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Please I need an honest advise. Back when I was 12/11 years old around early 2000. In our compound then me and my neighbour both planted crops within the compound, I can't really remember what happened in details, I remember I destroyed my neighbour plantings and also destroyed some of mine. She asked me I denied, she later reported to her father who she told me later made curses in their local way.

It has been over 20 years now and her father died died also 20 years ago. The thing is I still feel I need restitute to her and apologise for that I did to her when we were kids.

I don't know how to go about it, considering her father is late and we only communicate via SM now.

Kindly advise me what to do please because somehow though i have been making progress in some areas of my life, I still feel I am stagnated in some other areas considering the efforts I put in every day.

Kindly advise please

Confess and apologise to her for the sake of restitution.

As for the incident causing stagnation in your life, that one is just an imagination. You are healthier and more successful than many that were never cursed.

Titian22:
Please I need an honest advise. Back when I was 12/11 years old around early 2000. In our compound then me and my neighbour both planted crops within the compound, I can't really remember what happened in details, I remember I destroyed my neighbour plantings and also destroyed some of mine. She asked me I denied, she later reported to her father who she told me later made curses in their local way.

It has been over 20 years now and her father died died also 20 years ago. The thing is I still feel I need restitute to her and apologise for that I did to her when we were kids.

I don't know how to go about it, considering her father is late and we only communicate via SM now.

Kindly advise me what to do please because somehow though i have been making progress in some areas of my life, I still feel I am stagnated in some other areas considering the efforts I put in every day.

Kindly advise please

I'm sure she has outgrown it... So, just go ahead and talk to her about it.

Titian22:
Please I need an honest advise. Back when I was 12/11 years old around early 2000. In our compound then me and my neighbour both planted crops within the compound, I can't really remember what happened in details, I remember I destroyed my neighbour plantings and also destroyed some of mine. She asked me I denied, she later reported to her father who she told me later made curses in their local way.

It has been over 20 years now and her father died died also 20 years ago. The thing is I still feel I need restitute to her and apologise for that I did to her when we were kids.

I don't know how to go about it, considering her father is late and we only communicate via SM now.

Kindly advise me what to do please because somehow though i have been making progress in some areas of my life, I still feel I am stagnated in some other areas considering the efforts I put in every day.

Kindly advise please

How can large percentage of people prosper when your country sef is backward. Una no dey think . Later u go go church prophet go give one fake prophesy and stage miracle to collect ur money wake up madam .

dawnomike:
I'm sure she has outgrown it... So, just go ahead and talk to her about it.

Thank you, how should I go about the restitution? Should I send her money or drink ?

Titian22:
➜Please I need an honest advise. Back when I was 12/11 years old around early 2000. In our compound then me and my neighbour both planted crops within the compound, I can't really remember what happened in details, I remember I destroyed my neighbour plantings and also destroyed some of mine. She asked me I denied, she later reported to her father who she told me later made curses in their local way. It has been over 20 years now and her father died died also 20 years ago. The thing is I still feel I need restitute to her and apologise for that I did to her when we were kids. I don't know how to go about it, considering her father is late and we only communicate via SM now.
➜ Kindly advise me what to do please because somehow though i have been making progress in some areas of my life, I still feel I am stagnated in some other areas considering the efforts I put in every day. Kindly advise please

. This need for restitution is rooted in the fact that you falsely believe humans have the power to curse or bless you. This is where your major problem is. If you wish to apologise to the woman for that event during your childhood, then go ahead and do it. But if you are thinking that apologizing to her would magically cause your life to be turned around, then you are best heading straight to see a professional psychiatrist or psychologist immediately.

2. If the efforts you have been putting in every day have not helped change your situation, then consider taking a step back to analyse the situation from a completely different perspective than the one you have become used to. Consider your individual goals and the little obstacles that continue to get in the way of your reaching them. Put together strategic plans to help you either avoid or overcome every little obstacle. Then implement your plans, one by one.

Of course, this is me assuming your issue can be broken down into smaller bits.

Titian22:
Please I need an honest advise. Back when I was 12/11 years old around early 2000. In our compound then me and my neighbour both planted crops within the compound, I can't really remember what happened in details, I remember I destroyed my neighbour plantings and also destroyed some of mine. She asked me I denied, she later reported to her father who she told me later made curses in their local way.

It has been over 20 years now and her father died died also 20 years ago. The thing is I still feel I need restitute to her and apologise for that I did to her when we were kids.

I don't know how to go about it, considering her father is late and we only communicate via SM now.

Kindly advise me what to do please because somehow though i have been making progress in some areas of my life, I still feel I am stagnated in some other areas considering the efforts I put in every day.

Kindly advise please

For some degree of restitution just apologise that you are sorry for what transpired in the past. You just don't get what came over you and regret your denial for whatever fears

This is doing right.

You should however understand that life is made of numerous highs and lows which may and may not be logically related.

Life is full of trials and lessons. We may get some and be better for it or others learn value in our experience.