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Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:40am On Feb 03, 2025
NEUDUDE:
As long as she's a virgin. I concur grin grin grin
So, you don't need to be a virgin yourself? undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:41am On Feb 03, 2025
Snowx:
➜I can never support sex before marriage..despite being involved..it's breeds infidelity after marriage especially those that had it with many partners
So, in your mind, those who marry as virgins don't equally cheat after marriage? 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:46am On Feb 03, 2025
papyjaypaul:
A girl with home training should not ask you for anything until you marry her. This was how it was in the past, if she came from a good home, they will tell her to return any gifts he gave her. He also came to her house, under supervision, she no de carry her leg go another man house. Men want to eat their cake and have it, then complain about expenses.
Only a hungry girl without father figure will bill you before marriage. It is an insult to her father to ask another man outside to take care of her needs without the dad's consent.
A girl with home training should not ask for anything but a boy can require that the girl take care of him—cook, clean and even wash his underwear — before the man can then decide whether she is worth it or not. 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣

Many of you folks —religious and traditional folks combined —are just sick in the head! 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:48am On Feb 03, 2025
Bibleteacher:
➜That is why Bible has to be preached normally 🤣 .
Normally? You mean the same normal that has created over 45,0000 different doctrines(denominations) all of them pretending to be according to what is written in the same book which they each directly contradict? 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:49am On Feb 03, 2025
Agunesinjaweola:
➜It baffled goodness why Adam and Eve choose not to wait for proper marriage before sex 🤔
What in the world is proper marriage? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by papyjaypaul: 12:57am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A girl with home training should not ask for anything but a boy can require that the girl take care of him—cook, clean and even wash his underwear — before the man can then decide whether she is worth it or not. 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣

Many of you folks —religious and traditional folks combined —are just sick in the head! 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂
You clearly don't understand traditional rites and culture so don't worry with my sickness.
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 12:58am On Feb 03, 2025
Hellisreal70:
➜Nothing like sexual Incompatibility if both of you are virgin, both of you are learners.
That is why a girl should remain a virgin until marriage,
➜if not she should go and look for the person that disvirgined her to marry.(Detronomy 22: 28-29)
So, a girl should remain a virgin but the boy should not? undecided

Does the boy also go look for the person that dis-virgined him to marry her too? or does this nonsense only apply as far as a girl? undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 1:01am On Feb 03, 2025
Hellisreal70:
Premarital sex is the only cause of marital sexual Incompatibility.
➜If both of you you are virgin, the private parts will not be too short/long, too wide/deep, too fat/tiny, etc. That is why a girl needs to be a virgin until marriage because the evidence will be glaring
For real? This claim of yours directly defines reality much the same as every other claim made by you religious folks seems to. undecided

2. WOW... this is a very simple-minded statement that announces your ignorance. Religion/tradition has really done a lot of damage to your mind. Immediately get help! undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 1:02am On Feb 03, 2025
MrIcredible:
➜ Teaching that to your sisters and daughters. How would you like to walk your daughters down the aisle? As a virgin or a Whørēs?
So you will monitor her vagina to be sure you walk her down the aisle a virgin abi? huh
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 1:09am On Feb 03, 2025
papyjaypaul:
➜You clearly don't understand traditional rites and culture so don't worry with my sickness.
Of course I expected you to raise the chauvinistic standard of your religion(tradition) as justification for this nonsense. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is only when it is in your particular interest that you lot can be expected to reason outside of the box that is that delusion. grin
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 1:19am On Feb 03, 2025
EndBuhariNow:
According to bible marriage should be for young virtuous virgin maiden... Now even olosho dey give conditions for marriage
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 2:28am On Feb 03, 2025
janeedema:
➜ Don’t mind their analyisis. People forming that they are wiser than the Person who created sex and prescribed that it should be in marriage. Most of the issues we have in relationahips today stem from disobeying God’s instruction to abstain before marriage.
➜A couple who knows nothing about sex have nothing to worry about 2 minutes man or sexual compatibility.
➜They accept themselves the way they are and learn the process. The way some people prioritise sex these days is just appalling. Ladies in the olden days married as virgins and God helps you if the bed sheet you consummate your marriage on doesn't come out with blood stains This way, ladies stayed chaste and marriages were fine. No issue of sexual compatibility or 1-mimute man. Today with all the advocacy of sexual compatibility and testing the product before marriage, more marriages are in disarray. We can't be wiser than the manufacturer.
Where do you get your own statistics from? From the mouths of your scammers-in-the-lords, many of whose marriages represent the very picture of failed marriages? undecided

2. Wait a second! Is this a ploy to disregard the fact that the majority of those who decide to wait until marriage to have sex do so believing that somehow marriage will resolve all of their sexual frustrations, built up over the years? And the vast majority of them, it seems, end up disappointed in the end. As it turns out infidelity also occurs among those who remained chaste until after marriage. undecided

3. Stop lying! Infidelity also occurs in many such marriages. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by GiftofGod77(m): 5:14am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You need grace but this grace fails you all most of the time so are you certain you need this grace at all and not self-discipline instead? grin
hahaha the Grace does not fail it's only us who refuse it and decide to fall for the temptations. No man on their own can use self discipline. There is one of my neighbors who told us while we were chatting that anytime his konji rises he will carry candle or lighter and burn it! So I asked him if has he stopped sinning completely and become a saint. he could not answer me. So we still need the grace always boss... grin
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 5:23am On Feb 03, 2025
GiftofGod77:
➜hahaha the Grace does not fail it's only us who refuse it and decide to fall for the temptations. ➜No man on their own can use self discipline.
➜ There is one of my neighbors who told us while we were chatting that anytime his konji rises he will carry candle or lighter and burn it! So I asked him if has he stopped sinning completely and become a saint. he could not answer me.
➜So we still need the grace always boss... grin
What you are saying is that so long as you can choose to fall for temptation then the grace is useless, doesn't that then mean that mentioning this grace thing altogether is of no meaning? undecided

2. Millions of Buddhists use basic self-discipline to keep themselves from temptation of the same kind but you reject this because you need it to instead seem no man can use it?

3. This story of yours no enter at all. The man lacked self-discipline and resorted to what seemed more like a masochistic approach there. Buddhists and others with self-discipline do not need to go to such extreme measures since they understand that the problem comes from the mind and not the body/literal flesh. undecided

4. Your grace thing cannot help you if you are not willing to choose temptation yet a majority of you cannot claim to have been helped by this grace — you all claim to be sinners aka those who fall often to temptation. So, what is the essence of this grace you claim again? 😂😂😂😂😂
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by GiftofGod77(m): 5:30am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
What you are saying is that so long as you can choose to fall for temptation then the grace is useless, doesn't that then mean that mentioning this grace thing altogether is of no meaning? undecided

2. Millions of Buddhists use basic self-discipline to keep themselves from temptation of the same kind but you reject this because you need it to instead seem no man can use it?

3. This story of yours no enter at all. The man lacked self-discipline and resorted to what seemed more like a masochistic approach there. Buddhists and others with self-discipline do not need to go to such extreme measures since they understand that the problem comes from the mind and not the body/literal flesh. undecided

4. Your grace thing cannot help you if you are not willing to choose temptation yet a majority of you cannot claim to have been helped by this grace — you all claim to be sinners aka those who fall often to temptation. So, what is the essence of this grace you claim again? 😂😂😂😂😂
Well its not useless at all because there are many who rely on it and it works perfectly well. Why i mentioned that my neighbour's experience is because it highlight's the will and choice we have to make in life which we will be held accountable by the One who made us one day. It is a mind thing true but the mind has to make a choice based on the kind of information it has. Even the Buddhist's too fall despite their celibacy because it is a human weakness to want to fall into sexual sin. However there is enough power to overcome in the Grace provided by God. It has happened to me several years ago. I agree with you that the young man who would hurt himself to curtail his body was engaging in sadistic sadomachism albeit unknowingly but the Grace is still there. It works for those who believe in it and obey it.
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by GiftofGod77(m): 5:40am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you a virgin yourself? Or is it only a requirement when a woman is involved as is typical with your chauvinistic religion? undecided
Christianity is not chauvinistic at all. It seems like that because of wrong perception. But believe me it's not if not I would not be engaged actively and stake my life and family in it. It shows us the True nature of where we come from, where we are and where we are going. It guides and shows us our true Source and Way we all need to follow. All other paths are not like this one.
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by GiftofGod77(m): 5:44am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
A girl with home training should not ask for anything but a boy can require that the girl take care of him—cook, clean and even wash his underwear — before the man can then decide whether she is worth it or not. 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣

Many of you folks —religious and traditional folks combined —are just sick in the head! 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂
Its not true @ kobojunkie...come on now... you know it's not true. While we are religious but some of us are spiritual and religious. It's why we are in this for life and eternity. The Wisdom, philosophy and logic God gives even through His Son Jesus Christ can never be contested and like i said earlier it gives light, life and direction. Check it out ... smiley
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Abbeytoy(m): 6:23am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you a virgin yourself? Or is it only a requirement when a woman is involved as is typical with your chauvinistic religion? undecided
I got married as a Virgin to a virgin about 20 years ago and that was the standard I believe is normal.

But let me ask you, are you hoe? Why do you feel attacked when I mention Virgin?
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by travelzcruix: 6:45am On Feb 03, 2025
For Nigeria? Yesterday I told a girl yesterday that romantic love is dead. People be with people who fulfil a particular need.
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by NSK4U(m): 6:53am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Which God? The same one that has yet to help the 10s of millions of Christians whose marriages eventually failed even after celebrating marrying as virgins? grin
Trust me, God's ways are not like man's...... celebrating virginity is not a reason to attract God's blessings......God gives His blessings to whom He's pleased with
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by jonadaft: 8:48am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So you will monitor her vagina to be sure you walk her down the aisle a virgin abi? huh
Or deh , asking senseless question.
It's a simple question ho ponu
How will you like to walk your daughters down the aisle?
As a virgin or as a whoré that has been passed around by multiple guys in the name of relationships and having experience.
How is that difficult to understand or answer.
Except for wasted ho loriburukus
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Hellisreal70: 8:55am On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
For real? This claim of yours directly defines reality much the same as every other claim made by you religious folks seems to. undecided

2. WOW... this is a very simple-minded statement that announces your ignorance. Religion/tradition has really done a lot of damage to your mind. Immediately get help! undecided
If you are not a virgin does not negates the fact that virginity until marriage is the best health wise, religiously, also for marital bliss.



Anyone that wants the alarm bell of kobojunkie to flare up should just mention 'female virginity until marriage '
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Hellisreal70: 9:14am On Feb 03, 2025
I don't support sexual immorality for both boys and girls. I support virginity until marriage.
What iam saying is that the result is physically glaring for the girls and also damaging to their private parts at the same time. But in case of the boys even a female prostitute can hardly detect




Kobojunkie:
So, a girl should remain a virgin but the boy should not? undecided

Does the boy also go look for the person that dis-virgined him to marry her too? or does this nonsense only apply as far as a girl? undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by NEUDUDE: 1:58pm On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
So, you don't need to be a virgin yourself? undecided
Exactly not necessarily grin
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 2:59pm On Feb 03, 2025
Abbeytoy:
✓ I got married as a Virgin to a virgin about 20 years ago and that was the standard I believe is normal.
✓ But let me ask you, are you hoe? Why do you feel attacked when I mention Virgin?
As far as I can remember, Virginity was not even a standard anymore even in the 1980s Nigeria. So, where in the world is this standard you quote of value? In your mind? undecided

From where I sit, it does not matter whether a one married as a virgin or a hoe since infidelity and life's suffering happens to all of them the same. So, these petty preferences mean absolutely nothing at the end of the day. That is what life teaches us all. Of course, those of you who choose denial out of fear either dig yourselves deeper or you finally accept reality as it presents itself eventually.😁
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Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by EndBuhariNow(m): 3:49pm On Feb 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
na me tear your toto ?
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 4:18pm On Feb 03, 2025
EndBuhariNow:
na me tear your toto ?
That there is the beginning and end as far as your religion.🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 4:19pm On Feb 03, 2025
Hellisreal70:
➜I don't support sexual immorality for both boys and girls. I support virginity until marriage.
What iam saying is that the result is physically glaring for the girls and also damaging to their private parts at the same time. But in case of the boys even a female prostitute can hardly detect
This talk about religion/tradition for you lot begins and ends with your perverse delusions regarding the female and her vagina, isn't it? 🙄🙄
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 4:21pm On Feb 03, 2025
Jonathan:
➜ Or deh , asking senseless question. It's a simple question ho ponu. How will you like to walk your daughters down the aisle? As a virgin or as a whoré that has been passed around by multiple guys in the name of relationships and having experience. How is that difficult to understand or answer. Except for wasted ho loriburukus
No be monitor you go monitor her vagina to conclude in the end whether you walked her down the aisle as a virgin or not? What is senseless in asking you of that since your particular pride is in asserting yourself as a monitor over your daughter's vagina and its use or lack thereof? undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 4:22pm On Feb 03, 2025
NSK4U:
➜Trust me, God's ways are not like man's...... celebrating virginity is not a reason to attract God's blessings......God gives His blessings to whom He's pleased with
Which God? A god obsessed with the vagina of the female portion of his creation? 🙄🙄🙄

Come on! We all know the gods here are merely men and their perverse obsession with the female vagina. Let's start being honest. From the beginning of time, no God or deity has ever been seen striking or killing a woman for not being a virgin. Instead, it has been men, most of them equally obsessed with that hole, who have placed themselves as judges and executioners over women particularly those of them who do not submit their legs to them. That is what this religious/traditional obsession with a woman's hole is all about. undecided
Re: Sex Should Wait Till Marriage (Photo) by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Feb 03, 2025
Hellisreal70:
➜If you are not a virgin does not negates the fact that virginity until marriage is the best health wise, religiously, also for marital bliss. Anyone that wants the alarm bell of .... to flare up should just mention 'female virginity until marriage '
See diversionary tactic abeg! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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