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bdon123:
Mumu man na poverty be d problem.I have masturbated for abt 20yrs now and presently hav wife n kids.I am doing well financially n can fck most girls i toast based on i fit pay.Bt i still masturbate sometimes to calm my nerves.This hasnt stopped me frm fcking d hell out of young beautiful girls in their early twenties n making dem squirt like a fcking water fountain.
There is absolutely nothing wrong wit maturbation.It eases stress n tention.

You are lying,if truly you did soapy for 20yrs,your sexual energy will definitely drop

You may keep hearing that nothing is wrong with masturbation but your EXPERIENCE says otherwise. Don't be deceived. If after your experience you still think masturbation is good, you may stop reading my reply here. Hell is a bottomless pit. No one needs to go deeper into hell.

First, porn and masturbation are forms of escapism. There probably was or is a hole in your life that you attempted to use porn - and then masturbation - to fill. Hopefully, you have learned they can't fill the hole. You need a life of meaning. You need to address that hole. God, the highest good, can more than fill that hole. This will help your psyche.

On the biological front, your addiction to porn and masturbation has rewired your brain and the constant dopamine hit you get from the pleasure has strengthened the formed connections as a result of the addictions. Your brain has to make new connections. Engage in productive activities you find meaningful. Seek and find those activities for yourself.

On the spiritual front, we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers. The battle between good and evil is real and whether we acknowledge it or not, we are already on the battleground. Your acknowledgment and conviction about this empowers you. Ask God for help in prayer. If you are truly sincere in your prayer, God will hear you. You may not change radically in one day except God wills otherwise. You are more likely to be gradually led to stop doing what you know you should not be doing. Just by stopping, you create a space within you for clarity and this clarity will help you see the things you should be doing.

I wish you well.

MERCHANDISER:
Not really what I mean...
I mean when I started refraining from sex or soapy my life literally changed for better

Well good for you..but again these things are more of an African thing! In the western world people are encouraged to do most of these things we frown about- almost every man or woman you chat with over there are deep masturbators(ask G guys)..and guess what their society and economy is still miles ahead of ours.

Magnetic010:
Well good for you..but again these things are more of an African thing! In the western world people are encouraged to do most of these things we frown about- almost every man or woman you chat with over there are deep masturbators(ask G guys)..and guess what their society and economy is still miles ahead of ours.

You are right,sex/masturbation is normal thing here,I am in Europe,me sef don nack tire but there are many spiritual benefits of retaining ones seed,I know it sounds superstitious but most times whenever I do soapy,my day always go bad, a lot of misfortune so I had to stop.

Masturbation is also a sexual orientation on its own and it was designed by God for quiet people who mostly keep to themselves. Read about the sex lives of Sir Isaac Newton, Leonardo Da Vinci and Nikola Tesla.

Even if the hospital says that Beyonce and Ayra Starr need sex to save their lives, these men will not be able to rise to the occasion and save the young ladies. So you may be in that category. Just google more techniques that will enable you to enjoy masturbation as much as conventional sex.

Stop masturbating

Loyalprefect:
Good morning, well-meaning Nigerians; I am typing this post amidst severe pain and serious hunger.

With the current hardship in our dear country, how will a poor but hardworking person like me survive?

I am confused and in trauma.

I am 28 years old and an O.LEVEL holder. I had a car accident five weeks ago and got bedridden as a result of a broken leg that I suffered in the accident.

The car accident threw me into trauma and hunger, as I am unable to go out to hustle for my daily bread as I used to do before.

As I am typing this, I have yet to eat food since yesterday afternoon because I spent the last #60,000 I have on me on medication. I am in Lagos, but my parents are far back in Kwara State, Ilorin, my hometown.

Please, daddies, mummies, and my brothers and sisters on Nairaland forum, please help me; hunger is doing a very deadly work in my body.

I live at No. 34, Araromi Street, Eleko Town, Ibeju-Lekki, Lagos State.

If you live close to me and want to visit me, that's my address, and my phone number is 0913 531 0933.

Help me, please. Below are my bank details; please have mercy on me.

Bank: Opay
Account Number: 913 531 0933
Name: Babatunde Sikiru Yisa


May God bless you more and grant you all your heart desires as you help me.

May God turn our situation in Nigeria from its current state to a better state that will bring joy, happiness, and riches to you, me, and all Nigerians. Ameen

BASTARD SCAMMER WITH EXPIRED FORMAT.

Chronic masturbation dey make man timid. It can weaken brain capacity. Mostly the brain cache and it will make you not assertive

Maxwellfbi:
The Negative Impact of Masturbation on My Life
I'm sharing my story to educate and warn others about the dangers of chronic masturbation. My struggles began in 2014 when I started watching porn videos, which led me to develop a habit of masturbation.

The Struggle to Stop
Despite my efforts to stop, I found it incredibly difficult. I tried fasting, but it didn't work. This cycle of addiction continued for 10 years.

The Consequences
After a decade of chronic masturbation, I decided to visit prostitutes to experience real sex. However, my penis refused to respond, even after multiple attempts with different women (12 times with 12 different prostitutes). On the other hand, when I watched porn at home, my penis would become erect and tempt me to masturbate.

The Turning Point
I realized I needed to break free from this cycle. I decided to abstain from both masturbation and real sex. It's been 5 months now, and I've made progress, but I'm facing new challenges.

The Current Challenge
My affection signal is not responding to women, even when they're naked or flirting with me. It's as if I've developed erectile dysfunction (ED).

A Plea for Help and Advice
I'm seeking advice and guidance on how to overcome this challenge. I want to regain my normal sexual function and develop healthy relationships with women. Please, share your thoughts and suggestions.

Remember, this is a personal story, and I'm sharing it to educate and warn others about the potential dangers of chronic masturbation.

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NairalandVDM:
You watch porn with ur phone?
Just sell the phone and get a torchlight phone. I swear , it will help u a lot. Just like the bible says, if na ur eye go make u go hellfire, pluck it out. Just do this and thank me later

What if he gets useful information or updates on his smart phone?

At this rate, masturbation is more dangerous than crime to many on this platform.

Your problem is fear,
when you overcome it once then you are good to go because your confidence will return.
Get a girl to spend the night with you, once she stays with you for a good time, charting and playing, involving in other pre-intimacy.
you would get relaxed and your guy will be responsive again.
Good luck.

Maxwellfbi:
I urgently need help from a pastor, doctor, advisor, or anyone who can assist me with my situation.

Any girl I date or marry will think I have erectile dysfunction (ED), but that's not the case. It's as if something is manipulating me, like a demon is involved.

Please, I need rescue and guidance to overcome this challenge.

I will advise you to go for medical check up first with emphasis on your blood sugar and blood pressure readings. If your blood sugar is particularly high, you will experience low libido.

Again, if you are over 40years, it could be that that your testosterone levels have gone considerable low. If this is true, see a doctor and dietician for advice on testosterone-boosting foods, exercise and best practices.

Lastly, If you are a heavy drinker, smoker or do drugs, I think it is time to quit.

Kind regards.

lendahand:
You can quit today! Just be determined. As a man, quitting masturbation and porn for at least three months fires up your inner energy and you will become more productive, save your reproductive organ from damage and even become more intelligent. Do you truly want to quit? Mention me.

You have said it all 100% correct , this is coming from someone who has experience it or knows someone who has gone through this act and the problem it has caused.

are you a yoruba guy

MERCHANDISER:
You are right,sex/masturbation is normal thing here,I am in Europe,me sef don nack tire but there are many spiritual benefits of retaining ones seed,I know it sounds superstitious but most times whenever I do soapy,my day always go bad, a lot of misfortune so I had to stop.

i just superstition...things will go bad if they are meant to, they will go good when its time to go good....if it was about keeping yourself sexually clean virgins(real ones) will be the wealthiest, smartest, and most productive people on earth. but that is obviously not the case

Maxwellfbi:
I urgently need help from a pastor, doctor, advisor, or anyone who can assist me with my situation.

Any girl I date or marry will think I have erectile dysfunction (ED), but that's not the case. It's as if something is manipulating me, like a demon is involved.

Please, I need rescue and guidance to overcome this challenge.

You date or marry?
How many weddings you don do?

Be realistic with your questions and situation and answer will come

Maxwellfbi:
The Negative Impact of Masturbation on My Life
I'm sharing my story to educate and warn others about the dangers of chronic masturbation. My struggles began in 2014 when I started watching porn videos, which led me to develop a habit of masturbation.

The Struggle to Stop
Despite my efforts to stop, I found it incredibly difficult. I tried fasting, but it didn't work. This cycle of addiction continued for 10 years.

The Consequences
After a decade of chronic masturbation, I decided to visit prostitutes to experience real sex. However, my penis refused to respond, even after multiple attempts with different women (12 times with 12 different prostitutes). On the other hand, when I watched porn at home, my penis would become erect and tempt me to masturbate.

The Turning Point
I realized I needed to break free from this cycle. I decided to abstain from both masturbation and real sex. It's been 5 months now, and I've made progress, but I'm facing new challenges.

The Current Challenge
My affection signal is not responding to women, even when they're naked or flirting with me. It's as if I've developed erectile dysfunction (ED).

A Plea for Help and Advice
I'm seeking advice and guidance on how to overcome this challenge. I want to regain my normal sexual function and develop healthy relationships with women. Please, share your thoughts and suggestions.

Remember, this is a personal story, and I'm sharing it to educate and warn others about the potential dangers of chronic masturbation.

ur problem is not spiritual,I had the same issue then,but I have overcome it now I am married...Back then no matter how I do am,my dick go flat..I am not asking for money but I can explain to you how u can overcome it...

MERCHANDISER:
You are lying,if truly you did soapy for 20yrs,your sexual energy will definitely drop

No bro i hav been doing soapy since i started having erection as a teenager.Infact,my first sperm that i saw wit my hand was soapy while spying on maid in d shower tru d keyhole.Damn she had a big ass n firm boobs.I am married now wit 3 kids n i still fck this crazy little girls sometimes or rather regularly.Soapy will damage u if u aint got steeze to toast n fck babes

Magnetic010:
i just superstition...things will go bad if they are meant to, they will go good when its time to go good....if it was about keeping yourself sexually clean virgins(real ones) will be the wealthiest, smartest, and most productive people on earth. but that is obviously not the case

But they are the smartest and most productive but not wealthiest,the likes of Newton, Einstein,NikolasTesla, Pythagoras, Napoleon and other great scientists and inventors are all celibate

I masturbated for 24 years....
I quitted five years ago...

I've assisted lots of persons to quit through my book....

You too can be free!

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Then try a MAN.. Might just be what you need ..

Try Dey use Adam’s desire (morning and night)

Then buy Maxman gel cream to rub on your prick morning and night


You will see changes in your erection.


Also reduce your sugar intake and eat lot of unripe roasted plaintain.

Chai, nothing beats a Life of absolute chastity and abstinence from sex outside marriage

smemud:
ur problem is not spiritual,I had the same issue then,but I have overcome it now I am married...Back then no matter how I do am,my dick go flat..I am not asking for money but I can explain to you how u can overcome it...

How can I reach you.. Currently in the same dilemma

illuminutty:
Lies.

Guys, you better mastrubate until the prick dies and avoid prostate cancer than let konji make prostate kee you at later age.

Another thought provocative talk

oluwaseunamos33:
I set you free ijn

Just like that? Whose authority. Ijn? What's IJN? You had better dey write your authority in full.

[quote author=Okpellabee post=134307317]How can I reach you.. Currently in the same dilemma [

[quote author=smemud post=134307358][/quote]Sorry, I didn't get your message

[quote author=smemud post=134307358][/quote]I have sent a response mail...thank you

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