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| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:35am On Apr 08, 2025*. Modified: 12:35pm On Apr 08, 2025 |
CoronaVirusPro:is it really true that Nigerians in Nigeria are secured? What do you think is fueling the Japa syndrome? Last year alone, I can count the number of classmates in Nigeria that we had rounds of donations for to offset medical bills of retired aged parents. These are not poor people, these are often retired government officials with some properties. One recently lost his mother to diabetes and it happened so fast. Some of these folks had to sell houses and practically everything due to unexpected situation. Two years ago, a seemingly okay family faced harsh reality when their 2 acres of land that their dad acquired while in government and built several projects on became a subject of litigation with a notice to vacate the premises. They are still in court but now dead broke as millions of funds invested got stuck. Nigeria is different story for different folks. Don't project your own comfortable situation on an average Nigerian. Some people are good risk takers, some are laid back, while others are plain lazy but to say Nigerians are secured to me is more like many Nigerians simply resigned to fate and when they run into trouble they scream out for help. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:37am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Kenn55:You will always buttress my points of you try to attack it. You bought a house and paid off in 4.5 years which i believe is a condo. What is the cost of the house, how much interest did you pay over stated period, and how much sales tax did pay. Deduct everything and tell me how much profit you made. It’s a false illusion that you would win after paying interest, property and sales taxes With poorly built structures, I know you invested a lot into that. Credit system is a shackle to make you believe you winning while serving the system. I stated earlier. Yea, because you won, it’s easy for you to share your testimony. If that stock at hit $0.1, the bank itself would have been smiling to the bank. Why I called ot trap and why they always luring you into debt. I know you have an idea about the system and why you were moving your investment back home. You planned for the unforeseen cos you know what the system can do. Have you notice EVERY American cannot point to his grandfathers house? You know why? Cos you cannot keep it in the family line forever which is a norm in a place like Nigeria. The system is built not to make you hold for long. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:38am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:False narratives. Reality hit many after leaving. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by tunapawizzy: 1:40am On Apr 08, 2025*. Modified: 12:40pm On Apr 08, 2025 |
CoronaVirusPro:living on debt and credit in the US is a choice. Know this and have peace. There are people earning over 100k/year and still drive a 5k car they bought cash down. car note na choice - So much talk about your house not being your own until you pay off. You wan buy house 300k(them say oya bring 30k...u go dey pay the rest with interest)- u think if peole in Nigeria can drop 10million naira and have First Bank borrow them the remainder 90million, you think they will not take it? - ALso not every good earner in the US is on mortgage, some earn well but rent, because mortgage does not align with their investment goals and realities. I have seen people with net income of 7k maintain a rent of 1.5k to 2k monthly...i have also seen people with net income of 4.5k take up mortgage of 3k monthly. Life na choice |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:40am On Apr 08, 2025 |
You missed the point. What's fueling the Japa syndrome if they are secured in Nigeria? It speaks for itself. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:41am On Apr 08, 2025 |
OChimex:Trust me, you won’t appreciate that peace till you find yourself a position where you have to keep running. The American system will put you on your toes. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Bankowner: 1:42am On Apr 08, 2025 |
She emphasized on how the pursuit of economic gain overseas often strips people of the things that matter most — community, connection, and contentment.I do not agree entirely with her statement. With technology, siblings, or even families apart can always be in touch and seeming like they are together. What's whatsapp and Zoom there for? My siblings and I are always on whatsapp, we have a group call almost every weekend. Makes the distance more bearable. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:44am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Really? This is clear exaggeration bro. Are you confusing America with Europe? Yes, the work ethic is high but many are simply happy to grab opportunities that they never had at home. You will keep running if your lifestyle is way above your means. I know many Nigerians in America that are consistently at peace and always having fun traveling everywhere on most weekends, partying in Dominican Republic, Mexico, Costa Rica etc at regular intervals. All these things are more of personal choices and being organized. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:46am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Leave our people with exaggerations whenever they want to make a point. This is not the old days of writing letters that will take weeks to reach the destination. Most people are on video calls with their parents at home every blessed day and for many even several times a day. People will always come up with all sorts of angles to justify their position. Many people are actually closer to their folks now than when they were at home. Bankowner: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:46am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:The false narrative that there is a better life somewhere. Do you think Nigerians who travel abroad say the truth. 90% don’t. You can only know when you join them. That narrative as led many astray. Some people cannot stay where some Nigerians reside reside in UK and US based on where they currently live in Nigeria. But that mentality that once you travel abroad, you are living big is fiction. It’s an everlasting race. You just have to keep running or you will hit the street. Losing a job is like a death sentence, cos it will over if you don’t pick another one fast enough. You won’t really understand. Experience is the best teacher. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Okhuadams(m): 1:48am On Apr 08, 2025*. Modified: 9:45pm On Apr 14, 2025 |
TimeManager:Who know her very well should advice her to remain there,my prayers is that those village pple manipulating her should all die by fire |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:51am On Apr 08, 2025 |
I don't know what you mean here, I live abroad so I don't know what exactly you assume I won't really understand. You are promoting a fallacy because what you described is not general. I don't even know what data gave you the 90% figure that you added to sound authoritative and knowledgeable. Losing a job is never death sentence in America as you are entitled to at least 6 months of unemployment income giving you enough time to find another job. Are you sure you know what you are talking about? Where in America did you live? CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:51am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:Anyone with a credit card can party, club and travel. Do you think that’s a metric to judge happiness? So you feel everyone in a Range Rover is happy? You will never understand that system till you fall in it. Read what I stated earlier. The country will sell you an illusion that makes you believe you are fine while you are on your toes. You can practically afford anything with a good job and credit score. Everyone in America won’t tell you that other part. How much debt are they soaked in. Everyone will claim they are not in debt. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 1:54am On Apr 08, 2025 |
I am not talking about credit card. I have just one credit card and I hardly use it except when car rental insist on it. I can't recall any other situation where I'm left with no choice but to use my credit card. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:55am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:What percentage of your earning is unemployment benefit? Are you saying someone earning $5000 and having rent at $2500 will get $3000 unemployment benefit? Unemployment benefit is peanut! What bills can it pay? And what happens after 6 month of you unable to secure a job? Your home starts sliding into foreclosure or you get evicted from your lease. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by TWelebe: 1:56am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Na lie. She follow for people wey do expo for the exam. Uk government don push her commot for UK |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 1:58am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:You doing it unknowingly but you playing smart. Credit is very good if you certain about your plan and game. Cos the moment it fails, the bank will be smiling to the bank. You know like that adage, if you must eat the devil, use a long spoon, but abstinence is best cos the repercussions burns hard |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Fujiyama: 1:59am On Apr 08, 2025 |
CoronaVirusPro:^^^ ![]() This made me laugh and I don't even know why. For some reason, old images of Sanwo-Olu pointing at everything just kept popping into my mind. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Kokaine(m): 2:00am On Apr 08, 2025 |
I just spent 731k monthly expenses on my family from food, transport, school, drugs and fuel. There is still no food in the house by next week my wife will be asking again most likely. I am convinced I can't survive here in Nigeria any more. The contracts are not coming and my rent is 1.2m I am now ready to sell off stuff and relocate |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 2:02am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Then that's a lesson you need to learn about America. Most Nigerians are totally ignorant about the system. There are several benefits when you lose your job including mortgage assistance programs backed by law. I know a Nigerian that lost his job in 2009 and suffered for 5 months out of ignorance. That was during a recession. A friend later enlightened him and he enrolled and started getting several benefits. There are homeowner assistance fund programs, emergency mortgage assistance, local nonprofits etc. Almost everything you need has a program covering it. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Angelfrost(m): 2:03am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Kenn55:God bless you... I just had to leave that guy abeg. Any small thing, they start talking down on America's credit system, as if most Nigerians living in Nigeria can afford to even live at all if not for low taxing and beggy beggy. The country is poisoned literally with beggars in high and low places, from airports to malls! It's deeply disturbing and EMBARRASSING. The crime rate is beyond staggering too... Yet the reality is that over 70% of Nigerians still can't afford to live average lives in their very own country. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 2:03am On Apr 08, 2025 |
123yes:Actually, there is a report on Businessday.ng that showed 70%+ of the real estate deals in Nigeria are financed by those in the abroad. https://businessday.ng/real-estate/article/70-of-nigerias-real-estate-investment-from-diaspora-expert/ |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 2:04am On Apr 08, 2025 |
I don't think I understand your point. Yes, I will use credit if I need it but I do not need it yet. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 2:05am On Apr 08, 2025 |
I did not even know about this and I mentioned it earlier. Diaspora people and government thieves rule real estate world ![]() Gerrard59: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Angelfrost(m): 2:06am On Apr 08, 2025 |
tunapawizzy:Abeg tell them o! These are the hard facts these anti-japa individuals will never point out. Pretentious and deceptive fake patriotism to a failed system. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 2:06am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Amalekki:Corroborates the report by Business Day: https://businessday.ng/real-estate/article/70-of-nigerias-real-estate-investment-from-diaspora-expert/ Thank God for facts and figures, not fats and figos |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 2:07am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:How long do those programs last. You know what will really give you an idea, check how many houses under foreclosed in YOUR county. You think they don’t all know about those programs. They do and their limits to which they would stand. Just like a regular health insurance. Pray you never have complications. When the bills start going haywire, insurance will dump you stating terms you don’t understand. In most cases, you still live with a debt close to a mortgage. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by lagonovo: 2:13am On Apr 08, 2025 |
Again, there are extremes but your odds of sailing through is very high and most people are doing just that. People survived the recession and came out strong. Debt and even bankruptcy is part of the financial system in America, it is not death sentence just be aware of your choices. Health complications is a problem everywhere including Nigeria, you even need more prayers in Nigeria. We have seen health issues totally turn some people into paupers in Nigeria. Good luck getting any form of decent treatment with no cash at hand. CoronaVirusPro: |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Angelfrost(m): 2:18am On Apr 08, 2025 |
CoronaVirusPro:So, it's Nigerians living in Nigeria that always say the truth?!! You have tried and continued to fail to make your point because there is really no point. Anyone who thinks money flows freely abroad is the one you are referring to, and such people are not serious. Debt abroad is largely down to lifestyle choices... I know this largely from experience. My cousins and close friends paid off their housing mortgages within 10 years by being strict and disciplined about money... Today, they are balling. Indians even live communally and build wealth abroad... It's about mastering the system and staying financially prudent. Those who go abroad and choose to live like kings and Queens are the ones that get into trouble. Please, stop lying and pushing false narratives. Some people even earn high wages yet live cheaply with high savings! I have proof of this. How many can earn high in Nigeria for starters?!@ Where are the opportunities in Nigeria for high incomes?!! I already asked. How many Nigerians working good jobs can even dream of owning homes?!! Someone abroad can save as low as 500 Dollars monthly which can become a tidy sum in 2 years. That person can choose to use it to build or buy real estate when converted to Naira. How many of their Nigerian counterparts can achieve that in the same time frame?!! Bro, this is not an argument you can win... Please, stop!!! |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by 9japride(m): 2:18am On Apr 08, 2025 |
TimeManager:[color=#006600][/color] She might not tell you all the main reason for her relocating back to Nigeria and nobody knows if she's from an influential family that can easily support her. It's just like saying DJ Cuppy is returning back to Nigeria. Everyone has their own life goal and it shouldn't be a yardstick to judge one's success. Humans are very self centred and especially 9ja people. They will never really tell you the main source of their wealth rather they will use you to gain more through mentoring programmes. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by Nobody: 2:19am On Apr 08, 2025 |
lagonovo:You are right.why I stated that, you will always be on your toes. You just have to keep running. |
| Re: Everything Is Not About Money– Nurse Judith On Leaving US For Nigeria by MatrixCircle: 2:25am On Apr 08, 2025 |
KingRSHD2:The late legislation from Anambra that was kidnapped and Major General Tsiga (Rtd) all the live for ghetto abi ?? A country where even a whole army Generals are not safe then who is safe ?? Even Generals |
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