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The present economic situation in the country is suffocating.

meobizy:
If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

No. they turn out broken and have kids that are worse off. Some becoming the societal menace

2aces:
Men of these days don't really know why they are getting married, some do it because they see their friends or mates do and they don't want to be left behind, others do it because of societal pressure.
You should understand marriage is not mandatory to any man, you should only decide getting married When you have gained enough maturity to understand it's implications, so you don't get disappointed and full of regret when you finally get to know what is required of you as a family man or woman.

Especially those guy wey dey keep beards like davido. Single sense no dey most of them head.

They force men to spend heavily on weddings and leave your with the debt 😂

If they are unhappy in the marriage ,if there is emotional or domestic violence then please allow them to go their separate ways.

Going their separate ways doesn't mean they should be enemies.

This life is simple ,we are the ones that like to complicate things .

If women are walking out of their marriages, then what are the men doing or not doing that's making them walk out?!!

It can't be one-sided.

You can't tell me a wife wakes up and decides to leave a happy marriage... Or is it solely one person's duty to make the marriage work?!!


There's nothing wrong in getting divorced or separated if the union is not working... Especially when husbands or wives are unhappy and suffering there.

Your health (mental and physical) is far more important than forcing a broken union to succeed.

N400, 5mins Okada journey I took yesterday, the Okada man tell me the entire harlotry story of his wife.

Na Olosho wife full everywhere now.

NiRfreak:
Try marry first

That lady you mentioned is a single mother. Don't waste your energy on her. They are very violent species.

Landlords have stopped renting their houses to them. Let them stay with thier parents.

1 Corinthians 7:28 NIV
[28] But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.

Mysteriousworld:
I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.

This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.

The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.

My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.

It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

1 Corinthians 7:28 NIV
[28] But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.

Feminism. And many women are not happy afterwards.

That's not to say it's all cases but the new age with social media is bad for everyone

Mysteriousworld:
I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.

This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.

The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.

My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.

It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

You heard from only your friends , u should have heard also from their wives for a balanced view. That said, look, social media and marriage are like cats and dogs. The more you are too active on social media and not keeping anything about your home private, the more the risk of your home breaking down.,So my advice, if you are on social media, keep every matter of your home and marriage out of it. Secondly, avoid giving out too much info about your home to outsiders; not all of them wish u well genuinely.

Merry100:
Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

It's not about treating their wives well. A lot of women do not know what they want. They want a rich man yet they cheat with their gatemen/house boys when married to one. They marry a poor man and leave him for a rich man. They marry a gentleman and leave him for a man who will treat her like trash. I know one presently who married a good man but is in a relationship with someone else. It usually ends in tears for them as regret sets in at the end.
Ever since humans abandoned the one that instituted marriage things came crumbling down. Many people marry for ephemeral things that have no long term values and regret it when those things eventually fade away. They go for looks, riches, education, body shapes and sizes etc forgetting those things will eventually fade away and what you are Left with is the actual person you married who they may not like. Many people have missed it hence all the troubled marriages.

Mysteriousworld:
I can't count the number of people that told me their wife left them this year of 2025 alone.
As at yesterday, it was my vulcanizer that said his wife left with 2 kids 3 weeks ago, while I was discussing with a friend about another friend whose wife just left in February 2025.

This my friends case pained me, because the girl doesnt deserve him, he sent her to school , got a job for her in a bank, and she left just like that, my friend wanted to run mad, this is a very cool guy.

The way Satan used woman against man in the beginning, I see him sweeping women alot in this end time , I blame social media alot.
In most cases, they have no loyalty.
This is getting too much.

My advice to men about to get married, pls don't do court marriage, if at all you decide to marry.
And preferably, don't marry a broke girl.... So you don't loose on all sides, if she has money, and she is submissive, that is good, the broke submissive one will change after you put the ring on her.

It's worrisome though, the rate of women walking out of their marriages.
It is well in Jesus Christ name, Amen!

It would never be well with that your friend that trained his Ex wife in school

AMEN

Lamanii22:
I will never walk out of my marriage in Jesus name, my husband and I are in this together forever ♾️

You sound like a woman with a good-will and faithful spirit.

However, most people don't ask God personally and wait enough to get clarity before embarking on marriage.

Many ladies and men too, obtain their directives from third-parties (seers, pastors, alfas etc). Esp. women due to variables such age, finance, peer or family pressure, societal views etc.

It must be a personal responsibility. God must convince your spirit man for the very important marriage journey. It's a long journey.

When the marriage is based on arangee, material motives, no genuine intention or interest, pity relationship, bought with money, I will change him/her, No connection what do you expect??
Because you think you're rich or capable doesn't make you eligible to marriage. Marriage is another school on its own. Not everybody can graduate from it.
It's about finding the right person your "souls" connect with. Both of you meet each other standards, and genuinely yearn for each other. Marriage is being the best of friends to each other.

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Think about it well and call him and tell him his fault before leaving.
Separation of marriage has negative effects on children.

Women dey leave rich men not to talk of broke man......If anybody leaves you, just smile and move on, in this economy the LESS mouths to feed, the BETTER

How can women walk away from marriage?
Marriage that's a trophy and the only clothe that covers the unclothedness of a woman?

I find this unbelievable.

Only men walk away from marriage,while the women go on their knees begging them to reconsider.

Op is cooking up stories

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Me too.
I'm thoroughly tired of the whole arrangement

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Why soon? Do it now. Delay is dangerous.

The issue is that the social media is full of women creators a nd feminist who come on line to advice women that dont tolerate shit from men, you have equal right in the house.You see single mothers opening youtube channels and showing the world how their life is better after divorce.i have never seen a man come on line to tell people how they are doing fine after divorce.These women join facebook group where they learn how to deal with their husband and how to go about with divorce.Some women start with nagging and then move to depriving their husband of sex so that he can leave the marriage and cheat outside and then give them enough reason to divorce.Mostof this women claim they are in a toxic relationship, they claim their husband are narcist .if you dig deeper , you will discover that most of this women are just tired of the marriage and and want independence from men.Most of them feel they can do better when they are alone , they feel marriage is tying them down from progress, they feel they can play te role of a father and mother at same time.Some of them for selfish reason are after childs support they will get.Some of this women even turn the heart of the children to the father.Its not in all cases that the men are at fault in a marriage breakup,you see women telling them selves that dont die in marriage , osinachi died in marriage .so dont endure anything with any man, at the slightest provocation, they end a marriage.its a common trend now, women abandoning marriage, its like women ending the marriage contract.no woman want to endure till the end, nomore for better for worse again

Pennywise2:
Those of you accusing marriage institute should prepare to explain yourself to the creator. He is the author of marriage

What did Apostle tell you about Marriage? It's not a do or die affair. Not even when ladies and the society hv now weaponized it against innocent men.

Na men when no wise I blame sha

BS , go and marry and stop hiding behind ppl are leaving their marriages to justify u being a single girl at 40

feminsim teaches them , get outof the marriage , get more money , get more certificate, you dont need a man to order you around.be your own boss, all u need is money.with money, men will respect you .Women now hide under the prext that the marriage is toxic that was why they left it.If you ask them, did the man beat you, they say nope, did the man cheat on you , they say nope.They leave marriage simply because they are unhappy in the marriage.They rely on their mood to determine when to stay or not in their marriage.Women will sacrifice their marriage for their own happiness.

bemeruca:
Feminism. And many women are not happy afterwards.

That's not to say it's all cases but the new age with social media is bad for everyone

Lamanii22:
I will never walk out of my marriage in Jesus name, my husband and I are in this together forever ♾️

Amen. You are as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside.

themanderon:
It's not about treating their wives well. A lot of women do not know what they want. They want a rich man yet they cheat with their gatemen/house boys when married to one. They marry a poor man and leave him for a rich man. They marry a gentleman and leave him for a man who will treat her like trash. I know one presently who married a good man but is in a relationship with someone else. It usually ends in tears for them as regret sets in at the end.
Ever since humans abandoned the one that instituted marriage things came crumbling down. Many people marry for ephemeral things that have no long term values and regret it when those things eventually fade away. They go for looks, riches, education, body shapes and sizes etc forgetting those things will eventually fade away and what you are Left with is the actual person you married who they may not like. Many people have missed it hence all the troubled marriages.

Someone like you would see a man and a woman having an argument and immediately jump to the conclusion that the woman is the one at fault, without knowing the full story.

There are also men who have affairs with their house help or secretary. Some men claim to prefer thick women, but after marrying such a woman, they still cheat on her with slim women.

Your narrative is clearly biased. Maturity and responsibility are not determined by gender. Most relationship issues arise from misunderstandings or incompatibility.

The biggest threat to various homes is Social media, most women don't know how to draw the red line when it comes to what they see and what they believe, it is very sad.

and i must say that, they new olosho in town are married women, trust me the rate is alarming, but las las, na man wey loseguard go suffer for woman hand.

Never empower a women to be more than you in any level, except her loyalty has been tested over and over again

Whatever mistake you want to make in your life, never make the mistake of marrying a lady who is AA. Always Angry.

A broke girl can be tossed around easily like a leaf in the wind, no roots to keep her grounded.