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Good for him dem neva ghost him dem go grave him join, foolish man.

How many time have we warned you "simps" to stop sending women to abroad?

Dem neva ghosted you. Yeye man.

Ouch! Another victim of opportunistic love. my condolences to the stupid ex husband.

Good for them since they don't wanna get sense

Treadway:
if he died in 2003, then that was def not Obama period. Obama's tenure was from 2009-2017.

That said, as I have always held, my family stays together ALWAYS. Even staying in different states doesn't work for me, much less staying in a different country. There will always be cracks when you stay apart for an extended period of time. Even the ones wey some think worked out, check well and you'd find that secrets dey wey just never dey revealed/discovered yet.

Personally, I no wan cheat. And I know i can't stay too long without. And I know once I break my vow, I go dey do am dey go. 9 years married, no incident...and I want to keep it that way. I want to be totally present in my children's lives, their growth and upbringing, just like my parents were always present in mine. My mum could have left us in 2000 to go to the UK, but she couldn't go through with it cos she knew it would affect the family. Me and my family are and will remain inseparable. If we move, we move together. If we stay, we stay together. I get house for Ibadan, still I don move everybody come Lagos in December as work don bring me here. I no wan make my children dey see me only 12-24times a year. If I have a house to myself alone in Lagos, I go dey lash babes. So, I lock house, move everybody come here...I kuma go rent house either way. Problem solved

Best move bro

Genea:
Men treat your wives well

So someone that brought Out hard earned Money send U abroad No treat U Well Abi? Women and their reasoning sef

BloomingDale:
They learnt from you.

And WE are relearning from you..

ITS coming ..marriage IS dying gradually..next will be every Body will answer him Papa name

pquaver:
And WE relearning from you..

ITS coming ..marriage IS dying gradually..next will be every Body will answer him Papa name

Ok.

Genea:
Men treat your wives well

The ones wey treat their wife well dem dey collect wotowoto, most men would see this trend and try to hedge against that kind of risk.


Men are getting dangerously informed now!

Chilipepper:
Man Sends Wife to Canada for Studies, She Ghosts Him & Kids After Getting Pregnant for Another Man

As if the reverse has not being happening.

When narrating tales(assuming it not fictious) you will never tell us who the man was to the wife before the Japa. But if it's a man leaving a woman,you will start saying "he went where he found peace"


Are women allergic to peace too?

What if the man was a wife beater and chronic cheat and she found peace with this new man?

zanshi:
The ones wey treat their wife well dem dey collect wotowoto, most men would see this trend and try to hedge against that kind of risk.


Men are getting dangerously informed now!

Except a man married a bad wife from the start,women that their husbands treat them well treat their husbands well because they know a good man is hard to find.

The last pilgrimage I went to,see women with pictures of their husbands praying for God to open doors for him

Tightpussy2024:
Except a man married a bad wife from the start,women that their husbands treat them well treat their husbands well because they know a good man is hard to find.

The last pilgrimage I went to,see women with pictures of their husbands praying for God to open doors for him

Do bad wife exsist yes they do!

But there is a steady rise in women who are literally taking men to the cleaners.

pquaver:
So someone that brought Out hard earbed Money send U abroad No treat U Well Abi? Women and their reasoning sef

Most men prefer to be the dependent so they will work more hours /full time while their wives studies.

Instead of them doing the.masters degree and having limited work hours,they will pay for the woman to do the masters,then they work.

We have women in UK doing masters,working,plus house chores all three..and still submit their salaries to their husbands

zanshi:
Do bad wife exsist yes they do!

But there is a steady rise in women who are literally taking men to the cleaners.

More like revenge on bad treatment endured in Nigeria.

nedekid:
Big mistake, but atleast he is alive and life goes on. As for my guy, when naija started getting tough for him, he sold his shop he owned in a complex, sold his suv, took the money to apply for visavisa for his family. This was ending of Obama period when US was issuing visa to anyone that applied as family ohh. The guy got the visa. Note also his rent had expired tay tay, but he decided to use the money to fund the japa planing they will leave the country.
Anyway all the money went in funding the visa at Abuja embassy all the way from Lagos.
Long and short the money remaining was for ticket. Na there my guy made mistake. Since money no reach madam convinced to allow her go first and that after working she will send money for him and the kids to come. Na so she japa. Fresh fine yellow woman. After some time I no longer saw the kids, on asking my guy said his wife came and flew with the kids say when she raises more money she will get him ticket to come. Omo, that was how the years started going. I don't know what he said happened ohh, but he said he got a call from the embassy that his visa was cancelled but I think it expired. Na so this guy stayed, no house, was patching with friends, staying in church etc, a guy that had money before. That was how health challenges started, diabetic complications, high blood pressure, swollen feet etc, no one to care for him. He will call me, I will send him money. The last one he called that he was sick, I sent, few days later he called I sent, he called shortly again that he was in the hostital and if I saw him I will not recognise him. I felt he was taking advantage of me and ignored his calls and WhatsApp messages, that was my big regret because I got a call he was dead!
His wife and kids did not show up(likely because of cost or no documents). Infact I heard she had filled for divorce long before his death as she had moved on with her life in the US along with his kids and that put a lot of stress on him.
Man J (1969-2023), continue to rest in peace.
In summary, japa separately works for some peoole, but it is advisable for the family to go at once or worst, you the man should go and then bring your family. Some will argue that family should stay in naija while the man hustles abroad.

The sacrifices man go take for this life make everybody guide, emphasis on everybody oo, woman no fit take am.

Men are getting dangerously informed now as nobody wan carry last. Tomorrow, another woman go talk say she wan go, go where sit down my friend.

fernandez1:
Women are fragile in nature.... do not allow your wife to move overseas without you especially when she not working in naija before leaving..... it will always end in disaster

fragile níbó? Very hard hearted and self-centered beings.

fernandez1:
Women are fragile in nature.... do not allow your wife to move overseas without you especially when she not working in naija before leaving..... it will always end in disaster

You show woman who the boss is !

SmartyPants:
➜Don't know how true these stories are but if stated to Immigration that he would be staying with the wife but when a call was put across to her she said something contrary, or simply refused to respond, this could happen.

The man would buy a ticket to stay with a woman he knows is pregnant for another man and probably lives with him? See, why did I insist that people should not be carried away by these snippets online and instead strive to learn the whole story to, in fact, learn what transpired?

fernandez1:
Women are fragile in nature.... do not allow your wife to move overseas without you especially when she not working in naija before leaving..... it will always end in disaster

The right word is fickle not fragile

BloomingDale:
Oga, the game is changing. More Nigerian women are spreading their wings, unlike before. Go and marry whom you want to marry and leave us alone, biko. Why try to change us if you are interested in marrying other women. Be gone yesterday and go marry them.

Who dey try change this idiot
I personally don't care about you.

I personally want you people gone

Dogalmighty17:
My wife has been disturbing me for Japa these past few years. I no be person wey get too much talk for mouth. I pointedly told her, "babe, if na you wey you don show me for naija, I no fit carry you go anywhere." I warned her never to bring that topic up again.

Besides, it will cost me close to 25m to carry my family to our desired country. If I can raise that money here, why will I want to go anywhere? That's madness!

Yes, I know the country isn't safe at all. But if going outside is for the best for the family, is it wisdom to carry the family to a society that encourages breaking up of the home? I know that there are families who have moved and are still together but is that a chance I want to take? Knowing who Nigerian women can be so unpredictable? Hell no!

It is worse when a man allows his wife Japa before him. Oga you think say nobody go f(u)CK your wife? Why expose your home to such risks?

Give any two random man or woman sufficient time together and emotions and feelings will start developing. Women particularly are drawn more to the man they see more than most. You are in Nigeria, your wife is in Canada and she sees one dude at work who spends time with her gisting and sharing experiences with. How that dude no go fu(c)k her? You may reason am.

The truth is that, these sisi men who indulge in such like OP narrated, already know the kind of woman they married, but will be clouded by Emotional blackmail which is a tool women use to psyche men. Fall for it, you are gone.

You must know who you married/dating before you permit some thoughts.

latiephwald:
Habaaaa😆 😆 😆... Oga why you naaaa. You don carry some people mind up na. Dem no go won send Thier wife go again.

Aswear. The guy spoke well.

nedekid:
Big mistake, but atleast he is alive and life goes on. As for my guy, when naija started getting tough for him, he sold his shop he owned in a complex, sold his suv, took the money to apply for visavisa for his family. This was ending of Obama period when US was issuing visa to anyone that applied as family ohh. The guy got the visa. Note also his rent had expired tay tay, but he decided to use the money to fund the japa planing they will leave the country.
Anyway all the money went in funding the visa at Abuja embassy all the way from Lagos.
Long and short the money remaining was for ticket. Na there my guy made mistake. Since money no reach madam convinced to allow her go first and that after working she will send money for him and the kids to come. Na so she japa. Fresh fine yellow woman. After some time I no longer saw the kids, on asking my guy said his wife came and flew with the kids say when she raises more money she will get him ticket to come. Omo, that was how the years started going. I don't know what he said happened ohh, but he said he got a call from the embassy that his visa was cancelled but I think it expired. Na so this guy stayed, no house, was patching with friends, staying in church etc, a guy that had money before. That was how health challenges started, diabetic complications, high blood pressure, swollen feet etc, no one to care for him. He will call me, I will send him money. The last one he called that he was sick, I sent, few days later he called I sent, he called shortly again that he was in the hostital and if I saw him I will not recognise him. I felt he was taking advantage of me and ignored his calls and WhatsApp messages, that was my big regret because I got a call he was dead!
His wife and kids did not show up(likely because of cost or no documents). Infact I heard she had filled for divorce long before his death as she had moved on with her life in the US along with his kids and that put a lot of stress on him.
Man J (1969-2023), continue to rest in peace.
In summary, japa separately works for some peoole, but it is advisable for the family to go at once or worst, you the man should go and then bring your family. Some will argue that family should stay in naija while the man hustles abroad.

Such a sad way to end 😢 😞

Deserving

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I don't pity simps

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Kobojunkie:
The man would buy a ticket to stay with a woman he knows is pregnant for another man and probably lives with him? See, why did I insist that people should not be carried away by these snippets online and instead strive to learn the whole story to, in fact, learn what transpired?

There are two separate stories in the OP. The one were the guy was returned with the kids is not the one where the woman has had a baby for another man.

SmartyPants:
➜There are two separate stories in the OP. The one were the guy was returned with the kids is not the one where the woman has had a baby for another man.

All the more reason why rather than snippets here, we need a full story to better understand the reasons for each here.

id4sho:
Gbammm

I will take her to shrine before relocating 😈🤷😌

my own woman know the dreadful deity in my community that does not take nonsense from any unfaithful wife.She will stand before the deity and swear with her life if she ever take just 1 round of pounding from any man who is not her duly married husband that paid her bride price.
No matter the pressure
Of course she has seen the deity in action so she had maintain wella.

hartson:
my own woman know the dreadful deity in my community that does not take nonsense from any unfaithful wife.She will stand before the deity and swear with her life if she ever take just 1 round of grinding any man no matter the pressure except her duly married husband that paid her bride price.
Of course she has seen the deity in action so she had maintain wella.

💥🔥💯

IITA3:
I have all. Baltasar Ebang Engonga complete 400 videos, his wife scandals too and several similar 5€x scandals gathered within 9ja are plenty with me. Get and cool yourself with them. They are shocking and honey stuff
Chat me now

No one wants your stewpid ass videos. Just shût dafuq UP!!!

BloomingDale:
Lol, deal with what exactly? Giving the same energy back? Don’t worry, keep antagonizing women, very soon you guys will be isolated.

Liar liar ...

nedekid:
Big mistake, but atleast he is alive and life goes on. As for my guy, when naija started getting tough for him, he sold his shop he owned in a complex, sold his suv, took the money to apply for visavisa for his family. This was ending of Obama period when US was issuing visa to anyone that applied as family ohh. The guy got the visa. Note also his rent had expired tay tay, but he decided to use the money to fund the japa planing they will leave the country.
Anyway all the money went in funding the visa at Abuja embassy all the way from Lagos.
Long and short the money remaining was for ticket. Na there my guy made mistake. Since money no reach madam convinced to allow her go first and that after working she will send money for him and the kids to come. Na so she japa. Fresh fine yellow woman. After some time I no longer saw the kids, on asking my guy said his wife came and flew with the kids say when she raises more money she will get him ticket to come. Omo, that was how the years started going. I don't know what he said happened ohh, but he said he got a call from the embassy that his visa was cancelled but I think it expired. Na so this guy stayed, no house, was patching with friends, staying in church etc, a guy that had money before. That was how health challenges started, diabetic complications, high blood pressure, swollen feet etc, no one to care for him. He will call me, I will send him money. The last one he called that he was sick, I sent, few days later he called I sent, he called shortly again that he was in the hostital and if I saw him I will not recognise him. I felt he was taking advantage of me and ignored his calls and WhatsApp messages, that was my big regret because I got a call he was dead!
His wife and kids did not show up(likely because of cost or no documents). Infact I heard she had filled for divorce long before his death as she had moved on with her life in the US along with his kids and that put a lot of stress on him.
Man J (1969-2023), continue to rest in peace.
In summary, japa separately works for some peoole, but it is advisable for the family to go at once or worst, you the man should go and then bring your family. Some will argue that family should stay in naija while the man hustles abroad.

Damn ... You let that dude die!!!