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Twoclans:
If they are unhappy in the marriage ,if there is emotional or domestic violence then please allow them to go their separate ways.

Going their separate ways doesn't mean they should be enemies.

This life is simple ,we are the ones that like to complicate things .

Why desire for marriage in the first place, if you know you have no intentional commitment to remain in it?

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Ghen Ghen

They will realize too late that the street is not as hospitable.

meobizy:
If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

Whatever mistake you want to make in your life, never make the mistake of marrying a lady who is AA. Always Angry.

Merry100:
Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

It takes a woman of God to do that.
The female humans available now have taken after eve, pompous, not obedience, wants flamboyant life, no fear of God, not submissive, uncontrollable, evil adventurist etc

OZIOGU1:
The biggest threat to various homes is Social media, most women don't know how to draw the red line when it comes to what they see and what they believe, it is very sad.

and i must say that, they new olosho in town are married women, trust me the rate is alarming, but las las, na man wey loseguard go suffer for woman hand.

Never empower a women to be more than you in any level, except her loyalty has been tested over and over again

A lot of men have also become the new public toilet in town.

If you refuse to empower your wife and she still manages to become great, what would you do? God is the master planner; no man can determine how far someone else will go in life. Remember, you can slow down destiny, but you can't stop it.

There are people that if you even keep in a hole or prison for years, they will still succeed, just like Joseph and Obasanjo did.

Simply prioritize what you want in a woman and choose someone you can trust. A common mistake people make is trying to mold, control, or limit others to fit their preferences.

meobizy:
If marriage tire person, move. Nobody suppose die for unnatural union. At the end of the day, both parties will turn out all right.

You know it is not fair when the "he" gender might have heavily invested on the "she" gender for many years as is always the case.

Baronthecelebri:
Foolish men marry

Who be this one?

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

I've already left this one in my mind, e remain make i evict myself...
E go shock the werey.

what are the causes of all this?
there are numerous of them but since the subject matter is on women then it is worthy to note that some women just get married to answer "Mrs", for others to come to their wedding, cultural and all kinds of pressure, using marriage as a means to escape level of life etc.

but in all, women are more loyal when poor and when rich

women hide their intensions and bad character.

social media, western copy copy and movies are also contributing largely

i know of a pastor whom the wife have been having affairs as she wants with the excuse that the husband does not do her well in bed.

Merry100:
Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

What exactly have you negated in the post you responded to?

Merry100:
A lot of men have also become the new public toilet in town. Simply take the time to study the woman you want to marry properly.

If you refuse to empower your wife and she still manages to become great, what would you do? God is the master planner; no man can determine how far someone else will go in life. Remember, you can slow down destiny, but you can't stop it.

There are people that if you even keep in a hole or prison for years, they will still succeed, just like Joseph and Obasanjo did.

Prioritize what you want in a woman and choose someone you can trust. You shouldn't try to mold, control, or limit a person to fit your preference.

As much as i agree with you in some lines, but the bolded will never and can never affect a mans mental health, but the society will demonize the woman if she get caught, give 10 married women- 100mil to start a business and in a year time 8 will leave their husband, most women are opportunist.

Never brag about your morals until you have money to fund your temptation, their is a lot hidden in a woman character that money will expose.

2aces:
Men of these days don't really know why they are getting married, some do it because they see their friends or mates do and they don't want to be left behind, others do it because of societal pressure.
You should understand marriage is not mandatory to any man, you should only decide getting married When you have gained enough maturity to understand it's implications, so you don't get disappointed and full of regret when you finally get to know what is required of you as a family man or woman.

Thank you or to compete with their siblings for children as if na so them dey do.

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Marriage was never meant to be a do-or-die affair, to begin with.

Merry100:
➜Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects. Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

Vashti did not fail in her duties. She was instead married to a sick man and refused to debase herself.

Na them sabi

Kobojunkie:
Vashti did not fail in her duties. She was instead married to a sick man and refused to debase herself.

And she married a more handsome young man and lived happily ever after

VeeVeeMyLuv:
What do you expect? 🤷🏼
The present economic situation in the country is suffocating.

Abi o!! 😂😂😂😂😂

TemmyT002:
➜And she married a more handsome young man and lived happily ever after

huh?

tunde1200:
➜Think about it well and call him and tell him his fault before leaving. Separation of marriage has negative effects on children.

Negative effects of separation or divorce can be easily resolved over time. However, the damage of being raised in a dysfunctional home/marriage leaves almost lifelong damage on the children and the adults they later become.

spiceadole:
➜Me too. I'm thoroughly tired of the whole arrangement

Yes, marriage is not a do-or-die affair. But please endeavor to ensure the children are not abandoned in all of this, no matter the decision you make at the end.

Heffalump:
Marriage is not for every lady. Some of you seek marriage to destroy a man.

God bless u.... Evil botches 😂

essentialone1:
➜Why desire for marriage in the first place, if you know you have no intentional commitment to remain in it?

I have rarely heard people say they go into marriage without wanting to commit. However, like every contract out there, if the reality does not fit the details expected, it is OK to walk out of it for your good — mental, physical, and emotional health combined.

The foolish thing to do under any circumstance is to commit to that which you know hurts you — mentally, physically, and emotionally.

Merry100:
Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

Can you explain in detail what a man would be doing to be certain he is treating his wife well?

Seunomobo:
I've already left this one in my mind, e remain make i evict myself...
E go shock the werey.

Do you know whether himself dey pray secretly seh mek you vamoose quick quick.

OZIOGU1:
...➜give 10 married women- 100mil to start a business and in a year time 8 will leave their husband, most women are opportunist. Never brag about your morals until you have money to fund your temptation, their is a lot hidden in a woman character that money will expose.

Opportunists or maybe people who had no business in marriage, to begin with?

Society, not only demonizes women who would choose to forego marriage altogether but also casts them down as unworthy elements in almost everything. However, with that much money, such women can build for themselves a standing that elevates them above society's scrutiny, allowing themto discard all other shackes that had previously been imposed on them by it.

Merry100:
Stop comparing puff-puff to hamburger. Marrying a king means accepting the responsibilities of a queen. Queen Vashti simply failed in her duties, which angered both the king and his subjects.

Don't be biased or one-sided. If most men also treated their wives well, their wives would happily stay with them.

See how you input a Daft comparison... No reply from me shaaa!!

Kobojunkie:
Yes, marriage is not a do-or-die affair. But please endeavor to ensure the children are not abandoned in all of this, no matter the decision you make at the end.

They will be fine.
I hope I get custody of my children.
They are the only reason I got married in the first place.

Holycity:
I may leave mine soon

Why do you want to leave yours ?...

Marraige only benefits women, you should be celebrating.

dequir:
Do you know whether himself dey pray secretly seh mek you vamoose quick quick.

Well this one sef dey....
Na my own matter not his..

Pennywise2:
Those of you accusing marriage institute should prepare to explain yourself to the creator. He is the author of marriage

Liar. Your fake misogynistic bible that a man wrote to put women under bondage.