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Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by sacajawea(m): 4:28am On May 18, 2025
That's nice
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 4:44am On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
. Ah! This generation is spoiled because, unlike those before it, women did it without talking about it, abi? undecided

2. Are we talking about the same traditions and cultures that allowed women to bring in the consequences of their side-dick forays into marriages? undecided

3. You belong instead to a fantastical age that never existed since you deny the reality of things even during the time of generations past, abi? Anyways, a lot of your ancestors also said the same, and we all know how it ended for many of them. Abiola and his many wives with so many children who were not biologically his come to mind. He was not of this current generation. grin
You waste too much energy trying to make a point with elongated epistle. There are rules, I mean eternal rules that must not be broken. When we over step those limits, we directly invite problems that have spiritual undertone or consequences.

If you like give your daughter to many men or ask ur daughter to be the bread winner and the man should be house wife just because you want to make him docile. Today's people are quietly inviting evil in guise of good and modern change. I pity all of you!


Don't ever forget that the consequence will be grave beyond what words can contain.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie:
almarthins:
✓ You waste too much energy trying to make a point with elongated epistle. There are rules, I mean eternal rules that must not be broken. When we over step those limits, we directly invite problems that have spiritual undertone or consequences.
✓ If you like give your daughter to many men or ask ur daughter to be the bread winner and the man should be house wife just because you want to make him docile. Today's people are quietly inviting evil in guise of good and modern change. I pity all of you!
✓ Don't ever forget that the consequence will be grave beyond what words can contain.
1. What in the world are you going on about? People have been breaking these rules left and right since time immemorial. But here you are giving me chips on some eternal rules you imagine inside your mind. 😂😂😂😂😂

2. All of what you describe, and more, happens every day. So, what?😂😂😂😂😂

3. For where? No be this same world we all dey wey politicians go destroy the lives of many millions, only to die without so much as a dent to their names or families. Abegi! 🫤🙄🙄🙄
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by xtianchris(m): 5:00am On May 18, 2025
Heffalump:
Woman are the most secretive cheats on earth. It's easier to catch a cheating man than a cheating woman. Reason why you don't see most of them. Very evasive beings.
Very Very Easy. To catch a cheating woman...
As easy as ABC ..
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by almarthins(m): 5:03am On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. What in the world are you going on about? People have been breaking these rules left and right since time immemorial. But here you are giving me chips on some eternal rules you imagine there inside of your mind. 😂😂😂😂😂

2. All of what you describe, and more, happens everyday. So, what?😂😂😂😂😂

3. For where? No be this same world we all dey wey politicians go destroy the lives of many millions only to the die without so much as a dent to their names or families. Abegi! 🫤🙄🙄🙄
In one statement: it is okay to keep pushing the boundaries, no consequences.
What do I expect from a chameleon like you?

You have no standing, you re not here or there.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by mysticwarrior(m): 5:27am On May 18, 2025
gratiaeo:
There is no law stopping a married woman from having a side guy in Nigeria. If I'm not mistaken
African tradition forbids it.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:05am On May 18, 2025
7arrows:
It's obvious you are doing the same. I hope ur hubby is reading your comment, that's if you are married. I wish u good luck.
na them grin

So predictable grin I knew they'll show up grin

I threw biscuits for ground, rats show up grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:12am On May 18, 2025
Noblemanonpoint:
Side man, that's cheating.
If the court dissolves that marriage, socially, romantically and economically, she stands to lose more at the end.

You women don't seem to get it, it's a man's world no matter how you look at it and try to ignore the facts.

The husband will be free to start another life, side man most times just there for the thrill. He would run when its time for commitment and she'll be lonely in old age.

This is a script we've seen too many times. These sort of women end up with hard life lessons. grin
yinmu. grin

Just dey play grin

Loneliness is a state of mind and the presence or absence of anybody doesn't determine Loneliness. Who told you married women are not lonely grin

Them go get husband for house but dey live as widow .nobody lonely reach married women.no wonder na them full tiktok looking for company and talking about each others husbands pen1s ,sending each other their husbands noodles to grin (story for another day)

Don't even get me started about married men lodging people's wives inside hotel.na married women full hotels and clubs.wo...make we just drop that matter grin because oro po ninu iwe kobo grin
Continue dey deceive yourself that marriage takes away Loneliness grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:14am On May 18, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
single mother calm down grin
e pain you grin

Another culprit don show face.make ina dey pack unaself come grin tongue
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:14am On May 18, 2025
grin
Fearurcreeator:
When men pay majority of the bills or which one... The woman wan run madt be that na ...
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:15am On May 18, 2025
theredaddy:
No matter how you try to arm twist it, a padlock with different keys has no value

A woman tryin to as though as man will always end with regret, and less worth cos she is not designed to answer to two lords

As a wife if you think sleepin around is a payback, she is just a Fôõl cos when your husband reject you even that guy you are fvcking will either reject you or treat you like shit

Dont just get caught ... bye
yinmu grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:16am On May 18, 2025
grin
Ndenomy:
Weak man.. when you see one you will know. Na una dey approve rubiish for our society. If dem no kpai one of una, the rest no go get sense
because you no like my comment e reach to dey plan death on your papa? grin

I tell say I dey sell ice cream on nl abi e get wetin your like go add into my life grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 6:19am On May 18, 2025
Lucifyre:
Do you know mirroring one's actions is the quickest way to piss em off. Like generational pissed off, noticed this a while ago. Guess it's cause they don't like what they see in the mirror, a dissonance of sorts.
that's the whole point. It's the anger that comes from mirroring them that causes a change or an exit.yoruba elders also encourage mirroring by their adage. They say things like when there's dirt in the eye, you remove the dirt and show the eyes. That is exactly what you do to anybody misbehaving grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 7:14am On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
yinmu grin
i can tell you got the whole message, no gender glitch wink
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 7:36am On May 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I scaled the JAMB during my time, and the SAT was a breeze! grin

Now, if it ain't too painful for your head there, go ahead and proceed to explain to us how women, able to divirgin themselves using artificial dicks, or even two men at once, can be likened to padlocks. 😏
their is no way jamb could have call you for a re-sit, i can vouch for ur failure

A woman disvirgining a woman is not different from a criminal altering a padlock to Open with tools

Even though a woman has two hole, only the virgina carries the hymen which resonate padlock,
and no matter how you nack a woman anal, its her cilitoris call she reponse to ...

I guess you have watched so much porn n ur left hand is more muscular, two men can thrust into a virgin But only the dick in the virgina comes out with blood stain, signifies opening a lock

Majority of women desire to marry Dick that disflower them, just as a padlock is tied to its follow come key
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Heffalump(m): 8:18am On May 18, 2025
xtianchris:
Very Very Easy. To catch a cheating woman...
As easy as ABC ..
Wake up man!
The only strong thing exposing them these days is DNA. Women are the most secretive cheats! I repeat!!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Noblemanonpoint: 8:54am On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
yinmu. grin

Just dey play grin

Loneliness is a state of mind and the presence or absence of anybody doesn't determine Loneliness. Who told you married women are not lonely grin

Them go get husband for house but dey live as widow .nobody lonely reach married women.no wonder na them full tiktok looking for company and talking about each others husbands pen1s ,sending each other their husbands noodles to grin (story for another day)

Don't even get me started about married men lodging people's wives inside hotel.na married women full hotels and clubs.wo...make we just drop that matter grin because oro po ninu iwe kobo grin
Continue dey deceive yourself that marriage takes away Loneliness grin
I married my very good friend. There's nothing like being lonely, i have been married for 6 years now.

That's only applicable to people who marry for status or other reasons. You people marry rubbish perhaps.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 8:56am On May 18, 2025
theredaddy:
i can tell you got the whole message, no gender glitch wink
story for the gods.and you know the beautiful thing I love about this generation and about the energy 2025 brought ,everybody will be served ACCORDINGLY whether you're male or female wink
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by SAMBARRY: 8:58am On May 18, 2025
Noblemanonpoint:
I married my very good friend. There's nothing like being lonely, i have been married for 6 years now.

That's only applicable to people who marry for status or other reasons. You people marry rubbish perhaps.
na so all those community preeks dey talk.that one no be new story. Emotional talks is different from what everyone sees grin
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Verbtips(m): 8:59am On May 18, 2025
Glimpsetv:
Shockwaves rippled through the audience when a woman, who has been married for 15 years, asked an unexpected and controversial question during a live episode of Tonight’s Conversation: Live & Uncut with Kittie Rose.

The woman revealed that her husband recently discovered she’s been in a relationship with another man. Rather than expressing regret, her concern was how to persuade her husband to allow her to continue seeing the other man.

In her words, she asked, “How can I convince my husband to let me keep the side dude?”

The crowd erupted in disbelief, with mouths agape and gasps of astonishment filling the room.

However, order was soon restored as relationship coach and show host Kittie Rose offered a firm, thought-provoking response, addressing the woman’s question with clarity and conviction.

Watch the full video to hear the discussion.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri3xn2f1FMo?si=4ZgOwqGTvq7R1RIe
me wey go don enter four forty
So just continue
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by doncartel: 9:50am On May 18, 2025
There are 2 types of marriage: Open Marriage and Closed Marriage. 99% of people are in Closed Marriages, which is where the couple can keep side lovers, but secretly.

People should always consider the option of Open Marriage, which is where the couple can keep side lovers openly. Open Marriage is also now becoming more acceptable and popular all over the world, so she should consider it.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by theredaddy: 10:31am On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
story for the gods.and you know the beautiful thing I love about this generation and about the energy 2025 brought ,everybody will be served ACCORDINGLY whether you're male or female wink
Well seems someone is trapped in her own illusions .. last i checked it still a man's world

A man with multiple women count is a CHAMP buh guess what the society calls SAMBARRY with 6 children and different fathers each .. is life accordingly now my dear cheesy
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by OlawaleBammie: 1:03pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
e pain you grin

Another culprit don show face.make ina dey pack unaself come grin tongue
madam calm down, me I dey different aswear
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by 7arrows: 1:27pm On May 18, 2025
SAMBARRY:
na them grin

So predictable grin I knew they'll show up grin

I threw biscuits for ground, rats show up grin
Yes o. Not rats but elephant.
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 3:15pm On May 18, 2025
theredaddy:
their is no way jamb could have call you for a re-sit, i can vouch for ur failure
A woman disvirgining a woman is not different from a criminal altering a padlock to Open with tools
Even though a woman has two hole, only the virgina carries the hymen which resonate padlock,
and no matter how you nack a woman anal, its her cilitoris call she reponse to ...
I guess you have watched so much porn n ur left hand is more muscular, two men can thrust into a virgin But only the dick in the virgina comes out with blood stain, signifies opening a lock
Majority of women desire to marry Dick that disflower them, just as a padlock is tied to its follow come key
Imagine a grown individual reasoning like an imbe-cile -- ignorant of basic knowledge taught in science class beginning from primary 1. 😳😳😳😳😳😳
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie:
Noblemanonpoint:
✓ I married my very good friend. There's nothing like being lonely, i have been married for 6 years now.
That's only applicable to people who marry for status or other reasons. You people marry rubbish perhaps.
Have you asked your good friend if he/she is also not lonely in marriage? It is well known that many people in marriage are lonely and depressed. Marriage does not cure those things. So, great that you are not lonely, but be sure your partner is also not lonely in marriage. undecided

2. Wrong! Mental illness can happen to anyone, no matter their marital status . undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Belurved1(m): 3:35pm On May 18, 2025
If your husband cheat and you can't 4give him them park out from his house.

Irrespective of any circumstance, man remain head of the family, or can you chase the landlord (husband) away from his house?

Whatever happen, you will still be submissive to your husband.

Remember we are in Nigeria.







Kobojunkie:
But when a man cheats on his wife and even leaves her no option but to accept his cheating, he is regarded as one who loves his wife still. 😩😩
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On May 18, 2025
Belurved1:
If your husband cheat and you can't 4give him them park out from his house.
✓ Irrespective of any circumstance, man remain head of the family, or can you chase the landlord (husband) away from his house?
✓ Whatever happen, you will still be submissive to your husband. Remember we are in Nigeria
.
Aren't you assuming that the house belongs to the man given that in almost 50% of marriages in that same Nigeria, the women are breadwinners. undecided

2. You really need to get your head checked.😂😂😂😂😂

3. How old are you again? undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Belurved1(m): 3:54pm On May 18, 2025
Let me assume you're a woman.

No man pray to be in such condition where a woman will be solely providing for the family, but even it happen in such situation and you're the bread winner as you said.....if you can't accept his apology then he should move out from your property instead of you tuning him to useless man because you have money more than him.

You can't take his place, he's the head.

Respect your husband irrespective of any circumstance.


Kobojunkie:
Aren't you assuming that the house belongs to the man given that in almost 50% of marriages in that same Nigeria, the women are breadwinners. undecided

2. You really need to get your head checked.😂😂😂😂😂

3. How old are you again? undecided
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 3:59pm On May 18, 2025
Belurved1:
Let me assume you're a woman.
No man pray to be in such condition where a woman will be solely providing for the family, but even it happen in such situation and you're the bread winner as you said.....if you can't accept his apology then he should move out from your property instead of you tuning him to useless man because you have money more than him.
You can't take his place, he's the head.
Respect your husband irrespective of any circumstance.
Stop vomiting this nonsense my way. Enter gutter somewhere make better people talk!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Belurved1(m): 4:04pm On May 18, 2025
You'd better remain single if you can't be submissive to your husband.

There's no equal right in marriage.





Kobojunkie:
Stop vomiting this nonsense my way. Enter gutter somewhere make better people talk!
Re: Woman Seeks Advice On How To Convince Her Husband To Let Her Keep A Side Man(pix by Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On May 18, 2025
Belurved1:
✓ You'd better remain single if you can't be submissive to your husband. There's no equal right in marriage.
Your fear of reality is palpable! 😂😁😁😂😁
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