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This is my life story
I am sharing my experience here about marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short. It is my life story

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property

If this story is true, then I thank God for the battle unseen the Lord has fight for you.. some people are not lucky enough to see this and have lived to regret it for life.. congratulations and I wish you the best

neolboy:
This is my life marriage experience

I am sharing my experience here about my marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January. Some people will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short.
It is my life story

Lesson learnt: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

I have to pick myself up again, though it's painful

Emmy000seun:
If this story is true, then I thank God for the battle unseen the Lord has fight for you.. some people are not lucky enough to see this and have lived to regret it for life.. congratulations and I wish you the best

This is my story, whenever i tell people they asked me if it's a movie. People find it hard to believe

So her family members were telling you to forgive her? Someone that is engaged with someone yet another man got her pregnant. Imagine the audacity? As if reverse was the case they will accept such person for their son. Wicked people everywhere.

She is a good lady,at least she didn't try to pin the pregnancy on you,she even had plans to confess to you.

Not like you're even a virgin sef.

Mtcheewww...

Modified:i was only catching cruise o,chai I never knew this will make FrontPage,see over 8 mentions,with some insulting me.

neolboy:
This is my story, whenever i tell people they asked me if it's a movie. People find it hard to believe

I'm shocked about your story but not surprised. This same thing happened to one of my guy, but in his own case, the girl told him he was the one responsible for the pregnancy. They did both traditional and white wedding. When the girl delivered, the boy was a carbon copy of her ex boyfriend. Now the stupid husband is the butt of our jokes in our place. The girl couldn't wait for the child to clock one year and she took in for the husband so as to tie the husband. The second son belongs to the husband, but the shame of the first child is tormenting him and he don't know what to do. The girl is presently pregnant with her third child. Imagine having another man's child as your first son?

No marriage deal if she is not a virgin


Only simp can marry a non virgin


Never you in your life Marry a non virgin

A non virgin is not worth been a wife

ComradeKunle:
I'm shocked about your story but not surprised. This same thing happened to one of my guy, but in his own case, the girl told him he was the one responsible for the pregnancy. They did both traditional and white wedding. When the girl delivered, the boy was a carbon copy of her ex boyfriend. Now the stupid husband is the butt of our jokes in our place. The girl couldn't wait for the child to clock one year and she took in for the husband so as to tie the husband. The second son belongs to the husband, but the shame of the first child is tormenting him and he don't know what to do. The girl is presently pregnant with her third child. Imagine having another man's child as your first son?

He should have ended it the moment he knew the baby wasn't his

neolboy:
He should have ended it the moment he knew the baby wasn't his

I don't know if she used jazz on him or outright stupidity. Even his siblings are using it to mock him at any slightest provocation. Imagine another man's child being your first son? Imagine the generational abnormally?

neolboy:
✓ Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Sad story but this your concluding moral no enter at all.

What if she had only gotten pregnant for the guy after you had already tied the knot? Na so you come live your life filled with anxiety be that?

The bottom part that really brought sweetness to my whole belle is that you didn't only chase her out of your house but out of your life entirely

Kobojunkie:
Sad story but this your concluding moral no enter at all.

What if she had only gotten pregnant for the guy after you had already tied the knot? Na so you can live your life filled with anxiety be that?

Exactly. Does pregnant test determines the father of the child? Hell no.

Kobojunkie:
Sad story but this your concluding moral no enter at all.

What if she had only gotten pregnant for the guy after you had already tied the knot? Na so you come live your life filled with anxiety be that?

Thank God say she got pregnant before tying the knot

ComradeKunle:
I don't know if she used jazz on him or outright stupidity. Even his siblings are using it to mock him at any slightest provocation. Imagine another man's child being your first son? Imagine the generational abnormally?

My people told me I got lucky that I was able to pull out on time

neolboy:
My people told me I got lucky that I was able to pull out on time

Exactly. You don't know what God did for you. If she or her mother has cooked vegetable soup for you eh........ My brother forget it. You will even name the child after your name.

neolboy:
✓ Thank God say she got pregnant before tying the knot

Thank which God? OP should instead be thankful to his dick for not letting him fall in a possible trap in this case. If he had been bedding the gal during those weeks before the pregnancy, he would probably not have been able to escape at all.

God saved you. If you hadn't heard the phone call that day, she would've entered the marriage with her ex's pregnancy. This also means the whole time you were dating and doing marriage preparations, she was seeing her ex and sleeping with him. Well, thank God for your life.

NotOfThisWorld:
God saved you. If you hadn't heard the phone call that day, she would've entered the marriage with her ex's pregnancy. This also means the whole time you were dating and doing marriage preparations, she was seeing her ex and sleeping with him. Well, thank God for your life.

That was my pain, i was busy burning up to make things work out while she is cooling herself with her ex

Watcharena:
No marriage deal if she is not a virgin


Only simp can marry a non virgin


Never you in your life Marry a non virgin

A non virgin is not worth been a wife

Huncle be calming down..

What you guys see as body count is not truly body count.

Any man that fails to make a lady reach orgasm can't be counted ok.

Are you a virgin yourself? Or you want to pound fresh palm fruits in a rotten mortar?

@Op, sorry for your experience. I hope you can love again?

Try and love again.

If all men are not the same, then all women can't be the same.

Don't carry trauma everywhere you go like stretch marks.

Try again.

Watcharena:
No marriage deal if she is not a virgin . Only simp can marry a non virgin. Never you in your life Marry a non virgin. A non virgin is not worth been a wife

. But only perverts go around announcing that marriage can only work if and only if the woman is a virgin when they are themselves not virgins.

Kobojunkie:
. But only perverts go around announcing that marriage can only work if and only if the woman is a virgin when they are themselves not virgins.

non virgins are fighting back ,even the Bible said only virgins can be married

Gandollar:
Huncle be calming down..

What you guys see as body count is not truly body count.

Any man that fails to make a lady reach orgasm can't be counted ok.

Are you a virgin yourself? Or you want to pound fresh palm fruits in a rotten mortar?

@Op, sorry for your experience. I hope you can love again?

Try and love again.

If all men are not the same, then all women can't be the same.

Don't carry trauma everywhere you go like stretch marks.

Try again.

sorry ma'am


Even the woman have right to choose only men that are pure

Watcharena:
➜non virgins are fighting back ,
➜even the Bible said only virgins can be married

But you are a non-virgin yourself, proof that this claim of yours is clearly born of a private delusion.

2. Yet another private delusion of yours since the Bible never said any such.

Watcharena:
➜sorry ma'am, Even the woman have right to choose only men that are pure

But a man who is not pure and poor has no right going around demanding that which he does not have and cannot afford to pay for. Such a man is considered an imbe-cile at best.

Op, so you been no dey knack the babe?

Nawaoo, person wey Dem dey prepared for her wedding still dey nack another man outside, and the werey fit no even get shi shi for account oooo, e fit be OP that pay almost all the money for the wedding, may God forgive some ladies shaa, and the guy wey even dey nack am fit be one agbero ooooo wey no dey give her shi shi


Taaaaaaaaaaa

You dodged a bullet brotherman

Lalami3232 what sayest thou?

Bad

you dodged a very big bullet...
You should contest for Guinness book of the world for shortest time to be married

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