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Tomorrow Monday (5th May, 2025) is the date set for us to meet at the Oyo state ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, ONIREKE, IBADAN.

I just spoke with the officer in charge and she told me that the mother in-law didn't accept the letter of invitation sent by the ministry. She said that when an officer got to the address,she met with women but she rejected the letter of invitation, so the officer called his office (ministry) to inform his superior about the refusal to accept the letter and he was asked to give the phone to the "MIL". They introduced her to tell my "wife" to make herself available tomorrow at the ministry.

I called my wife but she didn't respond to my calls, she's deflecting my calls

I called the officer in charge again to be very sure if these people will show up tomorrow, they ask me to come



My question is this

What if they didn't show up? What's the next step?

As the schools resumed last week, my children are not enrolled in schools, probably helping the MIL to sell OGOGORO in her shop. This is second week of RESUMPTION, out of 13 weeks that make up a term.

Considering the cost of transportation these days, I want to set out for the journey as early as possible

Kindly push to the front page, pls it's very urgent


Attached is the picture of the mother in-law, she lives @ BARIKA UI second gate (IBADAN)

This picture can be used against you in court as some form of harrassment or cyberbullying. You know interpretation is everything and peoples perspective can be altered with money.

RepoMan007:
This picture can be used against you in court as some form of harrassment or cyberbullying. You know interpretation is everything and peoples perspective can be altered with money.

Thanks, I will remove it now

Very good as you removed that picture…go there tomorrow….

Toymax88:
➜Tomorrow Monday (5th May, 2025) is the date set for us to meet at the Oyo state ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, ONIREKE, IBADAN.
I just spoke with the officer in charge and she told me that the mother in-law didn't accept the letter of invitation sent by the ministry. She said that when an officer got to the address,she met with women but she rejected the letter of invitation, so the officer called his office (ministry) to inform his superior about the refusal to accept the letter and he was asked to give the phone to the "MIL". They introduced her to tell my "wife" to make herself available tomorrow at the ministry. I called my wife but she didn't respond to my calls, she's deflecting my calls. I called the officer in charge again to be very sure if these people will show up tomorrow, they ask me to come
My question is this What if they didn't show up? What's the next step? As the schools resumed last week, my children are not enrolled in schools, probably helping the MIL to sell OGOGORO in her shop. This is second week of RESUMPTION, out of 13 weeks that make up a term.
Considering the cost of transportation these days, I want to set out for the journey as early as possible. Kindly push to the front page, pls it's very urgent . Attached is the picture of the mother in-law, she lives @ BARIKA UI second gate (IBADAN)

You better bring that picture of that woman down since you are violating her right by posting it. You are not married to the woman in question, nor are you then directly related to the MIL, therefore, you have no direct dealings with her. She has every right to accuse you of harassing her.

Your MIL did not accept the letter because, legally, she is not obligated to accept any letter from the courts that is not directed to her. Your woman is the one the letter is supposed to be addressed to, and she alone is the one obligated in this. As for what will happen if she does not show up, well, that all depends on a whole slew of things. Wait till you get to the courts and hear what should happen next. You may be required to get yourself a lawyer and the girl too.

Kobojunkie:
You better bring that picture of that woman down since you are violating her right by posting it. You are not married to the woman in question, nor are you then directly related to the MIL, therefore, you have no direct dealings with her. She has every right to accuse you of harassing her.

Your MIL did not accept the letter because, legally, she is not obligated to accept any letter from the courts that is not directed to her. Your woman is the one the letter is supposed to be addressed to, and she alone is the one obligated in this. As for what will happen if she does not show up, well, that all depends on a whole slew of things. Wait till you get to the courts and hear what should happen next. You may be required to get yourself a lawyer and the girl too.

Thanks , I have taken down the picture.

My request is simple and short. They should enrol the children in public schools, I will be sending you the necessary materials to the class teachers, this didn't go down well with the babies mama.

I just want the children in schools, I'm not interested in the relationship again

Toymax88:
Tomorrow Monday (5th May, 2025) is the date set for us to meet at the Oyo state ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, ONIREKE, IBADAN.

I just spoke with the officer in charge and she told me that the mother in-law didn't accept the letter of invitation sent by the ministry. She said that when an officer got to the address,she met with women but she rejected the letter of invitation, so the officer called his office (ministry) to inform his superior about the refusal to accept the letter and he was asked to give the phone to the "MIL". They introduced her to tell my "wife" to make herself available tomorrow at the ministry.

I called my wife but she didn't respond to my calls, she's deflecting my calls

I called the officer in charge again to be very sure if these people will show up tomorrow, they ask me to come



My question is this

What if they didn't show up? What's the next step?

As the schools resumed last week, my children are not enrolled in schools, probably helping the MIL to sell OGOGORO in her shop. This is second week of RESUMPTION, out of 13 weeks that make up a term.

Considering the cost of transportation these days, I want to set out for the journey as early as possible

Kindly push to the front page, pls it's very urgent


Attached is the picture of the mother in-law, she lives @ BARIKA UI second gate (IBADAN)

Make sure you go. They will advise you on what to do.

Toymax88:
➜Thanks , I have taken down the picture. My request is simple and short. They should enrol the children in public schools, I will be sending you the necessary materials to the class teachers, this didn't go down well with the babies mama.
➜ I just want the children in schools, I'm not interested in the relationship again

. Unless the state they live in requires that all children of that age be enrolled in school, I don't see the meaningfulness of this request of yours. Plus, we are talking about Nigeria, where the court says one thing and does nothing at all. If you truly want your children to be in school, then you should be asking for custody of your kids so you can put them in school yourself.

2. Take your kids and put them in school yourself. I doubt the woman herself is interested in a relationship with you either, since she has been refusing your calls, and her mother also rejects your visits. If the woman does not show up tomorrow, ask the courts how to gain custody of the kids so you can ensure they are put in school, if not this term, maybe the next.

Kobojunkie:
. Unless the state they live in requires that all children of that age be enrolled in school, I don't see the meaningfulness of this request of yours. Plus, we are talking about Nigeria, where the court says one thing and does nothing at all. If you truly want your children to be in school, then you should be asking for custody of your kids so you can put them in school yourself.

2. Take your kids and put them in school yourself. I doubt the woman herself is interested in a relationship with you either, since she has been refusing your calls, and her mother also rejects your visits. If the woman does not show up tomorrow, ask the courts how to gain custody of the kids so you can ensure they are put in school, if not this term, maybe the next.

I don't think the court will grant me the custody of the children considering their age : 11 years, 7 years, 9 months


I always enjoy your input

Toymax88:
➜I don't think the court will grant me the custody of the children considering their age : 11 years, 7 years, 9 months. I always enjoy your input

. Let the courts decide what it will decide AFTER you have filed for custody and presented evidence/reason for your filing. Not many years ago, FFK filed and gained full custody of his baby in those same Nigerian courts after proving his wife was not competent to have him. Your case is different in that the woman in question is not a wife, but still, you could always argue that you are a more resourceful parent than your baby mama. That might help tip the court in your favor. I think shared custody would make sense in your case. I suggest you find and consult a lawyer first.

Kobojunkie:
. Let the courts decide what it will decide AFTER you have filed for custody and presented evidence/reason for your filing. Not many years ago, FFK filed and gained full custody of his baby in those same Nigerian courts after proving his wife was not competent to have him. Your case is different in that the woman in question is not a wife, but still, you could always argue that you are a more resourceful parent than your baby mama. That might help tip the court in your favor. I think shared custody would make sense in your case. I suggest you find and consult a lawyer first.

Ok

Toymax88:
Tomorrow Monday (5th May, 2025) is the date set for us to meet at the Oyo state ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, ONIREKE, IBADAN.

I just spoke with the officer in charge and she told me that the mother in-law didn't accept the letter of invitation sent by the ministry. She said that when an officer got to the address,she met with women but she rejected the letter of invitation, so the officer called his office (ministry) to inform his superior about the refusal to accept the letter and he was asked to give the phone to the "MIL". They introduced her to tell my "wife" to make herself available tomorrow at the ministry.

I called my wife but she didn't respond to my calls, she's deflecting my calls

I called the officer in charge again to be very sure if these people will show up tomorrow, they ask me to come



My question is this

What if they didn't show up? What's the next step?

As the schools resumed last week, my children are not enrolled in schools, probably helping the MIL to sell OGOGORO in her shop. This is second week of RESUMPTION, out of 13 weeks that make up a term.

Considering the cost of transportation these days, I want to set out for the journey as early as possible

Kindly push to the front page, pls it's very urgent


Attached is the picture of the mother in-law, she lives @ BARIKA UI second gate (IBADAN)

If you really care for those children education and future

Ask them to release those children to you so that you can look after them

See these children will still blame you if everything turns bad for their future because their mum has already brainwashed them against you

So if you neglect them and leave them with her, then be prepared for them in any way

frozen70:
If you really care for those children education and future

Ask them to release those children to you so that you can look after them

See these children will still blame you if everything turns bad for their future because their mum has already brainwashed them against you

So if you neglect them and leave them with her, then be prepared for them in any way

Thanks, that's going to be my request, I hope and pray that the request will be granted.

She's not your wife legally or traditionally but your baby mama please. Let's put things into perspective.

Let's hope she'll honor the invitation. Give us an update much later.

I'm presently at OJOO in IBADAN

I'm stranded

80 81 68 05 34 PALMPAY

R. IBRAHEEM

I will provide an update when I get back home. I'm still trekking

Toymax88:
I'm presently at OJOO in IBADAN

I'm stranded

80 81 68 05 34 PALMPAY

R. IBRAHEEM

I will provide an update when I get back home. I'm still trekking

Are you trekking to kwara

Kizolalah82:
Are you trekking to kwara

Lol!! The money on me is not enough for the tfare to ILORIN

Drop something for me, abeg