₦airaland Forum

Brandiebird:
Damn! People deal with their pain in different ways but this is so immature! She has put her whole family online. If the police were called now she'd be cooling-off in jail. She really traumatised those poor children! The husband is a sick coward too! Imagine telling his child to lie and pretend to be his niece while his other children call him dad! I'm so shocked by what I just watched! I have anxiety after watching that madness.

Uche559:
If he is a wealthy man, d story would ve been different.

Tolu2024:
Breadwinner or not in abroad men are useless (powerless) even if the man is the breadwinner he can’t do anything. Just one police call ☎️ he will be homeless.

Obierika:
It appears the woman is the main breadwinner of the family that's why she's vibrating like a generator that is about to knock engine!

EmmyMaestro:
Some years ago, a similar story came up, a man and woman got married and after some time when belle was delaying the woman told the husband let them go and adopt and the child the ended up adopting belonged to the woman before she got married

adecz:




Se how brotherhood has been reduced
to nothing, simply because economic and
social empowerment of women in ogbodo
oyibo.


If the man react, na prison and street him go
land, even if na him buy their house.

Na to trick the woman come Nigeria, give am
better flogging...

Tufiakwa 😠 😡

APOPTOSIS:
Seems you are part of the Igbo Ladies giving us bad names abroad.
Good You acknowledged that I married Oyibo since most of you aren't marriageable.
But I won't insult you like you did.
You just made my points valid.

If na white woman she wouldn't be yelling, screaming, disturbing the neighborhood and causing emotional torture to the kids and the worst she would do na to call police especially when necessary. It's not a criminal offense. The man can only be asked to leave the house to avert disaster (for safety).
Most are trained psychologically at conflict resolutions unlike a Lady that just JaPa from Nigeria. The best is for the man to leave the house with that girl else both will be poisoned straightaway. Hope I'm clearer now.

Omoawoke:
Did I just hear leave my house. Any man that live in a woman’s house has no shame

Kobojunkie:
. According to recent reports, almost 50% of women in marriages in Nigeria are the breadwinners. That shamelessness you describe has been a part of the culture for a long time now.

ttoyetade:
It is not a case of deception. There is no time they tell the woman, she will always overreact. The way she reacted she can poison that girl. I think she's probably the bread winner of the house or may be the husband is a dependant. She really maltreated the husband. It may come back to hunt her because you don't know what God will do especially the poor innocent girl. I wish I can talk to the husband.

Bittersweetnig:
Rule number one, don't let woman take any responsibility over you no matter what

pocohantas:
Malignantguest aka Apoptosis is married to a Nigerian woman who most likely moved abroad before him. His wife cooks everything including abacha for him in America, but he comes online to paint Nigerian women abroad bad. Very sly double-faced human. You can never see him say one good thing about marriage. Never.

ttoyetade:
It is not in all cases. Pray that God make you a real husband. I own my house mortgage free but I gave my wife only 40% which is in our record. My wife cannot misbehave. I brought my daughter and her family abroad last year and I paid all expenses. She was accepted by everyone. When you don't depend on women for anything, you can run your home anyhow you want.

Kobojunkie:
But reports from Nigeria reveal that women are breadwinners in almost 50% of households in Nigeria. So, wetin be this one wey you dey yarn when men having women take responsibility over them has been a norm and probably a part of the culture for a while now.

GistMedia0:
A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.

According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.

The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”

To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.

While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSAJWHxqPVE

Rootprof:
Men abroad are passing through a lot in hand of their wives. Watched a video on fb where a wife was slapping the husband left and right. Back to the topic here, the union was built on desist from the man side and the marriage was for interest seek not love, why did the man hid the truth from his wife. He deliberately kept it from her for selfish reasons which looks like money or traveling benefit for the guy. If this happened here in Nigeria it might be settled but for Yankee Omo the marriage is gone. Peace to the home.

Bittersweetnig:
then the remaining 50% are the real men, so if you belong to 50% bn fed by women then shame

Brandiebird:
What a snake! I guess he gets to say everything he feels about his wife online! It must be his therapy.

Michelle55:
Even if she's the one paying the bills, it doesn't warrant the public disgrace she brought to her family. Let's assume there was no social media to vent on, what would she had done? There are logical ways to settle this without putting her family through the torture, why show the entire family to the world? The girl here is the victim yet she's begging, that act alone should have calmed her down and shift the anger entirely to her husband after all, the girl didn't beg to be born. If you are a single parent, please own it with your full chest and whoever that wants to be a part of your life would know what they are getting themselves involved in.
Having money or being the breadwinner( man/woman) doesn't give one the pass to be a nuisance, the husband is a confirmed coward and if there's another name higher than that, that's who he is for denying his child( he has no reason whatsoever to deny his daughter or introduce her as his niece) has anyone considered how heartbroken that girl would be calling her father "uncle" while the other kids freely calls him "Dad". He's full of shiit for burdening that little angel with the truth instead of owning his deceit with full chest.
He's a confirmed ewu Gambia!!

Angelfrost:
Sigh... Why will a man be ashamed to own up and claim his own child?!!

That's just selfishness.


...And the fact that your husband felt a strong need to lie so elaborately also says a lot about your character and the relationship dynamics of that marriage.

Kobojunkie:
So, because she was born before the marriage, it becomes right for him to scam the woman into having the child in the house without needing to tell her the truth? Some of you ehn....🙄🙄🙄🙄

koladata:
where people they see all these type of woman marry self, if she is his daughter nko. He kill person ?

ARISHEM:
If not for the expose he will bring in her secret daughter mum and lie that she is his sister.

It’s the poor little girl I feel for. She did not bargain for this. Only if her father is responsible.

Wifey will later calm down and accept her fate anyway as it seems hubby married her just to japaa

MightySparrow:
This is issue of deception not money. Why didn't the husband tell her the truth from the onset? If the woman wasn't comfortable with such union, she would have another man and the man would have another woman.

How many more children has the man in secrecy? This is a woman, what if the woman has problem of child bearing and the husband feels indifferent? What is her fate?

I think your position is callous.