₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
1. Again, male rape was mentioned on the thread and you even touched on the issue yourself.

2. Keep your salvation to yourself since only those who need saving would appreciate hearing from you.

3. I believe the issue here is whether the lack of consent(either from the Law or from the individual turned victim) is considered a forceful act. I fail to see how that excerpt there has anything to do with that.

1. So were many other things sir

2. You do need saving sir - from continuing making an ass out of yourself

3. Quick, give us definition of "forceful act" sir

QuinQ:
1. So were many other things sir
2. You do need saving sir - from continuing making an ass out if yourself
3. Quick, give us definition of "forceful act" sir

Make Google your friend!

saintkel:
I was also raped by a lady....childhood memories....nyway, it's forgotten

As you were a baby then (even for a grown up man), how did your penis get rigid to enable the woman rape you?

Kobojunkie:
Even in your villages, old women are still being raped. yet none of them dare open their mouths, and for good reason, because they risk being ostracized by society to this day. Most of the cases we read of today are cases where said rape was witnessed by third parties(more than one person) and/or the victim of rape was physically assaulted at the same time.

So why the half info? Name the fellow and let the courts do the needful, not all these social media thingy. If truly a rape occured, I will have no sympathy for the rapist.

Neddyogu:
➜So why the half info. Name the fellow and let the courts do the needful, not all these social media thingy.
➜If truly a rape occured, I will have no sympathy for the rapist.

What does she benefit from giving you this full info you seek?

2. This no sympathy for the rapist, what is the worth to her?

Deadbeat podcast wants to go viral. It's becoming a tradition now.

ManOfSon:
➜Deadbeat podcast wants to go viral. It's becoming a tradition now.

This tradition of attacking the messenger and not the message... when will we see the end of it though?

Kobojunkie:
Make Google your friend!

I did sir. It confirms what we already know - that you have very limited education sir

press9jatv:
I I was raped by an established person in the broadcast sector. I see him every other day and I get traumatized — Actress Lolo opens up.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJyM5PH1dvE

Rape
The legal definition of rape is when someone puts their penis in another person's vagina, anus or mouth, without the person's permission.

Assault by penetration
Assault by penetration is when someone puts an object or any part of the body other than their penis (for example fingers) into another person's vagina or anus, without the person's permission.

Sexual assault
Sexual assault is when someone touches you sexually without your permission, with an object or body part.

The legal definition of 'sexual' depends on whether a 'reasonable person' would consider something sexual.

It is also an offence if someone gets you to do or see something sexual without your permission.
---- UK Police.

My own: it's impossible for an able-bodied woman to be raped by any unarmed man.

QuinQ:
➜I did sir. It confirms what we already knowv- that you have very limited education

Again, learn to make Google your friend, this, of course, rather than these meaningless attempts at trying to force Google into your own mould.

nairavsdollars:
Some men dey try sha. Upon all free young girls women, you will still rape old women

Konji no dey select. Na bastard son of the devil him be. But some men sha no get sense sha. E fit be say the guy get girl friend so, yet him still go rape.

press9jatv:
Hmm 🤔

I was raped by my colleague, actress Lolo alleges


Popular Nigerian actress and media personality, Omotunde Adebowale-David, also known as Lolo 1, has alleged that a colleague once raped her.

The actress shared her traumatic experience of being raped by a male colleague in the broadcasting industry on her podcast “Say My Piece”, which was posted on YouTube on Friday.

According to Lolo 1, she was raped by a colleague, which has left her traumatised and experiencing momentary panic whenever she sees him.

Lolo 1 stated that naming the rapist now will bring her criticism for not speaking out earlier but doing so now that the said person is an established figure in the industry.


She noted that women often respond to sexual assault with denial and self-blaming, highlighting the complexities of trauma and recovery.

She said, “I hardly ever say this, and I am not even ready to tell the full story. The stories of sexual assault. When I discussed it with my daughter yesterday, she held my hand and said, ‘Mummy, you’ve gone through so much.’ And I said I had.

“I remember how many of those things I have to relive. I have been raped only once in my life, and I was raped by a colleague. I see him every other day. Do you know how traumatized I am? When I see him, I just get into this momentary panic


“But if a woman of my calibre named him, he’s an established person in the broadcast industry, won’t people say, ‘How come I didn’t speak about it for all these six years until now that he’s taking a prominent TV position?’

“When sexual assault happens to women, the first thing to happen is denial. The next thing is self-blaming.”



https://punchng.com/i-was-raped-by-my-colleague-actress-lolo-1-alleges/?amp

Will you keep quiet there name the bastard so we can bring him down do you how many more he has raped ingredients and Nonsense

Wetin wey make come do now?

We should try fry beans?

Okhuadams:
Will you keep quiet there name the bastard so we can bring him down do you how many more he has raped ingredients and Nonsense

How many of the other ones that have been named before now have you been able to bring down? Nonsense!

Nobody should mind this woman. Na only small them touch she fall yakata for bed she remove her underwear and spread leg for big Gbola after she enjoy am finish she no talk come Dey wait for another rounds. As no more rounds na she come begin dey speak out

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to make Google your friend, this, of course, rather than these meaningless attempts at trying to force Google into your own mould.

Just admit you were WRONG sir. It won't kill you.
Rape doesn't have to involve force at all, it only involves lack of consent. Neither is breaking the law always a forceful act.
Anybody can make a mistake sir, what makes you seem an idiot sir, is refusing to admit it!

QuinQ:
➜Just admit you were WRONG sir. It won't kill you. Rape doesn't have to involve force at all, it only involves lack of consent. Neither is breaking the law always a forceful act. Anybody can make a mistake sir, what makes you seem an idiot sir, is refusing to admit it!

Again, focus on making Google your friend rather than these ridiculous exercises at trying to make to information fit into that small box that is the current box of the knowledge in your head.

BigDickProblems:
Omo some guys no try o. Seeing someone like this self will make me vomit for 1week straight not to talk of sexual attraction.

Most men are dogs true true. I can confirm it.

So na only people who look like Regina Daniels you fit rape.

Your comment is so disrespectful, which suggests you are probably 15, selling galaxy on Ikorodu road.

This is a discussion for adults , please vamoosh .

Kobojunkie:
Again, focus on making Google your friend rather than trying to make it fit into that small box that is your head.

You're begining to sound like a parrot sir. I've already demonstrated Google is my friend, but nothing from your side so far sir - except repeating Google/friend. You sure you're not a parrot sir?

QuinQ:
➜You're begining to sound like a parrot sir. I've already demonstrated Google is my friend, but nothing from your side so far sir - except repeating Google/friend. You sure you're not a parrot sir?

Na! All you have done is demonstrate your ability to use Google to obtain details that only fit the mold that is you. Manipulation is not friendship!

Again, make Google your friend!

And you don’t want to name him ? It is considered a lie until u name the individual but na wa oh which kind conji will lead any man to rape this car wreck , an almost century old accidented car

Bullet4thiefnub:
And you don’t want to name him ? It is considered a lie until u name the individual but na wa oh which kind conji will lead any man to rape this car wreck , an almost century old accidented car

Nonsense!

loffyloffy:
So na only people who look like Regina Daniels you fit rape.

Your comment is so disrespectful, which suggests you are probably 15, selling galaxy on Ikorodu road.

This is a discussion for adults , please vamoosh .

Wahala.

It’s not fight. I could also mean she is just crying wolf. Be calming down great grandfather.

onuman:
As you were a baby then (even for a grown up man), how did your penis get rigid to enable the woman rape you?

Are you serious ? This is akin to asking how did u pull off a woman’s tight underwear’s to rape her

Kobojunkie:
Na! All you have done is demonstrate your ability to use Google to obtain details that only fit the mold that is you. Manipulation is not friendship!

Again, make Google your friend!

Just as I suspected sir, you're indeed a parrot. Unbelievable! We just assume every monker on NL is human, not knowing some are bots, parrots, etc. You did have me fooled for a while sir, I'd admit that.

QuinQ:
➜Just as I suspected sir, you're indeed a parrot. Unbelievable! We just assume every monker on NL is human, not knowing some are bots, parrots, etc. You did have me fooled for a while sir, I'd admit that.

I see you are still struggling to wrap what seems a caged mind around this one. 🙄🙄

Here is an example of how to make Google your friend. Also, to be considered to have broken the Law, one has to force one's own will over or against that which is considered acceptable by the Law. 🙄🙄

BigDickProblems:
Wahala.

It’s not fight. I could also mean she is just crying wolf. Be calming down great grandfather.

Saying someone makes you vomit is disrespectful, you should try use better words next time

Kobojunkie:
I see you are still struggling to wrap what seems a caged mind around this one. 🙄🙄

Here is an example of how to make Google your friend.🙄🙄

That's NOT what you said sir. See what you said below. Google that and show us.
A parrot that can use Google! Nothing person no go see!

I am sorry for her experience BUT she should mention the person's name. SHe will be doing the society so much good by naming the person.

She should not show young victims of rape that the solution is to not expose their rapist. A young girl that gets raped will now feel, a whole Lolo public figure that could not speak up....why should i speak. let me just endure the trauma and hope God will catch my rapist.

Not attacking messenger or message. But this idea of going to obscure podcasts to make outlandish claims because this social media click-bait world rewards this model must stop. It's happening far too frequently as to be a problem. It endangers the very idea of a public media.

Kobojunkie:
This tradition of attacking the messenger and not the message... when will we see the end of it though?

ManOfSon:
➜Not attacking messenger or message. But this idea of going to obscure podcasts to make outlandish claims because this social media click-bait world rewards this model must stop.
➜ It's happening far too frequently as to be a problem. It endangers the very idea of a public media.

So, yours is to ignore the message because of your particular prejudice against the messenger?

2. It endangers public media because the media has maintained an astute image before it, right?

Kobojunkie:
I see you are still struggling to wrap what seems a caged mind around this one. 🙄🙄

Here is an example of how to make Google your friend. Also, to be considered to have broken the Law, one has to force one's own will over or against that which is considered acceptable by the Law. 🙄🙄

The above also proves what I've been telling you sir, forcible rape can only be against a woman or receptive anal. Now run along sir, you've made enough fool of yourself for one day.