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Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Godsonkemz(m): 7:30pm On May 17, 2025
What a woman. Prayer you never have this kind as wife if you are yet to marry.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Ndenomy: 7:32pm On May 17, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin

As much as I find her request ridiculous and distasteful, I like the way men are fully getting a taste of their medicine and being mirrored so that they will know how they sound and have a 1st hand experience of how women feel when they say they want another woman or bring in another woman grin

When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect since research shows that men don't understand words,they understand actions better


P.S: I know the culprits will come to my mention to cry me a river.be my guest grin tongue
Weak man.. when you see one you will know. Na una dey approve rubiish for our society. If dem no kpai one of una, the rest no go get sense
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Obaaderemi2: 7:32pm On May 17, 2025
PUNANI01:
This generation! I wonder what next generation will be like..
Next generation children will be caning their parents
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by nedekid: 7:37pm On May 17, 2025
Heffalump:
Woman are the most secretive cheats on earth. It's easier to catch a cheating man than a cheating woman. Reason why you don't see most of them. Very evasive beings.
Know this and know peace. The reality is hard for people to accept. 90% of people writing here if they know what their darling wives do codedly they will have heart attack. As I always say, when as a young person you have a child, make sure it is yours, everything else does not matter. Don't wound yourself over any woman cos you kpai, tops one year she don move on. As a man, plan for your future, your retirement, make sure you enjoy yourself and keep enough to take care either wife de or she no de.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SlavaUkraini: 7:39pm On May 17, 2025
She was Publicly disgraced
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 7:40pm On May 17, 2025
ogaontop:
The right word is "manipulate" not 'convince' the man to allow her keep a side dude!
No be the same men dey use to get their wives to ignore their cheating? grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Exceed15: 7:40pm On May 17, 2025
It shows how deep she's gone with the side man.. lol. The man should carry out DNA on their children.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Urgent1Million: 7:42pm On May 17, 2025
We are at that point already.
It might sound weird but it's the reality of a lot of women today.
If there ever was a god, I'm sure he got scared and has bolted already.
Even Mr conscience and morality have left the group chat.
It's time for men to understand the times and change the status quo.
No more bride price!
When a man and a woman like each other and agree to live together, both families pool resources together to hold a ceremony announcing the couple's decision.
Case closed!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 7:44pm On May 17, 2025
Exceed15:
It shows how deep she's gone with the side man.. lol. The man should carry out DNA on their children.
Person is supposed to begin buying stocks in DNA testing companies. With all these men advising their fellow men to get their kids DNA-tested, surely there is money to be made. undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 7:46pm On May 17, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin

As much as I find her request ridiculous and distasteful, I like the way men are fully getting a taste of their medicine and being mirrored so that they will know how they sound and have a 1st hand experience of how women feel when they say they want another woman or bring in another woman grin

When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect since research shows that men don't understand words,they understand actions better


P.S: I know the culprits will come to my mention to cry me a river.be my guest grin tongue
No matter how you try to arm twist it, a padlock with different keys has no value

A woman tryin to as though as man will always end with regret, and less worth cos she is not designed to answer to two lords

As a wife if you think sleepin around is a payback, she is just a Fôõl cos when your husband reject you even that guy you are fvcking will either reject you or treat you like shit

Dont just get caught ... bye
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by kennethesan(m): 7:49pm On May 17, 2025
That's simple. She should just go see him with her full family members, all wearing helmets. Lobaton
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 7:50pm On May 17, 2025
theredaddy:
➜No matter how you try to arm twist it, a padlock with different keys has no value. A woman tryin to as though as man will always end with regret, and less worth cos she is not designed to answer to two lords. As a wife if you think sleepin around is a payback,
➜ she is just a Fôõl cos when your husband reject you even that guy you are fvcking will either reject you or treat you like shit. Dont just get caught ... bye
Why is a woman likened to a padlock though, one with different keys at that? What is the connection? Or do we liken her to a rock that can be picked with many different tools? I don't get it. huh huh huh

2. Not true at all, given that women are able to move on from one relationship to another, like men are able to. undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by franchasng: 8:01pm On May 17, 2025
If she is the breadwinner of the family without any form of complaining or whining or nagging and she will be careful enough not to bring the guys pregnancy and pin it on the husband, then I see no issue here honestly.



Take it from me, if Nigerian married women can fulfill the above criteria, most Nigerian husband's won't complain.


So before you think of keeping a side dude as a married Nigerian woman, make sure:


1.) you are happily the breadwinner of the house and you don't complain or grumble about being the one footing majority of the family's bills.


2.) you have bought your husband a nice luxury car to make his life easy

3.) you will not allow the side dude to impregnate you and you bring it and pin it on your husband

4.) you will still be playing your wifely roles without compromise.


If Nigerian married women can do the above, I am sure majority of their husbands won't complain if they keep a side dude, it's not hard undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by pepericozi: 8:02pm On May 17, 2025
She doesn't need convincing words or manipulation of whatsoever. Let her see me privately. I will give her juju. Stupid talk 😠 😠 😠

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Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 8:02pm On May 17, 2025
Glimpsetv:
Shockwaves rippled through the audience when a woman, who has been married for 15 years, asked an unexpected and controversial question during a live episode of Tonight’s Conversation: Live & Uncut with Kittie Rose.

The woman revealed that her husband recently discovered she’s been in a relationship with another man. Rather than expressing regret, her concern was how to persuade her husband to allow her to continue seeing the other man.

In her words, she asked, “How can I convince my husband to let me keep the side dude?”

The crowd erupted in disbelief, with mouths agape and gasps of astonishment filling the room.

However, order was soon restored as relationship coach and show host Kittie Rose offered a firm, thought-provoking response, addressing the woman’s question with clarity and conviction.

Watch the full video to hear the discussion.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri3xn2f1FMo?si=4ZgOwqGTvq7R1RIe
Werin I dey hear so?

I shock too
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Fearurcreeator: 8:05pm On May 17, 2025
SAMBARRY:
grin

As much as I find her request ridiculous and distasteful, I like the way men are fully getting a taste of their medicine and being mirrored so that they will know how they sound and have a 1st hand experience of how women feel when they say they want another woman or bring in another woman grin

When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect since research shows that men don't understand words,they understand actions better


P.S: I know the culprits will come to my mention to cry me a river.be my guest grin tongue
When men pay majority of the bills or which one... The woman wan run madt be that na ...
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Fearurcreeator: 8:06pm On May 17, 2025
inoki247:
Lol well you can ask him if you're the one feeding him.. shocked shocked
Exactly.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Fearurcreeator: 8:07pm On May 17, 2025
gratiaeo:
There is no law stopping a married woman from having a side guy in Nigeria. If I'm not mistaken
Una sabi copy nonsense
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m):
franchasng:
If she is the breadwinner of the family without any form of complaining or whining or nagging and she will be careful enough not to bring the guys pregnancy and pin it on the husband, then I see no issue here honestly.



Take it from me, if Nigerian married women can fulfill the above criteria, most Nigerian husband's won't complain.


So before you think of keeping a side dude as a married Nigerian woman, make sure:


1.) you are happily the breadwinner of the house and you don't complain or grumble about being the one footing majority of the family's bills.


2.) you have bought your husband a nice luxury car to make his life easy

3.) you will not allow the side dude to impregnate you and you bring it and pin it on your husband

4.) you will still be playing your wifely roles without compromise.


If Nigerian married women can do the above, I am sure majority of their husbands won't complain if they keep a side dude, it's not hard undecided
Awe, I go still complain because it negate every known rules that existed or govern relationship between a man and a woman. Side dude ke? She should go and marry d side dude then.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Father4all: 8:10pm On May 17, 2025
Ashawo bastard
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by franchasng: 8:11pm On May 17, 2025
almarthins:
Awe, I go still complain because it negate every known rules the existed or govern relationship between a man and a woman. Side dude ke? She should go and marry d side dude then.
the world is evolving bro, you should be prepared for the changes that will come with the new evolving world we live in today.


As a married man in the world today, don't ever rule out the possibility of your wife cheating on you with another man, have it in mind that it can happen so that if it happens and you find out, you won't be shattered or broken because you were prepared for the worst.


Every human is a suspect, trust only yourself.


Nobody is holy. The faithful people haven't been tempted enough by their spec in a secure environment.


Those that feel they are faithful haven't been exposed to real temptation, and the opportunities haven't presented itself.


Please prepare for the worst in whatever you do in life, that way, nothing will surprise you in life
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 8:15pm On May 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why is a woman likened to a padlock though, one with different keys at that? What is the connection? Or do we liken her to a rock that can be picked with many different tools? I don't get it. huh huh huh

2. Not true at all, given that women are able to move on from one relationship to another, like men are able to. undecided
Perhaps you are a virgin, the similarity between a woman and padlock is the login center which is designed to be open by one key/man

padlock and wife are both fixed and indoor use, a house padlock has no use outside while key/man has utility both indoor and outdoor

Women move on from men to men, but thats bodywise not by heart .. the fact that most 1st born are paternity fraud is enough evidence
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by PlanetZero: 8:22pm On May 17, 2025
PUNANI01:
This generation! I wonder what next generation will be like..
Because it is a woman asking now. You see all these things men dey do ehn this coming generation of ladies will do worse. No gender should have the monopoly of madness
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie:
theredaddy:
➜Perhaps you are a virgin, the similarity between a woman and padlock is the login center which is designed to be open by one key/man
padlock and wife are both fixed and indoor use, a house padlock has no use outside while key/man has utility both indoor and outdoor
➜ Women move on from men to men, [b]but thats bodywise not by heart[/b] .. the fact that most 1st born are paternity fraud is enough evidence
1. Similar to a padlock? Is that like saying a man is a padlock that is designed to be opened— disvirgined— by one woman? I really don't get this idea since a woman can be disvirgined either via the front, back, or both. grin

2. Yet, for many of you, your wives have more than proven they are capable of going outdoors to get and bring back babies for you to raise indoors? Is it me, or that many of you are irreparably densely minded? huh

3. Isn't that pretty much the same thing many men can do... move from woman to woman, bodywise, and not really by heart each time? What the heck is wrong with you people? huh
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 8:23pm On May 17, 2025
PlanetZero:
➜Because it is a woman asking now. You see all these things men dey do ehn this coming generation of ladies will do worse. No gender should have the monopoly of madness
Right on! grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Spursy(m): 8:26pm On May 17, 2025
gratiaeo:
There is no law stopping a married woman from having a side guy in Nigeria. If I'm not mistaken
No Sir, there's no law at all. This is why your Wife is happy having a side guy
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by pocohantas(f): 8:28pm On May 17, 2025
Just tell him women are polygamous in nature.

2) He should endure because if he leaves you, the next woman might be worse.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by odaniel1(m): 8:28pm On May 17, 2025
[/b]When you have been begging, praying and hoping for a person to change and act right and they don't act right, start mirroring their behaviour so that they will understand the law of cause and effect, since research shows that men don't understand words; they understand actions better[b]

I love this; well spoken.
I think humans need to just be fair to each other, really.
If you are tired of someone you are in agreement with, you simply let the person know instead of reneging on the agreement through cheating. Remember, a thought is how it starts out?
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 8:28pm On May 17, 2025
Spursy:
No Sir, there's no law at all. This is why your Wife is happy having a side guy
. Are you certain the women around you are not doing the same? undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Spursy(m): 8:29pm On May 17, 2025
Kobojunkie:
. Are you certain the women around you are not doing the same? undecided
You're not someone any sensible person should reply to
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by specialmati(m): 8:59pm On May 17, 2025
Honestey:
You have to seek out a mad man to get this kind of advice from. No normal human being will have a perfect reply to this garbage. If you need connection to that mad man, I know someone who also gets his advice from the same mad man.

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