₦airaland Forum

Everydaylove:
As men we need to be ruthless and heartless like women. Never date or help a broke girl.

truth talk

Aditkd Merlissa Onyiridike na their type

Kobojunkie:
Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

u are a weirdo

He should have brought marriage proposal to you when you are single at 36/37 Lemme see if you will reject his proposal ,with your biological clock ticking backwards,your eyes go clear as you don turn old layer

kokoA:
How much is minimum wage in your country? How many people earn minimum wage in your country? How many people will earn up to the minimum wage before they die in your country? How many well to do people in the society now did their parents earned up to minimum wage growing up?

stop answering that account na idiot dey operate am

Kobojunkie:
I am all for people living life as they please. A 40-something-year-old who lives in Nigeria and has nothing to show for it, nothing with that. I mean, he didn't choose to be born, so he is free to decide the best way to live his life. However, it becomes a problem when said 40-something-year-old decides to create other burdens— reproduce— for society to now have to bear on his behalf. That's where I draw the line. 😏

It's not marriages that produce children. Sex does. And there's nothing you suggested to stop poor people from having sex and sex is the only source of true happiness for them.

[quote author=DyshApp post=135126156][/quote]u can as well 4k urself....none sense.

Keep looking, u go look look come turn looko looko till u turn 40 plus

One thing i envy in men is that at 60 preek still dey stand like iroko tree, bring any hole them go dig am sharp

Woman at 60?? Toh i rest my chest

She didn't tell us whether he has a job or business.

Her narrative/philosophy will change when she's approaching 40. Time is clocking already.

Kobojunkie:
No woman should consider marrying down. Nigeria now boasts of approximately 170 million reasons why no sensible person should do such. 😩😩😩

Good day, most men including myself "married down" and are still doing well for our families and in-laws. To be frank with you, both men and women should be doing something, non should be a liability.

Lastly, one thing i observed from marrying down as a man is that you will plan better because you have responsibilities and your in-laws will always respect you because their daughter is comfortable.

Didn’t the holy book say women are helpers why can’t they ever help a man in need, sometimes all a brother need is just a little hmph 😤, a little push or assistance and he will get on his feet. All ready made men no too plenty for this world again oh, just find a kind and gentleman when go give you N900 out of him 1k.

Hezzyluv:
En ven if they guy has what it takes to write scripts 4her that will take her acting carrier to next level, she no go still send. Wetin dey that her eyes na money.

Dude, when we say don't marry a lady that has more money than you, they say it's insecurity.

Women marry UP. Once she earns more than you, your respect is gone.
It's how women are wired.
Yes, there some exceptions, but these are outliers.

Those who say she should have bought a car for him or assisted him should know that men and women aren't equal. Gender equality is a scam and one of the biggest to have been introduced to the world. Let's know this and accept it.

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

Person like you will not even mind to live in your inlaw’s house.

If you want to claim you are the head of the house, you must have what it takes to be the head of the house.

everyone should be free to make a choice, and it should be respected

She wants to marry up, so let her be, we wish her luck with her search

Men should also learn to set standards when it comes to women and stick to it. A lot of men out there SIMPs a lot.

Let everyone do what works for him or her

Kobojunkie:
No woman should consider marrying down. Nigeria now boasts of approximately 170 million reasons why no sensible person should do such. 😩😩😩

Should a man consider marrying down?

Okoroawusa:
Who is she?

Follow me ask o.

She's not the first ...nor will be the last with this mentality. She's basically saying she wants a ready made man. Ready made men know this type ...they are in the marriage for financial freedom and security only. These are the women that marry ... drive luxury cars ...live in mansions ...have maids .. everything they wanted and more .... then they begin to cry about abuse ... verbal and physical... being disrespected ..treated like a child ...feel caged .. husbands womanizing... hardly ever at home ...pay them little or no respect ....and the list goes on on how bad the husbands are. ...then the husbands kick them out of the marriage . Would ready made men come after her?...no doubt ...to use and dump. She has just advertised her requirements.

Majority of women are very ruthless when deciding on who to marry. They don't care about your feelings. They won't marry you out of pity.

I agree that a man with no job, house car etc has no business proposing marriage to any woman….in fact he has no businesss looking for sex.


However, women should always take a hint from the kind of men who approach them and what they want from them. It says a lot about you too as a woman.

If only married men approach you, it says something about you
If only broke men propose marriage to you you it says something about you.
If well sorted men are falling over themselves to marry you it says something about you.
If the kind of men you want only want you for sex, it says something about you.

She should keep looking for the perfect man.

Useless Gender! nothing wey Dem sabi give. Even for bed sef, na then still dey collect.

Hypergamy on display!

Women date or marry up,while men date down!


I have said it before that when it comes to relationship and marriage,most women are smarter and more brutal than most men when it comes to choosing a partner!

[quote author=DyshApp post=135126156][/quote]What's the name of her companyrgat she considers as an investment?

franchasng:
Can't you buy car for him? Your investment belongs to both of you; Nigerian men have been doing this for you and your sisters without complain, so what's the noise about?

even the things she achieved na still man preek make am achieve am o

Maobichek:
✓ Good day, most men including myself "married down" and are still doing well for our families and in-laws. ✓ To be frank with you, both men and women should be doing something, non should be a liability.
Lastly, one thing i observed from marrying down as a man is that you will plan better because you have responsibilities and your in-laws will always respect you because their daughter is comfortable.

This claim of yours runs contrary to reality of things in Nigeria where the vast majority who married down are stuck in poverty and their own children remain chained to the same for generations.

2. Your earlier claim was that having a woman as liability has worked well for most men but here you contradicted your own claim. Who are you desperately trying to lie to ...you and me?

LadyExcellency:
✓ It's not marriages that produce children. Sex does. And there's nothing you suggested to stop poor people from having sex and sex is the only source of true happiness for them.

I specifically used the word "reproduce" in this case for good reason. Not all sexual acts are meant for reproduction purposes.; it is quite possible to have sex without reproduction taking place. I see no need to deny the poor their desires. It is reproduction I would rather see those lacking penalized for.

Na man wey dey marry down no get sense na. We have told you, leave woman wey no get money to go marry man wey still dey try figure how him go get money, let them figure it together, but NO you say u wan become saviour.

uvie66:
....and most of them do, breeding unnecessarily.

unfortunately! Which is why I am not against the instituting of penalties against such people.

kokoA:
✓ How much is minimum wage in your country? How many people earn minimum wage in your country? How many people will earn up to the minimum wage before they die in your country? How many well to do people in the society now did their parents earned up to minimum wage growing up?

What has minimum wage to do with this discussion?