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List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Alamkiir(op): 8:59pm On Mar 08, 2025
I have been following the alleged sexual harassment of Natasha Akpoti by the Senate president Akpabio. I have decided to create a list of sexual harassment Nigerians do everyday that we assume is normal. Feel free to add yours.

1. Chasing after a woman/man on the road despite them repeatedly telling you to stop

2. Forcefully Holding a womans/mans hand while trying to woo them.

3. Calling a man/woman your husband/wife jokingly

4. Getting a womans/mans phone number from their friends and harassing them through calls.

5. Looking at woman/man seductively

Add yours
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by duro4chang(m): 9:36pm On Mar 08, 2025
They are all normal things in Nigeria. It's normal for a man to chase a lady be it married or single, it is now left for the woman to say yes or no. Even self many of us don't do am before. God forgive me
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by jocelynor: 9:47pm On Mar 08, 2025
Voting apc
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Obiedun(m): 9:57pm On Mar 08, 2025
duro4chang:
They are all normal things in Nigeria. It's normal for a man to chase a lady be it married or single, it is now left for the woman to say yes or no. Even self many of us don't do am before. God forgive me
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Obiedun(m): 9:57pm On Mar 08, 2025
jocelynor:
Voting apc
Trash
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by gift2xl: 10:05pm On Mar 08, 2025
I dislike those dudes that any little joke, they will touch your manhood.
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Jollos(m): 10:37pm On Mar 08, 2025
Half naked women parading around without bra.
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Alamkiir(op): 6:42am On Mar 09, 2025
duro4chang:
They are all normal things in Nigeria. It's normal for a man to chase a lady be it married or single, it is now left for the woman to say yes or no. Even self many of us don't do am before. God forgive me
Because it's normal to you doesn't mean it's not a sexual harassment
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by duro4chang(m): 9:58am On Mar 09, 2025
Alamkiir:
Because it's normal to you doesn't mean it's not a sexual harassment
What will you call this?

Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Goldeno(m):
undecided OK @ no. 5

How about dressing seductively? Does that count as sexual harassment too? I think it should. Sexual harassment to the public.

It you stand in front of the mirror, dress up, and then leave your house with the intention of "looking sexy", "catching the eye", "showing your goods" then you hace ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to complain when you are treated the way way you dressed.


How may times would I be walking, taking a stroll and a lady would just cut in in front of me, and there and behold every part of her laid bear, it always then become very hawkward as I try so hard not t look at her, so I just speed up and overtake or change my path, because I find them disgusting and irritating, (or shabe i should close my eyes and fal inside gutter or be hit by a vehicle?) but then not all men will feel the same.
I think I would be able to sue to that too shouldn't I?

What ever they get from other men they more then deserve it.
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by PaZwoD: 10:29am On Mar 09, 2025
duro4chang:
What will you call this?
Skadoosh!
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by psucc(m): 5:19pm On Mar 09, 2025
Trash? It's even a criminal offence but people get away with it
Obiedun:
Trash
Re: List Of Sexual Harassment That We Think Is Normal In Nigeria by Philosopher1979: 4:46pm On May 09, 2025
Alamkiir:
I have been following the alleged sexual harassment of Natasha Akpoti by the Senate president Akpabio. I have decided to create a list of sexual harassment Nigerians do everyday that we assume is normal. Feel free to add yours.

1. Chasing after a woman/man on the road despite them repeatedly telling you to stop

2. Forcefully Holding a womans/mans hand while trying to woo them.

3. Calling a man/woman your husband/wife jokingly

4. Getting a womans/mans phone number from their friends and harassing them through calls.

5. Looking at woman/man seductively

Add yours
You are copying the western model and it won't work.
For example, the number 5 looking at someone seductively is inconclusive. What may be seen as seductive by a person may nit be seductive to another person. For example, I look at people a lot and can that be termed seductive. I even have eyes that ladies claim are mesmerising and so if I look at a lady, it's harrasment because my eyes Re powerful and inviting. Sexual harrasment is bad but false claims of sexual hatrasment are also worse.
Also, it's a socially agreed on convention that men must toast wimen or make the first move when it comes to romance. So a mans effort to get a girlfriend or wife is based in him approaching a lady.
If these kind of laws are taken seriously.
1.menwill stop toasting women
2. There will be husband shortage since men will refuse to marry
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