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A Nigerian man has stirred conversations online after revealing how he has been supporting his wife’s education since their marriage. According to him, he married his wife while she was in her first year at university and, despite being jobless at the time, worked hard to ensure she completed her degree.

Taking to social media, the proud husband shared how he took on responsibilities after her graduation, securing a job to sustain their family. However, when his wife later expressed her desire to attend aviation school, he continued to support her dream.

"After graduating, I jejely looked for work with my first degree to feed my family. I married her in 100 level without a job, but I managed as a jobless guy to sponsor her through her degree at Uni Agric. After her degree, I never went to any other school, but my wife said she wanted to go to aviation school, so I had no option but to support her," he wrote.

He also dismissed the belief that a more educated wife would disrespect her husband, stating:

"I am one of those few ones who never believed that if your wife is more educated than you, she will not respect you. When I no get strength, she go train my kids. Kunav girls no deh mumu."

While many praised him for being a supportive husband, some critics warned that his sacrifices could "end in tears."

"I just pray she doesn’t meet someone better than you in aviation school," one person commented.

He will learn


And we will laugh

She gonna fly away...

She'll meet her real husband in a plane

Lol


Divorce dey 70 percent sure.

When she gets a good job. She will now decide if the relationship is worth it. She will have all the expenses somewhere and term them as loan. That is if she has a good heart
She will refund him.

If not na OYO

Even as a child after we graduate we feel we are better than our parents. what keeps us is biology.

Now imagine a girl from nowhere
Person dey knack am for school oo
She dey claim single for school
If you know what engaged women do with pricks of their colleagues.
U go marvel

illicit:
She gonna fly away...

U can say that again


Nice word play btw

Time shall tell.

It amazes how a man will prioritize a stranger from another woman development over his in the name of love ,that's the highest form of low self-esteem.

This na one thing wey I no fit ever try for life!!!
Make I gist una small story. When I was doing my NYSC, if you see wetin some married women dey do for camp, you go shock. The so-called married women were easier to eat than single girls because of the attention wey guys dey give dem. Even inside camp, plenty stories dey about guys chopping these married women. Now make we move to our PPA. For our PPA, we had one married female corper, though she no give me Opueh to chop even with my sharp techniques , but others ate and they confirmed the tightness of her juicy kpekus. Whenever her husband dey call her, the husband go say make he talk to some of us wey dey around. The innocent man go thank us and admonish us to take care of the wife, not knowing say corpers dey harvest for he sacred farmland. That would have been the first and only time wey I for chop a married woman, but luckily she no give me. Though E pain me then say I no get a bite from the food but when I look back to it today, I thank God say I no chop the food. So oga make I ask y'all a question: why do you think your woman is different from others?
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

Only a matter of time . ..Na body go tell u

DonBenny77:
She'll meet her real husband in a plane

Nigerians, una too wikeeed🤣🤣🤣

Good one,my brother but hope say she don born for you already

When things go south, u will hear " What have you done for me sef". Women forgets.

This one want to labour in Vain....

pen 🖊️ his name down as a mumu Man

Make we no hear story if she dumps him

So many Simpson everywhere

Experience is the best teacher

WhiteBalaclava:
He will learn


And we will laugh

Marry the right wife and you will have in her an investment that your Children will benefit from.

Marry wrongly, then your investment is worthless!


Since I don't have control over my life, I build my wife that she can comfortably carry the load at my death





It's all about the FOUNDATION of your choice! If you chose wrongly, you have yourself to blame!

Obviously, he loves her dearly. But if for any reason she decided to betray such a love for reasons best known, it would be her loss. Reality and fancy are like khaki and leather.

He's a mumu. Why didn't he use the money to sponsor himself.. Abi him head no dey carry book

I dn't have a problem with the idea of making sacrifices for ones spouse but it shouldn't be this one sided.

You already put her through uni - the next thing is a demand for aviation school? Not that the man is rich. He's struggling! No thought of letting the man rest? No thought of working for a while to help this guy or sponsor yourself for the next phase of your learning?

Nobody who loves their spouse will behave like this.

God abeg o

He actually expects the lady to have the thinking of a man meanwhile women are unstable in all ramifications. She may be a rare breed, who knows.

Lalami3232:

This na one thing wey I no fit ever try for life!!!
Make I gist una small story. When I was doing my NYSC, if you see wetin some married women dey do for camp, you go shock. The so-called married women were easier to eat than single girls because of the attention wey guys dey give dem. Even inside camp, plenty stories dey about guys chopping these married women. Now make we move to our PPA. For our PPA, we had one married female corper, though she no give me Opueh to chop even with my sharp techniques , but others ate and they confirmed the tightness of her juicy kpekus. Whenever her husband dey call her, the husband go say make he talk to some of us wey dey around. The innocent man go thank us and admonish us to take care of the wife, not knowing say corpers dey harvest for he sacred farmland. That would have been the first and only time wey I for chop a married woman, but luckily she no give me. Though E pain me then say I no get a bite from the food but when I look back to it today, I thank God say I no chop the food. So oga make I ask y'all a question: why do you think your woman is different from others?
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣 mumu man

Invest in your wife means investing on your children, it's men's responsibility, MEN, I said ooo

Emeskhalifa:
Make we no hear story if she dumps him

So many Simpson everywhere

Wey him for just buy Keke for her father to keep him busy to train the girl and still remit for you weekly

So long she is his legally married wife,no problem.
What I am against is a man sponsoring a so called girlfriend's education with the intention of marrying her after she finished her education with NYSC,many men are not lucky in that situation.

Watch her fly away soon

DonBenny77:
She'll meet her real husband in a plane

damn. 🤦🤦I feel bad for the man.

Dis one just Dey dig him grave with over sabi

Ballzproblem2:
It amazes how a man will prioritize a stranger from another woman development over his in the name of love ,that's the highest form of low self-esteem.

Only a fool marries a stranger.