woman, will join hands to clean you out. Not just from what you have acquired up until that date but for up to two decades. It is pure evil.

The judicial system is rigged in favor of the women.

RIP.

Can you please reference your claim? This is expository if true.

drstranged:
https://punchng.com/us-based-nigerian-doctor-allegedly-kills-self-over-15000-child-support/

He could have relocated to Nigeria and forget paying the ex-wife 15k monthly

Gotocourt:
Forget all this bitches

Men stop using Jesus eye dey look all this ladies from the pit of hell. Bro was too hard on him self , RIP mate

He could have migrated to another country. It's hard getting custody of kids from their mum. If the differences can't be reconciled, start another family 💯. Most workers in USA earn $5K per month. She was a gold digger right from day one. $15K plus losing license ☠️, WTF. He might be earning up to $20-$30K dollars as a cardiologist monthly though.

Killing himself was the most stupid thing to do

He should have relocated from the US to another place even back to Africa self
To start over again

Rip to Him

But the way some black women behave is horrendously terrible

Demanding that kind of money is evil and wicked. 15k dollars is too much

That's how an associate told me of his uncle in the UK his Jamaican wife divorced

The Man had two properties in the UK
This woman wanted the 2 houses

Greedily also was claiming the Man's Nigerian house
That she sent someone down to Nigeria to trace the Man's Nigerian house

They are still in divorce battle right now

Many black women are so greedy
It's terribly wicked and horrible


Men should be very careful
Watch the kind of woman you are marrying as a wife
If she's kind and compassionate
She wouldn't want to finish you

At least she will be lenient

But when a Man marries the daughter of jezebel. Him own don finish. Thats the easiest way to go to hell

God forbid bad thing

TruthDefender:
Yes, That's her father

E GET SOME KIND CHARACTERS WOMEN WILL BE HIDING FROM YOU BUT ONCE THAT YOUR HOMMIE SHOW UP, HE WILL DISCOVER IT.



OR THOSE EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS THAT LIKE TO COME AND VISIT AND GO BACK WHENEVER THEY FEEL LIKE IT, EVEN IF IT IS 1 MONTH, ONE DAY U WILL WAKE UP AND THEY WILL SAY BROTHER, ANABAGO M...


U WILL BE SURPRISE AND ASK IF EVERYTHING IS OK AND HE WILL SAY YES, HE IS GOING BECAUSE OF SO AND SO.


EVEN U SEF HAVE GOTTEN USE TO HIM BEING AROUND BECAUSE HE HANDLES CERTAIN THINGS FOR YOU.



IF SHE IS WICKED WOMAN, HE WILL FIND OUT.



MY MOTHER WILL JUST ENTER HER STARIGHT AND FORCE IT OUT OF HER IN DIRECT CONFRONTATION.

drstranged:
https://punchng.com/us-based-nigerian-doctor-allegedly-kills-self-over-15000-child-support/

15k a month that is too much.

djon78:
Killing himself was the most stupid thing to do

He should have relocated from the US to another place even back to Africa self
To start over again

Rip to Him

But the way some black women behave is horrendously terrible

Demanding that kind of money is evil and wicked. 15k dollars is too much

That's how an associate told me of his uncle in the UK his Jamaican wife divorced

The Man had two properties in the UK
This woman wanted the 2 houses

Greedily also was claiming the Man's Nigerian house
That she sent someone down to Nigeria to trace the Man's Nigerian house

They are still in divorce battle right now

Many black women are so greedy
It's terribly wicked and horrible


Men should be very careful
Watch the kind of woman you are marrying as a wife
If she's kind and compassionate
She wouldn't want to finish you

At least she will be lenient

But when a Man marries the daughter of jezebel. Him own don finish. Thats the easiest way to go to hell

God forbid bad thing

Let her come take the Nigerian House , she thinks Nigeria is UK or US. Even she and the man who's tracing the house in Nigeria will collect .

so the man just finish fellowship 3 years ago. must still be in big debt and salary may not be high enough.
wetin really happen to go to divorce. i feel sad for parent. his mother too

DaddyJapan:
Back in 2015...


Source: https://guardian.ng/news/nigerias-olasunkanmi-erinne-shine-in-uk-u-s-varsities/

TruthDefender:
She is the daughter of the well-known Poi master Francis Van Lare. US born with Nigerian parents.

The guy is a weakling because he could have easily relocated back to Nigeria and have a great life

So her dad is thd guy who posted all the names of the girls/women he slept with in Naija.

Toxicity and wickedness run in her family. Parents train your kids to live and breathe emotional fortutidue

Thank God no be Nigeria court