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THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT WILL MARRY THAT GUY, HAPPILY COOK HIS FOOD, WASH AND IRON HIS CLOTH FOR HIM.


KEEP EVERYWHERE CLEAN AND THAT WILL BE THE WAY THEY SUPPORT HIM TO BRING HOME THE BAG.

NO, THESE ONES HAVE OTHER IDEAS.

U CAN IMAGINE HER FATHER REFERING TO HIS KIDS AS BELONGING TO HIS DAUGHTER.


IF NA ME HOLD THAT GUN I KNOW THE FIRST PERSON TO SHOOT.

the man just finish him fellowship 3 years ago. he is not making that much yet. just wrong woman choice

BigIyanga:
U dey mind them..
A cardiologist like him makes like $600k-800k/yr.
PA dey make $80k-$150k. She cant be full time unless the court might take won custody away..

TruthDefender:
She is the daughter of the well-known Poi master Francis Van Lare. US born with Nigerian parents.

The guy is a weakling because he could have easily relocated back to Nigeria and have a great life

Kai...see FBI

Better person

Dalohad:
He went to high school and University in America. He was prolly born there. I checked him up on LinkedIn..

Nigerians who were born there or even relocated as little kids to the USA hardly return to Nigeria, as they hardly have any friends or social ties in Nigeria. Infact they can only be forced to come home once in a while by their parents (if they are still alive).

Only those who had college (Tertiary) education in Nigeria before relocating to the US, would likely return to Nigeria every year or at least Bi-annually.

Stop spewing falsehood here
Guy man na PH boy. Attended a naval secondary school in PH
He only attended university in the US

AngelicBeing:
I understand what you are saying but one thing you should know is this, from my experience living in the Western world and from what I have seen with marriages , is this, you must be ready to be a grade one SIMP or mumu for you to have a peaceful marriage especially if you marry a kolo or mumu woman , l have seen how some women have completely taken advantage of the laws in the West to humiliate their husbands and the LAW in most cases is tilted to FAVOR women in the West, so l kind of agree with men who don't want to bring their women to the West,

I completely agree with you na. I have seen my friends suffer that same shiit.

It's just the guy always defend women here even if they are clearly in the wrong

djon78:
I thought I was the only one that noticed the moniker name

Very contradictory

You dey mind that one...forming woke on a loosepusay moniker!

frog12:
with such strong grounding but wrong woman choice. some of these men of today watch too much nollywood.
the emotional stress must have been too much for him. be careful of the woman you marry

Yes. Young and emotionally-fragile men dont listen. They think that they’re too sophisticated to be better lovers and husbands than their dads … without factoring the transactional side of marriage 💰😂

Decidetolive:
You're wrong. I have been married for a decade with 5 lovely kids and I must let you know that my wife openly confess that am the best husband and father she has known. Like I told you earlier, am just being cautious so let the matter rest

I am actually not competing but at 16 years of marriage. I know all about what a good husband is. If you are scared to relocate your wife abroad. There's no trust nor security in the marriage. A lack of trust breeds insecurity. You fear the system may change her. It shows you don't know her.

JaskanFactor:
Dont forget , Reading his post the victim made mention of a racial element to this "Saying The Condition of Blackman in USA must change"

I can only assume that he believes the case went against him the way it did impart cause of his skin colour in the country that gave the world KKK.

All i can advise younger people is this, your ancestors world they told you of before you came down here is no longer this one.
All of the things you would expect to be able to do in normal world, you have to think twice before you do so in this world.

Cause the ancestry that gave you the right to access this world has lost its throne, so that here as blackman in many regions of the world, a stray dog is safer than you.

Therefore things like normal life, settling down etc is not really your right anymore, i dont care what part of the world you are in as blackman, same rule applies. Its the same people attacking niggers in the west that are running Nigeria and all black africa.

The level of hatred and hardship black people face globally is such that you have to be really quite very wealthy before you decide to marry or have kids. and am talking above middle class. Simply cause this Gothic world is very hostile to Nubians.

If you dont understand english , simply put, you could be naïve and even childish if you choose to bring children to a world where you are treated as an enemy race. Dont forget Tinubuation is an oyinbo mans project.

You can face your blackmail horror collectively in Nigeria, or you can face it individually abroad, but there is no escape from that.

Apart from the racial element, there is ample evidence from a phycological perspective that for centuries the trajectory of popular culture has been DELIBRATLEY driven towards a crazy population who still think they are normal people.

So that if there are real forces using culture to create crazy people, you want to be very very carefull whom you bring into your life.

The entire Movie, music and all aspects that shape culture including the lack of sleep from overwork is designed to create people who think they are awake, but are really sleeping.

As such just like in any Zombie block buster movie , you really want to check for life signs befor letting just any Zombie into your life.

Cause the drive of popular of culture being create by the likes of Tavistock institute in UK who gave the world the beetles in 70s , is to create
zombies. So that people like MIck Jagger by the 70s can openly before the world create a song titled "Sympathy For the Devil".
A lot of movies, and events had to previously take place to get to a world where mick jagger can openly sing a song of sympathy for the devil.


So that by now in same world in 2025 , 50 years after sympathy for the devil , its already turning into a Zombie Apocalypse.
With many people watching big brother, whilst civil servant terrorists are wiping out other parts of same country.

Normal life is a booby trap for a Nubian in a Gothic world.

They dont want us in their world anymore, don't pretend you did not get the message, its same message they told Tinubiulation to send to you.

Our Ancestors ruled this entire world, and created not just a physical civilisation , but a very highly advanced spiritual civilisation, so advanced they genetically transformed themselves from serpents to half man half serpent, then to full human form. These are the people who named Paris after Serpent Godess ISIS. Paraisis means are of isis temple, old name for Paris is Paraisis.
Switzerland Means Land of the sisters of ISIS.
Nagasaki , means something along the lines of serpent man land
there are many places in asia and latin america with name Naga.

And there is much evidence that it was also they who created the Sun, Lesser Sun Moon, and the Orion Belt stars that form a perfect straight line in the sky.

Try to watch John Anthony West Magical Egypt Youtube videos about the spiritual technology of the Temple Of Man.

But they got arrogant with too much respect for knowledge over peace of mind , as such the arrogance fell.

I only mention this, like Bobby Hermit the American occult history teacher mentioned it to say, our time as nubian to have the luxury of having respect for knowledge over peace of mind is up. By that i mean this is no longer the worls where the nubian should really seek to be anything order than he immediately needs to survive.

Its no longer your place to want to be CEO, Professor, Business Man, president, governor etc, cause our ancestors have already done all that and most probably put the sun and moon up there, and still they failed.

So that the new born Nubians arriving in the world full of ambition who dont know their ancient history, may find Karma at the hands of the Gothic dog man who now calls himself the white man European. Cause as many Gothic racists say, they are here to punish us for the sins of our ancestors, no joke, they really say this, and no one can argue with the reality on the ground, complete with civil servant terrorists.

When i heard bobby hermit make that statement in a youtube video, it set me free, i felt like a great weight just lifted off my shoulders.
Again let the white man be CEO, Governor , AI engineer, and President billionaire, thats not for us anymore, been there done that all the way up to the sky, so that the only question for the nubian now is can you learn the tranquillity Love and peace.

Nobody is interested in your intellect anymore, cause should you really choose to apply it the white man will stop you, but you can still learn love and peace to grow your spirit. Thats why many say the Goths are the Creators blessing to the Nubians. And why the Goths say they are doing Gods works, given they gave us the word god from Goth, who can argue.

So befor that tie leaves a mark on your neck , you might want to find a comfi robe , as you place more value on peace and tranquillity over intellect. As bobby hermit would say, Leave the intellectual competition to the new man, who calls himself the white man.

Cause all i know is that in this world that is a womb, every time you choose to be of service it works like a key that opens up the unseen.
And if you dont want to be of service, it hides from you in plain sight.

If you care about the world like you are supporting the mother of everything in sight and more besides, she opens up to you, that is now the journey of the nubian. Let the Goth be AI engineer.

Look in order to stop killing spiders in house, which is an epidemic in my area, i spent 20$ of my no money situation to by spider stick for catching them alive so i can put them outside ALIVE!!!!.

A white man went to India to find the secret of enlightenment , and that what his indian Guru told him, "Be Of Service".

So its time for you Nubian Naga to let go of the ego of intellect and embrace service to all of nature, so that you can see.
Its longer the planet to spread your wings like physical man , but instead as a spiritual man preparing his way into the next world.

Its no longer time for you to be aspiring to be doctor or even getting married on a planet that is extremely hostile to your race.

Dont forget that all the people in Asia. Latin America, Europe, Russia, India etc were all black people, they wiped them all out, we are the only ones left. And as you can clearly see in this thing that has been coming south for generations, by now they are in northern Nigeria, where the civil servant terrorists are coming south.

cc: @ diamond68 will be interested in this your post above

Vicky951:
STFU psycho! You didn’t know he was molesting his female patients that was why he lost his license. Allow a doctor molest your wife or kids, dimwit!

You are a mãd man ...who can't even quote properly


So I have helped you.

So now he molests his patients? Lol...

Why did this Cardiologist stubbornly go on a law suit that he knew his chances could be slim to the extent he lost his license? He will still make money. When there is life, there is hope.

Something legal negotiation or out of court negotiation could solve, after all the money is still for the welfare of his kids( the woman would not want below standard for the kids because of divorce), while he works more time ( at least for some years, he is still a young man) and relax himself away from the burden if him raising the kids with all the associated stress that goes with it ie his money working for him.

May pride and stubbornness not take a better part of us. Wisdom and patience are golden. Devil just wanted this issue ( distraction)he could resolve to take him out knowing the kind of person he really is.

Maybe he had boasted that no woman can do this to him instead of taking things easy with his mental health and self.

Why not abandon the US and come back here make she come take the child support. Rubbish. Women don't love. It's only their interest. Every man should know this. Don't die because of a woman.

luminouz:
You dey mind that one...forming woke on a loosepusay moniker!

As in eh

They are very big problem with all these
There woke mentality

They have turned unwise Men wey no want get sense into zombies and mugus

diamond68:
yeah. Very beautiful. Someone posted her pic with her dad at a burger joint. Igbo girl

That one is beautiful to you?

I wouldn't touch her with 10km pole!!!

i tell you. many of these young boys are talking of millions. but they don't even have any industry experience. at the end, they find themselves in difficult box corners they cannot get out of. it's a pity. i feel sadness for his mother.

BigIyanga:
Yes. Young and emotionally-fragile men dont listen. They think that they’re too sophisticated to be better lovers and husbands than their dads … without factoring the transactional side of marriage 💰😂

luminouz:
That one is beautiful to you?

I wouldn't touch her with 10km pole!!!

luminouz:
This is bullshit....

I have seen men who treated their wives like queens and were abused, used and dumped.

What dafuq is submission is to secured men? Did you negotiate this when he was paying your bride price despite you not being a virgin?

I have said this often, there is no way I'm tolerating all these shiits from a woman I never met a virgin

Me I don't know all the wahala over bride price, virginity and all the stuffs that triggered you. All I know is - If you marry a person with exact same values as your self,you have nothing to fear but if you marry otherwise. The only exception here is if you have shitty values then be prepared for shit.

frog12:
the man just finish him fellowship 3 years ago. he is not making that much yet. just wrong woman choice

Eyaa sorry to hear.
Not every man has the mental strength, intellectual rigor and financial resources to fight a monster partner like Johnny Depp did when he was cancelled. His ex Amber Heard made him live miserably in fear in his home. She had wanted to kll Johnny and his career.. guess what same woman dated Elon Musk and ran away and wanted no smokes from Elon😂

luminouz:
That one is beautiful to you?

I wouldn't touch her with 10km pole!!!

I mean she ain't no halle berry but she decent

Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.

Bro, can you elaborate more? Suicide is like a dead end.What must have pushed him to eventually give it up?I don't think it's just the finance.Maybe depression or other mental issues.Your input can also help others.

dealslip:
Me I don't know all the wahala over bride price, virginity and all the stuffs that triggered you. All I know is - If you marry a person with exact same values as your self,you have nothing to fear but if you marry otherwise. The only exception here is if you have shitty values then be prepared for shit.

Bla blaaaaaaaaaa... Sounds like Hollywood but I have seen way worse on real life. Y'all never care about your husbands...he is just a tool.

Now leave me alone....

luminouz:
I completely agree with you na. I have seen my friends suffer that same shiit.

It's just the guy always defend women here even if they are clearly in the wrong

l met a Kenya friend in Toronto around 2008, he told me a shocking story , the summary of the story is this>> He sponsored his Kenyan wife to Canada, immediately the woman arrived, she completely change like a Chameleon and started treating the guy like a piece of shit, she started dating another man, got pregnant for another man, she Now had a quarrel with his Kenya husband, she called the police, my Kenya friend was kicked out of the house with a RESTRAINING ORDER, but during all this process, my friend was able to hide some of his asset with different people in Toronto, while the case was going on, l lost contact with him at the moment, so l don't know the final decision from the Court

GloriousGbola:
can you stop posting in caps like an attention seeker?
no one held a gun to the head of the late doctor when he married the girl
the fathers history is also an open book
the father is obviously successful and does not need to leech off his in laws

stop looking at this tragedy with the mind of an impoverished pauper who will kill for money.

THEY ARE IMPOVERISHED PAUPER WHO ENDED THE LIFE OF A PROMISING DOCTOR FOR MONEY.

IT WAS AWLAYS ABOUT MONEY AND NOTHING ELSE FR THEM.


AND GOD WILL PUNISH THEM AND ANYBODY WHO SUPPORT THEM.

U SAY HER FATHER IS SUCCESSFUL, WHAT DOES HE DO?


U DAT DONT KNOW PHYSICIAN ASSISTANT IS NOT A DOCTOR.

aieromon:
This same person?

https://www.nairaland.com/7935656/nigeria-man-releases-list-ladies

Yes, same person. How such a well educated person ended up marrying this horrible man’s daughter beats me. May our children never marry wrong. Better to be alone than with the wrong person.

luminouz:
This is bullshit....

I have seen men who treated their wives like queens and were abused, used and dumped.

What dafuq is submission is to secured men? Did you negotiate this when he was paying your bride price despite you not being a virgin?

I have said this often, there is no way I'm tolerating all these shiits from a woman I never met a virgin

Johnny Depp treated her ex Amber Heard and her family like Royalties and she still wanted his head and career.
Elon Musk didnt give AF about her and she wanted no problrm from Musk

Will the children hate their mother for this?

gohamburg:
Yes, same person. How such a well educated person ended up marrying this horrible man’s daughter beats me. May our children never marry wrong. Better to be alone than with the wrong person.

I ONLY SAW ONE POST SHARED HERE FROM INSTAGRAM AND IT JUST GAVE BAD VIBES.


I THINK HE KNOWS ALL ABOUT IT AND MAY EVEN BE THE ONE CAUSING ALL HIS TROUBLES.

AngelicBeing:
l met a Kenya friend in Toronto around 2008, he told me a shocking story , the summary of the story is this>> He sponsored his Kenyan wife to Canada, immediately the woman arrived, she completely change like a Chameleon and started treating the guy like a piece of shit, she started dating another man, got pregnant for another man, she Now had a quarrel with his Kenya husband, she called the police, my Kenya friend was kicked out of the house with a RESTRAINING ORDER, but during all this process, my friend was able to hide some of his asset with different people in Toronto, while the case was going on, l lost contact with him at the moment, so l don't know the final decision from the Court

So long his properties are in Canada,they will be traced and shared. He should have sent them back to Kenya.

I have seen worse than you related. The amazing thing is...the more loving the husband is, the brutal and sadistic the wife is...it's like they derive joy in totally humiliating their good husbands.

That dealslip girl was saying rubbish about 'women won't do you like that if you treated her well' but Kaka is a good example. He was an angel according to his ex-wife and she divorced him because he was too perfect...and walked away with some of his too perfect properties. When I see men walk down the aisle these days, I just start mentally calculating when they will get divorced

BigIyanga:
Johnny Depp treated her ex Amber Heard and her family like Royalties and she still wanted his head and career.
Elon Musk didnt give AF about her and she wanted no problrm from Musk

My point exactly!!!

Be ruthless and they will behave...be good and get FŪCKED

luminouz:
Bla blaaaaaaaaaa... Sounds like Hollywood but I have seen way worse on real life. Y'all never care about your husbands...he is just a tool.

Now leave me alone....

LoL at leave me alone, wetin Nigeria women do you, Haha 😂

Stephen0mozzy:
I'd rather just return back to Nigeria.
Get in some circle, and get licensed to practice in Nigeria.

American-trained, your private practice go too boom.

But, I guess, the mind wants what it wants. I hope he didn't do it to spite the wife and the US Legal system sha.

Life is too sweet to do that, even in bad times!

Life is not sweet in bad times.

luminouz:
So long his properties are in Canada,they will be traced and shared. He should have sent them back to Kenya.

I have seen worse than you related. The amazing thing is...the more loving the husband is, the brutal and sadistic the wife is...it's like they derive joy in totally humiliating their good husbands.

That dealslip girl was saying rubbish about 'women won't do you like that if you treated her well' but Kaka is a good example. He was an angel according to his ex-wife and she divorced him because he was too perfect...and walked away with some of his too perfect properties. When I see men walk down the aisle these days, I just start mentally calculating when they will get divorced

😂😂