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Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Chilipepper(op): 3:17pm On Mar 18, 2025
“This thing we are living in Nigeria no be life” — Man laments after seeing a young couple abroad already settled with three kids.

Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by EmperorIsaac(m): 4:43pm On Mar 18, 2025
grin In that same America, I once saw homeless people inside terrible cold.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Pierocash(m): 4:46pm On Mar 18, 2025
People talk rubbish once they see one thing they admire abroad. There are 50yr olds over there without wives. In Nigeria here too, there 22,23 year olds with 2,3 kids too
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Commentor: 5:50pm On Mar 18, 2025
You went to ask the guy and his woman what they do, abi?

huh
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by erad(m): 2:20am On Mar 19, 2025
Inferiority complex at best.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Maj196(m): 3:17am On Mar 19, 2025
Because you go abroad, you don make am for life
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by oz4real83(m): 5:27am On Mar 19, 2025
Nonsense talk, you didn't say anything about those oyinbos always begging "can you spare a dollar please" angry
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by SporaD8: 7:09am On Mar 19, 2025
Pierocash:
People talk rubbish once they see one thing they admire abroad. There are 50yr olds over there without wives. In Nigeria here too, there 22,23 year olds with 2,3 kids too
It's called "Minimalistic mentality" otherwise known as "Pea-size Brain". Always using a singular attitude to qualify a group or using a lone street to describe a City state!
A minimalized brain will pick on a single word and expand it to the size of a library! Why? That's the only level at which their Pea-size Brain can effectively operate!
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Talkisneeded(m): 8:37am On Mar 19, 2025
Person way chop craze,look at this definition of progress..


I sell herbs tho
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Dzzzz: 8:41am On Mar 19, 2025
E touch the soul😂😂
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by GreaterFuture(m): 10:04am On Mar 19, 2025
"Pablo of UNN"
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by workchopNG: 1:51pm On Mar 19, 2025
This is not inferiority complex or dust-yarning...

It's hard to see a 24 year old guy getting married in Nigeria talk more of having 3 kids. Most times when it happens, it'll be because of unwanted pregnancy.

But in the west, seeing 19 Yr old getting married to 18 Yr old is rampant.

Or is it about a 24 year old working in a good company that pays prety good? Highest is NNPC with conne, and Telecoms. We don't have enough company that pays good where you can find young people of that age.

So I agree, no be life we dey live here. I was in 3rd year of a 5 years course at 24🤦
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Nnamdipapa(m):
Balderish!

Abroad, they have no life and only live to pay bills and taxes. I see adults walking/working like robots and only waiting for their two weeks' vacation and back to their empty robotic life.


Abroad, they have very useless and crappy weather, in my country it gets very dark from 5pm for five months, It get cold below -35 Celsuis and sometimes you wonder what the Bleep you are even doing here. I lived in my home for ten years without talking to my Neighbours and everyone goes out of their ways to avoid each other.

Abroad, I go out on the street and everywhere is silent like a cemetery, sometimes I have to pinch myself to realize I am still alive. It is fvucking monotonous and boring.

Abroad, you can become homeless very quickly if you are unable to pay your bills, the past 6 months, I was paying about N7m per month ion mortgages and bills and there are no excuses.

Abroad, people are always tensed up, you cannot afford to fall sick as your bills continue to come in the mail, no one really cares about you in the real sense of the world, over 99% of the smiles are fake and I have learnt those fake smiles. You are taxed for everything.

Nigeria and Africa are the place to be if you want to enjoy but you must have money.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by TUANKU(m): 3:18pm On Mar 19, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
grin In that same America, I once saw homeless people inside terrible cold.
But can you sincerely compare the living standards in both?
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by Divaan: 3:28pm On Mar 19, 2025
When life gives you lemon, make lemonade
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by CodeTemplarr: 4:19pm On Mar 19, 2025
Not ao special.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by EmperorIsaac(m): 4:40pm On Mar 19, 2025
TUANKU:
But can you sincerely compare the living standards in both?
Of course not. America is a first world country; Nigeria is 3rd world (a world is assumed to be 100yrs apart from the other). So we are 300 years behind civilization! It can't be the same.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by TUANKU(m): 5:42pm On Mar 19, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
Of course not. America is a first world country; Nigeria is 3rd world (a world is assumed to be 100yrs apart from the other). So we are 300 years behind civilization! It can't be the same.
Malaysia, Qatar, UAE, Singapore...these are 3rd world as well but can you compare the standard of living in Nigeria with any of these?
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by EmperorIsaac(m): 7:05pm On Mar 19, 2025
TUANKU:
Malaysia, Qatar, UAE, Singapore...these are 3rd world as well but can you compare the standard of living in Nigeria with any of these?
I understand you sha. Our case is different because we are not a nation in the true sense of it like Singapore et al.
Re: Life In Nigeria Is Not Life: Man Laments After Seeing Young White Couple Abroad by TUANKU(m): 8:22pm On Mar 19, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
I understand you sha. Our case is different because we are not a nation in the true sense of it like Singapore et al.
Malaysia is made up of Malays, Chinese, Indians, Iban, Dusun etc so diversity is not an issue, we are not just ready for governance.
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