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Asalalekum everyone,

I've been trying to be in a relationship or even get a muslim sister that is educated and God fearing for a serious relationship but all my search has been unfruitful and I always feel disappointed in this.

As a Muslim guy how will it be difficult to get or even see a muslim lady for a serious relationship.

Just in case we have any serious muslim lady for a serious relationship, we can actually work on that.

Maa Salam.

Archiever22:
Asalalekum everyone,

I've been trying to be in a relationship or even get a muslim sister that is educated and God fearing for a serious relationship but all my search has been unfruitful and I always feel disappointed in this.

As a Muslim guy how will it be difficult to get or even see a muslim lady for a serious relationship.

Just in case we have any serious muslim lady for a serious relationship, we can actually work on that.

Maa Salam.

Perhaps you are looking in the wrong direction

tanigororo:
Perhaps you are looking in the wrong direction

i don't mind if you can suggest something good.

When one man marries 4 ladies. Divorce them and get other brand new ones.



Maybe Muslim ladies are all gone.

Wait for the next set of young girls to grow.

Most of them now date Christian guys 😒

doggedfighter:
When one man marries 4 ladies. Divorce them and get other brand new ones.

Maybe Muslim ladies are all gone.

Wait for the next set of young girls to grow.

Just because one man did it that does not mean all men are doing it. And not only Muslims do such.

The mentality has always been to date and lay with as many ladies as possible in the west!

Archiever22:
Asalalekum everyone,

I've been trying to be in a relationship or even get a muslim sister that is educated and God fearing for a serious relationship but all my search has been unfruitful and I always feel disappointed in this.

As a Muslim guy how will it be difficult to get or even see a muslim lady for a serious relationship.

Just in case we have any serious muslim lady for a serious relationship, we can actually work on that.

Maa Salam.

If you want to get married and you are sincere then look for a wife in:

1. Your mosque - Go and inform the imam of your intention.

2. Your School MSSN - Go and meet the Ameer informing him of your intention. Many young ladies exists in the school hoping to get married soon!

3. Halqas or Places of Islamic gathering for learning! (Not Asalatu) - The place of religious learning can also be a place to meet serious spouse!
Go and meet the Ameer and make your intentions known. And a serious lady will give you her guardian's number if she wants to be with you!

And mind you Muslim girls are scarce! If i want to get married today i will go to the bride's father to find out if she is available first. If she is then i will then find a way to inform her nicely!

No dating nor boyfriend/girlfriend or house visiting or being alone together before marriage is permitted!

AbuTwins:
If you want to get married and you are sincere then look for a wife in:

1. Your mosque - Go and inform the imam of your intention.

2. Your School MSSN - Go and meet the Ameer informing him of your intention. Many young ladies exists in the school hoping to get married soon!

3. Halqas or Places of Islamic gathering for learning! (Not Asalatu) - The place of religious learning can also be a place to meet serious spouse!
Go and meet the Ameer and make your intentions known. And a serious lady will give you her guardian's number if she wants to be with you!

And mind you Muslim girls are scarce! If i want to get married today i will go to the bride's father to find out if she is available first. If she is then i will then find a way to inform her nicely!

No dating nor boyfriend/girlfriend or house visiting or being alone together before marriage is permitted!

jazakumullahu Khairan for this suggestion.
I pray in a small mosque and I've informed my Alfa about it.
I think the student aspect would be better but I'm not close to any higher institution for now and I've not seen any mature Muslim lady that I will walk to or by seeing her family.
God's knows the best cos I'm really intesifying more effort on this.
Tnks for the adviyand I will see how to use them.