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You are only nationality of men that lie about your fucking traditions in the entire world and scream mandatory and they must be respected yet ignore the reasons you started doing them, ignore what they originally for and don't offer what they are for in all tribe origins

You don't deserve your traditions respected if you don't actually respect themselves and uphold what they are for

And not one of you will tell me I'm wrong because you can't do it

You don't want your traditions respected, you want domination, you want worship, you want praise for raising your own children and doing your fucking duty as men

Fenrir:
You are only nationality of men that lie about your fucking traditions in the entire world and scream mandatory and they must be respected yet ignore the reasons you started doing them, ignore what they originally for and don't offer what they are for in all tribe origins

You don't deserve your traditions respected if you don't actually respect themselves and uphold what they are for

And not one of you will tell me I'm wrong because you can't do it

You don't want your traditions respected, you want domination, you want worship, you want praise for raising your own children and doing your fucking duty as men

Fellas I live in your fucking country, how many of you when you get divorced just abandon your ex, don't pay child support or maintenance or see the kids yet when your daughters get married You come crawling back for the bride price and for your egos stroke for the tingly feeling in your tiny todgers

As fathers you don't even make effort with your daughters just doing the bare fucking minimum

The second I learned I was having a daughter I immediately went out learned braid hair as a bonding thing with her, we all know little mixed race girls obsessed with braids

FYI Fellas not that hard, same process as making rope in survival situations, just more effort and elaborate

That bloke yesterday that said my adorable wife was an abomination of your African has seriously pissed me off

So explain to me how you men deserve to be worshipped at a wedding and how you value your traditions when you don't offer what they originally for

What law yours say they were for in your constitution under consummation sex after the wedding

As it clearly says what traditional weddings are for And the only time they should be done making the abomination you call your traditional weddings today a complete fucking lie because you have no control over your daughters bodies like no man should and are not traditional weddings at all anymore they are cherry picked, I want this part but refused to acknowledge that just big shows to look like big

All African countries on earth that have traditional wedding don't demand respect for a virginity traditional which all Nigerian traditions were for if a daughter is not a virgin

All other African cultures remove shit about virginity if the daughter is not one as they actually fucking respect their traditions

All other countries on Earth that still practice traditions

Acknowledge why those traditions started the actual origins
They practice the origins
They offer what the traditions are for in the origins

You men ignore it all, scream I want it so do it and it's all bullshit

Even the father of a runs girl will expect prostration if she quits or finds a mug and lies to him

Hmmmmm

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmmm

Can't say I'm wrong though, can you ma'am?

Someone would point out how I'm wrong if I was

I've been all over the world and no country on earth treats traditions the way you do and shouts you respect them but doesn't offer what their origins are for And you cherry pick not value and not respect them

Fenrir:
Can't say I'm wrong though, can you ma'am?

It seems like the thread you opened yesterday, asking for guys to come over and bang your wife has been deleted.

Let me ask you this question, does your wife really want to be fuc..k.ed by several guys?

Has your wife ever been fuc.ked by several guys before getting married to you ,

Or is it a fetish desire on her path to please you sexually

And if your wife is eventually fuc.ked by several guys, don't you think, she might develop interest in any of the guys that fu.cks her better than you and abandons you?

Just thinking out loud 😅

AngelicBeing:
It seems like the thread you opened yesterday, asking for guys to come over and bang your wife has been deleted.

Let me ask you this question, does your wife really want to be fuc..k.ed by several guys?

Has your wife ever been fuc.ked by several guys before getting married to you ,

Or is it a fetish desire on her path to please you sexually

And if your wife is eventually fuc.ked by several guys, don't you think, she might develop interest in any of the guys that fu.cks her better than you and abandons you?

Just thinking out loud 😅

Oh darling do think a secure man will take that bait? You circumcise dicks In Nigeria

We tattoo them 😊 doesn't that give you on the size difference? What Nigerian man is confident enough to whip it out in a tattoo parlour

The truth is she had 1 man before me and that man beat the shit out of her in my country so beat the crap out of him in return, from that day we were just a couple

I asked her to do something for me to experiment and she was delighted

She had accepted that she had to be faithful like a good African woman and we were both honest that's

I have no fear or worries about this, that woman is mine through and through

And this is only for 3 three years until my daughter has learned the yoruba crap and bullshit because it's not my right to steal 50% of her heritage from her no matter how much yoruba men disgust me and then we go back to Norway or maybe Sweden

Fenrir:
Oh darling do think a secure man will take that bait? You circumcise dicks In Nigeria

We tattoo them 😊 doesn't that give you on the size difference? What Nigerian man is confident enough to whip it out in a tattoo parlour

The truth is she had 1 man before me and that man beat the shit out of her in my country so beat the crap out of him in return, from that day we were just a couple

I asked her to do something for me to experiment and she was delighted

She had accepted that she had to be faithful like a good African woman and we were both honest that's

I have no fear or worries about this, that woman is mine through and through

And this is only for 3 three years until my daughter has learned the yoruba crap and bullshit because it's not my right to steal 50% of her heritage from her no matter how much yoruba men disgust me and then we go back to Norway or maybe Sweden

Ok, thanks for your response

AngelicBeing:
Ok, thanks for your response

You're welcome min kjaere

Fenrir:
Your welcome min kjaere

Hahaha, you seem to be an easy going , fun loving guy though, and you also seem to be a family oriented person

You mentioned that you have a daughter in your last post, is your daughter from your late wife or your current wife?

Secondly, from your last post, it seems like you met your current wife in the Scandinavian territory and prior to her meeting you, she dated someone else before, and then she met you, and you brought her to Nigeria to marry her traditionally but in the process, you got pissed off with shenanigans of her family, who tried to suck your finances


Kindly correct me if the above information above is correct, thanks

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, you seem to be an easy going , fun loving guy though, and you also seem to be a family oriented person

You mentioned that you have a daughter in your last post, is your daughter from your late wife or your current wife?

Secondly, from your last post, it seems like you met your current wife in the Scandinavian territory and prior to her meeting you, she dated someone else before, and then she met you, and you brought her to Nigeria to marry her traditionally but in the process, you got pissed off with shenanigans of her family, who tried to suck your finances


Kindly correct me if the above information above is correct, thanks

From my first yoruba wife
And I have no problem with the bride price I think that should be legally mandatory worldwide it's wonderful idea but should be drastically changed

More expensive, a man should have to prove he can provide for marriage not do bullshit traditions that mean nothing

Igbo have it right fucking monetise traditions if a man truly doesn't want to do them

It's respectful to both sides
He doesn't have to suffer humiliation and you get compensated over something you're willing to lie about

And no I didn't prostrate to marry her
I sent 15 million naira to her mothers family as a bride price because Bleep her dad and just took her
She died of cancer shortly after our girl was born
This wonderful woman now is igbo and a much more reasonable people however the igbo in imo have the same lying attitude as yoruba so no people are 100% perfect

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, you seem to be an easy going , fun loving guy though, and you also seem to be a family oriented person

You mentioned that you have a daughter in your last post, is your daughter from your late wife or your current wife?

Secondly, from your last post, it seems like you met your current wife in the Scandinavian territory and prior to her meeting you, she dated someone else before, and then she met you, and you brought her to Nigeria to marry her traditionally but in the process, you got pissed off with shenanigans of her family, who tried to suck your finances


Kindly correct me if the above information above is correct, thanks

Lady it was a Nigerian man that was abusing her in my country

Fenrir:
Lady it was a Nigerian man that was abusing her in my country

Oh l got you, thanks

Fenrir:
From my first yoruba wife
And I have no problem with the bride price I think that should be legally mandatory worldwide it's wonderful idea but should be drastically changed

More expensive, a man should have to prove he can provide for marriage not do bullshit traditions that mean nothing

Igbo have it right fucking monetise traditions if a man truly doesn't want to do them

It's respectful to both sides
He doesn't have to suffer humiliation and you get compensated over something you're willing to lie about

And no I didn't prostrate to marry her
I sent 15 million naira to her mothers family as a bride price because Bleep her dad and just took her
She died of cancer shortly after our girl was born
This wonderful woman now is igbo and a much more reasonable people however the igbo in imo have the same lying attitude as yoruba so no people are 100% perfect

WOW 😳, 15 million Naira, Bride price, Huh, thanks for your detailed explanation

Lady the bride price is the traditional wedding as simple as that

Everything else is optional so it's just sheer greed for a woman's family to demand or expect anything else in a wedding

So stop being greedy and a make choice
The humiliating shit and a man being a dancing monkey for a family to marry

Or a bride price

Neither are legal so a couple can just say Bleep you and just do neither

And you can get married a 4th way here because I've done it

Traditional
Court
White
Personalised

As long as court official attends for the legal bit and it's done between certain hours then you can get married in any kind of ceremony you want

AngelicBeing:
WOW 😳, 15 million Naira, Bride price, Huh, thanks for your detailed explanation

I'm Scandinavian but my income is pounds and naira is monopoly money

15 million is a lot to you nothing to us

Just an estimate

£5,000 is like 70,000 nok and around 9,500,000 naira

Fenrir:
From my first yoruba wife
And I have no problem with the bride price I think that should be legally mandatory worldwide it's wonderful idea but should be drastically changed

More expensive, a man should have to prove he can provide for marriage not do bullshit traditions that mean nothing

Igbo have it right fucking monetise traditions if a man truly doesn't want to do them

It's respectful to both sides
He doesn't have to suffer humiliation and you get compensated over something you're willing to lie about

And no I didn't prostrate to marry her
I sent 15 million naira to her mothers family as a bride price because Bleep her dad and just took her
She died of cancer shortly after our girl was born
This wonderful woman now is igbo and a much more reasonable people however the igbo in imo have the same lying attitude as yoruba so no people are 100% perfect

15 million for bride price.🤣🤣

You are being exploited

Fenrir:
I'm Scandinavian but my income is pounds and naira is monopoly money

15 million is a lot to you nothing to us

Just an estimate

£5,000 is like 70,000 nok and around 9,500,000 naira

You are actually dumb.

Imagine being scammed for a bride price and you are proud of it

Fenrir:
Lady it was a Nigerian man that was abusing her in my country

Can tell us a short story of how she got to your country?

Fenrir:
Oh darling do think a secure man will take that bait? You circumcise dicks In Nigeria

We tattoo them 😊 doesn't that give you on the size difference? What Nigerian man is confident enough to whip it out in a tattoo parlour

The truth is she had 1 man before me and that man beat the shit out of her in my country so beat the crap out of him in return, from that day we were just a couple

I asked her to do something for me to experiment and she was delighted

She had accepted that she had to be faithful like a good African woman and we were both honest that's

I have no fear or worries about this, that woman is mine through and through

And this is only for 3 three years until my daughter has learned the yoruba crap and bullshit because it's not my right to steal 50% of her heritage from her no matter how much yoruba men disgust me and then we go back to Norway or maybe Sweden

Imagine calling our culture crap..that is not cool at all

But I do have my thoughts about you.

I believe you are a Nigerian

motymop:
You are actually dumb.

Imagine being scammed for a bride price and you are proud of it

Not scammed
My first wife didn't want me to pay at all because her father was an abusive asshole

So for no issues later I researched it behind her back
There is no law on which side it goes to because there is no law saying you have pay one

And I actually respect women not Nigerian men and sent a letter to her grandmother explaining the issue and just told her I'm sending this so please distribute it how you see fit

motymop:
Imagine calling our culture crap..that is not cool at all

But I do have my thoughts about you.

I believe you are a Nigerian

Bleep you, that's biggest insult ever, my race is superior to all Nigerian men, not all men and not all African men but definitely all Nigerian

And Bleep yoruba culture it's not a culture anymore it's a fucking lie

Any one that believes love and marriage come with the condition of a man getting on his stomach and begging deserves to die alone

If your man's opinion on the wedding he's paying for means less then your fathers ego then marry your fucking father you inbred cock sucker

Fenrir:
Not scammed
My first wife didn't want me to pay at all because her father was an abusive asshole

So for issues later I researched it behind her back
There is no law on which side it goes to because there is no law saying you have pay one

And I actually respect women not Nigerian men and sent a letter to her grandmother explaining the issue and just told her I'm sending this so please distribute it how you see fit

It is tradition to pay a bride price to the family.

Fyi, dowry practices are largely governed by cultural norms rather than legal requirements. However, it's important to note that the legal system recognizes marriage based on civil, customary, or religious laws.

If the father wasn't alive or a dead beat, the bride price will be paid to a respected family member from the father side. Since they are giving their daughter to you.

You don't respect African culture, I feel like you are an hypocrite, you want us to respect your culture but you are not respecting ours.

For instance, if you really respect our culture, you would have gone to see the family member and obey their marriage rites, rather than sending 15m naira to the family.

The reality is this, no respected family will accept that money if you are not going to do the rites.

The rites is everything not the money.

Personally, I don't trust people like you who think money can buy their way, I will be so wary to give a family member out to you for marriage

Fenrir:
Bleep you, that's biggest insult ever, my race is superior to all Nigerian men, not all men and not all African men but definitely all Nigerian

And Bleep yoruba culture it's not a culture anymore it's a fucking lie

Any one that believes love and marriage come with the condition of a man getting on his stomach and begging deserves to die alone

If your man's opinion on the wedding he's paying for means less then your fathers ego then marry your fucking father you inbred cock sucker

when you marry from a poor home, you become the meal.

Your culture isn't superior to mine and your culture is underneath me.

You don't respect our culture how then will you respect your woman, I pity for her

This is a message to those who don't respect people's culture.

Another truth is this, you have no access to high quality Nigerian women. They won't give you their daughter for you to disrespect them.

The only women you will ever get are those from hungry families m

motymop:
It is tradition to pay a bride price to the family.

Fyi, dowry practices are largely governed by cultural norms rather than legal requirements. However, it's important to note that the legal system recognizes marriage based on civil, customary, or religious laws.

If the father wasn't alive or a dead beat, the bride price will be paid to a respected family member from the father side. Since they are giving their daughter to you.

You don't respect African culture, I feel like you are an hypocrite, you want us to respect your culture but you are not respecting ours.

For instance, if you really respect our culture, you would have gone to see the family member and obey their marriage rites, rather than sending 15m naira to the family.

The reality is this, no respected family will accept that money if you are not going to do the rites.

The rites is everything not the money.

Personally, I don't trust people like you who think money can buy their way, I will be so wary to give a family member out to you for marriage

You don't respect your traditions stop listening to your elders

Go to a fucking library in your country and read a book written by your ancestors

If a woman isn't a fucking virgin on her wedding day then her father doesn't deserve full fucking traditions in all tribe definitions from your ancestors that started it so it's not a fucking traditions anymore

You can't stop your daughter having sex so you can't demand full traditions

You accept what are comfy with and be grateful or you deserve none

When I married yoruba wife I respectfully explained that I cannot prostrate because it's forbidden in my culture and if offered to do everything else but that's not good enough for yoruba men and even offered to stand and bow as a compromised

The greedy and selfish man still wasn't respectful so Bleep yoruba culture

motymop:
when you marry from a poor home, you become the meal.

Your culture isn't superior to mine and your culture is underneath me.

You don't respect our culture how then will you respect your woman, I pity for her

This is a message to those who don't respect people's culture.

Another truth is this, you have no access to high quality Nigerian women. They won't give you their daughter for you to disrespect them.

The only women you will ever get are those from hungry families m

3800 cultures in the world AND NONE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THEN ANY OTHER THATS FUCKING POINT

I CANT DO 2 PARTS KNEEL TO THE FAMILIES OR PROSTRATE

THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO 99% OF YOU
SO THOUGHT Bleep IT YOU CANT COMPROMISE ON ONE PART SO YOU DESERVE NONE OF IT

Fenrir:
You don't respect your traditions stop listening to your elders

Go to a fucking library in your country and read a book written by your ancestors

If a woman isn't a fucking virgin on her wedding day then her father doesn't deserve full fucking traditions in all tribe definitions from your ancestors that started it so it's not a fucking traditions anymore

You can't stop your daughter having sex so you can't demand full traditions

You accept what are comfy with and be grateful or you deserve none

When I married yoruba wife I respectfully explained that I cannot prostrate because it's forbidden in my culture and if offered to do everything else but that's not good enough for yoruba men and even offered to stand and bow as a compromised

The greedy and selfish man still wasn't respectful so Bleep yoruba culture

You obviously don't respect your woman with what you wrote down.

It is not your culture to potrate but you are going to get a wife from another culture but you can not obey their culture.

It is obvious that the family of your ex wife are not serious people.

If you are marrying into a well respected home, you will have to potrate whether you like it or not, whether it is your tradition or not.

Fenrir:
3800 cultures in the world AND NONE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THEN ANY OTHER THATS FUCKING POINT

I CANT DO 2 PARTS KNEEL TO THE FAMILIES OR PROSTRATE

THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO 99% OF YOU
SO THOUGHT Bleep IT YOU CANT COMPROMISE ONE PART SO YOU DESERVE NONE OF IT

Shut up.

You are not getting married to 3800 culture but 1 single culture from Nigeria

I feel like you just prey on desperate and poor Nigerian women whose parents will sell them for a pot of soup

motymop:
You obviously don't respect your woman with what you wrote down.

It is not your culture to potrate but you are going to get a wife from another culture but you can not obey their culture.

It is obvious that the family of your ex wife are not serious people.

If you are marrying into a well respected home, you will have to potrate whether you like it or not, whether it is your tradition or not.

CULTURE AND TRADITIONS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

I DONT ACTUALLY HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH YOUR CULTURE

I LOVE NIGERIA YOU ARE FUN, RICH AND DYNAMIC PEOPLE

THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET CULTURALLY GREEDY WITH YOUR TRADITIONS AT WEDDINGS

IF A MAN TRULY CANNOT ONE OR TWO PARTS AS LONG AS THE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID YOU SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL AND ACCEPT 90% TRADITIONS

NOT EXPECT HIM TO BETRAY HIS PEOPLE OVER KNEELING TO YOU OR PROSTRATION WHEN STANDING AND BOWING IS RESPECTFUL TO BOTH FAMILIES AND BOTH CULTURES

BLEND DONT DOMINATE!!!

Read what I'm saying I have never once said anything bad about a bride price because it's nothing

The actual traditions are where you get greedy