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ruggedtimi:
The last time i was a bestman ....It was to a mutual friend who happens to be a close friend to my late best friend. Lol na so the Groom choose to honour our late friend. ...one other of my guy didnt have a bestman in his wedding. We all played groomsmen role no bestman.

what would it have cost him to convert one of the groomsmen to his best man just for dat day

SocialJustice:
A guy once said "do the people you call your friends see you as their friend?" Took me more than a decade to get what he was saying.

In my graduation photo album I mentioned four of my classmates as my friends as required. But to my dismay non of them mentioned me in the album as their friends. I was shocked, and it still hurts after 14 years.

Na Skit oooo

zeyt:
In my graduation photo album I mentioned four of my classmates as my friends as required. But to my dismay non of them mentioned me in the album as their friends. I was shocked, and it still hurts after 14 years.

Lol, move on.

If he was not chosen as d best man, then there is no big deal about it, but if he was not chosen to b among d groomsmen, then e reach to provoke

Well, one thing is constant in Life.

Change

No fair

My opinion

Enough Ffing up going around here.

That groom f*ck up. Because his best friend is poor, he didn't make him his best man. That's low.

And the best friend also f*cked Up. You didn't ask who the best man was days before the wedding? You just assumed say you are the one ...

Who was that person telling the groom's best friend that even the clothes he wore, he hasn't paid for it? Our funny ways of conflict resolution eh...

Talking about feeling entitled. Best man is not based on longevity of friendship, so many things are considered including social status

No matter how Much we try to pretend, It is Really Painful when a Best Pal snub you as his BestMan for his Wedding.

For ladies, It is same.

You CAN'T be Friends with a Person for 20+yrs, then Not make him or her Best Man or Chief Bridesmaid at your wedding.

If you Favour someone Else, Explain Thoroughly to ur Pal, for doing so.

HawkTuahGirl:
He tried sha. He came the wedding, still buy aso ebi.

If it's me. I will not come the wedding and distance myself from him going forward.

No time for rubbish. No gain, no pain

That shows the kind of person you are. Very wicked person

Na skit

abobote:
Talking about feeling entitled. Best man is not based on longevity of friendship, so many things are considered including social status

Brotherly, Longevity Matters Abeg.

I Have friends we have been Together since the Early 2000's.
Though Married now, If they wanted to have their Wedding, and they picked another person as Bestman, e go Pain me.

If I do same, It will pain them.

We are Humans with Emotions, Let's STOP pretending.😕

Any law states a so called best friend must be one's bestman? Inferiority complex go kee many people before their time. Nonsense

Lamasta:
You might be seeing it as bestman but that's how some you call friends will snub you for others when big opportunity comes

Big perspective

dawnomike:
I see no problem here... That you're ny best friend does not necessarily mean I must be your best friend.

Evil mindset...your type of ppl dat will want all info abt friends n hides ur own wil come here to claim smartness meanwhile u are just a f**l

zeyt:
In my graduation photo album I mentioned four of my classmates as my friends as required. But to my dismay non of them mentioned me in the album as their friends. I was shocked, and it still hurts after 14 years.

Lols,
Abobote, Read this o.

Dat's how It is.

Every Human wants to be Honoured and given Regards, esp from Pple they love.

There is a Poor Man who went to a Wedding and the Groom his Nephew invited him to the High Table, to join the Big Men.

He was Overjoyed and I know he won't forget that Guy in a Hurry.

It might not be because of money. The only maid of honour that I ever did was for my cousin, we don't even relate like that again since after that wedding, we're not quarrelling though.

Meanwhile, my best friend since js2 used another person, their family friend as her maid of honour and it was never a problem for me. She baked my wedding cake and that was her first ever wedding cake as a baker.
She's the only female friend remaining in my life today. Her first daughter is my first goddaughter.

Though in some cases, the people you call friends might not see you the same way.

This is self entitlement. Even your best friend has a better best friend. Looks more like a skit though.

GistMedia0:
Friendships are often tested in unexpected ways, and one man learned this the hard way after his best friend of 15 years overlooked him as the best man at his wedding. The snub didn’t sit well with him, leading to a dramatic reaction that has since gone viral, sparking intense debates online.

According to reports, the man felt betrayed and expressed his disappointment openly, claiming that their long-standing friendship should have earned him the honor. However, sources suggest that the groom instead chose another friend, allegedly due to financial reasons.

The incident quickly made its way to social media, where opinions were sharply divided. While some sympathized with the man’s pain, others saw it as a harsh reality check. One netizen bluntly stated, "Well, it is what it is... not all your friends see you the same way you see them! You just have to be you and don’t expect anything from them!"

Another user weighed in on the financial aspect, writing, "Not having money is not good, but I will never treat people differently because they don’t have money."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=op58TIrnJkU

It's a privilege not a right

gassbee:
what would it have cost him to convert one of the groomsmen to his best man just for dat day

cos he didnt want to make any1 feel bad...we are all closed to the groom. It turned out well.

This was just a matter of communication issue. I believe it came to the guy as a shock upon realising that he was not to play that crucial role. Putting him in charge of equally important role might have solved the problem.

Wetin concern oyinbo man for this matter

dawnomike:
I see no problem here... That you're ny best friend does not necessarily mean I must be your best friend.

Until it happens to you.

Someone you have being best friend for 15 years choses some he met 6 months ago because he is rich ..

It's his choice to chose whoever he wants but it is not right to treat someone that has being loyal to you for that long

The day I finally realized that my supposed best friend was not seeing me as his best friend, I withdrew back into my shell.

Some friends are just using u, learn to strive alone.

Smitaro100:
In dis part of d world money stops nonsense, pray mk u get better money on time if not even for una family meeting ur talk no go get weight, its dat bad.. know dis and know peace.

have you gotten money?

Let's just say, from the language being spoken in the video, I'm not surprised by the action of the groom.

It is hard-coded in their genes to betray and I speak from experience.

Aggrieved best man, go and be the best man you can be... Be successful, it is also hard-coded for them to lick ass so he will come back without shame to beg.

Eeyah! He is a true friend!! But life is not that hard... My own best friend that did best man for me didn't use me as his own best man too. But e no matter, I still gave all the support I could...
Make we try dey take life easy...

SocialJustice:
A guy once said "do the people you call your friends see you as their friend?" Took me more than a decade to get what he was saying.

Sane words.

Learnt that the hard way...

Ordinary 4 decades plus and I have experienced so much wahala... Smh

zeyt:
In my graduation photo album I mentioned four of my classmates as my friends as required. But to my dismay non of them mentioned me in the album as their friends. I was shocked, and it still hurts after 14 years.

How did that shape your relationship with people afterwards?

Aside those you mentioned as friends (who didn't mention you), were you mentioned as a friend by anyone (who you didn't mention)?

Neddyogu:
Any law states a so called best friend must be one's bestman? Inferiority complex go kee many people before their time. Nonsense

i can't even face the stress,i no want abeg.

Guys o
Smh