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2nd February 2025

Late US-based Nigerian cardiologist, Dr Ikenna Erinne

By Tosin Oyediran

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A US-based Nigerian cardiologist, Dr Ikenna Erinne, reportedly held his estranged partner and their children hostage at gunpoint for three hours before taking his own life when police arrived, his father-in-law, Francis Van-Lare, has alleged.

The tragic death of the 36-year-old cardiologist has sparked intense debate and widespread reactions from Nigerians both at home and abroad.

Initially believed to have taken his own life due to financial strain from a $15,000 monthly child support ruling, new revelations suggest that his final moments were far more disturbing.

Francis Van-Lare, the father of Erinne’s estranged partner, has alleged that before his suicide, the deceased doctor held his daughter and grandchildren hostage at gunpoint for three hours.

He ultimately turned the weapon on himself when police arrived.

Van-Lare, a socialite and public figure, made the claim on his official Facebook account on Sunday.

This was in response to an earlier post by Facebook user Amanda Chisom, who clarified that Erinne’s ex-partner was not a white woman, as widely speculated, but Van-Lare’s daughter.

Father-in-Law’s Allegation

In the Facebook comment addressing speculations surrounding his daughter’s involvement, Van-Lare provided chilling details of the incident.

He wrote, “While my daughter was involved in a custody battle, I only became aware around 3am Nigerian time last Monday that the deceased held her and her children at gunpoint for three hours after losing the case.

“The nanny managed to escape and called the police, and upon their arrival, he shot himself.”

He further revealed that Erinne was facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon, each carrying a sentence of 25 years to life in prison.

“I guess he decided to kill himself instead of facing the charges,” he added.

Despite the shocking nature of the incident, Van-Lare expressed sympathy for the late doctor’s family, clarifying that his daughter was not responsible for his decision to take his own life.

“While I sympathise with his family, my daughter is not to blame for his death. And I thank God it did not escalate to where he shot my daughter, grandchildren, and himself,” the father-in-law stated.

Concluding his statement, he acknowledged the deep trauma the situation has caused for all involved:

He concluded, “May his soul rest in peace. Everyone is a loser here. It is traumatising for all, including me. No winners here.”

“He Did Not Marry a White Woman”

Amid the tragedy, misinformation spread rapidly, with many Nigerians believing Erinne’s ex-partner was a white woman who had used the legal system against him.

However, Chisom debunked these claims, revealing that the mother of his children is actually an Igbo woman—the daughter of Francis Van-Lare.

She wrote, “Ikenna did not marry a white woman. He had children with an Igbo woman, Francis Van-Lare’s daughter. However, they were never married. He called off the wedding, largely due to family concerns.”

She described Erinne as a quiet and reserved man, noting that his personality may have contributed to how he handled his struggles.

“Ikenna was always too quiet for his own good. If you pushed him, he would simply walk away. He was unassuming and a true gift to his generation,” she continued.

Her revelation shifted the conversation, igniting fresh discussions on marriage, family structures, and mental health struggles among Nigerian men abroad.

Lessons on Marriage, Due Diligence

Chisom also used the tragedy to highlight the importance of evaluating a partner’s background before commitment.

She cautioned against making decisions based solely on emotions, emphasising the lasting impact of family values and upbringing.

Chisom further stated, “This tragedy serves as a harsh reminder of why it is essential to ask questions and do thorough background checks before marriage.

“It is not enough to be carried away by beauty, intelligence, or temporary affection. A person’s upbringing, family values, and personal history play a significant role in shaping their character.”

She further warned against marrying individuals from dysfunctional homes, arguing that unresolved trauma often affects their ability to sustain relationships.

“If possible, avoid marrying someone from a broken home. The foundation of a person’s family often influences their ability to build and sustain their own. If a home was built on chaos, unresolved trauma, or a lack of unity, chances are those patterns will repeat,” her post stated.

Her remarks sparked a fierce debate online, with some agreeing while others criticised her for shifting blame instead of addressing systemic flaws in custody laws and the pressures men face in divorce cases.

No Winners, Only Loss

What started as a legal custody battle has ended in an irreversible tragedy, leaving families broken and social media users divided over who is to blame.

For some, Erinne’s death serves as a painful reminder of the mental health struggles that many men, particularly those in the diaspora, silently endure.

For others, it reignites discussions about the fairness of family courts and the heavy financial burden placed on fathers in custody cases, PUNCH Online observed from the series of comments on all the posts.

Yet, as Van-Lare himself put it, no one truly wins in such a tragic situation.

As he prayed for the soul of the departed doctor, he concluded, “Everyone is a loser here… No winners.”

“May Dr Ikenna Erinne rest in peace.”

Tosin Oyediran

Tosin, with over six years' experience, conducts incisive interviews, pens engaging features, subedits and delivers impactful stories for the digital sphere.

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THAT FAMILY WILL NOT REMAINS THE SAME AGAIN

Nnamdipapa:
➜Francis Van-Lare, the father of Erinne’s estranged partner, has alleged that before his suicide, the deceased doctor held his daughter and grandchildren hostage at gunpoint for three hours. He ultimately turned the weapon on himself when police arrived.
Van-Lare, a socialite and public figure, made the claim on his official Facebook account on Sunday. This was in response to an earlier post by Facebook user Amanda Chisom, who clarified that Erinne’s ex-partner was not a white woman, as widely speculated, but Van-Lare’s daughter.

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My daughter not responsible for US-based Nigerian doctor’s death – Father

My daughter not responsible for US-based Nigerian doctor’s death – Father
A Nigerian businessman, Francis Van-Lare, has denied claims that his daughter, Suzette Chibuogu, was responsible for the tragic death of her ex-husband, Dr. Ikenna Erinne, a U.S.-based Nigerian cardiologist who reportedly took his own life.

Dr. Erinne, a 36-year-old medical professional from Anambra State, reportedly committed suicide on Sunday, January 26.


However, conflicting reports have emerged regarding the events leading up to his death.


Van-Lare stated that Dr. Erinne had gone to his daughter’s house on the day of the incident and held her, their children, and the nanny at gunpoint for three hours.

According to him, the situation escalated when the nanny managed to escape and alerted law enforcement authorities.

He alleged that when police arrived at the scene, Erinne, rather than face “three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon,” which carried a potential sentence of “25 years to life on each count,” chose to end his own life.

He wrote on his Facebook page, “While there was a custody battle my daughter is involved in and I only became aware last Monday morning about 3 am Nigerian time that the deceased held her and her children at gun point for three hours after losing a custody battle , the nanny managed to escape and called the police and on arrival of the police he shot himself dead . I guess he decided to kill himself instead of facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon 25 years to life each.


“While I sympathize with his family for his death , my daughter is not responsible for him taking his own life and I thank God it did not degenarate to where he shoots my daughter , grand children and himself .
May his soul rest in peace . Everyone is loser here and it is traumatizing for all including me. No winners here.”

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He further revealed that Erinne was facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon, each carrying a sentence of 25 years to life in prison.

“I guess he decided to kill himself instead of facing the charges,” he added.


Case Closed.

Morafvcker fvcked up!

He should have taken that fvckin woman along with him when he made up his mind.

Now, that pvssy is gonna be on another D before he makes it to the grave!

Be constructive with your final decisions. If you have to let go, let go of all….You fvckin have nothin to lose!

Shalom25:
He further revealed that Erinne was facing three counts of kidnapping with a deadly weapon, each carrying a sentence of 25 years to life in prison.

“I guess he decided to kill himself instead of facing the charges,” he added.


Case Closed.

I guess as much. This is what happens when we allow ourselves to be controlled by emotions as men. Why go to the extent of kidnapping your own family.
The Bible days " Ask and you shall receive"
You ask me for the kids, I give them to you and, within the week, I am cooling off in Nigeria with more pretty women on a sunset beach.

I do not even allow myself to get angry because of women.

Men out there your marriage or relationship may be sweet right now but I can tell you nothing is guaranteed in life, that woman who is heads over heels in love today can be on your jugular squeezing the very life out of you tomorrow.
Always have a plan B, and ask yourself, if this woman decides to divorce me tommorow, what are my options?

Study and be an expert in divorce laws of your countries. Learn to hide assets overseas and never have a joint account for your main source of income.

See finish is what leads to a lack of regard by your wife, never be in the position where you are fully known and your actions anticipated.

Do not be violent towards your spouse, it will always backfire, do not kidnap or threaten with a gun as things can quickly escalate.

When seriously angry, look for a bar to chill and have a drink, get a Vietnamese maseus to give a full body massage and a seperate hotel room to cool your anger.
Never resort into violence except you have a perfect alibi and able to get away with it.

Your witch daughter was not responsible for his death but in the process of the divorce, she made sure he lost his license to practice, lost all his saved up thousands of dollars and had restricted access to his own children. Maybe It would have been better if she helped him put the bullet through his head. Mtchew

I will never kill myself for a woman or marriage but if I ever get to that point, we are all going together.

They're all losers here. Man lost his life. The woman lost her source of child support. The children lost their father and a secured source for the future, and the community lost a specialist who could've provided invaluable service on health.

Day169:
They're all losers here. Man lost his life. The woman lost her source of child support. The children lost their father and a secured source for the future, and the community lost a specialist who could've provide invaluable service on health.

If there is property involved, she will sell and get equity. The man is the ultimate loser for throwing away all his education and achievements.

Wahala for who does not know when to count their losses and move on from a troubled relationship/marriage.

Before them turn you to a killer or get killed...better leave! Apparently, being well educated and accomplished does not guarantee common sense. He killed himself for what! Nonsense!

Now everyone go rest.
You have someone that earn such amount of money in the United States, rather than praying for him everyday for preservation of life, good health and peace of mind, na soo so torture.
If the court could ask him to pay that amount, then he was a treasure that should be cared for

Come collect money naaa...
At least for now he is resting in peace.
Let's see how the court will generate the $15,000 monthly payments for them?
Hope they will follow him to the morgue to ask for it. U go use ur hand invite wahala
You all knew he needed an active license to practice but you chose to frustrate him.
Now those kids will have an entirely different taste of life. It will never never be the same again. That I can assure.

APOPTOSIS:
Now everyone go rest.
You have someone that earn such amount of money in the United States, rather than praying for him everyday for preservation of life, good health and peace of mind, na soo so torture.

Come collect money naaa..
At least for now he is resting in peace.
Let's see how the court will generate the $15,000 monthly payments for them?
Hope they will follow him to the morgue to ask for it.
You all knew he needed an active license to practice but you chose to frustrate him.
Now those kids will have an entirely different taste of life. It will never never be the same again.

They never think of the consequences of their actions in advance. Now the lazy ass woman will have no choice than to look for a job like a real adult. No more free $15k.

Nnamdipapa:
They never think of the consequences of their actions in advance. Now the lazy ass woman will have no choice than to look for a job like a real adult. No more free $15k.

I live in the U.S.
...na now that woman suffer start.
Unlike Nigeria where men woo women randomly we avoid them like plagues here, not to talk of a woman with such a bad prognosis around here. How naaa?
Where she want see man with the baggage (Chidlren) and tag (widow) she carry now.
U can't win all battles.
Even me, I let some go...
See how dem destroy their ATM machine.
Everyone Lost here, big time.
I was saying exact thing to my friend here
You don't just let treasures slip away.
They are not easy to come by.

APOPTOSIS:
I live in the U.S.
...na now that woman suffer start.
Unlike Nigeria where men woo women randomly we avoid them like plagues here, not to talk of a woman with such a bad prognosis around here. How naaa?
Where she want see man with the baggage (Chidlren) and tag (widow) she carry now.
U can't win all battles.
Even me, I let some go...
See how dem destroy their ATM machine.
Everyone Lost here, big time.
I was saying exact thing to my friend here

IF you know how many people dey pray 4me you wouldn't understand.
Don't let treasures slip away from you.

I agree. Guy just fvuvk up by holding his family hostage and losing it. I have a businesses I can comfortably run from Nigeria, I will leave her in the US and run to Nigeria, file my annual returns with less than $5000 annual income from Nigeria hiding my worldwide income.
I will be alive and she gets nothing.

There won't be any income to garnish.

Nnamdipapa:
I agree. Guy just fvuvk up by holding his family hostage and losing it. I have a businesses I can comfortably run from Nigeria, I will leave her in the US and run to Nigeria, file my annual returns with less than $5000 annual income from Nigeria hiding my worldwide income.
I will be alive and she gets nothing.

There won't be any income to garnish.

Yeahhhh. Everyone is a Loser here.
He was frustrated to the point that he couldn't think again. He had options of returning home and making a life out of his decisions.
He is already trained and has got the experience. All he needed was to start up something and grow from there.
He's still very young. I guess he was an introvert who barely communicated or related with people. Kids go suffer ooooo. Woman will barely remarry. I trust U.S. Guys.
Once tagged, you are finished

Nonexisting1:
Your witch daughter was not responsible for his death but in the process of the divorce, she made sure he lost his license to practice, lost all his saved up thousands of dollars and had restricted access to his own children. Maybe It would have been better if she helped him put the bullet through his head. Mtchew

It’s incredibly difficult to lose your license to practice medicine in America if you didn’t do anything to warrant it.

Outside of their marriage issues, there has to be something he did to warrant the medical board taking his license. He’s not the only divorced doctor here. They don’t just take your license because you’re having issues with your wife.

As a matter of fact, one of my colleagues is divorcing her doctor husband and she has to pay him $450k in damages because of domestic violence she did to him.

What was the violence? She hit him when she walked in on him cheating with one of his nurses that works in his clinic.

I know you guys love an opportunity to rant about the misfortune of Nigerian men in the USA. You hardly see women making noise like this when they’re at fault. We usually take the L and walk away.

Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

APOPTOSIS:
I live in the U.S.
...na now that woman suffer start.
Unlike Nigeria where men woo women randomly we avoid them like plagues here, not to talk of a woman with such a bad prognosis around here. How naaa?
Where she want see man with the baggage (Chidlren) and tag (widow) she carry now.
U can't win all battles.
Even me, I let some go...
See how dem destroy their ATM machine.
Everyone Lost here, big time.
I was saying exact thing to my friend here
You don't just let treasures slip away.
They are not easy to come by.

cococandy:
Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

I don't think so. At most, she'll be another baby mama . What does she have to offer any man at this stage in her life with so many baggages?

cococandy:
Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

It's possible but chances are meagre and almost insignificant with such history and tags around her. She's already marked for avoidance.

cococandy:
It’s incredibly difficult to lose your license to practice medicine in America if you didn’t do anything to warrant it.

Outside of their marriage issues, there has to be something he did to warrant the medical board taking his license. He’s not the only divorced doctor here. They don’t just take your license because you’re having issues with your wife.

As a matter of fact, one of my colleagues is divorcing her doctor husband and she has to pay him $450k in damages because of domestic violence she did to him.

What was the violence? She hit him when she walked in on him cheating with one of his nurses that works in his clinic.

I know you guys love an opportunity to rant about the misfortune of Nigerian men in the USA. You hardly see women making noise like this when they’re at fault. We usually take the L and walk away.

the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife.

this is the latest from the Dad

i had said before that everything about this story is documented

in the end it is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son
he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient
he had restraining orders

Nnamdipapa:
I don't think so. At most, she'll be another baby mama . What does she have to offer any man at this stage in her life with so many baggages?

APOPTOSIS:
It's possible but chances are meagre and almost insignificant with such history and tags around her. She's already marked for avoidance.

You’d be surprised

Oh

Of course. Internet with their addiction of salt and pepper to issues.

I knew that $15k sounded sus. That’s footballer type of child support.

Average monthly child support in America is around $400.

Sounds like his family and people on his side are not good people. The two major lies already have set the tone

GloriousGbola:
the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife.

this is the latest from the Dad

i had said before that everything about this story is documented

in the end it is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son
he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient
he had restraining orders

GloriousGbola:
➜the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife. this is the latest from the Dad . i had said before that everything about this story is documented. in the end it is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son. he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient. he had restraining orders

He did that for just $1900 a month for his kids? He killed himself for just $1900 a month child support?

cococandy:
Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

Abi oo!

Kobojunkie:
He did that for just $1900 a month for his kids? He killed himself for just $1900 a month child support?

Crazy isn’t it?

I don’t make cardiologist money but I’d gladly pay $4000 a month for two kids because that’s what is needed for the other parent to even begin to break even. The parent who’s keeping the kids is often at a financial loss.

Can’t believe he did this for $2k. What a shame

Once the victim is a man. Women and the world will still blame him

Reverse the case, let the victim becomes a woman, the world will have sympathy.

cococandy:
➜Crazy isn’t it?
I don’t make cardiologist money but I’d gladly pay $4000 a month for two kids because that’s what is needed for the other parent to even begin to break even. The parent who’s keeping the kids is often at a financial loss. Can’t believe he did this for $2k. What a shame

Very sad and disturbing story.

cococandy:
Crazy isn’t it?

I don’t make cardiologist money but I’d gladly pay $4000 a month for two kids because that’s what is needed for the other parent to even begin to break even. The parent who’s keeping the kids is often at a financial loss.

Can’t believe he did this for $2k. What a shame

i was saying something about cultural differences

the man is coming from nigeria

where sexual violence and domestic violence against women will be defended
where most women are typically financially depended on their spouses
where women are often advised by their parents to bear with domestic violence
where you can refuse to provide for your children if you are separated from your wife

a lot of men get mentally broken when they transition from a society that is tilted 100% in favor of men to a society that tilts 70% in favor of women.

there was a video circulating a few months ago where a lawyer in pwc was throwing things at his wife. the matter just disappeared. that is the nigerian reality.

Francis Van-Lare whatever his faults appears to be a devoted dad and he can play this game. unfortunately the family and friends of the late doctor and the nigerian red pill army have tried to spin a particular narrative. when this is done it is the doctor whose reputation will be in the mud. na yankee. receipt dey boku . no need for hearsay

Honestly it’s not even 70% in favor of women here.

The stories where women seemed to get the upper hand often get pushed to the internet more to fit a narrative .

GloriousGbola:
i was saying something about cultural differences

the man is coming from nigeria

where sexual violence and domestic violence against women will be defended
where most women are typically financially depended on their spouses
where women are often advised by their parents to bear with domestic violence
where you can refuse to provide for your children if you are separated from your wife

a lot of men get mentally broken when they transition from a society that is tilted 100% in favor of men to a society that tilts 70% in favor of women.

there was a video circulating a few months ago where a lawyer in pwc was throwing things at his wife. the matter just disappeared. that is the nigerian reality.