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tishbite43:
Stop spewing falsehood here
Guy man na PH boy. Attended a naval secondary school in PH
He only attended university in the US

We are saying the same thing. College is University/tertiary in the USA.

How many of your high school friends do you still keep in touch with, compared to your University friends?

America happened to him, no be so una go talk if it had happened in Nigeria. Bet it was some white judge jealous that this African dude dared to be a cardiologist, haters full that side.

luminouz:
So long his properties are in Canada,they will be traced and shared. He should have sent them back to Kenya.

I have seen worse than you related. The amazing thing is...the more loving the husband is, the brutal and sadistic the wife is...it's like they derive joy in totally humiliating their good husbands.

That dealslip girl was saying rubbish about 'women won't do you like that if you treated her well' but Kaka is a good example. He was an angel according to his ex-wife and she divorced him because he was too perfect...and walked away with some of his too perfect properties. When I see men walk down the aisle these days, I just start mentally calculating when they will get divorced

You are probably the age of my first son. You know nothing about marriage. After 16 yes in the institution, I can give you some insights. I have told you that to succeed in marriage, you marry people of same values like you otherwise you will end up like Kaka. He married a woman with a different value system.

Kafirbigot:
He acted like Awolowo...

Very terrible way to go..

No, Awolowo died an old man.

He should have acted like Ojukwu and run away from America.

[quote author=luminouz post=133973006]Now I know what your problem is. You are jealous of a dead man...someone whose boots are not even fit to lick on your best day.

I understand you now. I hope he haunts you, I really do[You are just a societal misfit! Someone I was doing better then in Nigeria and even in the USA. /quote]

MasterJayJay:
The judge and the exwife can now go into the grave and get the monthly 15k dollars.

Abi

I TRY TO IMAGINE THE LEVEL OF PROVOCATION AND DISAPPOINTMENT.


IF HE MARRIED HER, IT MEANS HE IS A FAMILY ORIENTATED PERSON AND A TRADITIONAL MAN.



I CAN BET MY LAST PENNY THAT GIRL DISAPPOINTED HIM AND HER WAYWARD FATHER WAS THE CHIEF INSTIGATOR.



IF NA MY BROTHER, FIGHT DON SET, EVEN IF I GO PRISON 4 OR 5 YEARS, I GO BREAK HER PAPA HEAD.


WENEVA THEY RELEASE ME, I WILL FLY OUT


ANABAGO M!

Dalohad:
We are saying the same thing. College is University/tertiary in the USA.

How many of your high school friends do you still keep in touch with, compared to your University friends?

I'm super close friends with my high school friends. They're are my real support system. In fact, I'm on my way to a pepper soup joint to meet two of them now. It also depends on the type of secondary school one attended.
I can only say the above for just one of my university course mates.
Man grew up in Nigeria and I expect him to be more emotionally tough.
He attended Portland State University, Oregon and did his residency at Baltimore. I think he should have more friends at Baltimore.

[quote author=luminouz post=133973006]Now I know what your problem is. You are jealous of a dead man...someone whose boots are not even fit to lick on your best day.

I understand you now. I hope he haunts you, I really do[Someone I was doing better than in Nigeria and in the USA. You’re just societal misfit /quote]

helinues:
So who will eventually take care of his baby?

Did wife wants full custody of the child abi? Well now she has it, she should also take full responsibility of the child since the man is now out of the way.

TrainPark:
I have learned an important lesson:

If a woman gives you problems in marriage and tries to use the children against you, JUST LEAVE HER WITH THE KIDS AND MOVE ON!
Go and start another family. Just use sense and run away from the country!

Europe and America are completely bonkers with anti-men policies in family courts, so the only way is for men to be wise and ready to leave at all times!

You think your wife will allow you to go with your kids and the house you work so hard to buy outside Nigeria, Please just pray not to find yourself in that kind of problem, only solution is to remain in that marriage and accept whatever she told you, it’s only way you can have peace

Acidosis:
Life is not sweet in bad times.

Bad times are a condition.... Life is a gift.

Jeezuzpick:
He lost his licence!

Unless the licence loss was not due to questionable practice, he will never be licenced to practice anywhere on the planet.

Except in Nigeria, where anything goes, if you know a politician.

He didn't lose his qualifications. There's a difference.

Okoroawusa:
This man died a fool. He gave up on life too cowardly. There is nothing like "a worst-case scenario". Nothing you can't come out of. He is even educated and a doctor.
You are a Nigerian right? America took your license right? Fvck that! Come back to Nigeria and start again. At 35 many people are still dilly-dallying on what to do with their lives but you have yours sorted out already.

I am very glad my divorce case was in Nigeria. No carry woman go obodo oyibo especially America una no dey hear.

So you're divorced
No wonder you loved buhari then Tinubu
Turned gay and still couldn't keep it together

Firstcitizen:
Jesus! He deserves to die? Interesting that the wife who presumably was suffering abuse was the one controlling his decision on self deportation.

I do not have the details like you claim you do, but that first statement comes from the deepest bowels of evil. You must be a friend of the wife.

There is a popular saying about birds of similar feathers.

Evil people everywhere.

Fear women, they don’t look back when they start beating the crap out of you, very heartless set of beings, you will keep asking yourself if it’s not the same woman you fell in love with or na devil enter inside her 😆

hopexter:
Nobody is peeing on anybody’s grave, America is not your village where there’s open defecation

Funniest comment of the day

Toxic feminists are avoiding this thread because they are happy that their member fully got this man.

cococandy:
Okay.

Technically she is not Nigerian

This is her name

suzette chibuogu van-lare

Google her without her native name and you will see most of her history

Born 1990

High school in the US.

Hometown Marietta Georgia

Working Physician assistant

GO AND MARRY, GO AND MARRY.



ALL THIS YEARS HE DID NOT DIE, ACCOMPLISHED SO MUCH IN A SHORT TIME.



JUST 2020 MARRIAGE AND BY 2024 HE IS IN COURT, JANUARY 2025 HE IS DEAD.

DiasGodinHeaven:
Known by who?

You can't beat nature. Nature does not care whether you know or not. It will do what is necessary to ensure our survival.

That is why people will go to a foreign far away land away from home and still try to contribute to the gene pool even if no one knows them there.

Would you rather have your gene in the gene pool or have someone else's gene being ascribe as yours to your bloodline?

legitnow1:
GO AND MARRY, GO AND MARRY.



ALL THIS YEARS HE DID NOT DIE, ACCOMPLISHED SO MUCH IN A SHORT TIME.



JUST 2020 MARRIAGE AND BY 2024 HE IS IN COURT, JANUARY 2025 HE IS DEAD.

No mind them

GloriousGbola:
Technically she is not Nigerian

This is her name

suzette chibuogu van-lare

Google her without her native name and you will see most of her history

Born 1990

High school in the US.

Hometown Marietta Georgia

Working Physician assistant

She played him from the word go. I am glad the man off himself. She isn't getting shit. His suicide will hang around her neck for the rest of her life, unfortunately, these ladies do not have conscience and will do whatever it takes to rob a man into being child support.

dettolgel:
No mind them

HOW U GO MARRY BUSY MAN.

EMERGENCY CALL MAN, THEY GIVE AM STRESS, DRAGING HIM UP AND DOWN, NO REST.

WHO DOES THAT?

SHE REALLY PUNISH AM.

dettolgel:
She played him from the word go. I am glad the man off himself. She isn't getting shit. His suicide will hang around her neck for the rest of her life, unfortunately, these ladies do not have conscience and will do whatever it takes to rob a man into being child support.

His suicide will hang around her neck?

He held my daughter and her children at gun point for 3 hours before he shot himself - Francis Van-Lare speaks out..

While there was a custody battle my daughter (Suzzette Chibuogu Van-Lare) is involved in and I only became aware last Monday morning about 3 am Nigerian time that the deceased (Dr Ikenna Erinne) held her and her children at gun point for three hours after losing a custody battle, the nanny managed to escape and called the police and on arrival of the police he shot himself dead. I guess he decided to kiII himself instead of facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon 25 years to life each .

While I sympathize with his family for his death , my daughter is not responsible for him taking his own life and I thank God it did not degenarate to where he shoots my daughter , grand children and himself .

May his soul rest in peace . Everyone is loser here and it is traumatizing for all including me . No winners here - Francis Van-Lare

That is her father's account. The man held the family at gun point for 3 hours. He escalated the situation. If he had not killed himself it is likely he would have been shot by the police. In trumps America he would almost certainly be deported to Nigeria.

He will not be the first person whose estranged wife gets custody of the children

He was young, still had his life ahead of him and he had the resources to turn this issue around if he was in the right.

Hankim:
Fear women, they don’t look back when they start beating the crap out of you, very heartless set of beings, you will keep asking yourself if it’s not the same woman you fell in love with or na devil enter inside her 😆

You have the experience. That is why if I fall out with any lady na full out war ooh. Because they know no mercy.

GloriousGbola:
That is her father's account. The man held the family at gun point for 3 hours. He escalated the situation. If he had not killed himself it is likely he would have been shot by the police. In trumps America he would almost certainly be deported to Nigeria.

He will not be the first person whose estranged wife gets custody of the children

He was young, still had his life ahead of him and he had the resources to turn this issue around if he was in the right.

U REASON LIKE A GOAT ARE U SURE THAT U ARE A MAN?


SOMEBODY WANT TO REMOVE HIS KIDS OUT OF HIS LIFE, DRIVING HIM TO EXTREME AND U ARE TALKING RUBBISH.


WELL, IT IS FOOLISH PEOPLE LLIKE YOU ADVISING HER, AT THE END OF THE DAY, 1 CENT U WONT PROVIDE FOR THOSE CHILDREN.


SHE WILL SUFFER IT ALONE.

GloriousGbola:
That is her father's account. The man held the family at gun point for 3 hours. He escalated the situation. If he had not killed himself it is likely he would have been shot by the police. In trumps America he would almost certainly be deported to Nigeria.

He will not be the first person whose estranged wife gets custody of the children

He was young, still had his life ahead of him and he had the resources to turn this issue around if he was in the right.

That lady had it all planned. The guy was naive when he realised what has happened what he did was his best course of action. Let her deal with the horror and trauma for the rest of her life. Her life will never be the same

dettolgel:
That lady had it all planned. The guy was naive when he realised what has happened what he did was his best course of action. Let her deal with the horror and trauma for the rest of her life. Her life will never be the same

HE IS SPEAKING GRAMMAR

U KNOW EMOTIONAL DISCONNECT MAKES A PILOT CAPABLE TO DROP BOMB FROM FIGHTER JET IN THE CLOUDS.


HE DONT CARE.


UNTIL DEM FACE AM, DEAL WITH HIM AND REMOVE CHILDREN HE CARES DEEPLY ABOUT, THEN WE WILL SEE WAT HE DOES .

I wish you can tell me your wife's response to this, uno believing that she knows your reasons🤗

Decidetolive:
Too bad. Have made it clear to my wife that I can only take them to west for vacation but relocation ? Never

ON A NORMAL DAY IS IT NOT SIR/BOSS PHYSICIAN ASSISTANT THEY ANSWER CARDIOLOGIST?

legitnow1:
U REASON LIKE A GOAT ARE U SURE THAT U ARE A MAN?


SOMEBODY WANT TO REMOVE HIS KIDS OUT OF HIS LIFE, DRIVING HIM TO EXTREME AND U ARE TALKING RUBBISH.


WELL, IT IS FOOLISH PEOPLE LLIKE YOU ADVISING HER, AT THE END OF THE DAY, 1 CENT U WONT PROVIDE FOR THOSE CHILDREN.


SHE WILL SUFFER IT ALONE.

You better stay in Nigeria, because if you leave to a civilised country you will obviously run mad.

That doctors assistant as you call her is earning at least 120k usd per year. A fraction of what her late husband earned but enough for her to be comfortable. You are bent on the Nigerian narrative of a woman who is completely dependent on her husband to brush her teeth.