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Greatechng:
Buy a car on distress sale, tell your husband to sell the car at an agreed amount, let’s see what will come out of it. If he sell am well, establish a car business for him to do.

timota:
Oga sorry,a man chi does not decide anything but if a man say yes his chi will also say Yes, looking at this man's case,his chi has said yes by giving him a blessing in the form of wife,but he is the one saying no,why the wife is annoyed here is not because of his laziness but his inability to defend her against intruders,

DrFunmisticGlow:
you are a married single mum.

Better drop the dead weight you call a husband and focus on yourself and your children.

oz4real83:
This is exactly what most married men go through, they carry all family responsibilities, whether the women are working or not, and yet they don't threaten to leave the marriage all because the wives are not making financial contributions to the marriage. . A woman is doing what most men have always done, she complains and wants to leave the marriage . May God bless our men.

Kobojunkie:
1. Many of you are just extremely wicked beings. OP clearly expresses that she lonely in her marriage. She practically does everything for herself; her husband exists as a dock she pays to keep by her side is all. Yet here you are trying to gaslight her into believing she is the reason why her is like that of a single woman carrying unnecessary baggage. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Your wife once labeled you a lazy husband --- a man who does not provide or bring anything meaningful into her life other than the occasional dick here and there---- yet you think it your place to come lecture another woman on why she should not see her husband in the same clear light if that is who he is? 🫤🫤🫤

Bush2013:
you married at 26yrs without dating? what happened? what was this man doing before you married him? you mean you didn't see any red flags at all

SouthAmericalif:
I can’t keep quiet anymore,i lost my mum sister to abusive marriage because she was left to struggle and care for her children alone while her husband was doing fine boy all along and carrying woman even till now this february making 6years of her demise. she begged to live but high blood pressure and liver damage no be your mate.

I have started developing hbp too because i need to stay in marriage. got married at 26+ with out courtship never knew i was marrying a lazy man.
i was doing well when he met me, so i taught i could wage any challenge but trying to fix him up i was going down and he is 7years older.

Firstly i bought keke napep after much training for months he still couldn’t handle it na so so accident call i dey receive it was so tiring so we decide to give it out,the story long but to cut it short

SouthAmericalif:
I can’t keep quiet anymore,i lost my mum sister to abusive marriage because she was left to struggle and care for her children alone while her husband was doing fine boy all along and carrying woman even till now this february making 6years of her demise. she begged to live but high blood pressure and liver damage no be your mate.

I have started developing hbp too because i need to stay in marriage. got married at 26+ with out courtship never knew i was marrying a lazy man.
i was doing well when he met me, so i taught i could wage any challenge but trying to fix him up i was going down and he is 7years older.

Firstly i bought keke napep after much training for months he still couldn’t handle it na so so accident call i dey receive it was so tiring so we decide to give it out,the story long but to cut it short

tonididdy:
Very fucking simple

No man, absolutely no man is useless, it's just opportunity and zeal lacking

Greatechng:
Na so
If she calm down she go see Wetin the man fit do.

SouthAmericalif:
i am not quarreling or fighting with him, i feel depressed and stressed each passing day and he is not making it easy for me , i am not asking him to fight for me but as a man there are some measures you put in place to protect your family especially when you know i can never do anyone wrong but he is always mute to every thing and am carry too much burden that i can’t take care of myself my blood pressure is high and it has never been this high.
He should care for himself and i will do same if he doesn’t give me a valid reason to come back and not this house we are presently in then i will let the marriage go.
He knew fully well i didn’t sleep all through the night and it has never happened before but is 5:30am he is sleeping very soundly. It’s very easy to please me but i don’t think he has a heart.

SouthAmericalif:
all true what do i stand to gain
i was able to build a small rental property at the outskirts of town and left it for him to manage
am still the one reminding to call tenants that are owing presently almost all tenants are owing and two rooms are vacant for some months because once someone ones to take the rooms he will say he is busy because he doesn’t likes going there.Because of poor management i always have the urge to sell the property
i have the one i inherited and i am managing it well for 15years now
there was a time i fell sick and i stayed at my moms for 2months i raise 1million profit from my business because i wasn’t making any expenses i almost find it difficult go back because i got well and was doing great in business but i choose my marriage.

tundebasic:
This was what came to my mind too when I first read what she posted. But, a woman will always be a woman. Moreover, this woman played her part. Let the man play his part too.

SouthAmericalif:
i have two grown kids and my mum takes very good care of them.
i didn’t sleep this night but am a bit calm this morning since i figured it out that i have to be there for my self, in health wise and all round moving to my mums place this morning and will
get a room self contained by next week and start from there.

tonididdy:
Men should be men and women should be leeches?
A man's money is our money while a woman's money is her money.
Clearly you and your family have lost total respect for your sisters husband, I just pity the said man and the amount of humiliation he goes through in the hands of your mindsets.

The important thing is provision is available, who provides it shouldn t be the question as one is clearly opportune more than the other.

oz4real83:
This is exactly what most married men go through, they carry all family responsibilities, whether the women are working or not, and yet they don't threaten to leave the marriage all because the wives are not making financial contributions to the marriage. . A woman is doing what most men have always done, she complains and wants to leave the marriage . May God bless our men.

idahme:
Isn't this your story what men face everyday and most women down play men's efforts? Madam settle your issues, you knew he was struggling with his finances and went ahead, its only a man that can feed a jobless woman for 50 years without complaining and divorcing her o doubt if any woman can do that.

You want us to tell you tto leave your husband because his finances aren't checking up? Madam any decision you want to take do and the society will still go. On

pyyxxaro:
If I don't hear the Man's version , I won't swallow everything Hook line and Sinker


Madame your health is important, do everything to make sure you are healthy

oz4real83:
This is exactly what most married men go through, they carry all family responsibilities, whether the women are working or not, and yet they don't threaten to leave the marriage all because the wives are not making financial contributions to the marriage. . A woman is doing what most men have always done, she complains and wants to leave the marriage . May God bless our men.

Ojemedad:
I clearly said lazy men, maybe you haven’t come across a lazy person. No matter how you push them they will refuse to move

Celestialsword:
you can't change what has been predestined,
It's has been programmed spiritually and it must manifest physically.

Greatechng:
➜Buy a car on distress sale, tell your husband to sell the car at an agreed amount, let’s see what will come out of it. If he sell am well, establish a car business for him to do.

Kobojunkie:
She has already wasted so much money on him yet your particular advice is that she waste some more? Have a heart, people.... stop with this wickedness, please!

cr7lomo:
Madam...those ur friends u envy that are single will even sell their body parts if they can have to chance to be married to even ur husband ..... being single is the worst thing that can ever happen to a lady... dont allow social media deceive u .... if u call ur husband lazy cos he isn't providing.... if u leave him, u willnstill be the one providing for urself , nothing de street , u are 36 , only a very few men will pay u peanuts for 4k u and ghost u , the rest no go even send u ... ur single friends are just forming happy, but if u know what they are going thru deep down , go be like ur own wahala na paradise