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luminouz:
🤣🤣🤣🤣.... Na those your two eyes you dey use see smoke form all orifices? Better get them checked.

So have kids (no mention of husband) and you dey speak this rubbish. I guess your husband is out of your life. Now I understand your bitterness.

Pele oh.... (Not Kpele....that's bullshit yoruba)

Why will I tell you about my husband?
Because you are who to me?
Do I know you?
Scram.

descarado:
Why will I tell you about my husband?
Because you are who to me?
Do I know you?
Scram.

Because you don't have one. No one with a happy home will be online spitting vitriol

Namaster:
The ONLY woman you should take abroad is the white woman you brought to Nigeria to INTRODUCE to your people.

Or your mother

In fact before you carry any woman go abroad, carry your mama first.

Your mother is the only woman that trained you to a point your babe find you attractive in the first place.

As I big reach, it's rare for me to go the whole day without seeing a message from my mother.

So your mother first, before any woman.

GeneralPula:
All these twitter story self, most of them nah com chop..

It's true. As someone that have been in the West for almost half of my life, I know few women like this.

It's very common with women whom the men met online, dated online and never actually knew each other very well.

It's common with West African women.

Also, muslim women tend to stick with their men. But you see the irreligious or even Christian women, it's common.

In the area of good women, islam is leading Christianity 1-0.

fernandez1:
Women are fragile in nature.... do not allow your wife to move overseas without you especially when she not working in naija before leaving..... it will always end in disaster

Fragile or fickle?

Most are fickle or have fish brain. They are moved by glamour, have no independent mind, easily influenced, and live life only on the material plain.

Their mind is structured in receiving, and they find it difficult to have empathy for men.

Ego and entitlement get many so easily, and it's because she think she is beautiful, not because she was objectively declared as being beautiful.

She can be as rotten as a thousand year tree, and fat as well, but believes that with the right wig, makeup, high heels, lipstick, clothing and taking pics in the right angle, she is a high quality woman.

The idea or fact that value is base on character doesn't cross their mind. It's just plug-and-play, or by declaration. I am a high quality woman so therefore, I am, even if she can't afford transport.

They do not think in the long term, think indepthly, also lack the ability not to be selfish in thinking and justifications.

Thinking wholesomely is incompatible with their psyche. You can give a lady 5k naira, and dash her 100k naira same day, and many will ask for the 5k debt you owe. She can justify a ludicrous behaviour as far her selfishness is secured.

Loving and showing a man love for them is always by declaration, talking too much instead of by her actions. If you love me, keep yourself virtous for me.

Be my helper, don't see me as a cash cow, develop your character to be palatable. Just as I prove my love by taking care of you,

Make I stop here.

Of course most women are not like this, but a sizeable amount of women are exactly like this.

Because if you analyse women finish, you'll understand why they are called the weaker vessels and asked to submit to men.

eepeepook:
It’s not news anymore. This is one of the hundreds of tales I’ve seen over the years.

The good news is that more men have avoided this fate by not taking their women abroad in the first place.

So these few examples are not even norm.

And by abroad, I'm referring to countries with misandric laws that punishes men for being a good man.

Feel free to take your wife to Dubai, Kazakhstan or Finland, but you see UK, Canada, USA, Ireland, Germany, don't.

Unless you're sure of your woman. There is no doubt in your mind to her virtue, then yes take her there.

I have church members living in the UK with their wives and they did just fine.

pansophist:
It's true. As someone that have been in the West for almost half of my life, I know few women like this.

It's very common with women whom the men met online, dated online and never actually knew each other very well.

It's common with West African women.

Also, muslim women tend to stick with their men. But you see the irreligious or even Christian women, it's common.

In the area of good women, islam is leading Christianity 1-0.

100 percent, muslims girls are more loyal and faithful

Juan13:
I have no pity for the man .these kind of men if you ask them for help now as a man he will say he got no money but will go back and give woman .a simp it’s a simp no mater the way it’s goes weather on wife or girlfriend. I wish him nothing but laughter if I know the wife I will send her small money to buy Heineken and drink to have urge to lash the said again today

You're very slow FR. Don't go and do something great with your life, keep hating on your fellow man because he refused to deal with your excesses and help you. Low life. Treating one’s wife nicely is now simping.

What haven't I heard?

pansophist:
Fragile or fickle?

Most are fickle or have fish brain. They are moved by glamour, have no independent mind, easily influenced, and live life only on the material plain.

Their mind is structured in receiving, and they find it difficult to have empathy for men.

Ego and entitlement get many so easily, and it's because she think she is beautiful, not because she was objectively declared as being beautiful.

She can be as rotten as a thousand year tree, and fat as well, but believes that with the right wig, makeup, high heels, lipstick, clothing and taking pics in the right angle, she is a high quality woman.

The idea or fact that value is base on character doesn't cross their mind. It's just plug-and-play, or by declaration. I am a high quality woman so therefore, I am, even if she can't afford transport.

They do not think in the long term, think indepthly, also lack the ability not to be selfish in thinking and justifications.

Thinking wholesomely is incompatible with their psyche. You can give a lady 5k naira, and dash her 100k naira same day, and many will ask for the 5k debt you owe. She can justify a ludicrous behaviour as far her selfishness is secured.

Loving and showing a man love for them is always by declaration, talking too much instead of by her actions. If you love me, keep yourself virtous for me.

Be my helper, don't see me as a cash cow, develop your character to be palatable. Just as I prove my love by taking care of you,

Make I stop here.

Of course most women are not like this, but a sizeable amount of women are exactly like this.

Because if you analyse women finish, you'll understand why they are called the weaker vessels and asked to submit to men.

I swear to God, this is so true. I have said this countless times, I even created a thread on this. It's all about them. Imagine this girl knowing she is "stubborn" and refusing to change because she's just being herself — a woman. Sharing useless and manipulative videos that supports her "belief." If I wanted to just manipulate, fúck, and pierce her heart, I'd just play along but that's not my goal on Earth.

ediko5:
So many Nigerian men still have this age-long misconception that the lady you pick from the gutter or bush and develop is the lady that will love, respect you and be humble.

Simp men will never learn, stay away from developing a low-life lady for the purpose of marriage. Invest that money into your life and career and you can be able to marry an abroad graduate if that is your goal.

Low-life ladies are only interested in their survival, on a very special day they can't even remember your name. One thing I've observed is that ladies from poor background, ladies with irresponsible parents (parents that can't provide their basic needs), ladies who can't provide for their selves are the worst set of ungrateful people on earth because they have entitlement mentality. Generally (both gender) entitled people are ungrateful people.

I'll start creating thread on NL on how men can be Alpha

Abeg, create fast fast


It will go a long way

CyrusVI:
Abeg, create fast fast


It will go a long way

https://www.nairaland.com/8367785/religion-game-street-ladies-use

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Cybergoddess:
Aunty have they serve you rotten breakfast? This one body dey pepper you on top this guy mata? Abi he do you Burna boy style of promise and fail?

No be me he do na my sister he disappoint.

Fyneboi79 na efulefu

ChilliPepper:
No be me he do na my sister he disappoint.

Fyneboi79 na efulefu

how you come sabi him personal online details if una no dey sleep together na? This your story dey one kind.

ChilliPepper:
No be me he do na my sister he disappoint.

Fyneboi79 na efulefu

She's 2weeks into a journey of 9months already.... Move on slowly but surely

BloomingDale:
Lol, they are doing their thing. Na una dey cry for social media up and down. Every thread is about women, women, women. We have left you guys behind. Remember women are your gods no matter what your fake bible says.

fake Bible? I totally agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nigerian men, especially those from the East, won't listen. Most of them have this believe that it's easier to "control" a young (18-23) "virgin" village girl from a poor background that's not educated. They feel that such women are more "submissive" and "loyal". They don't know that they are the most dangerous ones. If you as a man want to settle abroad, it's better to date someone in the system. At least you know what you are getting yourself into. Women from poor background are the worst. Most of them are ungrateful.

ediko5:
So many Nigerian men still have this age-long misconception that the lady you pick from the gutter or bush and develop is the lady that will love, respect you and be humble.

Simp men will never learn, stay away from developing a low-life lady for the purpose of marriage. Invest that money into your life and career and you can be able to marry an abroad graduate if that is your goal.

Low-life ladies are only interested in their survival, on a very special day they can't even remember your name. One thing I've observed is that ladies from poor background, ladies with irresponsible parents (parents that can't provide their basic needs), ladies who can't provide for their selves are the worst set of ungrateful people on earth because they have entitlement mentality. Generally (both gender) entitled people are ungrateful people.

I'll start creating thread on NL on how men can be Alpha

gforce5:
Nigerian men, especially those from the East, won't listen. Most of them have this believe that it's easier to "control" a young (18-23) "virgin" village girl from a poor background that's not educated. They feel that such women are more "submissive" and "loyal". They don't know that they are the most dangerous ones. If you as a man want to settle abroad, it's better to date someone in the system. At least you know what you are getting yourself into. Women from poor background are the worst. Most of them are ungrateful.

Exactly man. Most of them have learned it are learning the hard way.

Namaster:
You send your wife abroad and stay in Nigeria, TROUBLE.

You travel abroad and leave your wife in Nigeria, BIG TROUBLE.

You travel WITH your wife abroad, BIGGER TROUBLE.

Abroad is NOT the problem. It's the WOMEN.

The ONLY woman you should take abroad is the white woman you brought to Nigeria to INTRODUCE to your people.

what are you saying? How is it women? What did we do that we will not drink water and drop cup in Nairaland?