₦airaland Forum

motymop:
Shut up.

You are not getting married to 3800 culture but 1 single culture from Nigeria

I feel like you just prey on desperate and poor Nigerian women whose parents will sell them for a pot of soup

Mate my Mrs now makes just as much as I do

Well a tiny bit less
She doesn't need me for money

Fenrir:
CULTURE AND TRADITIONS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

I DONT ACTUALLY HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH YOUR CULTURE

I LOVE NIGERIA YOU ARE FUN, RICH AND DYNAMIC PEOPLE

THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET CULTURALLY GREEDY WITH YOUR TRADITIONS AT WEDDINGS

IF A MAN TRULY CANNOT ONE OR TWO PARTS AS LONG AS THE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID YOU SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL AND ACCEPT 90% TRADITIONS

NOT EXPECT HIM TO BETRAY HIS PEOPLE OVER KNEELING TO YOU OR PROSTRATION WHEN STANDING AND BOWING IS RESPECTFUL TO BOTH FAMILIES AND BOTH CULTURES

BLEND DONT DOMINATE!!!

If that family gets greedy because they see you as a meal ticket.

Why generalise and point fingers at every Nigerian for the greediness of that family

Fenrir:
Mate my Mrs now makes just as much as I do

Well a tiny bit less
She doesn't need me for money

If she doesn't need your money

Then why did she allow you to send 15m naira to her family.

A woman that loves you will prevent that from happening.

You are dumb.

motymop:
If that family gets greedy because they see you as a meal ticket.

Why generalise and point fingers at every Nigerian for the greediness of that family

Not greedy for money

Why is it all about money to you!!

I can't prostrate or Kneel to a family it's cultural greed I'm talking about

But all you think is cash

motymop:
If she doesn't need your money

Then why did she allow you to send 15m naira to her family.

A woman that loves you will prevent that from happening.

You are dumb.

Can you read mate?

Behind her back that's what said, she went Ballistic when she found out

I'm dyslexic so I have trouble writing but I can read perfectly, what's your excuse?

Fenrir:
Not greedy for money

Why is it all about money to you!!

I can't prostrate or Kneel to a family it's cultural greed I'm talking about

But all you think is cash

How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

Fenrir:
Can you read mate?

Behind her back that's what said, she went Ballistic when she found out

I'm dyslexic so I have trouble writing but I can read perfectly, what's your excuse?

Got it now.

Well. It is because you believe you can use money to buy your way.

Who sends 15m naira for a pride price

Only a fool does that.

motymop:
How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

BECAUSE ITS FORBIDDEN IN MY CULTURE

SHOULD I BE EXPECT TO VIOLATE MY OWN PEOPLE WHILE THEY FUCKING WATCH MULTIPLE TIMES AND VIOLATE MYSELF FOR YOUR PRIDE BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISE THATS NORMAL AND NOTHING BUT ASKING US TO DO IS BASICALLY AN ACT OF WAR

And how the Bleep is it 1 time? You expect all the fucking groomsmen to do it as well

motymop:
How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

If you truly cannot do it and you explain that to my king respectfully he will never ask you to do

That's the difference between Scandinavians men and Nigerian men

We will honour a request you ignore it and demand

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Fenrir:
BECAUSE ITS FORBIDDEN IN MY CULTURE

SHOULD I BE EXPECT TO VIOLATE MY OWN PEOPLE WHILE THEY FUCKING WATCH MULTIPLE TIMES AND VIOLATE MYSELF FOR YOUR PRIDE BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISE THATS NORMAL AND NOTHING BUT ASKING US TO DO IS BASICALLY AN ACT OF WAR

Forbidden in your culture

I am shocked they gave you their daughter to marry when you didn't do the necessary rites.

How much did you bride them? 50m??

You also want us to obey your laws in your country but can not obey our tradition in our own country

motymop:
Got it now.

Well. It is because you believe you can use money to buy your way.

Who sends 15m naira for a pride price

Only a fool does that.

Do you understand white people at all?
We would contribute to the family we are marrying into
Not joining the fucking tribe

When one of your families actually respects us and values as people in that marriage we go above and beyond for you to be included in the family not take the woman out of it

Her dad has a heart attack or stroke then we would come running because the way we see it he's a second dad to us not an inlaw

But you value your ego and pride over loyalty and added value

You think short term not long term
Compromise now and be adored later

Fenrir:
If you truly cannot do it and you explain that to my king respectfully he will never ask you to do

That's the difference between Scandinavians men and Nigerian men

We will honour a request you ignore it and demand

You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You disrespected our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

motymop:
You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You did respect our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

No mate you don't
The kings of Sweden and Norway respected that I can't Kneel for a knighthood

Because cultural domination is illegal king or begger

No king is above the law anymore
They are all figurehead
Yes you can get in trouble for some things but a king cannot abuse you
He's representing his people

Fenrir:
Do you understand white people at all?
We would contribute to the family we are marrying into
Not joining the fucking tribe

When one of your families actually respects us and values as people in that marriage we go above and beyond for you to be included in the family not take the woman out of it

Her dad has a heart attack or stroke then we would come running because the way we see it he's a second dad to us not an inlaw

But you value your ego and pride over loyalty and added value

You think short term not long term
Compromise now and be adored later

You want me to understand white people but then can not understand our culture.

Does prostrating once, mean you are gonna join the tribe.

What stops you from prostrating is it because they are black?? Or do you feel superior over their culture.

You want to take their women and not respect their culture

Stick to your white women

motymop:
You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You did respect our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

😊 just got dual citizenship

Seems I do something valuable for your country
And military experience
Your government has always loved that

motymop:
You want me to understand white people but then can not understand our culture.

Does prostrating once, mean you are gonna join the tribe.

What stops you from prostrating is it because they are black?? Or do you feel superior over their culture.

That was a figure of speech

Do see what I mean about cultural greed?
You are incapable of compromising

As men you are too greedy
You get unlimited respect in the whole process

And the grooms family only ask for Kneeling or prostration removed so they feel respected

And you think that's the end of the world and they are scum

You want to take their women and not respect their culture

Stick to your white women

NAME 1 WHITE TRADITION YOU DO WHEN YOU MARRY WHITE IN OUR COUNTRIES

Fenrir:
😊 just got dual citizenship

Seems I do something valuable for your country
And military experience
Your government has always loved that

Well anyone can buy their way to get a Nigerian passport.

A passport doesn't makes you a Nigerian or a igbo, hausa, yoruba or idoma etc

The culture and tradition is what makes you not the passport.

motymop:
Well anyone can buy their way to get a Nigerian passport.

A passport doesn't makes you a Nigerian or a igbo, hausa, yoruba or idoma etc

The culture and tradition is what makes you not the passport.

No mate

MOS 11B

I didn't have to pay a thing
Your government offered it for a few years training your military a couple of times

As a thank you

[quote author=Fenrir post=134134642][/quote]Fenrir

Lmao. Compromising one's culture can lead to its destruction

You want us to compromise but you guys do not compromise when it comes to your culture.

I am sure you have your Nordic culture and you wouldn't compromise or allow a foreigner abuse it.

Right??

Fenrir:
No mate

MOS 11B

I didn't have to pay a thing
Your government offered it for a few years training your military a couple of times

As a thank you

The government is damn stupid.

I am sure, you now work as a spy here in Nigeria.

motymop:
Fenrir

Lmao. Compromising one's culture can lead to its destruction

You want us to compromise but you guys do not compromise when it comes to your culture.

I am sure you have your Nordic culture and you wouldn't compromise or allow a foreigner abuse it.

Right??

See what I mean?

If you married norse and were uncomfortable with the exchanging of the swords and you said that

Then instantly removed

Because a wedding is about the bride and groom not either family

Fenrir:
NAME 1 WHITE TRADITION YOU DO WHEN YOU MARRY WHITE IN OUR COUNTRIES

We go to your church and do white wedding

Isn't Church and white wedding white tradition.

They also have to wear a ring 😄

motymop:
We go to your church and do white wedding

I knew you would say that
Weak that's what you are

Christianity was brought to us like it was brought to you

Read your fucking bible it literally says what part of the world it's from and it's not fucking white traditions

And fyi

It's a religious act so if you call yourself a Christian then it's fucking yours

Fenrir:
I knew you would say that
Weak that's what you are

Christianity was brought to us like it was brought to you

Read your fucking bible it literally says what part of the world it's from and it's not fucking what traditions

And fyi

It's a religious act so if you call yourself a Christian then it's fucking yours

You are the weak one.

You literally said white tradition, I mentioned white tradition and you started crying that Christianity was brought to US..lol


They also do Symbel, give toast, those black guys married to your women do it, that is if the family accepts them and not ranting about bloodline change

motymop:
You are the weak one.

You literally said white tradition, I mentioned white tradition and you started crying that Christianity was brought to US..lol


They also do Symbel, give toast, those black guys married to your women do it, that is if the family accepts them and not ranting about bloodline change

Religion is not a tradition
Religion is not a culture
Religion is a philosophy and a belief system

Look fucking dirty Muslims for an example
There are white Muslim now
That want to kill the white people that made them

Mate have I ever put down for your race?

Black people are awesome

In America a lost little white girl asking for help is statistically safer asking a black man for help over any other race

And Americans hate to admit that

The princess of my country
She married a black man last year

Fenrir:
Religion is not a tradition
Religion is not a culture
Religion is a philosophy and a belief system

Look fucking dirty Muslims for an example
There are white Muslim now
That want to kill the white people that made them

Mate have I ever put down for your race?

Black people are awesome

In America a lost little white girl asking for help is statistically safer asking a black man for help over any other race

And Americans hate to admit that

The princess of my country
She married a black man last year

He is a member of the royal family

You're racist mate
I'm a bigot

What's worse?

Fenrir:
Religion is not a tradition
Religion is not a culture
Religion is a philosophy and a belief system

Look fucking dirty Muslims for an example
There are white Muslim now
That want to kill the white people that made them

Religion is part of culture, tradition and it is also a believe system.

Take for example,the African traditional religion, we got tradition and also culture from it.

Take a look at the Torah and the old testament Bible,it is the foundation of Orthodox traditions especially the Jewish traditions,

Their are various laws with regards to giving your daughters to marriage, how you should treat strangers, usery and other traditions that forms the basis of Christianity and Jewish traditions and cultural practices.

Fenrir:
He is a member of the royal family

You're racist mate
I'm a bigot

What's worse?

I am not a racist.

You can not come to my country and not respect my tradition

But when I go to yours, you want me to respect yours

motymop:
Religion is part of culture, tradition and it is also a believe system.

Take for example,the African traditional religion, we got tradition and also culture from it.

Take a look at the Torah and the old testament Bible,it is the foundation of Orthodox traditions especially the Jewish traditions,

Their are various laws with regards to giving your daughters to marriage, how you should treat strangers, usery and other traditions that forms the basis of Christianity and Jewish traditions and cultural practices.

The difference is you don't force your religion on people only Muslims do that

So if your families have no problem with me as an atheist because I can 100% respect your religion in fact I tell people to try them that's how I know i don't believe it

Then why do you try and force 100% your culture and dominate with it?

90% Nigerian and 10% non Nigerian is perfectly fair and as a people that say they value respect you should happily accept that

Not see it as an insult and not see someone as less then human because they can't do 1 part

Fenrir:
The difference is you don't force your religion on people only Muslims do that

So if your families have no problem with me as an atheist because I can 100% respect your religion in fact I tell people to try them that's how I know i don't believe it

Then why do you try and force 100% your culture and dominate with it?

90% and 10% non Nigerian is perfectly fair and as a people that say they value respect you should happily accept that

Not see it as an insult and not see someone as less then human because they can't do 1 part

Nobody is forcing their culture on you.

They just want you to obey the traditional rites for the day.

They know you are white, they aren't forcing you to speak their language,eat their food or live with them.

They just want you to observe their traditional rites and do what is expected of anyone coming to seek their daughter hand in marriage.

motymop:
Nobody is forcing their culture on you.

They just want you to obey the traditional rites for the day.

They know you are white, they aren't forcing you to speak their language,eat their food or live with them.

They just want you to observe their traditional rites and do what is expected of anyone coming to seek their daughter hand in marriage.

The traditional rite Is the bride price

Mate you get the introduction 100% your way
You get knockings
You get gifts, money, you get the drinks and food brought, you get the kola nuts, you get extra money wedged in the nuts
You get us dressed as your people and much more

Where is the disrespect to you by removing 1 part to show you value another humans feelings

Because you don't as men because you not men your greedy petulant children pretending to be men

As a nationality of men, you can be given the world and you would still be ungrateful

Are any woman caring about this?
As non Nigerian man ever had this argument with a Nigerian mother?

The mothers would happily remove 1 part if she knows that man cherish her daughter and family for doing it

But you men are greedy liars