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bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

Inability to have children does not mean a couple has failed. It's God that gives children. Don't mock a man with something he has no control over.

happney65:
Why would you even consider a 36 year old for anything?

Aha!

Are you cursed or something?

Are you suffering from inferiority complex so tey you cant see younger girls,younger pussies below the age of 30 around you?

Which kain of rubbish and foolishness is that?

P.S. I am not even talking about infertility. But the fact that a 36year is who you are considering for marriage screams inferiority complex

Fvck you mehn

Oh my gosh, this guy

JustcallmeFavou:
What happened to talking to God about it? Or if you don't belong to any religion, what happened to going for a good medical checkup to be done on the both of you?

sister please leave God out of this.

Because even God sef pick virgin Mary who is not up to 17 years to birth his only begotten son Jesus Christ.

Wetin God wan tell you when his actions have spoken louder than his words?

No make God run you street my sister

APOPTOSIS:
How many of them?
You can't be using just one in a statistically relevant society.

Did you know one is almost negligible where you have millions.
Pray you don't find yourself in such web in current economic environment 😭😭

That's the problem with most people who are not big picture thinkers

Just because we live in a society where statistics is not taken seriously AKA Na statistics we go chop people, doesn't mean we shouldn't know basic difference between Generalities and Exceptions

Few lucky exceptions are statistically insignificant.

ednut1:
miscarriages, Down syndrome and other conditions are sometimes caused by the sperm but we rather face women only 😂

False. Miscarriages are random biological occurrences, so no parents are at fault as it's caused by chromosomal abnormalities during early development but Down syndrome is linked to the maternal side because of changes in egg cells as women age.

pansophist:
My sister please leave God out of this.

Because even God sef pick virgin Mary to birth his only begotten son Jesus Christ.

Wetin God wan tell you when his actions have spoken louder than his words?

No make God run you street my sister

The last part got me laughing though 😀! Okay, I don hear you.

sillysally:
False. Miscarriages are random biological occurrences, so no parents are at fault as it's caused by chromosomal abnormalities during early development but Down syndrome is linked to the maternal side because of changes in egg cells as women age.

😒🥱

Afolue:
women have secrets, keep secrets and die with it.

No man can know a olosho from a none-olosho girl. It is only age that humbles them mainly. Younger girls are worse off.

Ain’t they the ones dating most fetish yahoo boys?, how can one know she has not been use? It is only a matter of time and that falls in the categories of the matured Ladies.

Plausible take

Looking at it critically, I will take a wild guess that ladies 18-24 y/o with a strong, present and financially well to do fathers are the minority, most of them from such homes are the exceptions in the grand scheme of things.

happney65:
Why would you even consider a 36 year old for anything?

Aha!

Are you cursed or something?

Are you suffering from inferiority complex so tey you cant see younger girls,younger pussies below the age of 30 around you?

Which kain of rubbish and foolishness is that?

P.S. I am not even talking about infertility. But the fact that a 36year is who you are considering for marriage screams inferiority complex

Fvck you mehn

Easy bro. 36 year old ladies are human beings too. The curse words aren't necessary. Thanks.

AngelicBeing:
Hmmmmm 🤔

yes. lol the doctor told her to have a bed rest from the 4month she found out until her DD.

Ganjafama:
Inability to have children does not mean a couple has failed. It's God that gives children. Don't mock a man with something he has no control over.

Read well again....

hardknocksng:
yes. lol the doctor told her to have a bed rest from the 4month she found out until her DD.

Wow , kudos to her jare

But on the day of delivery, she may experience complications!

adedayoa2:
She's still menstruating and ovulating? She will give birth at 36. Some of us are still birthing at 40. Why won't a 36yr old give birth if she's still menstruating and ovulating.

What is down syndrome?

indigenous234:
I would advise against marrying a lady over 30 years old. My reasoning is not primarily about menopause and all that but the risk of birthing a child with Down syndrome increases once the woman crosses 35. It’s something you need to consider though. I married my wife when she was 30 and we have 4 lovely children. Unfortunately, the last child turned out to have the Down syndrome. Upon research and enquiries, it turned out there’s no medical explanation as to why it turned out so but that there’s a prevalence of ladies over 35 birthing children with Down syndrome. Have in mind that my wife gave birth to the last child when she’s 40. So, depending on the number of kids you intend having and the space in having the children, the risk increases as the day passes by. So I advise against marrying a woman over 35 certainly.

Love800:
But on the day of delivery, she may experience complications!

she will not experience complication because she's 36, she may experience complication because something is wrong, any woman of any age can experience complication.

indigenous234:
I would advise against marrying a lady over 30 years old. My reasoning is not primarily about menopause and all that but the risk of birthing a child with Down syndrome increases once the woman crosses 35. It’s something you need to consider though. I married my wife when she was 30 and we have 4 lovely children. Unfortunately, the last child turned out to have the Down syndrome. Upon research and enquiries, it turned out there’s no medical explanation as to why it turned out so but that there’s a prevalence of ladies over 35 birthing children with Down syndrome. Have in mind that my wife gave birth to the last child when she’s 40. So, depending on the number of kids you intend having and the space in having the children, the risk increases as the day passes by. So I advise against marrying a woman over 35 certainly.

because you have this experience does not mean every 40 year old will give birth to that kind of child, have you not seen a woman in her 20's with that kind of a child? Well, thank God for science and tech, there's scan and scan detects such babies now.

Okay.

I appreciate.

adedayoa2:
she will not experience complication because she's 36, she may experience complication because something is wrong, any woman of any age can experience complication.

adedayoa2:
because you have this experience does not mean every 40 year old will give birth to that kind of child, have you not seen a woman in her 20's with that kind of a child? Well, thank God for science and tech, there's scan and scan detects such babies now.

I think you skipped where I said there’s a prevalence of women over 35” It doesn’t mean that it occurs only within that age bracket. Yes, science has improved but our medical facilities still lag behind unfortunately. We did ultrasound in about 3 different diagnostic centres but they didn’t detect it and there’s no medical explanation as to the cause.

Love800:
What is down syndrome?

Use Google

Alright.

I appreciate.

indigenous234:
Use Google

bigpicture001:
All my sister's... Married in their mid twenties.. except our last born.. who refused to marry.... Sh continue to turn middle income guyz down... Guyz dt are very very serious... Sh was waiting for a rich abroad based guyz who usually toast and flex her .. sh is very fine... Sh waited until sh turned 36 .. ND later went to one of those guyz dt HV been on her case for 8years ND said yes... They are now married now for 5 yes...
Guess what! No child

Why would a man pursue a woman for almost a decade?

With no child in view, how does he feel and what are his plans?

Atarakpa:
if he loves the lady. He should get her pregnant then within space of two months get everything done simple. But in other hand if she didn't conceive, I believe he knows what to do. Or better still they can adopt.

Most women and even men as well aren't in love with their adopted children as they would with their biological children.

Gerrard59:
Why would a man pursue a woman for almost a decade?

With no child in view, how does he feel and what are his plans?


Most women and even men as well aren't in love with their adopted children as they would with their biological children.

is natural once is not your blood even your sister or brother kids you can't compare the love to that of your child.

descarado:
Most of them shoot zero like FFK When you hear married nigeria women commit adultery. This is one of the reasons. Since society is hostile to divorced women, women have to device means to balance the equation.

Some men can't get it up at all. It might be getting up during courtship,not knowing bobo dey use drug or anything. Post wedding and bliss. Thing dey like cold jelly. Or it will get up and quickly die. Na so you go dey do Mouth Action till your mouth start hurting like hell. Then you start calculating. You will never win. Another unfortunate woman is ever ready to replace you and society, religion, friends and family will come for your head.

When you are OK and man refuses to see a doctor, you will want to try outside to see if it will click. Some are so unhealthy. Children with genetic disorders are as a result of bad egg and sperm squarely.

And as they age, the vibrancy will just start to die.
It takes time to stand. Guy can't even pump for 5 min max. If a man is 40 and above and still active in bed, that's a blessing for the spouse. Medical records don't lie. A woman can freeze her eggs.
Action is still on till she is ready to die. We are yet to talk about midlife crises. Guess many of them don't know what that is.
Imagine a man talking about menopause.

They will neva take responsibility, In a country with over 200 million population, the largest in africa ...only a woman can posit "most of them shoot like FFk" ... if dem cum dey shoot like 2 face nko 🙂
check the nearest face me i face you in your area, count the children per household and see how lame your aspersions are

You are not a LovePeddler, shey !! how many men above 40yrs have you slept with to make such conclusions, on the contrary no scientific research posits Men fertility reduce with age, late alaafin of Oyo had children in his 90's, with no case of paternity fraud


In medical practice and science there is no such thing as unhealthy sperm or egg 🤣 its either fertile or not, But research as shown women to be more liable to infertility than men cos of abortion, womb defects and egg dwindling rate

Action is still on, go n research women above 60yrs and how often they get sex if they are luck to still have a partner

Afolue:
where does maturity comes to play then as an advantage in child birth? Every woman can be prone to complications depending on her biological make ups. Tell me you haven’t seen matured women carrying new born and even pregnant

I clearly wrote there having kids from 40 years carries MORE risks. I never said over 40 year old women dont have babies.
Learn to read and write

That is God's miracle which we pray for its likes everyday... Though miracles are not common.

iwaeda:
I have seen a 63 year old woman, given birth. God doesn't deal with number.

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

Are serious this is scary

iwaeda:
I have seen a 63 year old woman, given birth. God doesn't deal with number.

Lies from the pit of hell

jaephoenix:
I clearly wrote there having kids from 40 years carries MORE risks. I never said over 40 year old women dont have babies.
Learn to read and write

improve in your own understanding.

bigpicture001:
All my sister's... Married in their mid twenties.. except our last born.. who refused to marry.... Sh continue to turn middle income guyz down... Guyz dt are very very serious... Sh was waiting for a rich abroad based guyz who usually toast and flex her .. sh is very fine... Sh waited until sh turned 36 .. ND later went to one of those guyz dt HV been on her case for 8years ND said yes... They are now married now for 5 yes...


Guess what! No child

Chaii!