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EmperorCaesar:


See Man's insensitivity to another man's plight/death


Dr. Ikenna married to the worst family in the world.

I just wonder how the friends couldnt rally round and help him get stable mentally at his darkest moment

Philosopher Seneca said "Death is the wish of some, the relief of many, and the end of all. It sets the slave at liberty, carries the banished man home, and places all mortals on the same level, insomuch that life itself were a punishment without it"

iammarvellux:
Its sad this is coming from an in-law, imagine this statement, like are they waiting for the young man to do the unthinkable before he finally started saying his family can take care of the children left behind. So they can also take care of the children and have left all the weights for the man to bear, as he walked his darkest moments alone and later took his life.

The in-law is clearly showing The hatred they had for him all along. It shows in his statements. Then why coming to the public to clear which air. Too bad.

tutudesz:
Entitlement? Have you consider the medical condition of the child Medication bills, feeding What of if the mom is unable to work due to the child condition don't forget that a 2nd child is there too.
Welfare support will be made available to her.

Mynd44:
I think he deserves to be insensitive considering that the Dr. Ikenna held his ex-wife, nanny and his own children at gun point. He shot himself when police showed up

FameGlory:
Why am I not surprised?

See the kind of Father-in-law the poor man went to have.

He went to marry from a Philandering Family.

A shameless Father-in-law with a long list of his sexual escapades all over the internet.

Ladies be very careful the type of family you marry from.

Golan007:
The reason is not understandable.

It is a huge weight that rests on the shoulders of the "breadwinner", from a position of entitlement and inconsideration.

Now that he's gone, I'm sure the parties that thought it reasonable can produce the same output.

EmperorCaesar:


See Man's insensitivity to another man's plight/death


Dr. Ikenna married to the worst family in the world.

I just wonder how the friends couldnt rally round and help him get stable mentally at his darkest moment

Philosopher Seneca said "Death is the wish of some, the relief of many, and the end of all. It sets the slave at liberty, carries the banished man home, and places all mortals on the same level, insomuch that life itself were a punishment without it"

billyG:
A viper cannot give birth to an earthworm...this man is so wicked where is he all this while that he cannot settle d couple?this life it is not good to envy others...many would have envied their high society weeding,their wealth & comfort in obodo oyinbo.....a living goat is better than a dead lion.

NothingDoMe:
The father-in-law is very stupid for making such insensitive comments.

You did not know that the doctor was mentally unstable when you dragged him to court for monthly $15k.

Useless man.

abbey621:
If he was truly a danger to his kids there would be a restraining order against him and criminal proceedings!

maasoap:
You don't know how these exes with the legal system on their side usually make the life of their partners a hell. She would never reason with him. Would they even involve the court if it was possible for them to agree between themselves?

zero8zero:
https://www.gistreel.com/late-dr-ikennas-father-in-law-reveals-reason-for-15k-child-support/

https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/dr-ikenna-erinne-thank-god-he-didnt-sh00t-my-daughter-and-grandchildren-in-his-m-at-dness-francis-van-lare-says-as-he-defends-hefty-child-support-payment.html

maasoap:
Were all that not being taken care of before the separation? May be the wife was contributing too when they were together but the judgement placed every penny on him after the separation plus extra payment too which was likely to be the case here.

thesicilian:
Now that the young man is dead, will the wife not still take care of that medically challenged child and the others?

The husband is a medical doctor who's well aware of what it costs to take care of his children monthly. Would he have gone berserk if he felt the $15,000 was justified?

maasoap:
You are don't think? Probably you don't know that he could literally slaving for that amount monthly for the rest of his life.

zero8zero:
https://www.gistreel.com/late-dr-ikennas-father-in-law-reveals-reason-for-15k-child-support/


Francis Van-Lare, the father-in-law of the late US-based Nigerian doctor, Dr. Ikenna Erinne, has shed light on the reason for the hefty child support.

In a Facebook post, Van-Lare dismissed allegations against his late son-in-law while clarifying the reasons behind the $15,000 child support order imposed on him.


This came amid the backlash trailing the Van-Lare family, suggesting that the hefty child support triggered the reaction which led to the doctor’s suicide.

“To set records straight, Dr. Ikenna Erinne’s license was never revoked. He had active licenses in Illinois, New York, Virginia, and Maryland. One state cannot revoke all licenses at once, and none were revoked,” Van-Lare stated.

Addressing the hefty child support payment, he explained that the sum was determined due to the special care required for Erinne’s physically challenged son.

“The child support was set that much because he has a physically challenged son needing special care from different medical facilities, plus attending a special needs school that costs money. Courts consider the income of both parents before making decisions,” he added.

Van-Lare expressed his disappointment over Erinne’s actions, stating, “He is not a victim but failed his son and daughter, who are now left without their father. I just thank God he did not shoot my daughter and grandchildren in his madness.”

Questioning the rationale behind taking one’s own life over financial obligations, he added, “Which sane person takes his own life over money he is supposed to use to support his children? He was asked to pay child support, not alimony or spousal support, as my daughter is self-sufficient.”

Despite his critical remarks, Van-Lare extended his condolences. “May his soul rest in peace regardless. My family will raise the children without him.”
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/dr-ikenna-erinne-thank-god-he-didnt-sh00t-my-daughter-and-grandchildren-in-his-m-at-dness-francis-van-lare-says-as-he-defends-hefty-child-support-payment.html

zero8zero:
https://www.gistreel.com/late-dr-ikennas-father-in-law-reveals-reason-for-15k-child-support/

https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/dr-ikenna-erinne-thank-god-he-didnt-sh00t-my-daughter-and-grandchildren-in-his-m-at-dness-francis-van-lare-says-as-he-defends-hefty-child-support-payment.html

zero8zero:
https://www.gistreel.com/late-dr-ikennas-father-in-law-reveals-reason-for-15k-child-support/

https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/dr-ikenna-erinne-thank-god-he-didnt-sh00t-my-daughter-and-grandchildren-in-his-m-at-dness-francis-van-lare-says-as-he-defends-hefty-child-support-payment.html

zero8zero:
https://www.gistreel.com/late-dr-ikennas-father-in-law-reveals-reason-for-15k-child-support/

https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/dr-ikenna-erinne-thank-god-he-didnt-sh00t-my-daughter-and-grandchildren-in-his-m-at-dness-francis-van-lare-says-as-he-defends-hefty-child-support-payment.html

tutudesz:
Entitlement? Have you consider the medical condition of the child Medication bills, feeding What of if the mom is unable to work due to the child condition don't forget that a 2nd child is there too.
Welfare support will be made available to her.

tutudesz:
The reason given is understandable, but I believe both him and his ex wife could've come to an agreeable amount.