₦airaland Forum

Breaker001:
➜For your mind, abi?

The content of your mind.

PlasmaTV:
➜Baba e loun ba soro

Yes, my father is aware that I never saw him as a god but as a mere flawed human being. Your father may stand as a god to your life, but mine isn't and never was. That's the big difference between you and me.

oluseyiforjesus:
➜Marriage doesn't knw pastor or anybody oo. When u marry wrong den it's sour

There is no such thing as marrying wrong... the ones who fed you lot that diseased thinking are these pastors who lie for fame and fortune. All human beings, including your parents, are flawed human beings and as such are prone to getting it wrong many times throughout their lives.

bestman09:
Let her get advice from an imam or babalawo

They are all scammers-in-the-lords... fraudsters just like her father ... they all use sweet sounding lies to defraud the gullible for a living.

lightwind:
Bastards

The bastards are those who think of their parents are gods that are not to be defied or questioned. They are the imbe_ciles who terrorize others in the name of one god or another.

Egalitarian1:
Abeg, take am easy because, this take wey you dey shake no too get better leg, make e for no break scatter no😞😃

That this is a table is the most disgusting aspect of this. I can't believe that in the year 2025, there are still those who believe their parents are gods not to be questioned or called out when they do wrong. Education continues to elude the black population, it seems! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

inoki247:
➜Lol So far your father isn't beating or abusing your Mother....What's bad In enduring...What's Love is endurance not part of Love...If the two people in Marriage can't endure then why're they married...

Are you currently living this endurance life that women live in marriage, or do you at least plan to live the same endurance life in marriage as well?

Sonnobax15:
➜ If that's her only reason for saying that,then it simply means she go really stay tayyyy for her papa house . Until probably when she must had signed a MOU with meno-stop,thats when her brain would fall back to factory settings....

Nonsense talk! 🙄🙄🙄

owiko:
➜Who takes advice from a pastor, when you have friends waiting at the salon to give you beta marital counselling?

Go church, mosque, shrine every week and see millions of the same taking advice blindly from their back door gods of men. Africans are addicted to them.

Recuse:
➜There are no good pastors anywhere in Nigeria. They are home breakers always dishing out fake prophecies to gullible followers. Some will even try to snatch your wife away from you when you go to them for marital counselling
I CURSE all the fake Pastors in and out of Nigeria

What do you expect from people who scam other people for a living hiding their lies behind the mention of deities they themselves have never interacted with?

Kobojunkie:
What do you expect from people who scam other people for a living hiding their lies behind the mention of deities they themselves have never interacted with?

Aside from pastors. The Average Nigerian is wicked and heartless. I know how I'm suffering now and can't get help

SouthSouth1914:
Her father probably is a fake pastor! So yeah, no one should ever take advice from a fake pastor as they are everywhere!

All pastors, imams, etc, are fakes! She is young and has discovered this early. You, at your age, have yet to. How come?

Kobojunkie:
IF your idea of marriage indicates suffering and disrespect, then doesn't that already indicate its low worth to both involved?

2. Why engage in an endeavor that you know would bring you more suffering and anguish? Not all marriages worldwide are fraught with suffering and shege, mind you!

For your point 1, it is not my idea. Those were the words of your fellow gender whose posts was referenced, which I simply replied to. In the post, she stated she will not seek marital advice from a pastor because pastors usually advice women to tolerate suffering and disrespect. And my reply was off that premise, that it is only your gender who believes and can voice the opinion that it is only women who are suffering and enduring disperect in marriages. You lots believe that as far as a relationship between a man and woman, the man is automatically the aggressor or culprit, while the woman is a gentle angel that cannot lie or hurt a fly. For most men, we believe within our ranks, there are the good, the bad, and the ugly.
For your point 2, I have been around here for sometimes now and I know you like unnecessary arguments and drawing silly conclusions to suit your own agenda, which is fine. But, I didn't say or mean any of what you highlighted. You may want to go back and read my last post that you quoted.

nwirinedu:
Why are you rebelling against your father ? Have you forgotten he trained you with tithes and offerings fraudulently obtained from gullible members?

😂😂😂😂

Kobojunkie:
Given the rate of abandonment and unofficial divorce as well as abuse in marriage in Nigeria, it is safe to say to say that a woman should probably consider low the advice of the married when looking to get into marriage herself.

Anakogheri

sammiewrite:
➜For your point 1, it is not my idea. Those were the words of your fellow gender whose posts was referenced, which I simply replied to. In the post, she stated she will not seek marital advice from a pastor because pastors usually advice women to tolerate suffering and disrespect. And my reply was off that premise, that it is only your gender who believes and can voice the opinion that it is only women who are suffering and enduring disperect in marriages. You lots believe that as far as a relationship between a man and woman, the man is automatically the aggressor or culprit, while the woman is a gentle angel that cannot lie or hurt a fly. For most men, we believe within our ranks, there are the good, the bad, and the ugly.
➜ For your point 2, I have been around here for sometimes now and I know you like unnecessary arguments and drawing silly conclusions to suit your own agenda, which is fine. But, I didn't say or mean any of what you highlighted. You may want to go back and read my last post that you quoted.

You don't seem to have comprehended the post at all, do you?

According to the OP, pastors(implying her father, a male, and sometimes even the women among them) advise women(not men) to endure suffering and disrespect in marriage. These pastors are fully aware of the fact that suffering and disrespect are pains, but they advise women(not men) to endure them in marriage.

Una no get sense... How Halima go be pastor daughter

Kobojunkie:
All pastors, imams, etc, are fakes! She is young and has discovered this early. You, at your age, have yet to. How come?

Yet you are unable to leave your childish skin.

SouthSouth1914:
➜Yet you are unable to leave your childish skin.

Are you sure you are OK?🤔

Fiscus105:
A lady tells you, the advice her father gave her on marriage, "IS DISRESPECT AND ENDURING", that is,......she is not ready to be submissive to husband and wants equality in marriage with her husband,.....YET YOU WRITING NONSENSE THAT HER FATHER IS FAKE,.....if you are a man, I pity wife and Ur kids, because they are from a man who lack the smallest intelligent to give leadership for his followers

You should think clearly, not like someone high on some cheap drugs. Her father is not worthy to called man of the cloth.

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are OK?🤔

Junkie asking if someone is okay.., this gotta be the 9th wonder of the world!

I wonder why some women shout: disrespect about men of which na dem dey disrespect man pass

Mistersolar:
it is said for a lady to be submissive to her man..you dont do that, there maybe rumble

This concerns you and your wife.
Not any of my business, Sir.

Starz825:
I wonder why some women shout: disrespect about men of which na dem dey disrespect man pass

She is telling you her father's advice to women(not men)is that they endure suffering and disrespect in the name of marriage. Her claim is that her father is the one doing the shouting at women(not men).

okay stay menopaused

pocohantas:
This concerns you and your wife.
Not any of my business, Sir.

Mistersolar:
okay stay menopaused

As expected. Wicked men and shaming.
5n6 😂😂😂

pocohantas:
Some of the men she should avoid have commented as expected.

Thank you my sister.

Them full this Nairaland arena!

Kobojunkie:
Yes, my father is aware that I never saw him as a god but as a mere flawed human being. Your father may stand as a god to your life, but mine isn't and never was. That's the big difference between you and me.

Continue ranting, but off my mentions. Now, take your talk somewhere else.

Halimo!

pocohantas:
Some of the men she should avoid have commented as expected.

Lol 😆 press their neck

The problem I can identify tho is that our people lack empathy, both men and women. I suspect it has something to do with the way we raise our kids in this society