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BlueStripper:
Congratulations TuBaba

Men are the prize and happiness/peace is all that matters. You get to a certain age as a man and all you desire is peace of mind and NOTHING ELSE. This gives credence to a song I once heard, the lyrics are "peace of mind is underrated o".

We have said this countlessly, love is a biological default and chemical reaction. It could kickstart a relationship that might lead to marriage, but doesn't have the capacity to KEEP THE MARRIAGE.

To keep a marriage, you must respect the man and give him peace. The second you stop giving him peace, that second love starts to die.

As a man, regardless of what a woman has done for you, please avoid complications and exit when you see the red flag. You are the one who is married, not the public.

As an adult, you must learn to lead your life regardless of what people think or feel. Make your mistakes but be a responsible person.

Any woman who is obsessed about you, wants to own you and believes that your family is no longer important in your life as long as she is involved is a red flag.

Yes, 2baba, formerly known as 2face made a lot of mistakes in his early years, but that's not enough reason for me to judge him.

Annie is a crack head. Wether it came due to frustration or depression from the marriage, the truth is, it is difficult living with a crack head.

I have also noticed that it's the ladies that are crying all over the internet since this new broke. The question is, who gave them the moral right to judge this people?

Toke Makinwa is divorced and even went to the church for a Thanksgiving. She announced her divorce and was celebrated by these same gullible, local-cum posh ladies and shallow minded feminist.

Tiwa Savage is also divorced. Her ex husband alleged that she was an adulterer and attempted taking his life. That's a man who singlehandedly raised Tiwa and invested in her. When the divorce was announced, people hailed her and even crowned her MAVIN'S FIRST LADY.

This person in question has a leaked sextape on the internet today with her private organ on public display and in the public domain for generations unborn to see, describe and dissect.

These same women are allegedly rehabilitating Annie Macaulay.
These same women are threatening 2baba for announcing the divorce.

Terrible!


Note These words
1. MEN VALUE PEACE OF MIND.

2. THEY LOVE THEIR FAMILY.

3. NOT ALL MOTHER IN-LAWS ARE EVIL!

4. NOT ALL BROTHER OR SISTER IN-LAW NEEDS THEIR BROTHER'S MONEY.

5. HIS SIBLINGS WERE THERE BEFORE YOU CAME, SO YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DEFINE, MODIFY OR CHANGE HOW HE RELATES WITH THEM.

6. LASTLY, HUMANS DON'T CHANGE, WE ONLY GROW.


#Men also cry.
#Men also feel pain.
#Men lives matter.

When the peace of mind is linked to a woman with loaded bank accounts? My dear it is no longer about peace. Apply wisdom.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You were a bad spouse, I assume.

There's absolutely no smoke without fire. Tell us how she stole your peace that ended your marriage in 3 months that didn't make you notice the whole while during courtship. I'm not a believer of one sided truths.

Its no use sharing it won’t make any difference. I didn’t just wake up one morning and decided to end a marriage with someone I love especially after spending 5million for cancer treatment.

I saw all the red flags but ignored cos I was head over heels with her. Months into the marriage it was obvious I wouldn’t trade peace for love.

I’m still finding the courage to write down my experience. It wasn’t a pleasant one.

luminouz:
Yes babe 😘😘😘😘

Find ur level.

sweetkev:
Are you the one in that picture ?

Yes. Why?

NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MntUoHbGs9Y



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKCjTv4OhOs

She's preggy

Women supporting women ...Lori iro

Hisroyalbadmeat:
I LIKE WOMAN AND I DEY STRAIGHT FORWARD,Wata Bam Bam

Super straight forward

I like truth and I dey rock rumours eh

She cheated with a colleague and I found out. So I ended the marriage.
The person involved has been crying profusely that all I had been to her was good, kind, supportive and loving, so your insults mean nothing to me, this is an anonymous forum

UyaiIncomparabl:
Are you not even ashamed to say this? That your marriage lasted for 4 months? You cannot tell me your marriage ended on the premise of lack of peace ONLY. Tell me something else. What and what did you do to have your peace stolen? I'm of the opinion that there's no smoke without fire.

Something must have ignited whatever must ended the marriage. Maybe, you people should start telling us the total truth and not one sided excuses and testimonies. Misery truly loves company.

pocohantas:
Lol @ peace of mind.
Once a man strays, next thing is peace of mind.

It is funny people are not seeing 2face isn't balanced. Something is wrong with his mannerisms and actions so far.

A woman who has peace of mind to offer wouldn't insert herself into this kind of drama at 31yrs, because he has obviously been dating this lady. Anyway, even Annie was called peace of mind a few years ago and here we are.

God will keep all of us alive. 🙌

Never knew Tuface is this irresponsible.
You just left your wife of so many years and whaaam! You have engaged another lady within the same month!
And I believe he has made a very terrible decision because the way I see that lawmaker girl, may he not regret his actions.

cr7lomo:
I don't even understand u... are u saying a man should stay with a troublesome wife?? If I marry a troublesome woman that wudnt give me peace , I will kick her out of my house for her to go learn proper training from her parents .... just like a boss will kick out his staff for incompetency.... u don't expect me to be providing for a woman that's stubborn....a woman that I spend my hard earned money to marry, a woman that I paid her bride price .... no naaaa.... u sef check am na

Call the elders in your family to settle the matter. Or you want your children to have a broken home?

That is what you guys tell women. Yeye.

1Sharon:
Call the elders in your family to settle the matter. Or you want your children to have a broken home?

That is what you guys tell women. Yeye.

Everything to u women na competition..... like u can stand men if it sets ...na una go still suffer am ... reason they say una get fish brain...adults that act and think like teenagers

Now d reason for d fight n separation is open. Nah for old age Dis guy go understand when men start treating his daughters same way, d pain alone hmmm
What a role model father.
Dis kind men can be so protective of their daughter.
But las las, wat goes around comes around.

cr7lomo:
Everything to u women na competition..... like u can stand men if it sets ...na una go still suffer am ... reason they say una get fish brain...adults that act and think like teenagers

What is the problem? Why not take the advice you give to women?

Date good women, choose better!

GloriousGbola:
Older and never married

So what happens now?

There is a pattern . He targets well to do women.

His first before Annie,was supposedly a beauty queen.

Annie mother worked in mobil,she will visit him with food,gifts,there are allegations she even traded her body for production deals for tuface.

Sumbo was a well earning woman whose mother was a usa citizen and resided in usa.

Pero was a rich usa citizen that returned back to Nigeria an started dating him.

Now this one

Him no get time to start elevating or building women . Don't know why none of them has seen the pattern or is it the fame.?i don't know.

My future guess is that he may go back to pero and start dating her then be cheating on her with Annie . That twisted love triangle can never end.When this happens,people will pin it on "peace of mind", because we live in a society where men can do what they want and pursue what they want without minding whoever gets hurts and people will call it his peace of mind (if five women can't give you peace of mind,isn't it obvious the problem is you?)or start quoting polygamy .

pimplucious:
I’ve always said this, once a man decides to marry a woman, he does because he loves her. And then, the only thing that woman owes the man is PEACE. Not love, not support but PEACE. No matter his misdeeds, just be his PEACE.

Once that is elusive a man will find LOVE elsewhere and then see if PEACE is there, too.

I hope 2face finds peace in his new found love.

My marriage didn’t last 3 months. Though I love my wife but couldn’t trade my PEACE for love. I bailed eventually.

confused piece of shit, spreading spermatozoa carelessly all over Nigeria. Mtchewwwww. Contract engagement

UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes. Why?

You are beautiful ❤️

Gerrard59:
The bold could be disputed as it varies. But I wonder why those who don't marry single and much younger women do so. But then, that is what choice is all about. In TuFace's case, she is young, never been married or been a mother.

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I've read that she has married previously.

Well,the thing is that men without money or average earning men choose women based on societal standards. This men are in survival mood . It is "who is good for me" that matters not "who I want" . It's why people that hammer on virginity,youngness and the rest are rarely ever the top 20% men.

When you are average earning or struggling,it's the love of a pure young woman that will make you see through the dark days . Such women aren't always meant to be your last bus stop

Most men never marry the women that they want. They mostly settle for who easily integrate to their world.Many don't even know the women they want.

When money ,age and power comes in,they switch to who they want,not what they need/good for them. King David saw Bathsheba bathing,when he fell for her. At this point he didn't care if she has being married or had kids with Uriah. And amongst all his wives and kids,it's the one with Bathsheba he made his heir.
It is just who appeals to your soul that matters.

Most of the successful actors married women older than them (cilian Murphy, Chris Hemsworth etc). Just like hijab,"rules" and "standards" are for the masses.


Look at tuface,he has never been this happy. Never expressive,just quiet and humble. Now he is talking . Same with yul edochie,everyday one new post. First he wants to be governor,then pastor,now native doctor. No one ever saw these men lively and happy with their first wives.

When I see Alfa meils talking of what alpha means I just laugh because alphas are lone wolves. You think an alpha will bring home a judy Austin as a wife and it is an aged aunt or family that will tell you that you can't marry her.lol

How did king Edward lose his crown to queen Elizabeth? Na divorcee he carry come royal family.them no gree. He said they should keep their crown to themselves.

Abacha carried a four months pregnant woman from her husband and married and funny thing is that he didn't marry a second wife.

Same with IBB(it was alleged that Mariam was pregnant with bongos child) . He also didn't marry a second wife .


Leonardo caprio only dates below 25 year old and has never married any of them . lol.

Why he dey behave like tout?

pimplucious:
I’ve always said this, once a man decides to marry a woman, he does because he loves her. And then, the only thing that woman owes the man is PEACE. Not love, not support but PEACE. No matter his misdeeds, just be his PEACE.

Once that is elusive a man will find LOVE elsewhere and then see if PEACE is there, too.

I hope 2face finds peace in his new found love.

My marriage didn’t last 3 months. Though I love my wife but couldn’t trade my PEACE for love. I bailed eventually.

You make sense die....

Ishilove:
Tuface and his wandering gbola. Let's hope he is faithful to this one

He won't be faithful, lets not kid ourselves. Still, the truth is, this one won't give the drama Annie gave. Atleast she damn well know he's a serial cheat...

Ishilove:
The bolded is a problem. If his misdeeds are not causing me to have peace, then I cannot be his peace because I can't give what I don't have.

His misdeeds like what and what? If it's cheating, my dear, forget. As long as he's not abusing you by beating you or being verbally abusive, just forget.

Many men will cheat. The truth is the women who make that cheating a big deal, and the ones who can't even accept their own reality of contributing nothing to the marriage, aside their vagina.

You are also right 👍

Nelochukwu:
Oga mi. Much respect but bad character is bad character. This a man who has fathered his whole community. Trust me the peace his looking for is not in a woman. He will still hurt this one. Just watch. Just a matter of time. If you think he has no hand in the failure of his marriage then u are not being honest. It takes two to fight abi one person wake up dey make war with himself

Tuface sudnt be thinking of marriage atleast not now. He sud rather self reflex with his heart soul and brain not his dick.

Abeg whatever works for anyone

Kwinesther:
What prophecy?

Sorry, I was talking about Willow & Princess Edora

Tightpussy2024:
Well,the thing is that men without money or average earning men choose women based on societal standards. This men are in survival mood . It is "who is good for me" that matters not "who I want" . It's why people that hammer on virginity,youngness and the rest are rarely ever the top 20% men. When you are average earning or struggling,it's the love of a pure young woman that will make you see through the dark days . Such women aren't always meant to be your last bus stop. Most men never marry the women that they want. They mostly settle for who easily integrate to their world. Many don't even know the women they want.

Doesn't the bold apply to women as well?

When money ,age and power comes in,they switch to who they want,not what they need/good for them. King David saw Bathsheba bathing,when he fell for he. At this point he didn't care if she has being married or had kids with Uriah. And amongst all his wives and kids,it's the one with Bathsheba he made his heir.
It is just who appeals to your soul that matters.

Most of the successful actors married women older than them (cilian Murphy, Chris Hemsworth etc). Just like hijab,"rules" and "standards" are for the masses.

I am curious, what would be your advice to young Nigerian women interested in marriage? Please do note that almost every woman is hypergamous.

P.S. I think money provides greater options, so humans tend to become choosy or want more as they can afford. Just as employees' expenses increase as salaries increase.

Tightpussy2024:
Well,the thing is that men without money or average earning men choose women based on societal standards. This men are in survival mood . It is "who is good for me" that matters not "who I want" . It's why people that hammer on virginity,youngness and the rest are rarely ever the top 20% men. When you are average earning or struggling,it's the love of a pure young woman that will make you see through the dark days . Such women aren't always meant to be your last bus stop. Most men never marry the women that they want. They mostly settle for who easily integrate to their world.Many don't even know the women they want. When money ,age and power comes in,they switch to who they want,not what they need/good for them. King David saw Bathsheba bathing,when he fell for he. At this point he didn't care if she has being married or had kids with Uriah. And amongst all his wives and kids,it's the one with Bathsheba he made his heir.
It is just who appeals to your soul that matters. Most of the successful actors married women older than them (cilian Murphy, Chris Hemsworth etc). Just like hijab,"rules" and "standards" are for the masses. Look at tuface,he has never been this happy. Never expressive,just quiet and humble. Now he is talking . Same with yul edochie,everyday one new post. First he wants to be governor,then pastor,now native doctor. No one ever saw these men lively and happy with their first wives. When I see Alfa meils talking of what alpha means I just laugh because alphas are lone wolves. You think an alpha will bring home a judy Austin as a wife and it is an age aunt or family that will tell you that you can't marry her.lol How did king Edward lose his crown to queen Elizabeth? Na divorcee he carry come royal family.them no gree. He said they should keep their crown to themselves. Abacha carried a four months pregnant woman from her husband and married and funny thing is that he didn't marry a second wife. Same with IBB(it was alleged that Mariam was pregnant with bongos child) . He also didn't marry a second wife . Leonardo caprio only dates below 25 year old and has never married any of them . lol.

cc; pansophist

What do you say? You can click on the moniker to reveal the post as it was well paragraphed.

Gerrard59:
cc; pansophist

What do you say? You can click on the moniker to reveal the post as it was well paragraphed.

Where I draw the line is not what some celebrity does, but the right way to do things. Mentioning names that fits your narrative is known as ''confirmation bias''.

I can start mentioning men that married their women as virgins and were proud of them (eg Ned Nwoko), but that will be confirmation bias in my own side.

Also, let me point out that because someone is popular, doesnt mean what they are doing is the right way, and the standard.

Take Mia Khalifa for example (if you dont know her, God bless you lol), she married A wealthy Swedish popular chef (Robert Sandberg), divorced, now in a relationship with a Puerto rican rapper (Jhayco)

Should we all now start looking for porn actress to marry? Does the choice of these wealthy popular men of wifing such a ponographer the norm and evidence that she is what men want?

Are you pondering what I am pondering?

pansophist:
Where I draw the line is not what some celebrity does, but the right way to do things. Mentioning names that fits your narrative is known as ''confirmation bias''.

I can start mentioning men that married their women as virgins and were proud of them (eg Ned Nwoko), but that will be confirmation bias in my own side.

Also, let me point out that because someone is popular, doesnt mean what they are doing is the right way, and the standard.

Take Mia Khalifa for example (if you dont know her, God bless you lol), she married A wealthy Swedish popular chef (Robert Sandberg), divorced, now in a relationship with a Puerto rican rapper (Jhayco)

Should we all now start looking for porn actress to marry? Does the choice of these wealthy popular men of wifing such a ponographer the norm and evidence that she is what men want?

Are you pondering what I am pondering?

We were talking of older ladies and divorcees,you are talking of porn actress.

Apples and oranges.

Please make una read Wella na. I didn't talk of the masses,I am talking of men who have their money and have fallen in love. Who did Jeff benzos marry?

I will agree that it is not normal among the masses,but saying not the "right thing to do"….lol. who determines what is right and not? You?

Are you not the one that posted a few days ago that you can marry a widow and another time single mom?

Stop speaking from both sides of your mouth.

Nobody is telling men who or who not to marry especially broke ones that are always mouthy. By the way,even prostitutes will reject 80% of the men on this forum.

sweetkev:
You are beautiful ❤️

Thanks.

Tightpussy2024:
We were talking of older ladies and divorcees,you are talking of porn actress.

Apples and oranges.

Please make una read Wella na. I didn't talk of the masses,I am talking of men who have their money and have fallen in love. Who did Jeff benzos marry?

I will agree that it is not normal among the masses,but saying not the "right thing to do"….lol. who determines what is right and not? You?

Are you not the one that posted a few days ago that you can marry a widow and another time single mom?

Stop speaking from both sides of your mouth.

Nobody is telling men who or who not to marry especially broke ones that are always mouthy. By the way,even prostitutes will reject 80% of the men on this forum.

Gerrard59, see wetin you cause? This person don open office on top my matter/.

pansophist:
Gerrard59, see wetin you cause? This person don open office on top my matter/.

To be honest, I wanted a company. The woman don drag my moniker for this forum tire.

This makes us two to be dragged.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Thanks.

what's your email. Let's talk

pimplucious:
It was not easy moving on to be serious, for me, it took more than a great deal of will power that flutters sometimes.

If you can keep away from her for a long time you will eventually get her off your mind. That’s what I didn.

That works..

Thank you

This woman really loves tuface ooo.
That hug is everything.!!

Tightpussy2024:
Well,the thing is that men without money or average earning men choose women based on societal standards. This men are in survival mood . It is "who is good for me" that matters not "who I want" . It's why people that hammer on virginity,youngness and the rest are rarely ever the top 20% men.

When you are average earning or struggling,it's the love of a pure young woman that will make you see through the dark days . Such women aren't always meant to be your last bus stop

Most men never marry the women that they want. They mostly settle for who easily integrate to their world.Many don't even know the women they want.

When money ,age and power comes in,they switch to who they want,not what they need/good for them. King David saw Bathsheba bathing,when he fell for her. At this point he didn't care if she has being married or had kids with Uriah. And amongst all his wives and kids,it's the one with Bathsheba he made his heir.
It is just who appeals to your soul that matters.

Most of the successful actors married women older than them (cilian Murphy, Chris Hemsworth etc). Just like hijab,"rules" and "standards" are for the masses.


Look at tuface,he has never been this happy. Never expressive,just quiet and humble. Now he is talking . Same with yul edochie,everyday one new post. First he wants to be governor,then pastor,now native doctor. No one ever saw these men lively and happy with their first wives.

When I see Alfa meils talking of what alpha means I just laugh because alphas are lone wolves. You think an alpha will bring home a judy Austin as a wife and it is an aged aunt or family that will tell you that you can't marry her.lol

How did king Edward lose his crown to queen Elizabeth? Na divorcee he carry come royal family.them no gree. He said they should keep their crown to themselves.

Abacha carried a four months pregnant woman from her husband and married and funny thing is that he didn't marry a second wife.

Same with IBB(it was alleged that Mariam was pregnant with bongos child) . He also didn't marry a second wife .


Leonardo caprio only dates below 25 year old and has never married any of them . lol.

Damn!

Only place you are off - most of those milads married raw from the village as their first wives. When they were average males. When they ascended to alpha meils they discarded their first wives (who were traditional without legal status) and married hot omoge who they paraded as the legal wife.

Also when you have had a level of money and run through everything there is to run through - physical beauty may no longer what gets you off in a woman.

You see that orobo plus plus who was suing usher the other day?