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Women's reproductive health decline by age and as soon they are approaching 40 their chance of giving birth to healthy babies become slimmer. Why do you think there is rolise in down syndrome, ADHD, special education needs children. Because career women are given birth late and it impacts the children creating a problem for the couple for a long term. I'll advice you, go for a younger lady and save yourself the stress. Remember, true love is not a feeling

ednut1:
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Lol! I don't know why they think they are perfect. Like we don't have men with issues and people just assume it is the wife.

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

Does a good product stay long on the shelf?
Of course no. The fact that she remained unmarried up till about 36 yrs is a red flag and you need a lot of digging to know why.
Now talking about reproduction and menopause, she is obviously nearer to her menopause than farther from it at 36. Do your research, most women who are above 30 cannot have normal delivery except through C section.
My wife had our 1st born at 21 and our last born at almost 26. I have the best marriage. She is entering her menopause now at 42.

This thing is not debatable as it glaring for you to see. Don’t marry out of pity.

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ednut1:
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Yeahh..
But can still father millions.
But from 65 chances of having Achondroplasia sets in. Though, it's still not scientifically appreciable because men have had kids even into their 80s and 90s provided they can achieve and sustain erection to propel the semen. That can't be said of the women.

Memory Verse
Each ejaculation by a man constitutes 20million and all you need to fertilize an Egg is just one healthy one. That can't be compared to a lady who have only 500 eggs to play with after puberty till menopause with each egg dissolving per month, sometimes 2 incidentally (12 months a year)

Afolue:
sure. Why not.! They are even the best compared to the younger inexperienced Ladies. The younger ones, their mind dey back they can choose to do you bad and believe they can go scot free. But see the matured ones of 30s up, you will be pampered, loved and respected. Biological clock has nothing to do with their reproductive system as long as they’re fertile. She can have all kids in her 40s’. It is God that gives long life

Having kids at 40 is a risk. More issues like chromosomal abnormalities eg Downs, miscarriages, malformations etc. Even if they are fertile, u have to consider all such
And no god has nothing to do with anything

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

See the way you dey pronounce failed as if you are their god. If you had met me years ago you would have also used the same adjective

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

It's risky....start firing the cylinder now asap even before you guys settle down. Don't wait till next year.

No sex before marriage is not for ladies that's 35 n above...no time to waste time

AliEzeOlu:
Hello friends, so I met this lady in 2022 and we plan to settle down early next year. But the problem is, she's gonna clock 36 in December.

I heard about ladies and their biological clock plus menopause etc. I dont know, considering women's biological clock, is it advisable for a 40 year old man to marry a 36y/o?

Try and Get her Pregnant before tying any knot, if you want her to be the Mother of your kids.

37 by when u'd marry her.

Oga dis one u hv to gv her belle now, them marry later. No go waste money o

Smilleydr:
Taaaaaaaa taaaaaaa una dey talk shaaa

See how you just analyze man like you .

U dey mind the idiot....

Man dey call another man failure....cos say Ur papa leave property for you...

Mumu boy

pocohantas:
Lol! I don't know why they think they are perfect. Like we don't have men with issues and people just assume it is the wife.

miscarriages, Down syndrome and other conditions are sometimes caused by the sperm but we rather face women only 😂

Afolue:
sure. Why not.! They are even the best compared to the younger inexperienced Ladies. The younger ones, their mind dey back they can choose to do you bad and believe they can go scot free. But see the matured ones of 30s up, you will be pampered, loved and respected. Biological clock has nothing to do with their reproductive system as long as they’re fertile. She can have all kids in her 40s’. It is God that gives long life

Dey play

IyanAtiEgusi:
Candidlady cococandy thegreatiyaebe pocohantas mariangeles

how far with una clock?

I knew it!!!

I know that someone must definitely mention Pocohantas in this matter

Aswear, that babe don suffer no be small for this evening newspaper of a thing for this nairaland

Tell us when menoSTOP starts

bigpicture001:
It may b difficult for her.. and sh can't give birth to more than 2 children at 2years child spacing...



https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2018%2F02%2FGraphic-3.png&tbnid=zAUxXrrGsnb06M&vet=1&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk%2Ffei%2Fat-what-age-does-fertility-begin-to-decrease%2F&docid=nse5X0EgLXRKzM&w=1300&h=722&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim%2Fm1%2F2&kgs=9fffca7caa75b973

What!? Many women of 40s are having babies as much as they like and you are here talking about someone of 30s.

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

You go too like amebo

Tufia

adedayoa2:
She's still menstruating and ovulating? She will give birth at 36. Some of us are still birthing at 40. Why won't a 36yr old give birth if she's still menstruating and ovulating.

U dnt get it brother... She will b ovulating and menstruating... Only problem is miscarriage upon miscarriage... And each of the miscarriage, sh will bleed scarily... Like over two weeks or more ND nearly lose her life.. and some will carry the babe throughout nine months and die at stage of child birth if sh goes natural no process....

N. B, it's not true for ALL aged ladies.. many of them still have save delivery

Afolue:
sure. Why not.! They are even the best compared to the younger inexperienced Ladies. The younger ones, their mind dey back they can choose to do you bad and believe they can go scot free. But see the matured ones of 30s up, you will be pampered, loved and respected. Biological clock has nothing to do with their reproductive system as long as they’re fertile. She can have all kids in her 40s’. It is God that gives long life

Don't take this silly advice..
Nigerian men and their quest to normalise every nonsense.
Someone will marry an olosho because she has "experience"! What experience!?
She will pamper understand, bla bla bla.. There are many young gals that can pamper and understand ahbegi.. A lady will waste her youth messing around and you want some innocent guy to suffer the consequences, in the name of getting an "experienced wife". No be me and una..
Let her go and marry those who has been playing royal rumble in different hotel rooms with..

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

How is a 35 year old a failed person?

Ladies that wait for rich or better men and get old will have to face two very disturbing realization,

1. That most men are same, sh only wasted her time..

2. She will face the fearful fight against childlessness...

owobokiri:
How is a 35 year old a failed person?

The tailer guy has accepted his fate.. ND lives in a single room, eats only from buying in the plates from street wheelbarrow vendure.. argues with all the banks each time his 2naira is debited for whatever purpose..

Can't afford pos charges to the extent of 100 naira.. he would rather work to the bank... Stopped using opay when they introduced 10 naira charge on transfer...

Remember, I told u, it's not fiction.. I know these people one on one

Afolue:
what makes you think I will disagree with you.? But take it or leave it, Ladies of 30s up have seen a lot. More experienced, ready to be more sensible because their clock is ticking to a disadvantage already. If na you , you no go get sense?. Imagine you are in primary 1 when your mates are writing common entrance! And the ones wey no go get sense at that mature level can never have sense Because e don dey their blood. And their ways never hides unlike the younger ones that can pretend.

You are right to some extent but some of them no still get sense because by the time dem go realize themselves, e don too late. Bad character can stop any lady irrespective of her age.

bigpicture001:
U dnt get it brother... She will b ovulating and menstruating... Only problem is miscarriage upon miscarriage... And each of the miscarriage, sh will bleed scarily... Like over two weeks or more ND nearly lose her life.. and some will carry the babe throughout nine months and die at stage of child birth if sh goes natural no process....

N. B, it's not true for ALL aged ladies.. many of them still have save delivery

Yes o, many still give birth even to multiple babies. This child bearing thing is quite scary. Make God answer those wey still dey look for.

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

There is no magical age and each person is unique.

Before you move the relationship into very serious stage, in addition to the usual STD test, GenoType Test, please have her do:

1. A Pelvic Scan, this will tell you the physical conditions of her ovaries, womb, etc
2. Anti-mullerian Hormone Test, this will tell you how much is left of her eggs...be cautious if the results come at the lower range.
3. Do all the test on the Fertility Profile, just tell the lab that you want a fertility profile test and they will know the tests to conduct.

Thank me later.

ednut1:
miscarriages, Down syndrome and other conditions are sometimes caused by the sperm but we rather face women only 😂

The Index Question remains...
Can you judiciously pick a woman of 36 over a woman of 26, if you love both of them, they are of same tribe, same accent, same beauty, same academic fate, with both doing well at the same time and both respectful...?

Secondly, which of the above two women would you advise your Son or Younger brother to marry, especially when he doesn't have kids yet.

Be honest and let's stick to the OP's Topic
Please answer me, I'm waiting

APOPTOSIS:
The Index Question remains...
Can you judiciously pick a woman of 36 over a woman of 26, if you love both of them, they are of same tribe, same accent, same beauty, same academic fate, with both doing well at the same time and both respectful...?

Secondly, which of the above two women would you advise your Younger brother to marry, especially when he doesn't have kids yet.

Be honest and let's stick to the OP's Topic
Please answer me.

read my original post. His potential weak sperm will do well with a younger babe

ednut1:
read my original post. His potential weak sperm will do well with a younger babe

👌 Perfect.
U nailed it.
Let's remove sentiments. GOOD
I have managed Young Guys with Azoospermia who have got auto-antibodies against their spermatozoa. Life is not fair. It can go either way no doubt. But the OP's question is entirely dependent on AGE.
In that context, the women are more implicated.

There's no fix age for menopause,I think it depends on the body system. Back then some women have birth to a children with a 25 year old gap with another child.

Furthermore, I don't know if they swear for Naija ladies when it comes to age. Check if 36 is really her age cos she may have reduced it by 5 years. That's how one told me she's 35yrs and she graduated from the University 2008 that's to say she graduated from the University at age 17

This life hen he sha no balance we'll have once dated a 32 years old lady in view or intented to give birth by all means we did all we can untill I realized what science said it's true that giving birth earlier is better than later 30and above..



Until I left her to oregance a 26years old lady pam sharp sharp belle don come

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

You and 'failed" men
How successful are you,or don't you know that a man can make it anytime in his life,age notwithstanding?

Truvelisback:
So, age is your yardstick for maturity? Lol, i have seen immature ladies in their 40s and beyond. And the age of ladies doesn't guaranty that you will be pampered, loved and respected by them except you haven't met ladies in those age range you mention that are nasty in their behaviours.

Most will pamper and respect you, except single mothers.

ediko5:
There's no fix age for menopause,I think it depends on the body system. Back then some women have birth to a children with a 25 year old gap with another child.

Furthermore, I don't know if they swear for Naija ladies when it comes to age. Check if 36 is really her age cos she may have reduced it by 5 years. That's how one told me she's 35yrs and she graduated from the University 2008 that's to say she graduated from the University at age 17

No vex bro na naija girl show you she .he be that 😂😆