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My Life Before The Inheritance by Meerahbel(op):
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My Life Before the Inheritance
After completing my university education, I landed two remote jobs that allowed me to work from the comfort of my rented apartment. My wife (a business woman) and I were blessed with two beautiful kids, and we were managing our finances carefully, living off my combined income of ₦300,000 per month.

The Unexpected Inheritance
Life took a dramatic turn when my father passed away, leaving behind a significant inheritance. He had sold a plot of land, which yielded over ₦12 million. Additionally, he left us with a 4-flat property that generates ₦500,000 per annum in rental income, plus some shares whose value I'm still determining.

Weighing our options
With this newfound wealth, we are faced with several options:

1. Leave the country: We could use the inheritance to relocate to a country with better economic prospects, providing a brighter future for my family.
2. Invest in a business: We could invest in a business venture, potentially generating passive income and creating jobs for others.
3. Invest in shares: We could diversify the portfolio by investing in foreign stocks, NGX (Nigerian Stock Exchange), or other investment platforms.
4. Invest in crypto: Cryptocurrency is another investment option, but it's highly volatile and requires careful consideration.
5. Invest in MMF (Money Market Funds): A low-risk investment option that provides liquidity and returns.
6. Invest in FG Savings Bonds or T-Bills: Government-backed securities that offer relatively low-risk investment opportunities.
7. Land banking: I could use part of the inheritance to buy an acre of land, holding it for future sale.


What do you advice is the best way or better way to do with this money?
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Oyindamolah:
My advice
After careful consideration, here's what you should do:

1. Invest in a business: Y'll use ₦5 million to invest in a business venture, potentially generating passive income and creating jobs.
2. Diversify my portfolio: Invest ₦3 million in a mix of foreign stocks, NGX, and other investment platforms to spread risk.
3. Manage the rental property: Ensure the 4-flat property continues to generate consistent rental income.
4. Save for the future: Set aside ₦2 million for your sister children's & your own kids education and future expenses.
5. Enjoy the present: Share ₦2 million to improve your standard of living, taking your family on a well-deserved vacation and upgrading your lifestyle.

This decision allows you to balance your financial goals, provide for your immediate and extended family, and create opportunities for growth and wealth creation.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by QuinModah(f): 7:01pm On Mar 12, 2025
So the options
1. Japa is perhaps the riskiest. Relocate to other country, and you will see that the N12 million will not carry you and your family up to 3 months. What will you be doing there? Which VISA?
2. If you have business acumen, this is potentially the best.
3. High quality banking shares are not bad. Avoid oil and gas and Teleco shares this period.
4. Crypto...hmmm. If you get morale why not? Na liver.
5. Mutual funds/MMF is not bad.....that N500k annual rental especially can cool off there.
6. As above.
7. Not bad, too. But no dividends from land, just capital appreciation.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by muyico(m): 7:37pm On Mar 12, 2025
What will be Ur siblings fate, when u spend d whole 12m?
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by muyico(m): 7:39pm On Mar 12, 2025
Estate management is best place to invent on, bcus house and lands keep value everyday! My former landlord increase rent thrice per yr
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by eniolorunfe:
muyico:
What will be Ur siblings fate, when u spend d whole 12m?
I wonder ooo 😂

It seems he forgot the “inheritance” is to be shared among six of them.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by bizbro: 8:22pm On Mar 12, 2025
If you had conviction about a path to take before this money came, you would have been better prepared to utilise the funds.

The least exciting option is investing in treasury bills as that guarantees steady and passive income.

The second best option is Diversifying Your Income Streams. But you need expertise in whatever you're investing in. Expertise or connections.

I think you're better off doing both, safe investment and diversifying income stream with a business you have expertise/ connections in.

If you do not have a business idea formulated in your mind, maybe just japa but japa based on work visa. You can equip your self with in-demand skills to give yourself a better chance of getting the visa.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Pojomojo: 8:52pm On Mar 12, 2025
And you still in the house?
muyico:
Estate management is best place to invent on, bcus house and lands keep value everyday! My former landlord increase rent thrice per yr
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by odaniel1(m): 9:20pm On Mar 12, 2025
Money wey go finish quick. Just go play 2 odds, that one say use 2m 4 vacation. If you pay one-wqy ticket how much remain? Una don smoke goof
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by We4all: 9:40pm On Mar 12, 2025
His father literally gave the only son everything and left the girls out. If he were still alive and was in need, he will remember that he has female kids. Stupid African mentality!
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Pojomojo: 10:05pm On Mar 12, 2025
How did you get to that conclusion ?
We4all:
His father literally gave the only son everything and left the girls out. If he were still alive and was in need, he will remember that he has female kids. Stupid African mentality!
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Pojomojo: 10:07pm On Mar 12, 2025
eniolorunfe:
I wonder ooo 😂🤣

It seems he forgot the “inheritance” is to be shared among 6 of them.
English comprehension is your problem, did you read the weighing option, it reads, "weighing our options, we Are faced with several options" meaning they have agreed but the options stated is what six of them are faced with.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Pojomojo: 10:08pm On Mar 12, 2025
odaniel1:
Money wey go finish quick. Just go play 2 odds, that one say use 2m 4 vacation. If you pay one-wqy ticket how much remain? Una don smoke goof
Gambler spotted.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by eniolorunfe:
Pojomojo:
English comprehension is your problem, did you read the weighing option, it reads, "weighing our options, we Are faced with several options" meaning they have agreed but the options stated is what six of them are faced
It is you that has comprehension issues else, how can you think the options stated is what six of them are faced with? Is the stated amount going to be enough for six of them and their families, considering the options. You didn’t see where the op was interchanging “we” with “I/my”. The options are for his immediate family (wife and kids), not his other siblings and their families.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Free2Fly: 5:53am On Mar 13, 2025
Meerahbel:
From DM
I hope people know that Meerahbel, Oyindamolah and QuinModah are the same person huh

This girl will post with one Moniker and quickly replies with the others to create traffic.

What exactly are you trying to achieve with this kind of lifestyle?
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Rubyjade: 1:56pm On Mar 13, 2025
Japa straight!
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by leomarz007: 3:47pm On Mar 13, 2025
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Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by leomarz007: 3:48pm On Mar 13, 2025
muyico:
Estate management is best place to invent on, bcus house and lands keep value everyday! My former landlord increase rent thrice per yr
This is the very best option and setup 3 different businesses. You're good to go in the current nigeria.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by IyaTola: 3:53pm On Mar 13, 2025
leomarz007:
This is the very best option and setup 3 different businesses. You're good to go in the current nigeria.
E dey sweet to talk for mouth! Na when you start you go know how far! Do you know how many businesses have closed shop in Nigeria?
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by leomarz007: 4:01pm On Mar 13, 2025
IyaTola:
E dey sweet to talk for mouth! Na when you start you go know how far! Do you know how many businesses have closed shop in Nigeria?
Well, I have a goat farm, a poultry, a provision store and early last year got into catfish farming. All are still running and none has closed down or will close down in the future. It takes time to build though and I started them back(with exception of the catfish farming) in the year 2011.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Makamatic: 4:56pm On Mar 13, 2025
Only u post , still use all your alts comment . Is this not ment ?
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by IyaTola: 11:00am On Mar 16, 2025
grin
Pojomojo:
Gambler spotted.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by id4sho(m): 6:35am On Mar 18, 2025
Meerahbel:
From DM
Try Australian PR
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by lavylilly: 1:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
cheesy
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by lavylilly: 1:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
Why?
id4sho:
Try Australian PR
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by TornApart: 7:10pm On Mar 21, 2025
Whatever you do try to buy suya like 20k (tozo specifically) and holandia yoghurt big size. Enjoy part of it. Someday you may live it too same way popsy did.

One elderly woman I was buying groceries from once told me:

"It's the food that birds eat, they fly away with."

it's just a metaphorical expression that conveys the idea that the only things we truly take with us in life are the experiences, memories, and joys we've had (the "food" we've eaten). Everything else, material possessions and all, are left behind.



#unpopular opinion
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by lavylilly: 8:01am On Mar 23, 2025
cheesy
TornApart:
Whatever you do try to buy suya like 20k (tozo specifically) and holandia yoghurt big size. Enjoy part of it. Someday you may live it too same way popsy did.

One elderly woman I was buying groceries from once told me:

"It's the food that birds eat, they fly away with."

it's just a metaphorical expression that conveys the idea that the only things we truly take with us in life are the experiences, memories, and joys we've had (the "food" we've eaten). Everything else, material possessions and all, are left behind.



#unpopular opinion
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Meerahbel(op): 5:05pm On Mar 24, 2025
wink k
id4sho:
Try Australian PR
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Oyindamolah: 3:44pm On Mar 31, 2025
undecided
TornApart:
Whatever you do try to buy suya like 20k (tozo specifically) and holandia yoghurt big size. Enjoy part of it. Someday you may live it too same way popsy did.

One elderly woman I was buying groceries from once told me:

"It's the food that birds eat, they fly away with."

it's just a metaphorical expression that conveys the idea that the only things we truly take with us in life are the experiences, memories, and joys we've had (the "food" we've eaten). Everything else, material possessions and all, are left behind.



#unpopular opinion
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Rubyjade: 10:28pm On Apr 10, 2025
huh
leomarz007:
This is the very best option and setup 3 different businesses. You're good to go in the current nigeria.
Re: My Life Before The Inheritance by Meerahbel(op): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2025
Rubyjade:
Japa straight!
Abi
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