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Abeg oga shift. Religious mentality

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless, sometimes I ask myself, do some of these pastors lack what to preach before dishing such funny sermons, or what? SMH

They are bunch of fools deceiving the gullible once. Ask me wether his father deflowered his mother. Where is it in the Bible tats says you must marry whoever you deflowered

elmodee7:
He is talking to his brainwashed gullible flock

Life is a teacher until you are taught you will not believe some certain things happen under the sun

GUNITGuy:
They're people living their lives without issues but why does this thing applies to only poor christian men...
Prostitutes still progress too even get married to decent men, Elon musk has 4 baby mama's,
Life doesn't have a one fit all formula ...
Most of this are used to keep people from being wayward anyway

Wait until you experience challenges of life then you will know life is a mystery.
People go extra miles to solve their problems, and they will not tell you. Also, the cloth covers so many lives secrets stop unnecessary comparison because fingers are not equal

Guestmale:
For complete forgiveness and clear conscience you need to seek her forgiveness too because when you committed such sin like rape, you sinned against God and the person you raped.
And refusal to do the restitution may hinder you from entering heaven.

Your last sentence is hypocrisy

There's nowhere such in the Bible

Sin like rape, what of other sin don't need restitution. How many restitution did Paul make or David

Restitution isn't a criteria for making heaven

Racoon:
https://thenationonlineng.net/failing-to-marry-a-woman-you-deflowered-has-consequences-pastor-olukoya-warns/

This thief and herbalist patroniser should shut the fvck up.

Una don come again o... Every pastor wan trend now.. Laslastica

Racoon:
Abeg where this epistle dey for the holy Bible?

The simple thing is to examine your life if you fall into the category. I have always avoided breaking the hymen of any girl to avoid such.

franchasng:

..yes na..I am saying the truth 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dpaulie:
Baba Virgin, Dey play
I trust you married your wife a virgin too

I'm not married, i became a father when I was 17 , so I raised my daughter not to make same mistake me and her mother made

Ade1177:
lol

Celebrities be steady tearing ass every day

Keep progressing

Poor man must be celibate and pay tithe regularly

..abi. You are saying the truth

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless, sometimes I ask myself, do some of these pastors lack what to preach before dishing such funny sermons, or what? SMH

This ain't funny sermon bruh.... It's f***ing true

Gboom:
Wait until you experience challenges of life then you will know life is a mystery.
People go extra miles to solve their problems, and they will not tell you. Also, the cloth covers so many lives secrets stop unnecessary comparison because fingers are not equal

Yeah fingers are not equal....But this is a General rule ...All people go through some challenges but is it all blamed on Deflowering a lady you didn't marry....
Come if you were to go by this most of Ladies in within age marrying group aren't virgins .... Whose being Deflowering them ...More women are into S** than guys ... remember they get it easier ..if you know the level of immortality amongst ladies you go cry...They can practically sleep with any age group of men as compared to men who are usually limited to young ones only to get to 27yrs upward desiring a gentle man they once rejected, becoming more respectful and even decent ...
We're living in an age of Women liberation we've never seen before ...
How do we connect Deflowering women as a reason for challenges......
The problem is we are already sexually conscious so much but pretend it isn't there ..if you want to follow bible completely get people married as much as possible that's what Paul said rather than burn ..
Women seduce men at will no one controls them you think they won't be issues..Paul had warned the Church about this but we seems to Fear women particularly we pentecostals if we truly want to adhere strictly..you must all be joking ...Yet the Church itself is experiencing a low marriage rate for the last 15yrs than ever before ...they won't tell you that .....
What could be responsible for that??
We're entering more serious times ahead..
Currently a campaign to encourage Polygamy is actually growing on social media judging by current reality ... Because does it make sense most ladies prefer sleeping with people's husbands for reasons best known to them ..A group of people have said side chicks are what kept monogamy if ladies demand marriage from men before sleeping with them ...I bet you many so called christian men would have as much as 50 wives ... Balthazar was just a eye opener of what women are capable of doing particularly in secret
When are we going to wake up...this are issuea

Racoon:
https://thenationonlineng.net/failing-to-marry-a-woman-you-deflowered-has-consequences-pastor-olukoya-warns/

Hey friend,
I totally get why teachings like this can feel scary or overwhelming. The idea that a single mistake could haunt you (or your family) forever is terrifying. But let’s take a deep breath and unpack this together, because the Bible’s message about forgiveness and freedom is way more hopeful than fear-driven rules.
1. Sexual mistakes don’t define your destiny
We’ve all messed up. Maybe you’ve had regrets about past relationships, or you’re worried about “curses” hanging over you. But here’s the thing: The Bible never says God brands you permanently for premarital sex. Yes, God calls us to honor our bodies and others (1 Corinthians 6:18), but He also calls us redeemed when we turn to Him. Think of the woman caught in adultery: Jesus didn’t curse her—He said, “Go and sin no more” (John 8:11). No shame. No baggage. Just grace.
2. Covenants are not accidents
Imagine a wedding: two people vow before God, family, and friends. That’s a covenant—intentional, sacred, and public. A one-night stand or a broken relationship? That’s not a covenant; that’s human brokenness. God isn’t in the business of binding you to toxic chains because of a mistake. Covenants in the Bible are about faithfulness (like marriage or God’s promises), not fear. You’re not spiritually “stuck” because of your past.
3. Demons don’t get to hijack your story
Fear-mongering about “demonic transfers” can mess with your head. But if you’ve given your life to Jesus, you’re under His authority, not the devil’s. Think of it like this: You’re a house. Jesus lives there. Demons can’t just barge in unless you let them (Matthew 12:29). Past mistakes? Confess them, let God clean house (1 John 1:9), and trust His protection. You’re not a helpless victim—you’re a child of God.
4. Your future is not cursed
Ever heard of someone saying, “My family has a curse—we’re all addicts/divorced/broken”? The Bible actually rejects this idea. Ezekiel 18 says you’re not doomed by your parents’ sins. And Jesus died to “redeem us from the curse” (Galatians 3:13). That means generational patterns can end with you. If your dad struggled with anger, you’re not doomed to repeat it. If you’ve had unhealthy relationships, God can rewrite your story. Your past doesn’t get the last word.
5. God’s grace > your guilt
Let’s get real: Guilt can feel like a backpack full of bricks. But Jesus says, “Take My yoke—it’s light” (Matthew 11:30). If you’ve messed up sexually, talk to God. He’s not disgusted; He’s waiting to heal you. I’ve met people who thought their past ruined their future marriage—only to see God restore trust, purity, and joy. Grace isn’t a band-aid; it’s a complete heart transplant.

So, what do you do now?
• Breathe. God isn’t out to punish you.
• Confess. Lay your regrets at Jesus’ feet—He’s a pro at washing away shame.
• Rebuke fear. If nightmares or anxiety plague you, pray boldly: “Jesus, You’re my protector. I reject every lie.”
• Move forward. Your future relationships aren’t doomed. Walk in wisdom, but don’t let fear steal your hope.
You’re not alone in this. We’ve all wrestled with guilt, but God’s love is bigger. Let Him rewrite your story—no curses attached.
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This is the heart of the Gospel: Our mess-ups are real, but God’s mercy is realer. 💛

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What about the men..
We are once virgins too..
Abi no be person wey deflower us?

Now that they are deflowered in very tender age. No more little boy or girl today.

Lol

Bmani:
What if nah condom dem take disvergin the geh nkor?

A comrade who thinks all the time.....

femi4:
Junks...you are quoting the laws. Provide evidence from the new testament.

Those that lived under the law, were ruled n guided by the law

So according to u d old Testament z null n void? Or z it not longer part of d bible?

GUNITGuy:
Yeah fingers are not equal....But this is a General rule ...All people go through some challenges but is it all blamed on Deflowering a lady you didn't marry....
Come if you were to go by this most of Ladies in within age marrying group aren't virgins .... Whose being Deflowering them ...More women are into S** than guys ... remember they get it easier ..if you know the level of immortality amongst ladies you go cry...They can practically sleep with any age group of men as compared to men who are usually limited to young ones only to get to 27yrs upward desiring a gentle man they once rejected, becoming more respectful and even decent ...
We're living in an age of Women liberation we've never seen before ...
How do we connect Deflowering women as a reason for challenges......
The problem is we are already sexually conscious so much but pretend it isn't there ..if you want to follow bible completely get people married as much as possible that's what Paul said rather than burn ..
Women seduce men at will no one controls them you think they won't be issues..Paul had warned the Church about this but we seems to Fear women particularly we pentecostals if we truly want to adhere strictly..you must all be joking ...Yet the Church itself is experiencing a low marriage rate for the last 15yrs than ever before ...they won't tell you that .....
What could be responsible for that??
We're entering more serious times ahead..
Currently a campaign to encourage Polygamy is actually growing on social media judging by current reality ... Because does it make sense most ladies prefer sleeping with people's husbands for reasons best known to them ..A group of people have said side chicks are what kept monogamy if ladies demand marriage from men before sleeping with them ...I bet you many so called christian men would have as much as 50 wives ... Balthazar was just a eye opener of what women are capable of doing particularly in secret
When are we going to wake up...this are issuea

At the bolded. As a deliverance minister, Dr Olukoya must have seen a lot of cases like that before he came out to say what he said.
Life is full of mystery; nobody will come out publicly that the cause of his problem is the girl he deflowered and not married to

Gboom:
At the bolded. As a deliverance minister, Dr Olukoya must have seen a lot of cases like that before he came out to say what he said.
Life is full of mystery; nobody will come out publicly that the cause of his problem is the girl he deflowered and not married to

Ok now I get you ...I have never deflowered a girl before ooo...I don't know how it goes down there ...hope I am free sha

Kobojunkie:
Una be ogbonge fraudsters. Where in those passages any of the nonsense spewed dey? Show us!

Didn't u seen 👀where it was stated boldly that u must marry d girl u disvirgined(defiled?) Or pay d amount equivalent to her bride price to d father?

Or are you angry cos it wasn't stated to suit ur lustful desire?

GUNITGuy:
Ok now I get you ...I have never deflowered a girl before ooo...I don't know how it goes down there ...hope I am free sha

I know a handsome man in those days, he never got married and no kid either but womanize a lot. One day, a woman whose first born senior me like 2 years came to his office and they started cracking adult jokes. When the woman left, this baba told me a how he deflowered the woman and few others in the environment because they always like him. Although, I cannot conclude this was the root of his problem because some people's challenge of life has many roots

PexinPikin:
Didn't u seen 👀where it was stated boldly that u must marry d girl u disvirgined(defiled?) Or pay d amount equivalent to her bride price to d father?

Or are you angry cos it wasn't stated to suit ur lustful desire?

Eyin o. niro oshi! Since when did the Constitutional Law belonging to the descendants of Jacob that only applied only before YHWH destroyed the same Israel become the Constitutional Law to apply to people born in a far away country called Nigeria? You people are fraudsters!

Kobojunkie:
Una be ogbonge fraudsters. Where in those passages any of the nonsense spewed dey? Show us!

Didn't u see👀 where it was boldly written📝 dat u must either marry 💍d Lady u defiled or pay amount equivalent to her dowry to d father??
Or are you angry😤😤 cos d bible 📖 does not state it to suit ur lustful desire??
Please read📖 those verses slowly n carefully, don't rush it.
It's for ur own good. Moreover l wasn't d one dat wrote it sir

What about failing to marry the man that sponsor you or you promise to? Can we have a view on that?

Gboom:
✓ I know a handsome man in those days, he never got married and no kid either but womanize a lot. One day, a woman whose first born senior me like 2 years came to his office and they started cracking adult jokes. When the woman left, this baba told me a how he deflowered the woman and few others in the environment because they always like him. Although, I cannot conclude this was the root of his problem because some people's challenge of life has many roots

Nonsense jargons! Where are the problems of people like Brad Pitt, Elon Musk, etc. why the same no dey follow people wey everyone know? Did Olukoya, the mad man feeding you all these trash marry all the virgins he needed in his youth? Una go just dey carry megaphone dey spread madnews everywhere without stopping to reason or realize that you are just being used by this scammers against your own lives.

PexinPikin:
✓ Didn't u see👀 where it was boldly written📝 dat u must either marry 💍d Lady u defiled or pay amount equivalent to her dowry to d father??
Or are you angry😤😤 cos d bible 📖 does not state it to suit ur lustful desire??
Please read📖 those verses slowly n carefully, don't rush it.
It's for ur own good. Moreover l wasn't d one dat wrote it sir

✓ I am angry at the stewpidity of you quoting another country's Constitutional Law at your fellow Nigerians both in arrogance and ignorance.

✓ I am angry at the wickedness of a Nigerian such as yourself who for the sake of his ego alone things it reasonable to suggest that Laws which applied to a country that was eventually demolished by YHWH -- the God of that Country --- over 1900 years ago, should now apply in Nigeria because he wants them to.

✓ I am angry at the level of disrespect and disregard that you religious people particularly you Christians have toward YHWH -- God of Israel -- who swore by His name that Israel is His one and only people on the planet of men. You fraudsters are incapable of knowing him but your lying nature can't seem to keep you from lying that you do.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense jargons! Where are the problems of people like Brad Pitt, Elon Musk, etc. why the same no dey follow people wey everyone know? Did Olukoya, the mad man feeding you all these trash marry all the virgins he needed in his youth? Una go just dey carry megaphone dey spread madnews everywhere without stopping to reason or realize that you are just being used by this scammers against your own lives.

I believe life is teaching some terrible experience now that you cannot say it out hence the need to think it;s general
Why I'm reacting to your rubbish when I don't know whether you are a type from Yabaleft

Hmmm....

Sex is really deeper than what we think.

It's deeper than a blood covenant, two becoming one flesh.

As high as 90% of problems we struggle with emanate from sexual sins like fornication and adultery.

Gboom:
➜I believe life is teaching some terrible experience now that you cannot say it out hence the need to think it;s general Why I'm reacting to your rubbish when I don't know whether you are a type from Yabaleft

Dem don use your head mix cement finish be this.😂😂😂😂😂

You claim that Life is teaching me some terrible experiences. You don't know of these experiences, and though I have never displayed evidence of any kind to back the existence of such experience but you are certain it is so with me?😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Anyone else examining this would immediately pinpoint who the true Yabaleft inhabitant is... hint: it ain't me. 😆😆😆😆😆😆