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Dzzzz:
More reasons why I don’t allow my girlfriend to spend a night in my house…You come and you go back home,I never marry you yet..Some people are in jail for something they didn’t do just because their gf spent a week or month in their place and she died,just like that bro..Do you think her family will be on your side?..But horrrnnnyy bastards will say na rubbish until it happens to you then you will remember what I just said..

I this case the idiot is an abuser,u heard it,this one no be she die like that,de werey killed her

Ade1177:
Mr man

Girls don’t die only at night hope you know??

That come and go

If it is a toxic relationship anything can happen during the day

If you are fighting and she slap you or curse your mum

You will be forced to retaliate
And that retaliation is always deadly from a man
She can go down


The girl will slap and beat you 1,000 times
But that your own 1 slap or punch can end her

So leave toxic relationship as a man and save yourself

in this case who is toxic,u say the man should liv or should it be the gal

TUANKU:
“The couple had been dating since her 100-level days, and their relationship had always been toxic. The victim, whose parents reside in Ketu, often spent weekdays at her boyfriend’s place, only going home on weekends"

“On Wednesday night, around 8:30 pm, she received a call from him and went to see him"

“Neighbours reported hearing her voice on Wednesday night but did not intervene, as fights between the couple were frequent"


100 level student having a live-in boyfriend with her parents/family's knowledge...Neighbors playing the mind-your-business game (You can actually mind your business and not intervene directly but you call at least inform the relevant authorities) Her family also failed her.
We now live in a twisted society.

So what do you want the neighbours to do?
Try any form of friendly or neighbourly advice to the so called year 1 girl and see the kind of insults she will park in basket and give to you.
You will be like,who sent me?
Even if their so called boyfriends are beating them to pulp and you secreatly tell the girl to leave so he won't kill her one day,you will hear a pathetic reply like....yes,I know he always beat me a lot ,but Brother,I love him so much that I can't stay a day without him.
You will be like,owohhhh,is the brain of some of this girls functioning well?
So is better as a neighbour, you learn to mind your business to avoid insult until they see the consequences by themselves one day.

redcliff:
because e never happen to ypu no mean say u sef did not or have not invited a girl to come over before. Na normal thing everywhere in the world. The guy is most likely innocent and did not do anything to her

in this case this has been routine that the idiot abuse her nd the neighbours are aware,so you telling me that the guy is been abused nd he still remain in the relationship

emperor4love:
I this case the idiot is an abuser,u heard it,this one no be she die like that,de werey killed her

..You quick to brand him killer..

Pacesetter123:
So what do you want the neighbours to do?
Try any form of friendly or neighbourly advice to the so called year 1 girl and see the kind of insults she will park in basket and give to you.
You will be like,who sent me?
Even if their so called boyfriends are beating them to pulp and you secreatly tell the girl to leave so he won't kill her one day,you will hear a pathetic reply like....yes,I know he always beat me a lot ,but Brother,I love him so much that I can't stay a day without him.
You will be like,owohhhh,is the brain of some of this girls functioning well?
So is better as a neighbour, you learn to mind your business to avoid insult until they see the consequences by themselves one day.

Faced similar situation, did not want to get involved directly so i simply reported the case to NAPTIP and the poor girl was saved.

BGSM:
The mother also should be held responsible for her immorality role towards her daughter. She also caused the death of her daughter by allowing her immoral lifestyle.

Some of this things you people are saying are not always as simple as you people said.
What do you really think a woman who is advanced in age can do to a grown up lady who has finished university and probably come back from youth service in terms of discipline?

It might not be murder or ritual, the guy should insist on autopsy

ReturnMan:
oga are you starving for sex or annoyed that your old ass can't score any good looking lady

What's ur point?
Are u the earrings wearing male type?

Go read my post again

Dzzzz:
..You quick to brand him killer..

no not quick,so the will just giv allegation if he is not ,or he can't get off the relationship if he happens to be the one been abuse, keep defending

Even if you put rat poison mixed with sniper on top big pri*k and free food for girls right their very before, dem go still chop am. Stupid girls everywhere.

emperor4love:
no not quick,so the will just giv allegation if he is not ,or he can't get off the relationship if he happens to be the one been abuse, keep defending

…If something never do you before e go sound like filmtrick if them tell you.

Daddyk87:
Hard luck.
It could happened to anyone.
Hope he turns in for investigation.
Police should please be fair on him.

That's the thing.
Death can come to anyone , anywhere..even in the most inconvenient of places..
It's a shame that this part of the world, when such happens, the mindset immediately goes to murder and ritual. Even the Police that's meant to be neutral in such matters would he the first to mention murder already tainting whichever investigation ( if any) would be carried out . GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT. the NPF is a primary cause of that..

Death to all foolish women

emperor4love:
no not quick,so the will just giv allegation if he is not ,or he can't get off the relationship if he happens to be the one been abuse, keep defending

If you were a judge innocent people go full jail..it never occurred to you if it was self defense??..The”Couple” had frequent fight and they didn’t say the guy is an abuser oo..You go wicked in real life..

HenryWilliams:
That's the thing.
Death can come to anyone , anywhere..even in the most inconvenient of places..
It's a shame that this part of the world, when such happens, the mindset immediately goes to murder and ritual. Even the Police that's meant to be neutral in such matters would he the first to mention murder already tainting whichever investigation ( if any) would be carried out . GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT. the NPF is a primary cause of that..

YES bro..Some people don’t even want to consider if it was self defense them done Dey call am killer..

emperor4love:
in this case who is toxic,u say the man should liv or should it be the gal

It doesn’t matter

Who is toxic anyone

Just leave

What I believe is
No one is actually bad

Your current gf was someone ex

The bad person to you will be sweet to someone else

Have seen a very bad girl bring out the worse in a guy

Then learn her lessons and became good to her new boyfriend

Once respect is lost in a relationship, it can never be gotten back

Forget about love and leave

You can only learn this by experience

Only those that have been with a toxic partner be it male or female that will understand

The person is not a bad person
Just that the two of you are not meant to be together

If you know you are having endless fights and quarrels in your relationship please use your head to stay alive, it's not a do or die affair. Don't kill somebody's daughter or son due to anger or jealousy, you will regret being born into this life.

naturefellow:
I pray you're healed of whatever it is you're traumatized by so you be happy in a marriage and raise well adjusted girl children.

How abortions u don do?

She died for nothing

FuckTheMod:
How abortions u don do?

don't deflect. I'm not the one that's bitter or disturbed.

Peakdesign23:
Relationship is not by force. I wonder why some girls will spend so many years in one toxic relationship all in the name of "one day he will change". I pity her mom, not after all she had spent training the idiot, and she died a stupid death. Hmmm...

That's it. A foolish lady once told me "I thought he will change and stop beating me" Imagine!
The guy will claim he loves you, he then beat you blue-black and still be touching you with the same hands, yet you believe him.

I'm sorry, I don't pity ladies in toxic relationship, they're just stupid and daft.
I only pity her Mum she put in sorrow.

TUANKU:
Faced similar situation, did not want to get involved directly so i simply reported the case to NAPTIP and the poor girl was saved.

Ok..ooo!

Dzzzz:
If you were a judge innocent people go full jail..it never occurred to you if it was self defense??..The”Couple” had frequent fight and they didn’t say the guy is an abuser oo..You go wicked in real life..

yes I go wicked in real life ,keep abusing every female in ur family it run in ur dna ,nd Inherently, is normal stuff to u,keep it up,some day u go get ur half of ur life get cut and u spend the rest in jail,with all your read there is still hard for u to comprehend who is the abuser till now,even a 12 years old kid after going through this article cn differentiate the abuser and the victim but ur case,is just a long way to read then assimilate, all am saying is keep beating and abusing ur female folks and call it self defence, is matter of time u end up,is relationship by force to quit or call it a go,if felt threatened or abuse,so to u beating a lady is normal stuff and that's alpha for u or superiority, I need to check ur home to know were u get it wrong from,and to make it worst na all dis broke frustrated he goat that venture into relationship go carry there depression go bounce am on another innocent gal as if she is the cause of u guys problem,one day u gone go down and we will it here on nairaland.com

Dzzzz:
If you were a judge innocent people go full jail..it never occurred to you if it was self defense??..The”Couple” had frequent fight and they didn’t say the guy is an abuser oo..You go wicked in real life..

your real gal friend must be going through alot and need rescue for real,if you got in support of this shit,not just ur gal,ur female relatives are on long thing whenever u are around them

I remembered when I'm knacking my gf and she pass out. Thank God that I noticed early because I was playing music and was not hearing her moaning or what she's saying. I wanted to kiss her and find out she's no longer moving. Omoh I wanted to scream but hold myself. I know people go give me better beating saying that i HV use her. So I decided to pour her water and give her CPR. Luckily she gain conscious. Naso I send her back to her papa house. What about if she died that day! Will people believe that I'm innocent? So this young man maybe facing same situation. Na only God go save us o. I for be in Kirikiri now chilling with watery beans 😂😂😂 Thank God for my life o

emperor4love:
your real gal friend must be going through alot and need rescue for real,if you got in support of this shit,not just ur gal,ur female relatives are on long thing whenever u are around them

My friend close your mouth..I’ve never raised my hand on any lady and never will so all that shit you saying na crap..You can never be a judge cause if it were to be,you will jail the guy next day after the incident without investigation..

Cruzmaster:
I remembered when I'm knacking my gf and she pass out. Thank God that I noticed early because I was playing music and was not hearing her moaning or what she's saying. I wanted to kiss her and find out she's no longer moving. Omoh I wanted to scream but hold myself. I know people go give me better beating saying that i HV use her. So I decided to pour her water and give her CPR. Luckily she gain conscious. Naso I send her back to her papa house. What about if she died that day! Will people believe that I'm innocent? So this young man maybe facing same situation. Na only God go save us o. I for be in Kirikiri now chilling with watery beans 😂😂😂 Thank God for my life o

Bro that is when you will know deep down in every human being lies a Carnal personality waiting to awake..when mine happened that’s when I knew a beast was sleeping inside me but I didn’t know..

Sonofgod1990:
Something is telling me to give 5 persons 10k each to start this new week with

Boss, am here o
Just incase

Dzzzz:
…Na me you Dey tell eh,something wey done happen to me before..Just Dey watch ooo..You don’t know your a beast till the day someone dies in your house then you will know what beast mode means..Do you think you no fit butcher girl your living room or bury am?..If Nigerian police was fair people won’t have to run or butcher someone In their room just to cover up everything but Nigerian police will fail you..

The experience really shook you.
Sorry fah.

Care to write about it?

Preek kill person. He couldn’t take the shock so he fled for his life. Now, he’s made himself a fugitive.

If your heart is not strong, don’t kill yourself during sex.

ItisWell22:
The experience really shook you.
Sorry fah.

Care to write about it?

I wrote a lil about it but I want to leave the ordeal out of it