₦airaland Forum

BitmapStudios:
Have you seen Happney65? Baba's stomach disagrees with this your post.

ARISHEM:
It’s normal. Mostly if they rush into it because of pressure to get married
And most times they did not factor that they marry the responsibilities attached to it which include in laws and their wahala.
Another reason is if the marriage is driven by lust and not love.
This mostly happen to men who marry due to premarital sex.

Any married man be it a pastor, your neighbor or motivational speaker that always look roughened, shabby or like a zombie after he got married and is in the habit of putting pressure on you to get married is your enemy.

And any chronic debtor that is in the habit of borrowing money up and down after he got married but yet disturb you to get married like him is your enemy

dederocs:
Sadly most men are just tolerating tired women, who just want to eat, watch content and sleep

Vickym1:
When he think about the price of pampers, house rent, nepa bill and the rest of them then he become restless in the night

happney65:
Ahahahahahaa.. My brother iṣẹ ọwọ Abeni ni ooo..

cassidy1996:
Being married is not easy; it takes a lot from you

placeofallure:
Yeah! Go and ask my husband. I don't stress him, but I just marvel at the many moments he has to stand up and be there; for me, for the family, for his family, for mine, for neighbours, colleagues, friends and even strangers...God bless all the responsible men. May their paths be made easy.

njokuuche77:
➜Once upon a time, marriage gave men potbellies . Now? It’s six-packs by force, stress-induced! Dear future husbands, as you plan to say 'I do,' don’t just prepare for the wedding, prepare your emotional strength and financial stamina. Love is sweet, but it's sweeter when there’s peace of mind and at least steady power supply and data. If not, na slim-fit be your destiny! If the love doesn’t come with emotional stability, you’ll be eating three square meals and still losing weight!

phoneport:
➜ Married Men are now endangered species

MatrixReloaded:
Inner peace of mind was never a child playground

Thelannister:
I spend a total of 7-10k daily to manage with serious complain to feed and all. Just myself a wife and a kid.
I got 2 kids ..it's a full time job

DLSReigns:
➜Most homes are gone. All you see are familiar strangers enduring each other in a house.

Vickym1:
➜When he think about the price of pampers, house rent, nepa bill and the rest of them then he become restless in the night

Chilipepper:
“Marriage no dey fatten men again?” — Netizen laments how husbands now ‘dry up’ instead of adding flesh few years into marriage

AfricanA31:
➜Don't marry until you are capable. You won't dry up if you are up to the task

Brilliancepower:
➜Don't marry a graduate that has only certificate to show oooo. Marry a lady that is a tailor, a chef and a handy woman.

BitmapStudios:
Glory to God!!!

Blitzking:
You see that nepa bill

Kobojunkieee:
The same problems existed back in the 70s and 80s, after the civil wars, when people began consoling themselves with the delusion that a pot belly — an indicator of a life of great stress— instead is a sign of wellness.

Thelannister:
She’s not the one we complaining we both complain, cos that amount can’t even feed an adult for a proper meal for a day. And she contribute a lot too

LoneSoldier:
You married men will see something, your liability wives we be like agric female broiler, why you family men will look like dry native male fowl....

BACHELOR FOR LIFE

MatrixReloaded:
Inner peace of mind was never a child playground

njokuuche77:
Once upon a time, marriage gave men potbellies . Now? It’s six-packs by force, stress-induced!
Dear future husbands, as you plan to say 'I do,' don’t just prepare for the wedding, prepare your emotional strength and financial stamina.
Love is sweet, but it's sweeter when there’s peace of mind and at least steady power supply and data. If not, na slim-fit be your destiny!
If the love doesn’t come with emotional stability, you’ll be eating three square meals and still losing weight!

AfricanA31:
Don't marry until you are capable. You won't dry up if you are up to the task

Amalekki:
It is but it is not mandatory.

However, marriage is a sacred institution of utmost importance in molding future generation within the right environment. In other words, it is a very dangerous development when the environment for productive marriage is not present. Both the male and the female must be adequately and intentionally prepared for marriage otherwise we are only multiplying issues within the society. Part of the critical pillars of marriage is the ability of the key parties to provide means of sustaining the daily livelihood of all involved. In the absence of the necessary resources, marriage should be the last thing on the mind. It is not something to toy with or else you are only building structure on a very weak foundation, it will collapse.
There is nothing "sacred" about marriage! Nigerians should do something useful with their lives!