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thesicilian:
Billings should also wait till marriage.
Until after marriage, every outing, lunch dates etc should be split 50/50. Because the Bible says it is the duty of a man to provide for his wife, not girlfriend.

Yeye😂😂😂

Thank God I'm still a Virgin.

thesicilian:
Billings should also wait till marriage.
Until after marriage, every outing, lunch dates etc should be split 50/50. Because the Bible says it is the duty of a man to provide for his wife, not girlfriend.

flesh and blood did not reveal this

Harddiskng:
All i would say is sexual incompatibility is real

You can determine sexual compatibility without stripping naked.

Respect your body for once.

ukaface:
I want more enlightenment

What if after marriage you notice the man is a one minute man or he is even impotent ( can’t even stand for a second)?

You are supposed to know all these before commiting to the man in marriage.

If he kept his impotency a secret, every established Church will dissolve the marriage as it cannot be consummated.

You are safe.

Ibehchizzy:
2025 and y’all still sound stupid

Till you catch STI or your tapes leak.
Then you'll realise who was stupid all along.

The principle worked well when folks used to get married early.
A girl at 16 - 19 would be 'married off' then. (1personally and wholeheartedly detest child marriage)
Today we have grown/overdeveloped ladies of 25 to 34 yet to get married.
These ladies have blood flowing through their veins fulltime.

Boys at 19 to 21 would have been married
Today a boy at 23 wanting to get married would be considered too young and 'inexperienced' in life for such commitment
These guys, including unmarried chaps of 24 to 30yrs have blood flowing through their veins fulltime.

Sex before marriage is more of culture change/development than anything else.

I am so sorry for all the experiences you have had! There is so much a lady can offer asides her body or let me say there is so much I can offer asides my body! Lol!

thesicilian:

I don't expect you to cook for me , or wash my clothes if we're dating. I can take care of those by myself. If it's companionship, I prefer my guys for that. And we already know that most (over 90% ) of women don't contribute financially whether they have or not. So at the end of the day the only "benefit" of the relationship is sex. So if you're taking that off the table, of what use is the dating process? We could as well just continue getting to know each other on via phone calls and messages.

Agreed.

Billing men should also wait till marriage

MZright:
I am so sorry for all the experiences you have had! There is so much a lady can offer asides her body or let me say there is so much I can offer asides my body! Lol!

For example?

jesusjnr2020:
Sex Should Wait Till Marriage

Sex should wait till marriage because sex wasn't made for boyfriends and girlfriends but for husband and wives.

Genesis 2:24 (KJV)

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

God bless.

++++++++

Amen!

"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." - Hebrews 13:4

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
You are supposed to know all these before commiting to the man in marriage.

If he kept his impotency a secret, every established Church will dissolve the marriage as it cannot be consummated.

You are safe.

How will I know? What if he finds it unholy to talk about before marriage?
Is it in the bible to consummate such marriage?

hmmm....after marriage just dont come and disturb us with stories of, my husband cannot satisfy my urge, he cant go more than 2 minutes

ukaface:
How will I know? What if he finds it unholy to talk about before marriage?
Is it in the bible to consummate such marriage?

During courtship, you should discuss your entire medical history with your fiance, and he should do the same with you.
You both should run medical tests to ensure genetic compatibility, possibility of STDs, fertility etc.

To your question, how exactly can you consummate the marriage since the brother cannot get it up?

Dissolution is the prime option here.

thesicilian:
For example?

support in every area of life- spiritually, physically, mentally, and even financially.

Companionship
Respect
Intellect

Guys need to stop seeing ladies as object. Damn!

thesicilian:
Billings should also wait till marriage.
Until after marriage, every outing, lunch dates etc should be split 50/50. Because the Bible says it is the duty of a man to provide for his wife, not girlfriend.

True talk

MZright:
support in every area of life- spiritually, physically, mentally, and even financially.

Companionship
Respect
Intellect

Guys need to stop seeing ladies as object. Damn!

If this is true then you're doing well. Especially that spiritual aspect, very important.

You can't blame guys for seeing ladies as sex objects, when they the ladies are the ones who project themselves as such.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
During courtship, you should discuss your entire medical history with your fiance, and he should do the same with you.
You both should run medical tests to ensure genetic compatibility, possibility of STDs, fertility etc.

To your question, how exactly can you consummate the marriage since the brother cannot get it up?

Dissolution is the prime option here.

But dissolution based on impotence is not the biblical reason for a divorce

Adultery, right?

Paramount01:
Pls how old are you,be sincere

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That doesn't matter now. I am now a full-blown adult who allowed grace to control my urges while I was a tennegser, and even uptil now. It's a choice. The Bible is not a fallacy; it's real. Going to church isn't enough. Prayer without holy deeds is a waste of time. Some sing in the choir, do 'skabash', clean the church and pay tithes, but live a graceless life. Why are we then stressing ourselves?

ibtommy:
.➜That doesn't matter now. I am now a full-blown adult who allowed grace to control my urges while I was a tennegser, and even uptil now. It's a choice. The Bible is not a fallacy; it's real. Going to church isn't enough. Prayer without holy deeds is a waste of time. Some sing in the choir, do 'skabash', clean the church and pay tithes, but live a graceless life. Why are we then stressing ourselves?

Stop telling these bloody lies! Your Christian "prayerful holiness" life is no different from the life of a pagan who cares nothing for your Christian god and delusions. 🙄🙄🙄

Hugochamp:
➜This days it's the ladies that demand for it more. Because a brother may decide to remain chaste but this sisters will feel you are either not man enough or you don't love them enough or you're giving it to another. So op, the pressure is real.

Stop with the blame game! If you want to remain "chaste" then avoid all women who don't fit that bill. Simple! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

AngloLatinos:
➜Most relationship don't work because the intending couple has already lived the life of couples before marriage.

Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

All the ones wey marry as virgins only to eventually separate or divorce, what would you cast as the reason why their relationship failed? Let me guess, they lived the life of couples in their past life and as a result, their chasteness before marriage in this life was canceled out? Religion ehn don dabaru una ability to reason well. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ibtommy:
➜. We just need to encourage and pray for them. The grace of God if permitted into their lives, can turn their lives around. Okay.

Where is the grace of this god of yours in the lives of the millions of Christians whose marriages eventually failed even after many years of their trying to prop it up by the many mentions of his name?

GiftofGod77:
➜True but we need grace to overcome the weaknesses of the flesh and the kind of temptations evil surrounds all of us with. Its not enough to just wait, there must be discipleship and constant fellowship with the Holy Spirit from where we get strength to over come the flesh and all its traps....

You need grace but this grace fails you all most of the time so are you certain you need this grace at all and not self-discipline instead?

ibtommy:
➜Then your manhood will suffer in hell. We must live by what the Bible says, otherwise, it's pointless going to church, or personally praying to God.

How many manhoods do you know or can account for have suffered in this hell of yours? Let's start there!

Abbeytoy:
I agree with this 100%, and no one should marry a non-virgin.

Are you a virgin yourself? Or is it only a requirement when a woman is involved as is typical with your chauvinistic religion?

NSK4U:
➜It's because pregnancy is feared more than others, God will help everyone.

Which God? The same one that has yet to help the 10s of millions of Christians whose marriages eventually failed even after celebrating marrying as virgins?

Barcalee:
➜Until I got married properly my conscience used to disturb me when i do it

Nonsense tale! Your guilt is meaningless since you chose to do it every single time you did. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Hussein035:
➜If an Alfa quote the Quran now with the same similar translation some people who don't even know that Jesus is not a Christian and doesn't know about Christianity will start saying Islam is a terror. What is Christianity NOW

You think your alfa regurgitating similar delusions as that carried by the Christians implies he is justified in his own brand of stewpidity? Oi Vey! 🙄🙄🙄

Mrexcell:
Sex is actually not just an ordinary activity there's a spiritual exchange involved during the process and fornication not only delays ur destiny but also makes u wicked I realised this years ago.

Nonsense! Religion — Christianity included — and its obsession with sex particularly where it concerns the woman is unmatched. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

GreatAchiever1:
➜Then you guys will just have to find ways around it and just have to give to each other's bodies. Besides even if one can't engage in the act before marriage doesn't mean one can't talk about it especially how often it will be done when married. That way you would know if this person can be able to be sexually compatible and if No, then you would need to find out if you can compromise. If you can't do that, you can always break up amicably.

Sexual incompatibility issues can be spotted by two people merely talking about sex. Did you know that a good number of romance novel writers — mills and boons, etc., — are people who don't really care for physical sexual encounters at all? They prefer the mental experience and that is all.

Exceed15:
1 cor 10: 12 .. no make mouth too much o. It's by God's grace.

The grace of your Christian god that seems to fail almost 99.999% of the time given there exists no difference in divorce/separation/marriage failure rates between those in your churches and those who don't care for your god and his grace? 🙄🙄🙄