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Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by datola: 11:35am On May 21, 2025
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Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by givedemwotowoto:
Men and women are survivalists in nature.

After weighing both relationships, he finds that both women are similar, similar characters of nagging and control, they both have a child for him, want to live life with him, except for language and culture differences, so he chooses the one that brings more stability and value to his life.

A woman under similar circumstances will do the same.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by tnerro1(m): 11:36am On May 21, 2025
Calm down madam, na unto papers , he will be back in like 6 to 12 months. Na so my married uncle take run him papers that year😂
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Jamiubond009(m): 11:36am On May 21, 2025
Childera gbanyuoro m dat gen grin
Antoeni:
Marrying Asset is Better Than Liability
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Iamicekid(m): 11:36am On May 21, 2025
He met an asset and decided to let go of his liability, wrapped in the name of marriage..
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by MufasaLion: 11:37am On May 21, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
Not always the case. In fact, most MARRIED men don’t plan for such, but circumstances drive them into it when the reality and consequences of being illegal hits them
Why go into a country and not plan ahead? Most illegal migrants went abroad via tourist visa. They knew ahead of the consequences hence the reason they go ahead to marry just for papers.

The man knew what he was doing. He's a coward.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by MufasaLion: 11:38am On May 21, 2025
Iamicekid:
He met an asset and decided to let go of his liability, wrapped in the name of marriage..
The man is a liability also. Why become illegal in a country to the point you had to marry to get papers? He should have gone back home!
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Antoeni(m): 11:38am On May 21, 2025
We Are Obsessed About Dating & Marrying Financially Stable Partners Forgetting to Check Mental, Emotional And Spiritual Stability.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Blitzking: 11:40am On May 21, 2025
Spursy:
People are doing all they can to escape Poverty, no matter the cost.
I believe if the woman was in same position as the Man, she would have done same.



https://x.com/Oludeewon/status/1924781981876862995?t=39PgRLJ2ABwChij62iS41g&s=19[/quote]Chief emergency therapist abeg no knack the woman I take God beg you..let her heal
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by autoez: 11:48am On May 21, 2025
Live is short abeg. Live it wisely. Today doesn't last long at all
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Dogalmighty17: 11:50am On May 21, 2025
Awesome. Anything or anyone that wants to shackle you to poverty must be avoided.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by abbey621(m): 11:56am On May 21, 2025
MufasaLion:
Why go into a country and not plan ahead? Most illegal migrants went abroad via tourist visa. They knew ahead of the consequences hence the reason they go ahead to marry just for papers.

The man knew what he was doing. He's a coward.
If he eventually succeeds and comes back to take the wife and child and/or other family memebers, wouldn't the end justify the means? People have been doing this since 1980s, nothing new here, leave Nigeria before Nigeria leaves you in a state of kobalization grin grin
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by abbey621(m): 11:57am On May 21, 2025
MufasaLion:
The man is a liability also. Why become illegal in a country to the point you had to marry to get papers? He should have gone back home!
Gone back home and do what? Even the said wife would start to lament if he could not provide.....Be realistic!
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by EmperorIsaac(m): 12:04pm On May 21, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
Not always the case. In fact, most MARRIED men don’t plan for such, but circumstances drive them into it when the reality and consequences of being illegal hits them
Nah, I'm referring to true love and vetting of character before saying, "I do!"
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Abokinmanoma: 12:06pm On May 21, 2025
grin grin God Abeg Oo 😂 🤣
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by coputa(m): 12:06pm On May 21, 2025
PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria grin
His decision is not right, family is all what a man has .

At the end of the day after the sojourn abroad,where will he now retire,

Will the children accept him back, because no matter what, your white child will never come back with you to Nigeria.

He made a blunder,but it's not too late,he can reconcile with the children asap.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Abokinmanoma: 12:09pm On May 21, 2025
The whole concept of Japa has wider effects on Nigerian Marriages especially in the UK.
So many cases of Nigerian Women calling Police on their Husband.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by ppogba: 12:20pm On May 21, 2025
PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria grin
The one they have been shifting before he travelled or another one?
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by EmmyMaestro(m): 12:20pm On May 21, 2025
Emergency therapist

Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Walai(m): 12:26pm On May 21, 2025
Table wey we dey manage with three legs, e reach your turn, you commot all the legs. Na so you vawulent reach?

Antoeni:
Marrying Asset is Better Than Liability
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Gloriagee(f): 12:29pm On May 21, 2025
unfortunate but not the end of the world... make she japa too
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Trendtips(f): 12:37pm On May 21, 2025
So much installed for the girl child and womanhood
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by olax02(m): 12:41pm On May 21, 2025
PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria grin
grin grin
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Angelfrost(m): 12:48pm On May 21, 2025
His heart left the marriage before he boarded the plane...!

Many more couples travelled individually, and are still waxing strong together.


A lot of marriages in Nigeria are just unions of convenience.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by 12inchess: 12:50pm On May 21, 2025
This is a common occurrence and both men and women are equally guilty. When you want to Japa better think very well about what you're doing especially if you're married. It could just break your home if you're apart for too long.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by MufasaLion: 12:51pm On May 21, 2025
abbey621:
Gone back home and do what? Even the said wife would start to lament if he could not provide.....Be realistic!
Stop screaming.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by MufasaLion: 12:52pm On May 21, 2025
abbey621:
If he eventually succeeds and comes back to take the wife and child and/or other family memebers, wouldn't the end justify the means? People have been doing this since 1980s, nothing new here, leave Nigeria before Nigeria leaves you in a state of kobalization grin grin
He's not coming back.
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Spursy(op): 12:57pm On May 21, 2025
Blitzking:
Chief emergency therapist abeg no knack the woman I take God beg you..let her heal
grin grin huh
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by miracle002(m): 1:10pm On May 21, 2025
If this is true, then he made a very big mistake that he will later regret
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by SocialJustice: 1:20pm On May 21, 2025
She has to start life again because husband left her as in how?
Re: Nigerian Man Leaves Nigeria, Abandons Wife And Marries A White Woman by Ofekongsk(m): 1:23pm On May 21, 2025
The woman would have done worse if she were in his position
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