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MartinsD12:
My marriage is none of your business, I have made it clear and simple am not paying dowry for an olosho pusssyyyyy never and I don't think any reasonable man should pay dowry for a lady or girl who is not a Virgin, our fathers paid dowry for virgin that's the essence of dowry, dowry should not be paid for a woman who is not a virgin

Dey play

Na now I know you dey seriously with this your advocacy campaign o. Ah, see arguments. And ma true you talk. But why I no dey share the good news again?

Lalami3232:

People will say, no advantage in marrying as a virgin. Others will say, virginity doesn't guarantee been a good wife. Now make i analyze am for una:
1. If your babe/GF/wife/fiancee had sexual discipline, she for no open leg upandan for other men.
2. If virginity doesn't guarantee been a good wife, does sleeping with multiple men guarantee it?
3. You don't need to spend money on DNA test, especially for your first child. But when you marry a non-virgin, bros it's a must
4. She doesn't know if you're the best on bed or not because no competitors. But your non-virgin woman know say Tunde and Ismaila sabi knack pass you
5. You tend to trust her 100%. If she couldn't open legs upandan when she dey single, bros E go hard for her to start in marriage.
6. You no need sexual enhancing drugs to satisfy her engine, but with a non-virgin, oga you need tramadol and burutanshi
7. No fear about her womb working or not.
8. No fear of ex trying to get into her pant one last time.
Bros, the advantage of virginity is too big abeg. Its just like using a new car to compare a tokunbo.... For those of you who are non-virgins a.k.a boreholes, I sincerely hope you make amends by educating your children about the danger of premarital sex.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga you're very very very lucky oooooooo. Treat her like a queen because you're eating fresh food and not stale food

MartinsD12:
Not funny

Yo bro, I actually concurred honestly.

I covet this. Great news.

Ibst:
Worth celebrating, but not needed

May God bless your generation..


NOT NEEDED BECAUSE IT DOESNT MEAN THE MARRIAGE WILL LAST

We4all:
Some people don't have sense. What is there to celebrate?

I tire óò my brother 😂😆

sylve11:
If a lady keeps herself till marriage without sex, it is a big deal and something worth celebrating.

To me, that's the only woman who deserves any form of dowry payments.

A woman whom you disvirgin is the rightful woman nature bestows on you.

If nor be sey life don get as e be, how man in his right senses go pay dowry on a woman another man disvirgined??

My brother u are the only person with sense on this thread I swear 😂

U go see adult paying dowry for a woman with unlimited body counts 🤔..is that not insane 😲

Lalami3232:

People will say, no advantage in marrying as a virgin. Others will say, virginity doesn't guarantee been a good wife. Now make i analyze am for una:
1. If your babe/GF/wife/fiancee had sexual discipline, she for no open leg upandan for other men.
2. If virginity doesn't guarantee been a good wife, does sleeping with multiple men guarantee it?
3. You don't need to spend money on DNA test, especially for your first child. But when you marry a non-virgin, bros it's a must
4. She doesn't know if you're the best on bed or not because no competitors. But your non-virgin woman know say Tunde and Ismaila sabi knack pass you
5. You tend to trust her 100%. If she couldn't open legs upandan when she dey single, bros E go hard for her to start in marriage.
6. You no need sexual enhancing drugs to satisfy her engine, but with a non-virgin, oga you need tramadol and burutanshi
7. No fear about her womb working or not.
8. No fear of ex trying to get into her pant one last time.
Bros, the advantage of virginity is too big abeg. Its just like using a new car to compare a tokunbo.... For those of you who are non-virgins a.k.a boreholes, I sincerely hope you make amends by educating your children about the danger of premarital sex.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga you're very very very lucky oooooooo. Treat her like a queen because you're eating fresh food and not stale food

Until u allow me or convince me say he good to marry virgin at last 😂😆😆😂😆😆

But where d guy take see am self 🤔

That's my concern

Nehyooh:
Yo bro, I actually concurred honestly.

Good

chypotenti:
Dey play

That's my principle

Mariangeles:
That's a lie!

He'll be the one running away from her even, because it'll be a whole new adventure/experience for her, and she most likely won't have enough of it any time soon.

Sit down there. She was able to keep that virginity bcs she has low sex drive. Those girls who run after anything long inside trousers are unfortunate to have a very high sexual drive or excess hormone production. Effort plays a very little role here.
Na the husband go hear am

Tayorshd87:
My brother u are the only person with sense on this thread I swear 😂

U go see adult paying dowry for a woman with unlimited body counts 🤔..is that not insane 😲

Funniest part is that; the quantity of things some families do request is quite outrageous on top girl wey don carry her market reach different guys

xoverx:
He has bragging rights.

If e easy, go get your own virgin.

I'm sorry, you can't cos you have a low self-esteem and accept any girl that comes your way.

This is what a "lowlife" will say

RodgersAkpafu:
This is what a "lowlife" will say

It's not my fault that you are married to a community borehole.

xoverx:
It's not my fault that you are married to a community borehole.

More ramblings of a lowlife

First of all, I ain't married
Second of all, what's the big deal if the woman has had some nacking escapades....
It doesn't reduce her value in anyway (unless maybe she has incurable std or something)

Afterall, I am not "innocent" myself

Many of you are kids

SAMBARRY:
yinmu. Have you checked whether the anus is closed or open

You think say na only vagina them dey fvck?

Mr iyawo faarjin shey your wife get good character because faarjinity without good cha equals to zero

The question of character is not what is been discussed. You people quickly bring character when Chasity is been discussed. Well if you want to play that card I will play it too. It takes discipline, and self restraint to abstain from popular culture such as casual sex. Are you arguing that a woman who sleeps around has better character than the one who kept chaste?;

soccerlite:
In SA & an area in ss nigeria, they celebrate virgins, has it contributed to increase morals?

Like the guy up said, it's a good thing but not needed

We don't even know if the guy is virgin

Moreover we don't know the level of godliness too

Are you saying you would rather marry a woman who sleeps around than a chaste one? You would not be happy to know you are the first man sleeping with your woman? I suspect you are a woman and you are just trying to downplay a woman who value her body

DaddyCoool:
I ask "WHAT ABOUT HIM??". How many ladies "defiled" him and he "defiled"? Or is "defile" only a one-way thing??

What about him? That's left for the man to answer, however, the focus is on the woman.

RodgersAkpafu:
More ramblings of a lowlife

First of all, I ain't married
Second of all, what's the big deal if the woman has had some nacking escapades....
It doesn't reduce her value in anyway (unless maybe she has incurable std or something)

Afterall, I am not "innocent" myself

Many of you are kids

Shift.

xoverx:
Shift.

kiddo

YelpforHelpCSAP:
The question of character is not what is been discussed. You people quickly bring character when Chasity is been discussed. Well if you want to play that card I will play it too. It takes discipline, and self restraint to abstain from popular culture such as casual sex. Are you arguing that a woman who sleeps around has better character than the one who kept chaste?;

yinmu celibacy Is not a reflection of good character let's start with that

A woman can have sexual restraint but not anger restraint

A woman van have sexual restraint and be ignorant or undomesticated

SAMBARRY:
yinmu celibacy Is not a reflection of good character let's start with that

A woman can have sexual restraint but not anger restraint

A woman van have sexual restraint and be ignorant or undomesticated

You can find a woman who is chaste , domesticated, sophisticated, and have good character. However, I can't say same for a woman who is sleeping around. If you prefer a woman who have slept with almost every man she has known, by all means go for her. They are every where. However, stop trying to justify lack of sexual restrian. I personally wouldn't encourage my sons to marry a woman of easy virtue

YelpforHelpCSAP:
You can find a woman who is chaste , domesticated, sophisticated, and have good character. However, I can't say same for a woman who is sleeping around. If you prefer a woman who have slept with almost every man she has known, by all means go for her. They are every where. However, stop trying to justify lack of sexual restrian. I personally wouldn't encourage my sons to marry a woman of easy virtue

of course

But will you also encourage your sons to be a faarjeen as they are looking for farjeens

Because hypocrisy is also immorality

YelpforHelpCSAP:
What about him? That's left for the man to answer, however, the focus is on the woman.

That's also left for the woman to answer.
After he's been defiled so many times by the vilest of women, and who knows how many vd's, and possibly will continue to be defiled even after marriage...

DaddyCoool:
That's also left for the woman to answer.
After he's been defiled so many times by the vilest of women, and who knows how many vd's, and possibly will continue to be defiled even after marriage...

Not always true. There are men who haven't defiled themselves and won't even after marriage. There are men who did however stopped after marriage. My mentor, a man had never had sex before he got married.

SAMBARRY:
of course

But will you also encourage your sons to be a faarjeen as they are looking for farjeens

Because hypocrisy is also immorality

Sure, my boys are already learning the importance of keeping chaste. It's a foundation I have sworn to built in them.

YelpforHelpCSAP:
Not always true. There are men who haven't defiled themselves and won't even after marriage. There are men who did however stopped after marriage. My mentor, a man had never had sex before he got married.

So why don't we tout and praise those men and call the rest bore poles who have defiled themselves and their wives should constantly go for VD and AIDS tests??