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Okeytech:
I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deepdip my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

SpatialKing:
It all depends on the kind of relationship you have established between you and your mother in law

WantsandMore:
Collect it back Bro! Money given with grudges places no blessings on the giver and the receiver. Just simply tell her “Mama, I’m sorry, I handed you cash I was given to purchase items for a project mistaken it for the one I intended to give you. I’m sorry. Ps: this is most effective if you do it almost immediately, no shame oh. Just attack. Except na money you can afford to part with.

Okeytech:
my brother, if anyone told me I'll ever make this mistake, I'll say it's impossible. I'm really pained.

HitRun:
What una de assume say she give the MIL the big one? What if na the small one she mistakenly give the MIL instead of the intended big one?

1metre:
You have made no mistake by giving your in law money. The mistake you made is not being bold enough to request and explain to your inlaw in the most polite way that you have made a mistake.

Firebox123:
read before you type 😂

vikstandon:
There was no point in the write-up where he stated he gave the mother in-law the bigger or smaller sum.
You didn't read well.

Firebox123:
why was he pained

EmmyMaestro:
Next time, wear boxers wey get pocket so that you go fit hide your own after the separation

vikstandon:
Is possible he felt ashamed he gave a smaller sum to her mother in-law. That could be his pain point.

sfinkzslot:
My mom once came visiting me in school and gave me money like that , it was during holis she told she had given me what she wanted to use for house keep
Back then phone no dey, and my school far, she couldn't return to collect it me sef just dey wonder then why she dey so generous I never give me that kin money before

Okeytech:
I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

Okhuadams:
Two things are involved. No.1 tell her directly you made a mistake with all boldness without shame. No 2.Remove it from whatever you want to give your wife

seunny4lif:
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you, but my Father who is in heaven

Mariangeles:
Even if it's your own mother sef, you'd find it difficult to ask for the money back, after the way she'd rejoice.
You know mothers like money a lot.

HitRun:
What una de assume say she give the MIL the big one? What if na the small one she mistakenly give the MIL instead of the intended big one?

SpatialKing:
Nope especially if the money is very important... She will definitely understand

WantsandMore:
Collect it back Bro! Money given with grudges places no blessings on the giver and the receiver. Just simply tell her “Mama, I’m sorry, I handed you cash I was given to purchase items for a project mistaken it for the one I intended to give you. I’m sorry. Ps: this is most effective if you do it almost immediately, no shame oh. Just attack. Except na money you can afford to part with.

HitRun:
What una de assume say she give the MIL the big one? What if na the small one she mistakenly give the MIL instead of the intended big one?

Okeytech:
I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

Okeytech:
I went to greet my mother in-law and along the way i separated the money i wanted giving her from the money i kept for myself, so when i was leaving i deep my hand into my pocket and removed the money which i just gave her... So immediately she collected it, i realized it was the wrong money i gave her but i couldn't collect it due to shame, i felt so bad and angry. What would you have done if you were in my shoes?