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Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by saphiere(f): 12:11pm On May 13, 2025
Bmaster:
your gender is the real cause of hardship and suffering,I am very shocked that your gender got a limited punishment compared to the male genders.So,you people should be thankful to God Almighty that after introducing sin and disobedience to humanity,it still the man that suffers most!
nlfpmod seun
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Mistersolar: 12:16pm On May 13, 2025
600k salary is very very okay even for married couple anywhere in naija
geoworldedu:
When they ask their seemingly rich 'family man' uncle for money and he could not provide it.

Another one is when people on 30k salary think that earning 100k salary will make an end to their woes.

And people earning 100k salary think that they have blown if they can start earning 300k salary.

Then those earning 300k salary think that they have reached their destination if they can start earning 600k salary.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Spursy(op): 12:17pm On May 13, 2025
OZIOGU1:
Man up and keep pushing.

I am married to a woman that shares the same story with you, part of the problem i still face in my marriage today is the fact that loosing her both parents at young age have done lots of damage to her emotional being, so i just find a way to manage it and ensure that she is happy
Exactly me there.
Its well with ur wife Sir
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Spursy(op): 12:18pm On May 13, 2025
Allthingswork:
embarassed cry kiss
I can only imagine it. Sorry, Bro. I'm talking about the part of not having parents from the age of nine. The memories, they may keep springing up and bugging us. My dad passed away when I was 16. It annoys me but we get used to it and it looses it's power to hurt us as time goes on.
I hope you get to that place where it doesn't hurt you anymore, as it did the first few years of their demise.

God help you.
You're a brother indeed. I appreciate
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Worksunlimited: 12:19pm On May 13, 2025
Spursy:
What is that one Thing?
Life
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Mistersolar: 12:20pm On May 13, 2025
xmen evolution
Deeprooted:
Please suggest animations for me.


I just watching animation movies

Something like Shrek, soul, toy story,
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by columbus007(m): 12:22pm On May 13, 2025
Spursy:
I'm on an empty stomach right now
the first commandment in the holy book was for us to love our neighbour like ourselves, miracle may come through for us we are in the same boat.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by rinzaugustine: 12:22pm On May 13, 2025
Gboom:
The OP is asking a personal question, your turned it to politics when you are not a real stakeholder
It's obvious you are experiencing bitterness, disappointment, agony and grief as a result of hatred you have in your mind
So at your age you do not know the economic well being of a country is tied to its politics? I don’t know how young you are but it is an information you can ask your parents
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by shinealight(m): 12:24pm On May 13, 2025
Spursy:
What is that one Thing?
DEATH!
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by ogascomax: 12:28pm On May 13, 2025
Number one should be health crisis.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Ojay0445(m): 12:29pm On May 13, 2025
Salvation.....no matter how you show or tell them about freedom... they will be spewing nonsense because they're captive in spiritual bondage.
Nobody can understand till you have experiential knowledge. No matter how old or educated are you.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by douglaschukwu: 12:32pm On May 13, 2025
Divorce
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by delzbaba(m): 12:33pm On May 13, 2025
DeeScan:
😂😂😂😂

Bruh .... This is definitely hard ..
The sweat wey go dey flow from person head alone na war
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by showboy2301: 12:34pm On May 13, 2025
HEAVEN4444:
hmmm do tell
For you to be wealthy, you must be ready to take a lot of risk.
You must believe in all your plans.
Rich people don't think about it, they do it.
No one can get rich through salary.
There's no clean wealth.
If you want to be rich, get ready to be envied. I mean that the more your money, the more people that will envy you. It's normal if you want peace.
Get ready to allow your heart to guide you, not by sympathy.
Be a cheerful giver.
Love GOD above all.


These are few I can remember from my experience though.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Biodun1929(m): 12:40pm On May 13, 2025
Ndidi2:
everybody is different..
Body different too..
Threshold for endurance and pain different..
Mindset different..
Okay
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by traware(m): 12:47pm On May 13, 2025
Maysdevices:
Read Proverbs with an open mind and you will understand the difference between Wisdom and the friendship of God

It is Wisdom people try to look for when they’re seeking God and not His presence or friendship, Wisdom that is present in every man but is rejected until they fall into a ditch. When you look for her, she will disappear and even mock you

You will never see wisdom when you search for wisdom if you rejected her young, not God almighty. He is always with every man evil or good, watching your steps carefully to judge you at the end of your life

God’s presence and friendship is another matter. He is a King sprit and comes when He wants to come, even when He loves you. Fast for 200days and He might come on day 1 or Day 200

Most do not desire it because it is impossible for the majority of human beings to keep God’s laws and are not His Children in the spirit, they just want guidance to succeed in this world at all cost
Bmaster:
your gender is the real cause of hardship and suffering,I am very shocked that your gender got a limited punishment compared to the male genders.So,you people should be thankful to God Almighty that after introducing sin and disobedience to humanity,it still the man that suffers most!
@Maysdevices

Can you see the deep seated hatred Religion has towards women?
Yet na una carry am for head pass
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by yusman14(m): 12:50pm On May 13, 2025
geoworldedu:
When they ask their seemingly rich 'family man' uncle for money and he could not provide it.

Another one is when people on 30k salary think that earning 100k salary will make an end to their woes.

And people earning 100k salary think that they have blown if they can start earning 300k salary.

Then those earning 300k salary think that they have reached their destination if they can start earning 600k salary.
As regards to your first paragraph, why is it so?

Some people are very rich and when one ask them money, they won't want to help. It is not about being entitled. If I'm very rich and a relative ask for my help, knowing that the person is serious with his/her life, I'm going to give.

Imagine someone earning over 4m/month ignoring you because you asked for 20k.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by EnglishUsa: 12:52pm On May 13, 2025
xtianchris:
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Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by yusman14(m): 12:55pm On May 13, 2025
Davidlaw419:
I swear...I find myself struggling on 285k salary
I guess you are married.
I'm still single, if I can be earning your salary, I will be fine.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Difrent: 12:55pm On May 13, 2025
Spursy:
What is that one Thing?
Falling into a debt trap
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by February30(m): 12:57pm On May 13, 2025
Sharpsharp00123:
Being broke I never understood the power of being broke till I experience it live n direct. U will just b stranded n even to see common 3k to give your wife to arrange food go hard.

Thank God things have changed, my advice for people out there is that don't run faster than your Shadow, it's good to upgrade but don't rush to it.

I had a thriving business giving me at least 10k per day but I see many of my friends doing big things n traveling abroad, na so I sell everything try travel ooo, I enter 419 mouth live n direct.....ehn no b small matter my people
Chai
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Krismas(m): 12:58pm On May 13, 2025
franchasng:
Tinubu will develop Nigeria the way he developed Lagos shocked cheesy




But now, his Lukumi supporters are still in shock that Bola Tinubu can destroy Nigeria beyond repairs in just few days he became President grin grin
grin Go to court cheesy
As e dey pain u, e dey sweet me grin grin
4 + 4 =ooPBAT
100% grin
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by February30(m): 12:59pm On May 13, 2025
yusman14:
As regards to your first paragraph, why is it so?

Some people are very rich and when one ask them money, they won't want to help. It is not about being entitled. If I'm very rich and a relative ask for my help, knowing that the person is serious with his/her life, I'm going to give.

Imagine someone earning over 4m/month ignoring you because you asked for 20k.
You won't understand bro... It is possible to earn 5 million monthly and still feel broken broke.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by yusman14(m): 12:59pm On May 13, 2025
pedrilo:
if u be guy, no dey do dis tin again, enter street, meet fellow guys, dem go show u way and u go fit help urself. life hard for man, dis kind begging for 2k no go help u at all. Congrats to u as u challenge urself and take the bold step. Gow will help and raise u
But if e be woman, she no need hustle, you go give her because she get pussy. SIMP!
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Spursy(op): 1:00pm On May 13, 2025
Difrent:
Falling into a debt trap
That shit is terrible.
Imagine expecting money hoping u can use it to stock up your kitchen and pay off your debts. Then u get disappointed by the person who would have given u same money
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by GindoX(m): 1:00pm On May 13, 2025
dododawa1:
JedeJede ( hemorrhoids )



aka




PILE
How you treat am or manage am,
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by yusman14(m): 1:01pm On May 13, 2025
February30:
You won't understand bro... It is possible to earn 5 million monthly and still feel broken broke.
Ahhh. Really!
With 1m/month, I'm set for life provided that the economy condition remains like this, I know how to manage well.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by dododawa1: 1:02pm On May 13, 2025
GindoX:
How you treat am or manage am,
Once in a week,as a man you needed to take AGBO (Local herb) original.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by MissIndependent(f): 1:02pm On May 13, 2025
Childbirth/Labour Pain.
Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by Whois(m): 1:03pm On May 13, 2025
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Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by GindoX(m): 1:04pm On May 13, 2025
dododawa1:
Once in a week,as a man you needed to take AGBO (Local herb) original.
Agbo or agbo Jedi, speaking of original how you go know original
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