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I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.

This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.

The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.

My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.

It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

They have seen that marriage is a scam. Anyway the rate married women cheat is worse than hookup girls. I believe this internet is getting things worse for this hoes. Too much porn has finished Nigeria women. Una too like to taste different gbola single guys go knack una tire. Married women are becoming useless this day's.

Men of these days don't really know why they are getting married, some do it because they see their friends or mates do and they don't want to be left behind, others do it because of societal pressure.
You should understand marriage is not mandatory to any man, you should only decide getting married When you have gained enough maturity to understand it's implications, so you don't get disappointed and full of regret when you finally get to know what is required of you as a family man or woman.

Foolish men marry

Its a serious issue tbh

even relationship is not the way they used to be now

i have come to notice a thing

men should also learn how to live alone

for some women...its not always abt that the man doesnt have money to offer them.

its about her ego, pride, beauty, money, her hunger for independence from a man.


Once a woman is pretty and rich and probably has a child or 2........SHE WANTS INDEPENDENCE!!

Most women are still with their hubby cos may be they are poor, cant bisect life alone and all... not really cos they love their hubby


The bible says :

when a man finds a wife, he finds favor before the lord.

do you know what this means : woman wey go dey with you till the very end is 'scarce' even when all things are equal; no health issues, no bad finances/investment.

but if you are lucky to have that woman; bible say you have found favor from God.

for God to have related this with favor ...thats to tell you, its not a regular/common thing. its an uncommon favor. Only few will get it.

See how bad Queen Vasti treated a whole king in the book of Esther before she was banished like a plague so she wont be a bad example to other women in the province.

God so good, a humble Esther came in to replace the proud queen.

Just so you know bro....For every stubborn/proud Vasti out there, there is a humble Esther somewhere who's willing to come in...
Even the Royal King didn't get it right until his second marriage...omooh.

So brothers stay abundant in your mindset and focus on the bag ... nobody is irreplaceable but God....

If you have a failed marriage with kid/kids pls don't remarry. It's not worth.it It's an opportunity for you to take your life back and enjoy it to the full.

Oh God

meobizy:
If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

Try marry first

I may leave mine soon

Those of you accusing marriage institute should prepare to explain yourself to the creator. He is the author of marriage

Starz825:
Its a serious issue tbh

even relationship is not the way they used to be now

i have come to notice a thing

men should also learn how to live alone

for some women...its not always abt that the man doesnt have money to offer them.

its about her ego, pride, beauty, money, her hunger for independence from a man.


Once a woman is pretty and rich and probably has a child or 2........SHE WANTS INDEPENDENCE!!

Most women are still with their hubby cos may be they are poor, cant bisect life alone and all... not really cos they love their hubby


The bible says :

when a man finds a wife, he finds favor before the lord.

do you know what this means : woman wey go dey with you till the end scarce (all things being equal; no health issues, no bad finances/investment). but if you are lucky to have that woman; bible say you have found favor from God.

for God to have related this with favor ...thats to tell you, its not a regular/common thing. its an uncommon favor. Only few will get it.

See how bad Queen Vasti treated a whole king in the book of Esther before she was banished like a plague so she wont be a bad example to other women in the province.

God so good, a humble Esther came in to replace the proud queen. For every stubborn/proud Vasti, there is a humble Esther somewhere... Even the Royal King didnt get it right until his second marriage...omooh

Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

NiRfreak:
Try marry first

E no dey work like that.

I will never walk out of my marriage in Jesus name, my husband and I are in this together forever ♾️

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Awww can both of you not work things out?

Mysteriousworld:
I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.
This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.
The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.
My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.
It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

It’s almost impossible to find a lady who has money and be submissive, if you find one, trust me she’s either in her late 30’s or 40’s desperate to have a child and the moment she got what she want say bye bye to submission…Marriage is becoming a bondage, it takes excess patience and a bit of LANDE for a man to make marriage work…

We just pray it work for us wey never marry,

Because comont girl self e dey quick tired me talk more of marriage

Western influence

Good one.

Lies, around me I can't count upto 2 divorced couples, so where una dey get all this info?

Mysteriousworld:
I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.

This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.

The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.

My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.

It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

please how do you post your picture here i am new

As long as they are unhappy in their marriage, they're free to walk out before we start seeing sad news

don't marry at all.
just reproduce and have your peace of mind.

No be lie!
I'm talking from experience.

meobizy:
If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

Marriage is not for every lady. Some of you seek marriage to destroy a man.

They should keep walking out...

It's the work of the devil.

They leave their husbands to become another man's side chick

Impatience, insecure and lack of trust always cuz the untimely separation among new couples.

Most of these issues come from stereotypes obtained from Social Media contents.

Reality is different.

For a marriage to be sustained, the man must perfect the art loving the woman, and the woman must learnt without strivings to honour the man.

The bolded pillars are very important.

Lastly, the hand of God must be upon it with His blessings, making the winds of life not to shred it to pieces.

Where are they walking out to